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Is it fashionable for the younger fabbers to like an older generation? We seem to be getting a fair bit on attention from the 20somethings. Not complaining. Just curious as to whether anyone else is experiencing the same thing or whether any 20 to 30s can give an insite as to what the attraction of older people may be.
I have to say we're experiencing this outside of this site also. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am into an age but more so the maturity of the mind of a person.
Having say that about age, I do have principles and morals though. "
You also like anyone that'll provide Kinder Bueno! |
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"I am into an age but more so the maturity of the mind of a person.
Having say that about age, I do have principles and morals though.
You also like anyone that'll provide Kinder Bueno! "
Amen to that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am into an age but more so the maturity of the mind of a person.
Having say that about age, I do have principles and morals though.
You also like anyone that'll provide Kinder Bueno! "
I am just a Man goddammit haha  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Me..... mrs s I'm early thirties and prefer people 35+ mainly go for late 30s - 40s as I find conversations better and also feel they know more of what they like and dislike as more life experiences, nothing against younger but definitely prefer older.....
mr s would probably say he Likes younger but he's not a massive social person so age does not bother him either x X |
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
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The younger of you is only 36, so that's not exactly ancient. As a rough rule of thumb we go for 10 years older or younger than us, so if others do the same that still puts you within range of people in their twenties.
Also you look like an attractive couple so you will always get attention. |
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"The younger of you is only 36, so that's not exactly ancient. As a rough rule of thumb we go for 10 years older or younger than us, so if others do the same that still puts you within range of people in their twenties.
Also you look like an attractive couple so you will always get attention. "
Thankyou and yes I'd never really thought about the age bracket. That would make sense with the interest from 20 somethings |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes so true and 20s that look 40s I have noticed that most of the older persons care less and actually look better for it as some of these young ones look really old but its all in the eye of the beholder and the chemistry so each to there own |
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By *nfamyMan
over a year ago
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"Is it fashionable for the younger fabbers to like an older generation? We seem to be getting a fair bit on attention from the 20somethings. Not complaining. Just curious as to whether anyone else is experiencing the same thing or whether any 20 to 30s can give an insite as to what the attraction of older people may be.
I have to say we're experiencing this outside of this site also."
I like the older lady, but as I am 47 I'm off to the old peoples home.
Infamy xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP, you're not exactly old, especially compared to other swinging couples.
You both look great from your pics, plus you have a great profile. So you're bound to get attraction from all ages. |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
As a young man I had no interest in the older generation(s), I had an interest inladies of my own age group .. it does seem to be a new(ish) thing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm absolutely way in to older woman, and couples. And will intently message older (generations) over my own age.
It's the way of there mind, they know what they want, how they want it, and when they want it
Plus
Been a young man boosted in to adulthood and the responsibilitys that fall with it, I find I resonate better on a level with them
I find your selfs eaiser to talk to and able to see eye to eye on a better level, but maybe I'm just an old soul
Plus I love to appreciate a plesure a beautiful filthy fit older woman and show tham what a younger gentleman can do for them
But who knows everyone will be different, iv naturally had experiences with older woman from a younger age, so maybe that has a big thing to do with it.
personally i find older woman irresistible, especially tasty edible looking cougars with a undeniable Un questioned love for some younger meat that love to get stuck in and eat me all up....
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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OP, good post. I would say you are well within the interest of that age group. You have a good profile and look attractive. The younger generation do seem to like more mature and experienced people. We were seeing people of that age when we were younger, now we are just out to grass! Enjoy!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OP, good post. I would say you are well within the interest of that age group. You have a good profile and look attractive. The younger generation do seem to like more mature and experienced people. We were seeing people of that age when we were younger, now we are just out to grass! Enjoy! "
For myself 30+ Isint mature I'm mostly looking for 40-55 is my biggest turn on  |
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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago
Maidstone |
"40s is my ideal"
Amen sister...!
Men in their...
20's... are like puppies, uncontrollable and exhausting!
30's... where are they? Too busy with work and young children I guess...???
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40's... perfect. Nicely rounded and still fit to fuck all night!!!
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50's... those that are not ageing well are beginning to fray at the edges.
60's plus ... its not really about sex anymore but can be great company! |
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"40s is my ideal
Amen sister...!
Men in their...
20's... are like puppies, uncontrollable and exhausting!
30's... where are they? Too busy with work and young children I guess...???
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40's... perfect. Nicely rounded and still fit to fuck all night!!!
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50's... those that are not ageing well are beginning to fray at the edges.
60's plus ... its not really about sex anymore but can be great company!"
I would wager there's a few 60 yr olds out there up in arms with regards that comment  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a twenty-something, I don't particularly have age preferences, but since I've started swinging I've generally had more fun and positive experiences with older ladies/couples. I really don't like generalising, but so far I've found that they tend to have personality, know what they like/don't like etc, and are often more relaxed which is all very attractive. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My Dad was 20 yrs older than my Mom......
Therefore it's in my gene's to be attracted to much younger guys at my age right
I have yet to find a guy at the age of 50 or above that I'm physically attracted to and want to explore! I've tried and hunted them but do hot older guys actually exist on here??? Not in my in-box they don't.
Of course I wish I were back in my early 30's...at my peak so to speak but right now, my in-box is telling me that younger guys definitely do like the older woman....or am I dilusional...just pussy???????? Fucked if I know!!!!!
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"Is it fashionable for the younger fabbers to like an older generation? We seem to be getting a fair bit on attention from the 20somethings. Not complaining. Just curious as to whether anyone else is experiencing the same thing or whether any 20 to 30s can give an insite as to what the attraction of older people may be.
I have to say we're experiencing this outside of this site also."
