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Things you want to try but are too scared atm
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Can be sexual or boring.
I would love to take part in Redbull Rampage but after seeing this year's course I'm a bit scared.
Sexually consentual non consenting play, would probably involve restraints in case any of the individuals would start to chicken out   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love singing and on the rare times people have heard me sing properly - being forced onto karaoke - I've been told I can really sing. But I'm too self concious to even sing in the middle of a group. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I promise Harley I'm not just nicking your answers, but sexually I want a full bi mmf, and non sexually I want to record a couple of songs in a studio"
Shall we get together and have a full bi mfmf instead?   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I promise Harley I'm not just nicking your answers, but sexually I want a full bi mmf, and non sexually I want to record a couple of songs in a studio
Shall we get together and have a full bi mfmf instead? "
And a sing-song |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I promise Harley I'm not just nicking your answers, but sexually I want a full bi mmf, and non sexually I want to record a couple of songs in a studio
Shall we get together and have a full bi mfmf instead?
And a sing-song "
Exactly! Two birds with one stone  |
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By *urvyKattWoman
over a year ago
Dumfriesshire |
I'd like to be able to evict spiders from my house humanely without screaming like a girl  . And I'd also like to go on a date sometime. Might be scarier than the bloody spider!!
Sexually I'd like to try DP |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have put up a new light fitting and want to change the switch too 
Just a little bit wary "
Do it carefully step by step and it should be fine.
Just make sure you turn the power off first  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nothing in vanilla land that I am scared of trying except maybe a multi day ultra but I am plotting one of those anyway.
Fab wise, I've had beads up the bum before - anal obviously we weren't in the middle of Paperchase or anything - would like to try again but entrusting any sphincter to another's care is a bit nervy |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nothing in vanilla land that I am scared of trying except maybe a multi day ultra but I am plotting one of those anyway.
Fab wise, I've had beads up the bum before - anal obviously we weren't in the middle of Paperchase or anything - would like to try again but entrusting any sphincter to another's care is a bit nervy"
Totally get it, I would be scared of a finger up my bum let alone something bigger  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nothing in vanilla land that I am scared of trying except maybe a multi day ultra but I am plotting one of those anyway.
Fab wise, I've had beads up the bum before - anal obviously we weren't in the middle of Paperchase or anything - would like to try again but entrusting any sphincter to another's care is a bit nervy
Totally get it, I would be scared of a finger up my bum let alone something bigger "
Guys, get a decent lube and may I recommend a lovely little vibe from AS called Serena.... try it yourselves.
You're welcome |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I promise Harley I'm not just nicking your answers, but sexually I want a full bi mmf, and non sexually I want to record a couple of songs in a studio
Shall we get together and have a full bi mfmf instead?
And a sing-song
Exactly! Two birds with one stone "
Or two birds with two guys |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nothing in vanilla land that I am scared of trying except maybe a multi day ultra but I am plotting one of those anyway.
Fab wise, I've had beads up the bum before - anal obviously we weren't in the middle of Paperchase or anything - would like to try again but entrusting any sphincter to another's care is a bit nervy
Totally get it, I would be scared of a finger up my bum let alone something bigger
Guys, get a decent lube and may I recommend a lovely little vibe from AS called Serena.... try it yourselves.
You're welcome "
Thank you for the suggestion but if I was ever to try bum play it would be with a female not a toy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sex wise, DP with two men.
Life wise, turning my house into a hotel
Number 1 I understand but number 2 ?"
Hehe I live in a seaside town. A lot of the houses like mine are already converted.. but it's a lot of money and effort if I don't like playing Basil Fawlty |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nothing in vanilla land that I am scared of trying except maybe a multi day ultra but I am plotting one of those anyway.
Fab wise, I've had beads up the bum before - anal obviously we weren't in the middle of Paperchase or anything - would like to try again but entrusting any sphincter to another's care is a bit nervy
Totally get it, I would be scared of a finger up my bum let alone something bigger
Guys, get a decent lube and may I recommend a lovely little vibe from AS called Serena.... try it yourselves.
You're welcome
Thank you for the suggestion but if I was ever to try bum play it would be with a female not a toy "
how about the tip of a tongue? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nothing in vanilla land that I am scared of trying except maybe a multi day ultra but I am plotting one of those anyway.
Fab wise, I've had beads up the bum before - anal obviously we weren't in the middle of Paperchase or anything - would like to try again but entrusting any sphincter to another's care is a bit nervy
Totally get it, I would be scared of a finger up my bum let alone something bigger
Guys, get a decent lube and may I recommend a lovely little vibe from AS called Serena.... try it yourselves.
You're welcome
Thank you for the suggestion but if I was ever to try bum play it would be with a female not a toy "
What about a female AND a toy? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sex wise, DP with two men.
Life wise, turning my house into a hotel
Number 1 I understand but number 2 ?
Hehe I live in a seaside town. A lot of the houses like mine are already converted.. but it's a lot of money and effort if I don't like playing Basil Fawlty "
Yeah but you would have to deal with the noisy customers, unless they're hot of course |
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There are some sexual things I've no desire to try but I'm not scared of any.
