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I'm much more likely to jump on a guy if he tells me I'm intelligent and funny. This whole "you're cute, you're hot" stuff just isn't that believable.
Weirdly, no guy tells me I'm clever or funny. 
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when I've made an effort and I feel hot or cute I do like to hear it from others, I know I'm funny so that's all good, clever I have my good days and very blonde days (my mother is blonde before anyone starts)
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"I'm much more likely to jump on a guy if he tells me I'm intelligent and funny. This whole "you're cute, you're hot" stuff just isn't that believable.
Weirdly, no guy tells me I'm clever or funny.
What's the compliment that would get you? "
I'm with you...much prefer someone to appreciate my brain or personality.  |
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over a year ago
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"If a girl says I make her laugh then that makes me feel good, like I've achieved something  "
 it's always a good day if I get a 'that made me smile' or 'that made me laugh' |
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over a year ago
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favourite type of compliment has to be ones regarding my daughter
but if we are talking from people on fab, i prefer personality based ones than ones on looks, but will only every except those from people ive engaged in conversation for a while.. |
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over a year ago
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I like compliments about something I've actually done something for. So physically, something like how I've done my makeup or how I've styled my hair. Otherwise being told I'm funny or clever is a winner. |
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over a year ago
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I'd walk across a field of broken glass just to have a wank in your shadow is a favourite.
My ex ex won my heart by telling me he'd walk across a field of broken glass just to dip twigs in my poo.
Basically i like men who woukd walk across a field of glass for me.  |
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"I'm much more likely to jump on a guy if he tells me I'm intelligent and funny. This whole "you're cute, you're hot" stuff just isn't that believable.
Weirdly, no guy tells me I'm clever or funny.
What's the compliment that would get you? "
You're so funny  |
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over a year ago
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"I like compliments about something I've actually done something for. So physically, something like how I've done my makeup or how I've styled my hair. Otherwise being told I'm funny or clever is a winner. "
How about "your hair look funny"? |
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over a year ago
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"favourite type of compliment has to be ones regarding my daughter
but if we are talking from people on fab, i prefer personality based ones than ones on looks, but will only every except those from people ive engaged in conversation for a while.. "
So I'm guess "I am loving your massive tits" isn't going to work so well  |
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over a year ago
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"favourite type of compliment has to be ones regarding my daughter
but if we are talking from people on fab, i prefer personality based ones than ones on looks, but will only every except those from people ive engaged in conversation for a while..
So I'm guess "I am loving your massive tits" isn't going to work so well "
*yawnnn* |
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I have found the most beautiful woman respond better to having the piss taken out of them and having a laugh instead of resorting to the old chat up lines. Humour and confidence always wins.
My favourite compliment...... I was recently complimented on my physique by a couple I swung with...... not bad taking into consideration the volume of food I have consumed the last few days |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Compliments on my intelligence. Most on here I take with a pinch of salt especially ones complimenting my physical features. If it's to do with my skin colour I want to  . |
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"I have found the most beautiful woman respond better to having the piss taken out of them and having a laugh instead of resorting to the old chat up lines. Humour and confidence always wins.
My favourite compliment...... I was recently complimented on my physique by a couple I swung with...... not bad taking into consideration the volume of food I have consumed the last few days "
That's too much effort tbh. I rarely see anyone worth the effort. |
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By *workoutMan
over a year ago
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When people compliment me on my personality, I try to be a good person and I can be quite witty sometimes.
Mostly it's compliments about my body and I have no problem with that whatsoever, it's incredibly flattering, I'd just hope people realise I'm not the stereotypical gym meat head. |
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Whenever I've first saw/met soneone I've never gone "phwoar look at the intellengence on him" instead I think things like "cor he's got a nice arse".
If everyone's being honest the physical attributes get your attention first and getting to know them (so the intelligence can shine) is what grows the attraction |
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"I like compliments about something I've actually done something for. So physically, something like how I've done my makeup or how I've styled my hair. Otherwise being told I'm funny or clever is a winner.
