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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I just don't get this, so many ladies want a minimum height in the profiles. Why is height sexy? I'm 6'3 so its no issue for me but i don't get why shorter men are regarded as undesirable. |
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Personally, I like to feel dominated and that's difficult to acheive when I'm looking down on a man.
Also, a lot of people argue that "we're all the same height when we're laying down". - That's great, but maybe I don't want to lay down. Maybe I want to be bent over the sofa, fucked against the wall, rogered on the kitchen counter... Even 69'ing can be difficult if the guy is short in the torso.
So although I have nothing against guys below my own height (5'7), I just prefer my men taller.
- Amy. x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just don't get this, so many ladies want a minimum height in the profiles. Why is height sexy? I'm 6'3 so its no issue for me but i don't get why shorter men are regarded as undesirable."
I could say the same for men...why they 'love a petite woman' besides the obvious that they can just throw around in every position possible  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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They tend to have better bodies than shorter guys, the limbs are longer etc, idk some of us just like big things.
I like dominating a big guy tbh, makes me feel more powerful than dominating a small one. |
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By *ipsTeaserCouple
over a year ago
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As a shorter lady( ok, i say lady loosely) I like taller guys for reason someone stated above re.gone with the wind but equally, since I am rather short most guys are bigger than me so am sorted  |
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Being a shorty myself not really an issue. Also I've gotta be honest I would not be kicking tom cruise outta bed!
Tall is nice but I've dated and fucked all heights, ime too tall can be an issue too.
As for domination again ime that's got more to do with his confidence and skill than height. |
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Men and women are hard wired at a basic level to look for certain physical characteristics - obviously it's a spectrum and not everyone is the same, but the majority fit into a fairly well defined band.
It's all to do with propagation of the species and it is what it is, so no point in trying to change it  |
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I do like a man to be taller than me, but 8 or 9 inches is enough (not those inches!). I believe most women like their men to be taller, and most men like their women to be smaller than they are. It ties in with our feelings of what constitutes feminine and masculine. There is someone for everyone though, it's just for some people there are more someones, lucky bastards! |
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"I'm only 5'8 and been told many times I'm too short lol does make me smile when they are only 4'1 lol
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Well you're not as short as me! Lol!
I've found it's more about how a woman feels about herself than attraction. As someone highlighted, to be have a guy taller than you makes some women feel more feminine. Fair enough!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love these forums... I'm starting to notice a trend.
Get rejected/blocked by someone for some reason . Then head to the forums and post a thread about that reason.
I could be a sociologist  |
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"I love these forums... I'm starting to notice a trend.
Get rejected/blocked by someone for some reason . Then head to the forums and post a thread about that reason.
I could be a sociologist "
Not the case here just commenting on the ops original post , I don't mind at all and I still get meets so I'm happy with it all really each to their own |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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I don't consider shorter men undesirable, I just prefer taller men. It's less important than other factors though.
Just because someone prefers taller/shorter/fatter/slimmer/lighter/darker/older/younger/whatever doesn't necessarily make everyone else undesirable. |
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"I just don't get this, so many ladies want a minimum height in the profiles. Why is height sexy? I'm 6'3 so its no issue for me but i don't get why shorter men are regarded as undesirable."
I like to dominate. Certain criterion need to be met for it to work for me. Height is just one of them.
That said, I've never dated/married a short man. My partner is 6ft 1...that works for me! |
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"They tend to have better bodies than shorter guys, the limbs are longer etc, idk some of us just like big things.
I like dominating a big guy tbh, makes me feel more powerful than dominating a small one."  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just don't get this, so many ladies want a minimum height in the profiles. Why is height sexy? I'm 6'3 so its no issue for me but i don't get why shorter men are regarded as undesirable."
I am 6' but would really lile a tall girl in the bedroom for some reason.  |
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"I don't consider shorter men undesirable, I just prefer taller men. It's less important than other factors though.
Just because someone prefers taller/shorter/fatter/slimmer/lighter/darker/older/younger/whatever doesn't necessarily make everyone else undesirable."
Indeed!
Although for some, they're unable to express their preferences without denigrating those outwith their desires. |
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"Its just a shag, not sure why height would come into it lol."
You're not fussy and would fuck the crack of Dawn as long as your balls were emptied: that's fine as that's your preference and you're open about it.
Some of us however are a little more discerning...we don't even like Haribos!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its just a shag, not sure why height would come into it lol.
You're not fussy and would fuck the crack of Dawn as long as your balls were emptied: that's fine as that's your preference and you're open about it.