As for the vanilla world, I've been homeless, single and skint with children and single for 30 years. I think fear has left me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nothing in vanilla land that I am scared of trying except maybe a multi day ultra but I am plotting one of those anyway.
Fab wise, I've had beads up the bum before - anal obviously we weren't in the middle of Paperchase or anything - would like to try again but entrusting any sphincter to another's care is a bit nervy
Totally get it, I would be scared of a finger up my bum let alone something bigger
Guys, get a decent lube and may I recommend a lovely little vibe from AS called Serena.... try it yourselves.
You're welcome
Thank you for the suggestion but if I was ever to try bum play it would be with a female not a toy
What about a female AND a toy? "
I could be sold that quite easily provided the female was experienced in such things. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are some sexual things I've no desire to try but I'm not scared of any.
As for the vanilla world, I've been homeless, single and skint with children and single for 30 years. I think fear has left me."
One tough cookie  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sexual - meet a couple, I'd probably want to bring a female fab friend.
Also maybe try a club sometime.
Normal - I'd love to try snowboarding "
You have to go to a club! They're amazing x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sexual - meet a couple, I'd probably want to bring a female fab friend.
Also maybe try a club sometime.
Normal - I'd love to try snowboarding "
Haha, completely with you on all the points except clubbing maybe. I wouldn't know what to do. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There are some sexual things I've no desire to try but I'm not scared of any.
As for the vanilla world, I've been homeless, single and skint with children and single for 30 years. I think fear has left me."
Props for being such a strong character |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sexual - meet a couple, I'd probably want to bring a female fab friend.
Also maybe try a club sometime.
Normal - I'd love to try snowboarding
You have to go to a club! They're amazing x"
totally agree |
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By *workoutMan
over a year ago
Cradley Heath |
"Sexual - meet a couple, I'd probably want to bring a female fab friend.
Also maybe try a club sometime.
Normal - I'd love to try snowboarding
You have to go to a club! They're amazing x totally agree "
I should really look for more positive posts about clubs then, I only tend to see the horror stories on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Surfing I wussed out this summer but definitely want to have a go next year. I'm not scared of the actual sea, more of turning up to a group with strangers |
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By *workoutMan
over a year ago
Cradley Heath |
"Sexual - meet a couple, I'd probably want to bring a female fab friend.
Also maybe try a club sometime.
Normal - I'd love to try snowboarding
Haha, completely with you on all the points except clubbing maybe. I wouldn't know what to do. "
I know what you mean.
I'd probably be just stood there like |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sexual - meet a couple, I'd probably want to bring a female fab friend.
Also maybe try a club sometime.
Normal - I'd love to try snowboarding
Haha, completely with you on all the points except clubbing maybe. I wouldn't know what to do.
I know what you mean.
I'd probably be just stood there like "
You meet people, socialise and have sex if you click lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sexual - meet a couple, I'd probably want to bring a female fab friend.
Also maybe try a club sometime.
Normal - I'd love to try snowboarding
Haha, completely with you on all the points except clubbing maybe. I wouldn't know what to do.
I know what you mean.
I'd probably be just stood there like "
Yep.
Do I sit by the bar and wait for an invite.
Do I offer lady a drink, but what if they're all chatting/busy |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sexually - mff and perhaps a club
Non sexually - to finally be completely free of my ex would be amazing "
Yes, that can suck unfortunately as it often requires time  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sexual - meet a couple, I'd probably want to bring a female fab friend.
Also maybe try a club sometime.
Normal - I'd love to try snowboarding
Haha, completely with you on all the points except clubbing maybe. I wouldn't know what to do.
I know what you mean.
I'd probably be just stood there like
Yep.
Do I sit by the bar and wait for an invite.
Do I offer lady a drink, but what if they're all chatting/busy "
We go to clubs to meet single guys and we usually just start chatting at the bar then ask if they want to join us in a room |
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By *workoutMan
over a year ago
Cradley Heath |
"Sexual - meet a couple, I'd probably want to bring a female fab friend.
Also maybe try a club sometime.
Normal - I'd love to try snowboarding
Haha, completely with you on all the points except clubbing maybe. I wouldn't know what to do.
I know what you mean.
I'd probably be just stood there like
Yep.
Do I sit by the bar and wait for an invite.
Do I offer lady a drink, but what if they're all chatting/busy
We go to clubs to meet single guys and we usually just start chatting at the bar then ask if they want to join us in a room "
But do the single guys just sit there hoping to be noticed and waiting to be chosen, are we just like some sexual buffet for ladies and couples to choose from?
I'd love to know how it all works |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sexual - meet a couple, I'd probably want to bring a female fab friend.
Also maybe try a club sometime.
Normal - I'd love to try snowboarding
Haha, completely with you on all the points except clubbing maybe. I wouldn't know what to do.
I know what you mean.
I'd probably be just stood there like
Yep.
Do I sit by the bar and wait for an invite.
Do I offer lady a drink, but what if they're all chatting/busy
We go to clubs to meet single guys and we usually just start chatting at the bar then ask if they want to join us in a room
But do the single guys just sit there hoping to be noticed and waiting to be chosen, are we just like some sexual buffet for ladies and couples to choose from?
I'd love to know how it all works "
I was thinking the same thing, but like a supermarket, I would be considered a green banana. Not ripe enough yet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sexual - meet a couple, I'd probably want to bring a female fab friend.
