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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

...continue playing with someone you knew was developing feelings for you...?

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By *mumaWoman over a year ago

Livingston

I have and I did

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

depends on how much I liked them if it was mutual yes

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes I could. And if the feelings were mutual, that would be even better.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It could get complicated, and I would tread with caution!

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By *y_funcoupleCouple over a year ago

SHEFFIELD

well if both single............. No problems, if Not single then HUGE problems....... xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It could get complicated, and I would tread with caution!

do you normally jump up and down on them?

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By *irtyGirlWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

"...continue playing with someone you knew was developing feelings for you...?"

Hmmmm... I'm not sure. Will ponder further.

Turning the question though... would you continue to play with someone you were developing feelings for?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"well if both single............. No problems, if Not single then HUGE problems....... xx"

Good point, I thought the op was refering to Singles anyway

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"well if both single............. No problems, if Not single then HUGE problems....... xx

Good point, I thought the op was refering to Singles anyway

no, i ask it off anyone using the site!

it can happen to couples too, i'm sure!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"well if both single............. No problems, if Not single then HUGE problems....... xx

Good point, I thought the op was refering to Singles anyway

no, i ask it off anyone using the site!

it can happen to couples too, i'm sure!"

fair enough, I would guess it happening with Couples could be a disaster

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By *etillanteWoman over a year ago

I did and it was the best/worst thing I ever did

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"...continue playing with someone you knew was developing feelings for you...?

Hmmmm... I'm not sure. Will ponder further.

Turning the question though... would you continue to play with someone you were developing feelings for?"

it's ok chick, it wasn't a proposal

by past experience...possibly not!

If they were good, I might have to ignore it for a while though...

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By *ashful BazMan over a year ago

poole dorset

I would take it as a compliment if they came back for seconds!

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By *irtyGirlWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

"...continue playing with someone you knew was developing feelings for you...?

Hmmmm... I'm not sure. Will ponder further.

Turning the question though... would you continue to play with someone you were developing feelings for?

it's ok chick, it wasn't a proposal

by past experience...possibly not!

If they were good, I might have to ignore it for a while though...

Shit... is that a no then?!

*takes ring back*

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"...continue playing with someone you knew was developing feelings for you...?

Hmmmm... I'm not sure. Will ponder further.

Turning the question though... would you continue to play with someone you were developing feelings for?

it's ok chick, it wasn't a proposal

by past experience...possibly not!

If they were good, I might have to ignore it for a while though...

Shit... is that a no then?!

*takes ring back*

hell no! ring stays put

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By *inktherapyCouple over a year ago

Gloucester

I have a long term playmate - both of us are married. My husband knows, his wife knows nothing. There are certainly feelings of some sort there on both sides, though neither of us want to/ would leave our respective partners/ families. It's not 'love' as such, but something, for sure.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A lot of people say they wouldn't but still do - not even in swinging necessarily but real life - the fact is we simply don't know what the other person is thinking.

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By *emmefataleWoman over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"I have and I did"
me too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

nope...Being friends and loving them for being a friend is ok...but mushy lovey dovey kissy kissy feelings...eeek...Noooooooooooooooooooo.

I would end it immediately.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"nope...Being friends and loving them for being a friend is ok...but mushy lovey dovey kissy kissy feelings...eeek...Noooooooooooooooooooo.

I would end it immediately."