Hmmm you do seem to be an attractive couple so it doesn't really surprise us that you're attracting attention, regardless of age. Not that you're exactly pushing the old zimmer just yet lol |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"40s is my ideal
Amen sister...!
Men in their...
20's... are like puppies, uncontrollable and exhausting!
30's... where are they? Too busy with work and young children I guess...???
***********************
40's... perfect. Nicely rounded and still fit to fuck all night!!!
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50's... those that are not ageing well are beginning to fray at the edges.
60's plus ... its not really about sex anymore but can be great company!
I would wager there's a few 60 yr olds out there up in arms with regards that comment "
Hello...  |
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Hmmm you do seem to be an attractive couple so it doesn't really surprise us that you're attracting attention, regardless of age. Not that you're exactly pushing the old zimmer just yet lol"
Thankyou x
We did meet a couple lastweek at a club who initially Contacted us on here. He was 29 and she was 25. We've stayed in contact and they want to meet us again at some point. Probably in the Newyear. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"I think it's a bit of a kink though. No one in their early to mid-twenties would ever actually walk up to me and have a conversation in real life. But here they have the opportunity to. "
Really? Because I don't know if it's because I'm an arrogant gobshite but when I was in late teens to early twenties, I would frequently go up to people older than me. And there was one bar in Aberdeen that was notorious for older women and younger rugger buggers. I just think on here it's more of a 'thing'. Rather than just being two people. |
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"I think it's a bit of a kink though. No one in their early to mid-twenties would ever actually walk up to me and have a conversation in real life. But here they have the opportunity to.
Really? Because I don't know if it's because I'm an arrogant gobshite but when I was in late teens to early twenties, I would frequently go up to people older than me. And there was one bar in Aberdeen that was notorious for older women and younger rugger buggers. I just think on here it's more of a 'thing'. Rather than just being two people. "
Yes I've had more than a couple of 25yr old girls approach me in a restaurant, a club and Facebook associates |
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"I think it's a bit of a kink though. No one in their early to mid-twenties would ever actually walk up to me and have a conversation in real life. But here they have the opportunity to. "
If I knew you were into younger guys I would. In real life it's abit more intimidating because I don't know your preference, it's not what most people would call the norm in real life.. |
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"Ifind theres not many people who want to meet the 35 to 40 catorgory. Luckily im 40 soon so hopefully my luck will be in. "
You best hope the trending age doesn't rise as you age. A bit like the government raising retirement age just as you're getting close  |
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"Most of my attention is from men in their 30's and quite a few in their 20's too. I'm actually looking for older.
I suddenly thought - I mean older than that, not older than me "
Haha. I knew what you meant x
Do you think Cougars are becoming extinct? |
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"Most of my attention is from men in their 30's and quite a few in their 20's too. I'm actually looking for older.
I suddenly thought - I mean older than that, not older than me
Haha. I knew what you meant x
Do you think Cougars are becoming extinct?"
NO still here |
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"Most of my attention is from men in their 30's and quite a few in their 20's too. I'm actually looking for older.
I suddenly thought - I mean older than that, not older than me
Haha. I knew what you meant x
Do you think Cougars are becoming extinct?
NO still here "
Sorry I worded that wrong.
What I mean is. Is the term cougar a thing of the past?
Are the hunters becoming the hunted? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is it fashionable for the younger fabbers to like an older generation? We seem to be getting a fair bit on attention from the 20somethings. Not complaining. Just curious as to whether anyone else is experiencing the same thing or whether any 20 to 30s can give an insite as to what the attraction of older people may be.
I have to say we're experiencing this outside of this site also."
most of my mail is from guys in their 20s, not sure if thats because they seek out older women or maybe there are just more guys that age on here
Sadly younger guys aren't my thing i prefer guys around my own age but very very few mail me, maybe they are after younger women  |
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"Most of my attention is from men in their 30's and quite a few in their 20's too. I'm actually looking for older.
I suddenly thought - I mean older than that, not older than me
Haha. I knew what you meant x
Do you think Cougars are becoming extinct?"
I have no idea - I don't count myself as a cougar as I have never looked for young men, the most I will do is compliment a nice pic lol! But I may have met one or two that came after me relentlessly.....  |
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"Is it fashionable for the younger fabbers to like an older generation? We seem to be getting a fair bit on attention from the 20somethings. Not complaining. Just curious as to whether anyone else is experiencing the same thing or whether any 20 to 30s can give an insite as to what the attraction of older people may be.
I have to say we're experiencing this outside of this site also.
most of my mail is from guys in their 20s, not sure if thats because they seek out older women or maybe there are just more guys that age on here
Sadly younger guys aren't my thing i prefer guys around my own age but very very few mail me, maybe they are after younger women "
I think you're right, especially on dating sites.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me the attraction is older folk have life experience, are mature and know what they want!
The older couples or females don't mess around with meets i.e no turning up etc and generally more up to try new things!  |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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"Most of my mail is from guys in their 20s, not sure if thats because they seek out older women or maybe there are just more guys that age on here
Sadly younger guys aren't my thing i prefer guys around my own age but very very few mail me, maybe they are after younger women "
Problem I have is the opposite!! Seems I'm just the wrong side of 50 for the majority of ladies profiles, yours included, which is a shame  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get lots of messages from chaps in their twenties. I don't think it's down to much more than the fact that there are a lot of them who join here, the vast majority of whom have slightly misaligned expectations both regarding the nature of the sight and the level of "eagerness" from us old codgers.
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"I get lots of messages from chaps in their twenties. I don't think it's down to much more than the fact that there are a lot of them who join here, the vast majority of whom have slightly misaligned expectations both regarding the nature of the sight and the level of "eagerness" from us old codgers.
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You're far from an old codger. Looks wise or age wise! |
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