Also maybe try a club sometime.
Normal - I'd love to try snowboarding
Haha, completely with you on all the points except clubbing maybe. I wouldn't know what to do.
I know what you mean.
I'd probably be just stood there like
Yep.
Do I sit by the bar and wait for an invite.
Do I offer lady a drink, but what if they're all chatting/busy
We go to clubs to meet single guys and we usually just start chatting at the bar then ask if they want to join us in a room
But do the single guys just sit there hoping to be noticed and waiting to be chosen, are we just like some sexual buffet for ladies and couples to choose from?
I'd love to know how it all works
I was thinking the same thing, but like a supermarket, I would be considered a green banana. Not ripe enough yet "
I always look for the hard green ones...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sexual - meet a couple, I'd probably want to bring a female fab friend.
Also maybe try a club sometime.
Normal - I'd love to try snowboarding
Haha, completely with you on all the points except clubbing maybe. I wouldn't know what to do.
I know what you mean.
I'd probably be just stood there like
Yep.
Do I sit by the bar and wait for an invite.
Do I offer lady a drink, but what if they're all chatting/busy
We go to clubs to meet single guys and we usually just start chatting at the bar then ask if they want to join us in a room
But do the single guys just sit there hoping to be noticed and waiting to be chosen, are we just like some sexual buffet for ladies and couples to choose from?
I'd love to know how it all works
I was thinking the same thing, but like a supermarket, I would be considered a green banana. Not ripe enough yet "
I can't speak for single guys as we obviously aren't one but no it wasn't like that at all . It was just like you'd chat to anyone at a bar but with a happy ending |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sexual - meet a couple, I'd probably want to bring a female fab friend.
Also maybe try a club sometime.
Normal - I'd love to try snowboarding
Haha, completely with you on all the points except clubbing maybe. I wouldn't know what to do.
I know what you mean.
I'd probably be just stood there like
Yep.
Do I sit by the bar and wait for an invite.
Do I offer lady a drink, but what if they're all chatting/busy
We go to clubs to meet single guys and we usually just start chatting at the bar then ask if they want to join us in a room
But do the single guys just sit there hoping to be noticed and waiting to be chosen, are we just like some sexual buffet for ladies and couples to choose from?
I'd love to know how it all works "
Just socialise. Whenever I've been in clubs the guys who appear to just enjoy chatting and relaxing seem to be the ones who end up being invited to play.
Normally staff will introduce you to regulars too which helps break the ice a bit.
Maybe research your local clubs and give it a go |
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"Sexual - meet a couple, I'd probably want to bring a female fab friend.
Also maybe try a club sometime.
Normal - I'd love to try snowboarding
Haha, completely with you on all the points except clubbing maybe. I wouldn't know what to do.
I know what you mean.
I'd probably be just stood there like
Yep.
Do I sit by the bar and wait for an invite.
Do I offer lady a drink, but what if they're all chatting/busy
We go to clubs to meet single guys and we usually just start chatting at the bar then ask if they want to join us in a room
But do the single guys just sit there hoping to be noticed and waiting to be chosen, are we just like some sexual buffet for ladies and couples to choose from?
I'd love to know how it all works "
It's just a building full of people, some of whom may be shagging. Just chat normally like you would to anyone in any situation. Introduce yourself with a smile.. |
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By *andeCouple
over a year ago
Bognor area |
"I don't think I'd be scared to try anything.
In the real world I want to do a firewalk.
In terms of Fab a gangbang - but I'm too fussy for it to realistically happen "
Fire walking is amazing - you should Def give it a go |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sexual - meet a couple, I'd probably want to bring a female fab friend.
Also maybe try a club sometime.
Normal - I'd love to try snowboarding
Haha, completely with you on all the points except clubbing maybe. I wouldn't know what to do.
I know what you mean.
I'd probably be just stood there like
Yep.
Do I sit by the bar and wait for an invite.
Do I offer lady a drink, but what if they're all chatting/busy
We go to clubs to meet single guys and we usually just start chatting at the bar then ask if they want to join us in a room
But do the single guys just sit there hoping to be noticed and waiting to be chosen, are we just like some sexual buffet for ladies and couples to choose from?
I'd love to know how it all works
I was thinking the same thing, but like a supermarket, I would be considered a green banana. Not ripe enough yet
I always look for the hard green ones... "
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By *workoutMan
over a year ago
Cradley Heath |
"Sexual - meet a couple, I'd probably want to bring a female fab friend.
Also maybe try a club sometime.
Normal - I'd love to try snowboarding
Haha, completely with you on all the points except clubbing maybe. I wouldn't know what to do.
I know what you mean.
I'd probably be just stood there like
Yep.
Do I sit by the bar and wait for an invite.
Do I offer lady a drink, but what if they're all chatting/busy
We go to clubs to meet single guys and we usually just start chatting at the bar then ask if they want to join us in a room
But do the single guys just sit there hoping to be noticed and waiting to be chosen, are we just like some sexual buffet for ladies and couples to choose from?
I'd love to know how it all works
It's just a building full of people, some of whom may be shagging. Just chat normally like you would to anyone in any situation. Introduce yourself with a smile.."