How about "your hair look funny"? "
That could work... |
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over a year ago
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"I'd walk across a field of broken glass just to have a wank in your shadow is a favourite.
My ex ex won my heart by telling me he'd walk across a field of broken glass just to dip twigs in my poo.
Basically i like men who woukd walk across a field of glass for me. :-
D"
The best ones are the ones who would drag their balls across a field of broken glass for a meet |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"Whenever I've first saw/met soneone I've never gone "phwoar look at the intellengence on him" instead I think things like "cor he's got a nice arse".
If everyone's being honest the physical attributes get your attention first and getting to know them (so the intelligence can shine) is what grows the attraction"
i dont switch on the 'do i fancy' until i have a connection elsewhere..im not a visual person in the main...if no compatability, its doesnt matter how visually appealing you might be..
i dont go there, to that possibility, until i've sorted out the other first,that may be unusual but that's compartmentalisation for you x |
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"I like compliments about something I've actually done something for. So physically, something like how I've done my makeup or how I've styled my hair. Otherwise being told I'm funny or clever is a winner.
How about "your hair look funny"?
That could work..."
Jots that into notes |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
"Whenever I've first saw/met soneone I've never gone "phwoar look at the intellengence on him" instead I think things like "cor he's got a nice arse".
If everyone's being honest the physical attributes get your attention first and getting to know them (so the intelligence can shine) is what grows the attractioni dont switch on the 'do i fancy' until i have a connection elsewhere..im not a visual person in the main...if no compatability, its doesnt matter how visually appealing you might be..
i dont go there, to that possibility, until i've sorted out the other first,that may be unusual but that's compartmentalisation for you x"
Not unusual. I'm the same. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
I'll know it when I find it. |
"Whenever I've first saw/met soneone I've never gone "phwoar look at the intellengence on him" instead I think things like "cor he's got a nice arse".
If everyone's being honest the physical attributes get your attention first and getting to know them (so the intelligence can shine) is what grows the attractioni dont switch on the 'do i fancy' until i have a connection elsewhere..im not a visual person in the main...if no compatability, its doesnt matter how visually appealing you might be..
i dont go there, to that possibility, until i've sorted out the other first,that may be unusual but that's compartmentalisation for you x"
I have to say I agree with Suzy on this point. It doesn't matter how nice the arse, if your personality reveals you to be one I won't fancy you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"favourite type of compliment has to be ones regarding my daughter
but if we are talking from people on fab, i prefer personality based ones than ones on looks, but will only every except those from people ive engaged in conversation for a while..
So I'm guess "I am loving your massive tits" isn't going to work so well
*yawnnn* "
........ it was a joke!!!! |
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"favourite type of compliment has to be ones regarding my daughter
but if we are talking from people on fab, i prefer personality based ones than ones on looks, but will only every except those from people ive engaged in conversation for a while..
So I'm guess "I am loving your massive tits" isn't going to work so well
*yawnnn*
........ it was a joke!!!! "
Too late. You're doooooomed fella |
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I don't really care about compliments themselves, it's more the person who says them. Marc could tell me my toenail looks nice and I'll feel great all day.
But if I had to choose, I guess a compliment about my mind would be preferable to any other. |
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"Whenever I've first saw/met soneone I've never gone "phwoar look at the intellengence on him" instead I think things like "cor he's got a nice arse".
If everyone's being honest the physical attributes get your attention first and getting to know them (so the intelligence can shine) is what grows the attractioni dont switch on the 'do i fancy' until i have a connection elsewhere..im not a visual person in the main...if no compatability, its doesnt matter how visually appealing you might be..
i dont go there, to that possibility, until i've sorted out the other first,that may be unusual but that's compartmentalisation for you x
I have to say I agree with Suzy on this point. It doesn't matter how nice the arse, if your personality reveals you to be one I won't fancy you. "
Which is why I said it's the integellgence e.g. Personality that grows (or perhaps embeds would be the better term) the attraction |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
"Whenever I've first saw/met soneone I've never gone "phwoar look at the intellengence on him" instead I think things like "cor he's got a nice arse".
