Maybe others see you as too good to be single, as you should have been snapped up. Little do they know I'm a bit of a slapper -it could be their (wrong, of course) opinion.
What is it that others don't they know about you, that might alter their perceptions? |
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over a year ago
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because i'm nice, friendly, and allow myself to be vulnerable, i think i a lot of guys are surprised they can't easily use me.
as for girlfriend material, i think they don't see me as that unless they are fucked up in the head and needy and then they do. |
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"Maybe others see you as too good to be single, as you should have been snapped up. Little do they know I'm a bit of a slapper -it could be their (wrong, of course) opinion.
What is it that others don't they know about you, that might alter their perceptions?"
I used to get this a lot by not only family members and friends but strangers on here too. (About being single)
Erm!!! Maybe I want to be single, maybe I want lots more fun before I settle, because let's face it, I'm not going to settle for just anything cause you think I should be snapped up by now.
They often think... What's wrong with you!?  |
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over a year ago
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"I come across as flippant and sarcastic.
When people meet me they say I am exactly as I am in the forums."
I want to be like you when I grow up, I try to be flippant/sarcastic and sound bitchy or offish instead. I get told I'm nice which I think is meh... |
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"we are told we are as we come across in our messages here - elsewhere goodness knows what some folk make of me - they just say im different -  "
I say you're yummy  |
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It has been said that I am in real life like I am in the forums.
There is a lot that would surprise people though. It's one thing I like about myself, the ability to surprise.
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By (user no longer on site)
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I tend to find my sense of humour is lost in translation and often people take offence when no offence was intended especially if we have been bantering back and forth for a while and you think hey get your humour then that chance remark gets u blocked and u think what the fuck lol |
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"I don't know. I like saving some things for actual conversation but everything about me is usual to me so I can't be objective about whether or not other people might find it surprising."
yes u can't hang all your quirks out there some need to be discovered and you can only have them find what they are by actually coming and meeting u.its hard to get to know someone intimately through a keyboard.
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People are Surprised how down to earth and not self Obsessed I am.
I guess going to gym puts me in some weird stereotype or self obsession and arrogance.  |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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I am equally direct here and in real life. I am kind to people with true need and intolerant to those that don't own their situation and blame everyone else.
I am liked and disliked and I am cool with that  |
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"One of my long term partners said that looking at me,no one would ever know what a filthy whore I am. I thought that was a nice thing for him to say  "
i bet he still enjoyed your delights though lol x |
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This post was partly inspired by my couple of months here in the USA - I've lost count of how many times people struggle to accept that I'm single.
So many people on fab adore their single life - me included. Perhaps this bunch of us is loosely connected in a huge polyamorous relationship together. |
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"One of my long term partners said that looking at me,no one would ever know what a filthy whore I am. I thought that was a nice thing for him to say i bet he still enjoyed your delights though lol x"
Of course,he loves that I am lol |
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"we are told we are as we come across in our messages here - elsewhere goodness knows what some folk make of me - they just say im different -
I say you're yummy "
likewise gorogeous - september tomorrow  |
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"Maybe others see you as too good to be single, as you should have been snapped up. Little do they know I'm a bit of a slapper -it could be their (wrong, of course) opinion.
What is it that others don't they know about you, that might alter their perceptions?"
too many to mention,,people on here and tbh any walk of life presume a lot.
I act the clown,,but I'm not,,but hey I tend to keep folk at arms length.
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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago
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"I come across as flippant and sarcastic.
When people meet me they say I am exactly as I am in the forums.
I want to be like you when I grow up, I try to be flippant/sarcastic and sound bitchy or offish instead. I get told I'm nice which I think is meh..."
There's nothing wrong with flippant/sarcastic. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a boyfriend and a girlfriend,,,,,,,,,,,,not many folk on here know that |
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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago
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"I have a boyfriend and a girlfriend,,,,,,,,,,,,not many folk on here know that"
..you lucky sod
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"I have a boyfriend and a girlfriend,,,,,,,,,,,,not many folk on here know that..you lucky sod "
greedy sod,,but heys its not always easy |
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I have no idea what people on here think of me...
I have only met a couple of people from the forums and one of them left the site so they could unfriend me  |
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"I have no idea what people on here think of me...
I have only met a couple of people from the forums and one of them left the site so they could unfriend me "
i think youre great - |
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