It's just that though, people may be shagging, that's not something I tend to encounter when I'm out so I really don't know if I could act like it's a normal situation until that factor had eased off. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"To change my career before it's too late.
Sexually wise - to experience being with another couple as part of a couple (if that makes sense!)"
So like a polyamorous relationship? Spelt that wrong probably |
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By *workoutMan
over a year ago
Cradley Heath |
"I want to take a photography course.
I really want to go to a fetish club."
You already have a talent for photography, you should do it.
Judging by some of your pics you have a talent for fetishism too |
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"Sexual - meet a couple, I'd probably want to bring a female fab friend.
Also maybe try a club sometime.
Normal - I'd love to try snowboarding
Haha, completely with you on all the points except clubbing maybe. I wouldn't know what to do.
I know what you mean.
I'd probably be just stood there like
Yep.
Do I sit by the bar and wait for an invite.
Do I offer lady a drink, but what if they're all chatting/busy
We go to clubs to meet single guys and we usually just start chatting at the bar then ask if they want to join us in a room
But do the single guys just sit there hoping to be noticed and waiting to be chosen, are we just like some sexual buffet for ladies and couples to choose from?
I'd love to know how it all works
It's just a building full of people, some of whom may be shagging. Just chat normally like you would to anyone in any situation. Introduce yourself with a smile..
It's just that though, people may be shagging, that's not something I tend to encounter when I'm out so I really don't know if I could act like it's a normal situation until that factor had eased off."
They're not shagging at your feet at the bar! There's no roman orgy going on. It's a bar/club like any other. |
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By *workoutMan
over a year ago
Cradley Heath |
"Sexual - meet a couple, I'd probably want to bring a female fab friend.
Also maybe try a club sometime.
Normal - I'd love to try snowboarding
Haha, completely with you on all the points except clubbing maybe. I wouldn't know what to do.
I know what you mean.
I'd probably be just stood there like
Yep.
Do I sit by the bar and wait for an invite.
Do I offer lady a drink, but what if they're all chatting/busy
We go to clubs to meet single guys and we usually just start chatting at the bar then ask if they want to join us in a room
But do the single guys just sit there hoping to be noticed and waiting to be chosen, are we just like some sexual buffet for ladies and couples to choose from?
I'd love to know how it all works
It's just a building full of people, some of whom may be shagging. Just chat normally like you would to anyone in any situation. Introduce yourself with a smile..
It's just that though, people may be shagging, that's not something I tend to encounter when I'm out so I really don't know if I could act like it's a normal situation until that factor had eased off.
They're not shagging at your feet at the bar! There's no roman orgy going on. It's a bar/club like any other. "
Fair enough, see I just don't know these things. I genuinely appreciate the comments though, I'm feeling more tempted to give it a try |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sexual - meet a couple, I'd probably want to bring a female fab friend.
Also maybe try a club sometime.
Normal - I'd love to try snowboarding
Haha, completely with you on all the points except clubbing maybe. I wouldn't know what to do.
I know what you mean.
I'd probably be just stood there like
Yep.
Do I sit by the bar and wait for an invite.
Do I offer lady a drink, but what if they're all chatting/busy
We go to clubs to meet single guys and we usually just start chatting at the bar then ask if they want to join us in a room
But do the single guys just sit there hoping to be noticed and waiting to be chosen, are we just like some sexual buffet for ladies and couples to choose from?
I'd love to know how it all works
It's just a building full of people, some of whom may be shagging. Just chat normally like you would to anyone in any situation. Introduce yourself with a smile..
It's just that though, people may be shagging, that's not something I tend to encounter when I'm out so I really don't know if I could act like it's a normal situation until that factor had eased off.
They're not shagging at your feet at the bar! There's no roman orgy going on. It's a bar/club like any other.
Fair enough, see I just don't know these things. I genuinely appreciate the comments though, I'm feeling more tempted to give it a try "
Pretty sure we just have to man the fuck up! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sexual - meet a couple, I'd probably want to bring a female fab friend.
Also maybe try a club sometime.
Normal - I'd love to try snowboarding
Haha, completely with you on all the points except clubbing maybe. I wouldn't know what to do.
I know what you mean.
I'd probably be just stood there like
Yep.
Do I sit by the bar and wait for an invite.
Do I offer lady a drink, but what if they're all chatting/busy
We go to clubs to meet single guys and we usually just start chatting at the bar then ask if they want to join us in a room
But do the single guys just sit there hoping to be noticed and waiting to be chosen, are we just like some sexual buffet for ladies and couples to choose from?
I'd love to know how it all works
It's just a building full of people, some of whom may be shagging. Just chat normally like you would to anyone in any situation. Introduce yourself with a smile..
It's just that though, people may be shagging, that's not something I tend to encounter when I'm out so I really don't know if I could act like it's a normal situation until that factor had eased off.
They're not shagging at your feet at the bar! There's no roman orgy going on. It's a bar/club like any other.
Fair enough, see I just don't know these things. I genuinely appreciate the comments though, I'm feeling more tempted to give it a try
Pretty sure we just have to man the fuck up! "
It's not the shagging bit that scares me about clubs it's the socialising with strangers bit I think I'd get on better if it WAS just like a Roman orgy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sexual - meet a couple, I'd probably want to bring a female fab friend.
