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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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30-70 for me, personality is more important than looks, you could be the hottest person alive but not much use if its not enjoyable to be in your company x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Far rather personality over looks. If someone can't stimulate my mind and make me laugh, then they could be the most handsome or beautiful person in the world and I wouldn't be interested. |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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We play in clubs, and in clubs I look for nsa sex that satisfies me and my fantasies. In this respect personality plays very little part and its looks that attract me. Having said that we have also met some good looking guys and girls with great personalities - we often play again and again with them. |
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Good to read that appearance isn't the most important thing 
Unfortunately if it's personality I'm going to struggle too 
However if there's a lady for whom looks nor personality matter that much, and this lady has generally low standards, poor eyesight etc, hello - I'm here for you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"30-70 for me, personality is more important than looks, you could be the hottest person alive but not much use if its not enjoyable to be in your company x"
does it not work the other way round too though
I know many guys who are a joy to be around, i get on with them very well but i couldn't have sex with them ass i don't find them attravtive
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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago
a quandary, could you change my mind? |
On here, It's the personality of the profile first, the looks of the persons pictures, then it's I suppose the opposite on a social, the looks first and hoping the personality shines through too. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Definitely has to be both...sure there has to be physical attraction at some level, but if there's not a mental one too with chemistry and connection it doesn't matter that it's "just a shag" (as it was so eloquently put further up) it'd still do nothing for me personally |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Can I join the 'both' camp.
Those ladies with a nice big smile, pleasant uplifting and friendly personality and with a generally positive perspective to life tend to just look better to me anyway. Maybe it's a subconscious thing for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm first and foremost attracted to looks. That doesn't mean that they have to be classically good looking, just that there must be something about them I find attractive. Personality is what keeps me interested enough to meet, because I can't meet at short notice or spontaneously and I don't want to waste my time meeting someone where we can't have a laugh with each other, however good looking they may be. So it's important to me that people can get their personality across in messaging. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm first and foremost attracted to looks. That doesn't mean that they have to be classically good looking, just that there must be something about them I find attractive. Personality is what keeps me interested enough to meet, because I can't meet at short notice or spontaneously and I don't want to waste my time meeting someone where we can't have a laugh with each other, however good looking they may be. So it's important to me that people can get their personality across in messaging. "
Same. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On here intially it's looks that attract me to a profile but they have to have the personality to match or it ain't going to work.
Forums were a good 'hunting ground' in the past because I was attracted to someone's personality first, have made some good friends this way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personality counts for a lot yes, but recent experience has made us re think our approach - if the physical attraction isn't there, all the personality in the world isn't going to help. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Someone with both ideally. We wouldn't play with attractive people with no personality.
We wouldn't play with people who have an amazing personality but we don't find them attractive.
It may mean we don't meet very often but hey, it's no big deal. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There as to be a bit of both. Body shape is very important to me. Mainly because I work hard at mine and dnt want ample or curvy sorry just my preference. But even if they buffed and fit and no personality I'd not bother. So bit of a hard one |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I need both
I have been laughed into bed, and I need that mental connection. Seduce my mind and my body responds "
I've been laughed out of bed 
Does that count? |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
I'll know it when I find it. |
Personality for me first. On here, there has to be some sort of attraction and dull messages, profiles or posts are a turn off. I find all sorts of people attractive but if there's nothing to engage me other than a pretty face, I'll remain as dry as the Atacama. |
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Personality is really important to me (MiscF) as I have to feel comfortable with the couple/person.
Looks count too but I find that it counts for nothing if I don't feel completely at ease. Being bi I look at the couple as a whole so I might find one more attractive than the other but like both personalities a lot. It's a complex mix I think.
Thankfully we've managed to come across couples with both and hopefully that continues! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On a site like Fab where the ratio of men to women is so high, most women are going to screen first on physical attractiveness and then, if you make the cut, personality.
The idea that there's some trade off is I'm afraid just wishful thinking on the part of guys not getting any replies. Good looking women can have their choice so may well claim it's personality that decides it, but you have be physically attractive to be in the mix.
Of course like any generalisation there are exceptions, so it's no use women coming on and telling me I don't know how they make their decision and their last playmate was as ugly as fuck...lol |
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