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How do you know your not a crap shag
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Good question really.....
Maybe we need feedback forms - maybe an anonymous new feature for FAB besides verries ....
A tick box number rating system
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I suppose being asked a lot to return even months later is a good indicator ....
Then again one can experience something delightful and not want to spoil that memory by trying to recapture it....
A good question indeed
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've never had any complaints lol and they all want to meet me again  they may have been so shocked at how bad you where they have to keep coming back to check  "
To be fair I do tell them to set their expectations really low lol |
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"Good question really.....
Maybe we need feedback forms - maybe an anonymous new feature for FAB besides verries ....
A tick box number rating system
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I suppose being asked a lot to return even months later is a good indicator ....
Then again one can experience something delightful and not want to spoil that memory by trying to recapture it....
A good question indeed
Mwah "
maybe they could start by only allowing verifications a week later when they have come out of post coital bliss and probably had a couple more shags since |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't know I'm not 
PM me and I'll let you know
You can tell from a pm??
Yep just had mental sex and wow you blew my mind "
Better than i thought then |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't get verifications after your meets = crap shag
Goes to check verifications
shit..."
Hey I don't display any of my verifications because I like to appear pure and I recently gave a verification to someone I met 2 years ago! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't get verifications after your meets = crap shag
Goes to check verifications
shit...
Hey I don't display any of my verifications because I like to appear pure and I recently gave a verification to someone I met 2 years ago!"
It was a bit tongue in cheek, tbh, I request no verifications.... (waits for the shouts of "liar") |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Men I met in the past slagged off previous meets privately to me despite leaving favourable verifications.
You'll never know if they truly enjoyed it, but I doubt it even really matters. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was once....but I had really bad flu!
Otherwise...as others have said it is when you get repeat meets (or requests for a repeat and you turn them down lol!). When you have to delete your old profile because you have too many verifications... (Brighton Steve....you will be approaching this milestone soon?)
When your "best friend" has a poor meet and calls you up to "sort her out" because she knows you can...and then it takes her 15 minutes afterwards before she is capable of standing up or putting three words together.
There are signs! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Men I met in the past slagged off previous meets privately to me despite leaving favourable verifications.
I've never met a guy who does that thankfully "
I've had multiple. Some name drop popular ladies in most fabbed pics they've met, or women from the forums. It's bitchy, but it seems silly to take verifications one receives so seriously. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I will start
When a forum thread about worst meets pops up and you dont recognize yourself on it"
Thing is I know no one would start a thread about me whether I was a shit shag or a good one |
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"Men I met in the past slagged off previous meets privately to me despite leaving favourable verifications.
I've never met a guy who does that thankfully
I've had multiple. Some name drop popular ladies in most fabbed pics they've met, or women from the forums. It's bitchy, but it seems silly to take verifications one receives so seriously. "
ive had it lots as well but it works as a great filter cause if there bitching about the other women im not going to shag them to give them chance to bitch about me |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"Men I met in the past slagged off previous meets privately to me despite leaving favourable verifications.
I've never met a guy who does that thankfully
I've had multiple. Some name drop popular ladies in most fabbed pics they've met, or women from the forums. It's bitchy, but it seems silly to take verifications one receives so seriously.
ive had it lots as well but it works as a great filter cause if there bitching about the other women im not going to shag them to give them chance to bitch about me"
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
I talk to the people I meet, to find out what they're into, and to work out what we each want from the meet. I keep up the communication, encourage them to tell me what's good, and if I need to change anything.
I pay attention to signs and signals during the meet to work out what is working and what isn't. I care whether they other person/people are having a good time.
However, I don't meet often and I do feel out of practice. I may be a bad shag for all I know. I probably am. I've never had any complaints, and I've had compliments, but who is going to say something bad?
It takes two though, so if I'm crap, they should be telling me what they want. Constructive criticism is welcome. I often ask for feedback afterwards but very few say anything could be improved, which I don't believe at all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I probably am a crap shag, I'm not that adventurous really and I tend to lie back and be indulged.
To be honest I'm really not that bothered, I have a good time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I probably am a crap shag, I'm not that adventurous really and I tend to lie back and be indulged.
To be honest I'm really not that bothered, I have a good time "
I'm more of a taker than a giver for sure. So I appeal to people-pleasers |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't
As we say in Cloud Cuckoo Land, a shag is a shag these days ain't it "
You might, it's a fookin' miracle up here in t' frozen north of the region |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The "I've had a good time so it doesn't matter" comments, I think, must most definitely come from those that are indeed crap shags, not to mention probably quite selfish in the sack too."
Of course it does  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I admit to knowing what I like and finding others that like the same is, imho, the key to better sex.
We've all had sex where we want more of the same.
We've all had sex where it'd have been better if we'd have stayed at home with a wank and a brew.
So, to some, I've probably been shite, yet to others I'll probably be up there in their eternal sex bank memory.
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"I'm more of a giver but I tend to feel very aggrieved if people take advantage. I expect them to want to give in return.
I'm unimpressed when they don't."
This, but I never say anything at the time and always leave a nice veri - God, I'm pathetic sometimes  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm more of a giver but I tend to feel very aggrieved if people take advantage. I expect them to want to give in return.
I'm unimpressed when they don't.
This, but I never say anything at the time and always leave a nice veri - God, I'm pathetic sometimes "
I'm the same except when it happens I walk away and never look back.. Don't justify it with a response... Won't even leave a veri.. |
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"I'm more of a giver but I tend to feel very aggrieved if people take advantage. I expect them to want to give in return.
I'm unimpressed when they don't."
Yup. I want a 50/50 match. Alas it tends to be lazy passive boys who like their bums being played with that don't reciprocate well.
I'm no top shag but they always come back for more (doesn't mean a thing though does it?) |
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"I wont know unless I am told..
And tbh, how many people actually tell the shit shag they were were bad??"
Oh I have. When they've requested another go, I've politely declined, they whinged, told them why |
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maybe they want to meet you again because they cant find anyone else, no one else is available.
often the ones who want to meet me are the ones I don't want to meet again even if the sex was good as I didn't really like them or they thought the sex was good but I didn't. |
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