Also maybe try a club sometime.
Normal - I'd love to try snowboarding
Haha, completely with you on all the points except clubbing maybe. I wouldn't know what to do.
I know what you mean.
I'd probably be just stood there like
Yep.
Do I sit by the bar and wait for an invite.
Do I offer lady a drink, but what if they're all chatting/busy
We go to clubs to meet single guys and we usually just start chatting at the bar then ask if they want to join us in a room
But do the single guys just sit there hoping to be noticed and waiting to be chosen, are we just like some sexual buffet for ladies and couples to choose from?
I'd love to know how it all works
It's just a building full of people, some of whom may be shagging. Just chat normally like you would to anyone in any situation. Introduce yourself with a smile..
It's just that though, people may be shagging, that's not something I tend to encounter when I'm out so I really don't know if I could act like it's a normal situation until that factor had eased off.
They're not shagging at your feet at the bar! There's no roman orgy going on. It's a bar/club like any other.
Fair enough, see I just don't know these things. I genuinely appreciate the comments though, I'm feeling more tempted to give it a try
Pretty sure we just have to man the fuck up! "
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"Sexual - meet a couple, I'd probably want to bring a female fab friend.
Also maybe try a club sometime.
Normal - I'd love to try snowboarding
Haha, completely with you on all the points except clubbing maybe. I wouldn't know what to do.
I know what you mean.
I'd probably be just stood there like
Yep.
Do I sit by the bar and wait for an invite.
Do I offer lady a drink, but what if they're all chatting/busy
We go to clubs to meet single guys and we usually just start chatting at the bar then ask if they want to join us in a room
But do the single guys just sit there hoping to be noticed and waiting to be chosen, are we just like some sexual buffet for ladies and couples to choose from?
I'd love to know how it all works
It's just a building full of people, some of whom may be shagging. Just chat normally like you would to anyone in any situation. Introduce yourself with a smile..
It's just that though, people may be shagging, that's not something I tend to encounter when I'm out so I really don't know if I could act like it's a normal situation until that factor had eased off.
They're not shagging at your feet at the bar! There's no roman orgy going on. It's a bar/club like any other.
Fair enough, see I just don't know these things. I genuinely appreciate the comments though, I'm feeling more tempted to give it a try
Pretty sure we just have to man the fuck up!
It's not the shagging bit that scares me about clubs it's the socialising with strangers bit I think I'd get on better if it WAS just like a Roman orgy "
I don't know why but the words roman orgy remind me of that book/movie where a guy made perfumes out of people and it caused a giant orgy |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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"Sexual - meet a couple, I'd probably want to bring a female fab friend.
Also maybe try a club sometime.
Normal - I'd love to try snowboarding
Haha, completely with you on all the points except clubbing maybe. I wouldn't know what to do.
I know what you mean.
I'd probably be just stood there like
Yep.
Do I sit by the bar and wait for an invite.
Do I offer lady a drink, but what if they're all chatting/busy
We go to clubs to meet single guys and we usually just start chatting at the bar then ask if they want to join us in a room
But do the single guys just sit there hoping to be noticed and waiting to be chosen, are we just like some sexual buffet for ladies and couples to choose from?
I'd love to know how it all works
It's just a building full of people, some of whom may be shagging. Just chat normally like you would to anyone in any situation. Introduce yourself with a smile..
It's just that though, people may be shagging, that's not something I tend to encounter when I'm out so I really don't know if I could act like it's a normal situation until that factor had eased off.
They're not shagging at your feet at the bar! There's no roman orgy going on. It's a bar/club like any other.
Fair enough, see I just don't know these things. I genuinely appreciate the comments though, I'm feeling more tempted to give it a try
Pretty sure we just have to man the fuck up!
It's not the shagging bit that scares me about clubs it's the socialising with strangers bit I think I'd get on better if it WAS just like a Roman orgy "
I've done the club thing despite being shit at socialising. But a Roman orgy style type evening is something on my to do list. And maybe getting my provisional driving licence. |
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"Nothing in vanilla land that I am scared of trying except maybe a multi day ultra but I am plotting one of those anyway.
Fab wise, I've had beads up the bum before - anal obviously we weren't in the middle of Paperchase or anything - would like to try again but entrusting any sphincter to another's care is a bit nervy
Totally get it, I would be scared of a finger up my bum let alone something bigger "
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"Sexual - meet a couple, I'd probably want to bring a female fab friend.
Also maybe try a club sometime.
Normal - I'd love to try snowboarding
Haha, completely with you on all the points except clubbing maybe. I wouldn't know what to do.
I know what you mean.
I'd probably be just stood there like
Yep.
Do I sit by the bar and wait for an invite.
Do I offer lady a drink, but what if they're all chatting/busy
We go to clubs to meet single guys and we usually just start chatting at the bar then ask if they want to join us in a room
But do the single guys just sit there hoping to be noticed and waiting to be chosen, are we just like some sexual buffet for ladies and couples to choose from?
I'd love to know how it all works
It's just a building full of people, some of whom may be shagging. Just chat normally like you would to anyone in any situation. Introduce yourself with a smile..