Some of us however are a little more discerning...we don't even like Haribos! " Thats right as most men aint as open as me, just have a pulse lol
Yes some like haribos some dont. The cola bottles are my fav  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It just boils down to individual preference
I am tall man - which doesn't bother me but others might find that attractive
For me I just love boobies that's just my preference - simple
You may have ticked 1 box by being tall but you might be a no no eg if you ve tattoos / skin head / a hairy person etc
At the end of the day it just boils down to personal attraction.
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"It just boils down to individual preference
I am tall man - which doesn't bother me but others might find that attractive
For me I just love boobies that's just my preference - simple
You may have ticked 1 box by being tall but you might be a no no eg if you ve tattoos / skin head / a hairy person etc
At the end of the day it just boils down to personal attraction.
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Well I'm fucked then because I have a combination of all the things most women are not attracted to on here lol, I'm Short, I got a Hairy Chest, I'm Asian & I'm not Hung like a Pornstar, just average ha ha ha  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was bullied quite badly at school for being a big girl... plus puberty and hormones and the (my) bumbling phase where extremities just seem to get tied up in knots...
With all this I just don't feel attractive with someone shorter... it makes me feel inelegant and ungainly.
And guys always say a few inches don't matter, all the same horizontal etc... that's logic. My issue isn't logic, it's a complex.
Anyway... tall good; but because it makes me feel more attractive as opposed to because it makes them more attractive. |
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If I was tiny, it wouldn't bother me... But I'm 5"11 and HIGHLY submissive.. And live in high heels... So for me if a man is below me looking up you just feel really unsexy and unattractive. I can imagine I'd be quite intimidating to a smaller bloke. That's not to say there wouldn't be a sexual attraction as we're all the same lying down or bent over!!! When I'm over his knee for a spanking it doesn't make a difference!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I just like a guy to be taller than me when I'm wearing heels, makes me feel all cute and small! Last guy I dated was 5'10 and he was still taller than me when I wore heels. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Individual preference I guess. I'm 5ft 8, so heels take me to 6ft easily.
I love looking up at a guy, that's what does it for me. The whole same height lying down thing doesn't wash because at some point we will be standing next to each other I guess?? |
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I've never really thought much about it maself as a 6'1" bloke, but I had an aunt who was at least a foot taller than ma uncle. It did seem quite comical watching them walk down the road together sometimes though when I was 8-10 yrs old  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love being taller than a guy....I can rest my pint on his head when we're out."
Hahahaha very good
Being 5 foot 8 and in a rugby team I'm all too used to this  |
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"I was bullied quite badly at school for being a big girl... plus puberty and hormones and the (my) bumbling phase where extremities just seem to get tied up in knots...
With all this I just don't feel attractive with someone shorter... it makes me feel inelegant and ungainly.
And guys always say a few inches don't matter, all the same horizontal etc... that's logic. My issue isn't logic, it's a complex.
Anyway... tall good; but because it makes me feel more attractive as opposed to because it makes them more attractive."
This is true of quite a few women, as I pointed out earlier!
I don't mind being short. I'm in good shape and in proportion. But I definitely want a woman to feel good around me and if my height prevents that then I'll move on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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it's simple really....I am tall and I like tall men...I personally think a tall woman/short man dynamic looks silly....it reminds me of a sketch on Benny Hill lol
the main reason I like tall men (taller than me, that is) is because the height is a turn on  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm a short-are and I totally get why a lot of women feel the way most of you do. The guys who get hung up on it also need to feel confident in themselves, so being rejected just for being small shouldn't be a reason to get upset, nor intimidated. I'verified had taller women who'very not felt that way and others who have - it's rarely offensive, just the ladies personal preference. If a guy feels any disappointment he should take it on the chin and move forward. He may even be amazing at something - and the ladies who aren't interested could have missed out! Lol! Either way it's just personal preference and if we can't deal with that as individuals then chances are this isn't the place for us. Happy Friday all!! |
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"I'm a short-are and I totally get why a lot of women feel the way most of you do. The guys who get hung up on it also need to feel confident in themselves, so being rejected just for being small shouldn't be a reason to get upset, nor intimidated. I'verified had taller women who'very not felt that way and others who have - it's rarely offensive, just the ladies personal preference. If a guy feels any disappointment he should take it on the chin and move forward. He may even be amazing at something - and the ladies who aren't interested could have missed out! Lol! Either way it's just personal preference and if we can't deal with that as individuals then chances are this isn't the place for us. Happy Friday all!! "
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"I just don't get this, so many ladies want a minimum height in the profiles. Why is height sexy? I'm 6'3 so its no issue for me but i don't get why shorter men are regarded as undesirable."
I can't find a man attractive if he's shorter than me, simple as that! |
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