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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I know guys most likely out number the ladies here.

How many ladies make the first move to contact someone here?

I have instigated every contact, maybe it's just me

(Just a question not a debate)

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By *andybeachWoman over a year ago

In the middle

I have on a few occasions, just something they might have said in the forum that amused me or I have liked their pics enough to say hi

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I (C) often make the first contact, it doesn't matter so long as the outcome is positive, in my book.

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By *piritsonfabCouple over a year ago

Nottingham

I've frequently made the first contact, and our excellent meets have led from those I have contacted first.

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By *alandNitaCouple over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"I know guys most likely out number the ladies here.

How many ladies make the first move to contact someone here?

I have instigated every contact, maybe it's just me

(Just a question not a debate)

I was hoping for an alien related thread

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By *layfullsamMan over a year ago

Solihull

"I know guys most likely out number the ladies here.

How many ladies make the first move to contact someone here?

I have instigated every contact, maybe it's just me

(Just a question not a debate)

I've never been contacted first either op, I've had winks but it's turned out to be a guy with a girls profile

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Have found more single males contact me, women tends to wink and I follow it up which is ok and some couple's are a bit up them selfs and can be to much hassle. But in general the single males do a lot of the chasing

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have made contact first, after reading comments they've made on the forums.

I don't make contact just because I want to shag them though. It can be for a various of reasons.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have made contact first, after reading comments they've made on the forums.

I don't make contact just because I want to shag them though. It can be for a various of reasons."

This

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I know guys most likely out number the ladies here.

How many ladies make the first move to contact someone here?

I have instigated every contact, maybe it's just me

(Just a question not a debate)

I've never been contacted first either op, I've had winks but it's turned out to be a guy with a girls profile"

That's cus you is "sooooo preeetttttyyyyyyy"

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By *ikeC81Man over a year ago

harrow

Twice this week women have made contact

Maybe I have asserted myself more on forums

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have made contact first, after reading comments they've made on the forums.

I don't make contact just because I want to shag them though. It can be for a various of reasons."

Saves me typing!

This for me too ^^

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Forum posts yes I have made loads of first contacts, in real life only a handful if that as most men's profiles in my area are so shite there is nothing to entice me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I occasionally make the first contact but I don't wink I just message...

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By *layfullsamMan over a year ago

Solihull

"I know guys most likely out number the ladies here.

How many ladies make the first move to contact someone here?

I have instigated every contact, maybe it's just me

(Just a question not a debate)

I've never been contacted first either op, I've had winks but it's turned out to be a guy with a girls profile

That's cus you is "sooooo preeetttttyyyyyyy"

I know I just have to high five myself in the mirror every morning

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I made the mistake of deleting a message from a rather nice looking woman

it's not often I get those messages. Me and my fat finger!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I made the mistake of deleting a message from a rather nice looking woman

it's not often I get those messages. Me and my fat finger!"

I can always send it again

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Have never contacted anyone on here first

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By *layfullsamMan over a year ago

Solihull

"I made the mistake of deleting a message from a rather nice looking woman

it's not often I get those messages. Me and my fat finger!"

I wouldn't know whether to laugh or cry

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I get couples making first contact but only once has a single lady messaged me first and it's led to a meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I know guys most likely out number the ladies here.

How many ladies make the first move to contact someone here?

I have instigated every contact, maybe it's just me

(Just a question not a debate)

I was hoping for an alien related thread "

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman over a year ago

Lyndhurst

no never.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Only once and now I can't get bloomin rid of him

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By *erfumedpornovampireWoman over a year ago

Swindon

"I know guys most likely out number the ladies here.

How many ladies make the first move to contact someone here?

I have instigated every contact, maybe it's just me

(Just a question not a debate)

I did back in the new year and we're getting on well! He intrigued me with his super long dreads and I thought fuck it! So I do, as much as possible

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

Yes i do. Its great fun, its like a game matching profiles and if its successful i shout HOUSE

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've contacted guys first but I'd rather wait for the guys to contact me now unless they have every type of picture in their public pictures, thats a clear face picture, full body picture and a couple of cock pictures. Felt a bit stupid when I initiated contact based on seeing 1 really good picture then having to say not my type after seeing an unsuitable face or willy picture.

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By *igeiaWoman over a year ago

Bristol

I do on occasion. Why the hell not?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't make first contact anymore, if someone contacts me I am more then happy to chat but had so many knock backs and sometimes real nasty PMs back it's easier to lot anyone who is interested contact me.

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

"I've contacted guys first but I'd rather wait for the guys to contact me now unless they have every type of picture in their public pictures, thats a clear face picture, full body picture and a couple of cock pictures. Felt a bit stupid when I initiated contact based on seeing 1 really good picture then having to say not my type after seeing an unsuitable face or willy picture."

We've been there once or twice and feel bad about it as we initiated the contact so we mainly choose from people who message us with the pics we ask for in our profile.

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By *odareyouMan over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Given the number of 'use your filters' type of advice often aimed at ladies who are overwhelmed they'll need to initiate contact. .. Being adults and hoping for adult activities to take place I see no reason ladies shouldn't make the first contact...

If I see someone that interests me I'll send a message if a lady sees someone who interests her id have thought she'd send messages first

I often find a message from a lady or couple in my box.

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By *ikeC81Man over a year ago

harrow

I have a few types of pics

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