It's just that though, people may be shagging, that's not something I tend to encounter when I'm out so I really don't know if I could act like it's a normal situation until that factor had eased off.
They're not shagging at your feet at the bar! There's no roman orgy going on. It's a bar/club like any other.
Fair enough, see I just don't know these things. I genuinely appreciate the comments though, I'm feeling more tempted to give it a try
Pretty sure we just have to man the fuck up!
It's not the shagging bit that scares me about clubs it's the socialising with strangers bit I think I'd get on better if it WAS just like a Roman orgy
I've done the club thing despite being shit at socialising. But a Roman orgy style type evening is something on my to do list. And maybe getting my provisional driving licence."
Well I've got a licence but I've never done an orgy; it's on my to-do list too! |
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"Use a strap on.
Leave my job...I need to for financial and emotional wellbeing, but I do love my workmates. "
You're telling me you haven't used one before?
FF strap on play lazy doggy style looks incredibly sexy |
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"Use a strap on.
Leave my job...I need to for financial and emotional wellbeing, but I do love my workmates.
You're telling me you haven't used one before?
FF strap on play lazy doggy style looks incredibly sexy "
Who said she wants to use it on a woman? Or if she is the one that wants to do the thrusting |
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"Nothing in vanilla land that I am scared of trying except maybe a multi day ultra but I am plotting one of those anyway.
Fab wise, I've had beads up the bum before - anal obviously we weren't in the middle of Paperchase or anything - would like to try again but entrusting any sphincter to another's care is a bit nervy
Totally get it, I would be scared of a finger up my bum let alone something bigger
Start with a tongue - you'll eagerly enjoy it "
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I would like to pursue a three-way relationship with two women. By that, I mean a proper, serious and passionate relationship but I do find it scary!
Intriguing though
Non-sexually - Would like to sing for Kim Jong Un but I am so bad I'd probably get stoned to death before I finish |
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Hmm... Non-sexual is cycle through London. I'm convinced I'd die in the first 20 minutes.
Sexually, I'd like to do DP with 2 guys or try some sort of laid back orgy! |
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"I would like to pursue a three-way relationship with two women. By that, I mean a proper, serious and passionate relationship but I do find it scary!"
That sounds ideal to me. |
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"I would like to pursue a three-way relationship with two women. By that, I mean a proper, serious and passionate relationship but I do find it scary!
That sounds ideal to me."
What, all the time? That sounds unnecessarily complicated.
I do timeshare |
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"Hmm... Non-sexual is cycle through London. I'm convinced I'd die in the first 20 minutes.
Sexually, I'd like to do DP with 2 guys or try some sort of laid back orgy! "
Ha I see people cycling through London and I imagine their inner monologue is just
'Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaagh fuck shit car bus person van lights aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaagh' |
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"I would like to pursue a three-way relationship with two women. By that, I mean a proper, serious and passionate relationship but I do find it scary!
That sounds ideal to me.
What, all the time? That sounds unnecessarily complicated.
I do timeshare "
Meh, you don't have to constantly be in each others pockets. |
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"I would like to pursue a three-way relationship with two women. By that, I mean a proper, serious and passionate relationship but I do find it scary!
That sounds ideal to me.
What, all the time? That sounds unnecessarily complicated.
I do timeshare
Meh, you don't have to constantly be in each others pockets. "
No, living with two other people on some kinda equal footing is nothing I've ever managed. Tried it once but it was a car crash. Maybe we were too young. But yeah, prone to jealousies, in my limited experience.
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"Sounds like we need to organise a forum social/club meet...
Boring... Jump out of a plane
Sex... All bi orgy
*dribbles*"
Actually no, I just read the orgy bit... I'll wait on the ground with champagne and caviar for you all to fall out of the sky. It'll be FAB |
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"Hmm... Non-sexual is cycle through London. I'm convinced I'd die in the first 20 minutes.
Sexually, I'd like to do DP with 2 guys or try some sort of laid back orgy!
Ha I see people cycling through London and I imagine their inner monologue is just
'Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaagh fuck shit car bus person van lights aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaagh'"
Haha yes! This would be me. |
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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago
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"Hmm... Non-sexual is cycle through London. I'm convinced I'd die in the first 20 minutes.
Sexually, I'd like to do DP with 2 guys or try some sort of laid back orgy! "
Hello
I would love to be able to actually ride a bik |
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Sexually I would love to do a bi mmf. It's right there are the top of my list. Although I'm not scared to try it, Adam may be ha ha.
Vanilla wise..so much! I would love to sky dive or do a jump but I'm just too scared of heights. I would require a push and may pass out.
I would love to go self employed but I'm terrified of failing.
Eve. X |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"I would like to pursue a three-way relationship with two women. By that, I mean a proper, serious and passionate relationship but I do find it scary!
That sounds ideal to me.
What, all the time? That sounds unnecessarily complicated.
I do timeshare
Meh, you don't have to constantly be in each others pockets. "
I've done it before - it worked well for me and only ended due to one moving abroad. Jealousy isn't really an issue as long as there's communication. Good luck with it, there's more interested in a poly lifestyle than you would initially believe. |
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"Sounds like we need to organise a forum social/club meet...
Boring... Jump out of a plane
Sex... All bi orgy"
Another orgy, they must have something to them |
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"Sexually I would love to do a bi mmf. It's right there are the top of my list. Although I'm not scared to try it, Adam may be ha ha.
Vanilla wise..so much! I would love to sky dive or do a jump but I'm just too scared of heights. I would require a push and may pass out.
I would love to go self employed but I'm terrified of failing.
Eve. X"
Adam is a strong lad, I'm sure he's brave also .
I don't think passing out would be a good idea, might want to be conscious just for the landing bit at least |
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over a year ago
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"Non-sexual: tough mudder (if i can manage to rope someone else into doing it with me)
Sexual- nothing out of the ordinary at all "
Damn it, you're in Scotland, otherwise I would totally volunteer for number 1 |
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Always looking for a new adventure every year for my birthday having done 3 bungees, skydive etc. This year I'd like to do the small airplane wing walk thing.
Sexually I'd like to be roofied by someone I trust implicitly and have the night videoed |
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I'm too scared to leave my job. Currently serving and not sure the grass is greener, could inget a decent job outside? 
Sexually I'm too scared to let someone else have the reins for anal play. Played with toys and enjoyed it but worried if I gave someone else control they might not be gentle for a newbie |
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Real life - Boxing match (no training though and too old to start now)
Sexually - fisting the wife (might try this in the next week or so though) Being pegged by the wife. Sharing the wife with another man. |
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"I would like to pursue a three-way relationship with two women. By that, I mean a proper, serious and passionate relationship but I do find it scary!
That sounds ideal to me.
What, all the time? That sounds unnecessarily complicated.
I do timeshare
Meh, you don't have to constantly be in each others pockets.
I've done it before - it worked well for me and only ended due to one moving abroad. Jealousy isn't really an issue as long as there's communication. Good luck with it, there's more interested in a poly lifestyle than you would initially believe. "
Couldn't have said it better. My idea of a relationship in whatever context is one of communication, openness and doesn't involve being in each other's company all the time. That wouldn't be healthy. |
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"I would like to pursue a three-way relationship with two women. By that, I mean a proper, serious and passionate relationship but I do find it scary!
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Would love a 3 way relationship with a guy and girl. Hard to find the right people though! |
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The thing that scares me but I would like to try is needle play, but its not just something that you can just jump into, but its something I'd love to be able to do.
Not quite scary, but I do want to submit to a domme, just to get a clearer understanding of a submissive and their mindset, I think it would go a long way to making me a better Dom |
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"Sexually I would love to do a bi mmf. It's right there are the top of my list. Although I'm not scared to try it, Adam may be ha ha.
Vanilla wise..so much! I would love to sky dive or do a jump but I'm just too scared of heights. I would require a push and may pass out.
I would love to go self employed but I'm terrified of failing.
Eve. X
Adam is a strong lad, I'm sure he's brave also .
I don't think passing out would be a good idea, might want to be conscious just for the landing bit at least "
Ha ha he is! Now I just need to find another strong lad to complete the circle.
This is it, I freeze! I tried a bungee ride once in Blackpool, it took us to the top and I was supposed to pull the cord on my shoulder to release us. I couldn't! I just couldn't move a muscle so Adam had to lean over and pull it.
Pretty sure I would stiffen up and pass out. Stupid girly, wussy features.
Eve. X |
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"Sexually I would love to do a bi mmf. It's right there are the top of my list. Although I'm not scared to try it, Adam may be ha ha.
Vanilla wise..so much! I would love to sky dive or do a jump but I'm just too scared of heights. I would require a push and may pass out.
I would love to go self employed but I'm terrified of failing.
Eve. X
Adam is a strong lad, I'm sure he's brave also .
I don't think passing out would be a good idea, might want to be conscious just for the landing bit at least
Ha ha he is! Now I just need to find another strong lad to complete the circle.
This is it, I freeze! I tried a bungee ride once in Blackpool, it took us to the top and I was supposed to pull the cord on my shoulder to release us. I couldn't! I just couldn't move a muscle so Adam had to lean over and pull it.
Pretty sure I would stiffen up and pass out. Stupid girly, wussy features.
Eve. X"
Offers from Bi guys are probably flowing .
I totally get the freezing before doing point. When I was cliff jumping in Croatia I thought, I'm going to hit the rocks and die but too many hot girls were watching so I jumped .
Bungee jumping however, hell no! |
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"The thing that scares me but I would like to try is needle play, but its not just something that you can just jump into, but its something I'd love to be able to do.
Not quite scary, but I do want to submit to a domme, just to get a clearer understanding of a submissive and their mindset, I think it would go a long way to making me a better Dom"
Interesting point of view, I would just submit for the pleasure, couldn't be asked to analyze it in the moment |
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"To change my career before it's too late.
Sexually wise - to experience being with another couple as part of a couple (if that makes sense!)
So like a polyamorous relationship? Spelt that wrong probably "
No, more along the lines of playing with a couple whilst being with a guy. I'm keen on trying more 3sum/4sums but not as a single woman, the dynamics don't work for me at the moment. |
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"Sexually I would love to do a bi mmf. It's right there are the top of my list. Although I'm not scared to try it, Adam may be ha ha.
Vanilla wise..so much! I would love to sky dive or do a jump but I'm just too scared of heights. I would require a push and may pass out.
I would love to go self employed but I'm terrified of failing.
Eve. X
Adam is a strong lad, I'm sure he's brave also .
I don't think passing out would be a good idea, might want to be conscious just for the landing bit at least
Ha ha he is! Now I just need to find another strong lad to complete the circle.
This is it, I freeze! I tried a bungee ride once in Blackpool, it took us to the top and I was supposed to pull the cord on my shoulder to release us. I couldn't! I just couldn't move a muscle so Adam had to lean over and pull it.
Pretty sure I would stiffen up and pass out. Stupid girly, wussy features.
Eve. X
Offers from Bi guys are probably flowing .
I totally get the freezing before doing point. When I was cliff jumping in Croatia I thought, I'm going to hit the rocks and die but too many hot girls were watching so I jumped .
Bungee jumping however, hell no!"
We've had a few but trying to find a hot guy who isn't trying to just get to me or Adam is tricky.
Ha ha twice I have jumped from two different double story boats just because I had frozen so everyone was cheering me on and shouting for me to jump...plus my nan did it so I felt stupid ha ha.
I literally only jumped to stop people looking at me.
Moral of the story, I would rather jump from a great height than have people look at me. See..wussy!
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"To change my career before it's too late.
Sexually wise - to experience being with another couple as part of a couple (if that makes sense!)
So like a polyamorous relationship? Spelt that wrong probably
No, more along the lines of playing with a couple whilst being with a guy. I'm keen on trying more 3sum/4sums but not as a single woman, the dynamics don't work for me at the moment."
Oh, I get it now. Thing is, its probably hard to find someone who would be down with this type of agreement. Sure you could play with a couple and a FWB but its not the same I imagine. |
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"Sexually I would love to do a bi mmf. It's right there are the top of my list. Although I'm not scared to try it, Adam may be ha ha.
Vanilla wise..so much! I would love to sky dive or do a jump but I'm just too scared of heights. I would require a push and may pass out.
I would love to go self employed but I'm terrified of failing.
Eve. X
Adam is a strong lad, I'm sure he's brave also .
I don't think passing out would be a good idea, might want to be conscious just for the landing bit at least
Ha ha he is! Now I just need to find another strong lad to complete the circle.
This is it, I freeze! I tried a bungee ride once in Blackpool, it took us to the top and I was supposed to pull the cord on my shoulder to release us. I couldn't! I just couldn't move a muscle so Adam had to lean over and pull it.
Pretty sure I would stiffen up and pass out. Stupid girly, wussy features.
Eve. X
Offers from Bi guys are probably flowing .
I totally get the freezing before doing point. When I was cliff jumping in Croatia I thought, I'm going to hit the rocks and die but too many hot girls were watching so I jumped .
Bungee jumping however, hell no!
We've had a few but trying to find a hot guy who isn't trying to just get to me or Adam is tricky.
Ha ha twice I have jumped from two different double story boats just because I had frozen so everyone was cheering me on and shouting for me to jump...plus my nan did it so I felt stupid ha ha.
I literally only jumped to stop people looking at me.
Moral of the story, I would rather jump from a great height than have people look at me. See..wussy!
Eve. X"
I agree Adam is one hell of a man, you're not too bad looking too .
Was it fresh or salt water you were jumping into?
I jumped into salt water and felt taste of blood in my mouth but it turned out to be salt water after all. And the impact of hitting the water, damn it gives you a wedgie |
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By *oxesMan
over a year ago
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"Sexually I would love to do a bi mmf. It's right there are the top of my list. Although I'm not scared to try it, Adam may be ha ha.
Vanilla wise..so much! I would love to sky dive or do a jump but I'm just too scared of heights. I would require a push and may pass out.
I would love to go self employed but I'm terrified of failing.
Eve. X
Adam is a strong lad, I'm sure he's brave also .
I don't think passing out would be a good idea, might want to be conscious just for the landing bit at least
Ha ha he is! Now I just need to find another strong lad to complete the circle.
This is it, I freeze! I tried a bungee ride once in Blackpool, it took us to the top and I was supposed to pull the cord on my shoulder to release us. I couldn't! I just couldn't move a muscle so Adam had to lean over and pull it.
Pretty sure I would stiffen up and pass out. Stupid girly, wussy features.
Eve. X
Offers from Bi guys are probably flowing .
I totally get the freezing before doing point. When I was cliff jumping in Croatia I thought, I'm going to hit the rocks and die but too many hot girls were watching so I jumped .
Bungee jumping however, hell no!
We've had a few but trying to find a hot guy who isn't trying to just get to me or Adam is tricky.
Ha ha twice I have jumped from two different double story boats just because I had frozen so everyone was cheering me on and shouting for me to jump...plus my nan did it so I felt stupid ha ha.
I literally only jumped to stop people looking at me.
Moral of the story, I would rather jump from a great height than have people look at me. See..wussy!
Eve. X
I agree Adam is one hell of a man, you're not too bad looking too .
Was it fresh or salt water you were jumping into?
I jumped into salt water and felt taste of blood in my mouth but it turned out to be salt water after all. And the impact of hitting the water, damn it gives you a wedgie "
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