If everyone's being honest the physical attributes get your attention first and getting to know them (so the intelligence can shine) is what grows the attractioni dont switch on the 'do i fancy' until i have a connection elsewhere..im not a visual person in the main...if no compatability, its doesnt matter how visually appealing you might be..
i dont go there, to that possibility, until i've sorted out the other first,that may be unusual but that's compartmentalisation for you x
I have to say I agree with Suzy on this point. It doesn't matter how nice the arse, if your personality reveals you to be one I won't fancy you.
Which is why I said it's the integellgence e.g. Personality that grows (or perhaps embeds would be the better term) the attraction "
It's the personality that is the attraction first and foremost for me. I've decided to meet people based on whether or not I fancy them mentally before I've even seen them. The visual has so far 100% cemented the attraction but it just isn't that important an element to me. |
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"Whenever I've first saw/met soneone I've never gone "phwoar look at the intellengence on him" instead I think things like "cor he's got a nice arse".
If everyone's being honest the physical attributes get your attention first and getting to know them (so the intelligence can shine) is what grows the attractioni dont switch on the 'do i fancy' until i have a connection elsewhere..im not a visual person in the main...if no compatability, its doesnt matter how visually appealing you might be..
i dont go there, to that possibility, until i've sorted out the other first,that may be unusual but that's compartmentalisation for you x
I have to say I agree with Suzy on this point. It doesn't matter how nice the arse, if your personality reveals you to be one I won't fancy you.
Which is why I said it's the integellgence e.g. Personality that grows (or perhaps embeds would be the better term) the attraction
It's the personality that is the attraction first and foremost for me. I've decided to meet people based on whether or not I fancy them mentally before I've even seen them. The visual has so far 100% cemented the attraction but it just isn't that important an element to me."
You see I've had occasions where I've chatted to some truely great people on here but when pics are exchanged later on I'm not sexually attracted to them regardless of how great we get on. I'd be curious to know if this as ever happened to you? (Of course you don't have to answer) |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"Whenever I've first saw/met soneone I've never gone "phwoar look at the intellengence on him" instead I think things like "cor he's got a nice arse".
If everyone's being honest the physical attributes get your attention first and getting to know them (so the intelligence can shine) is what grows the attractioni dont switch on the 'do i fancy' until i have a connection elsewhere..im not a visual person in the main...if no compatability, its doesnt matter how visually appealing you might be..
i dont go there, to that possibility, until i've sorted out the other first,that may be unusual but that's compartmentalisation for you x
I have to say I agree with Suzy on this point. It doesn't matter how nice the arse, if your personality reveals you to be one I won't fancy you.
Which is why I said it's the integellgence e.g. Personality that grows (or perhaps embeds would be the better term) the attraction
It's the personality that is the attraction first and foremost for me. I've decided to meet people based on whether or not I fancy them mentally before I've even seen them. The visual has so far 100% cemented the attraction but it just isn't that important an element to me.
You see I've had occasions where I've chatted to some truely great people on here but when pics are exchanged later on I'm not sexually attracted to them regardless of how great we get on. I'd be curious to know if this as ever happened to you? (Of course you don't have to answer) "
compatibility and chemistry yes defo..but what i am saying is, i don't allow chemistry, before the other is sorted.. |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
"Whenever I've first saw/met soneone I've never gone "phwoar look at the intellengence on him" instead I think things like "cor he's got a nice arse".
If everyone's being honest the physical attributes get your attention first and getting to know them (so the intelligence can shine) is what grows the attractioni dont switch on the 'do i fancy' until i have a connection elsewhere..im not a visual person in the main...if no compatability, its doesnt matter how visually appealing you might be..
i dont go there, to that possibility, until i've sorted out the other first,that may be unusual but that's compartmentalisation for you x
I have to say I agree with Suzy on this point. It doesn't matter how nice the arse, if your personality reveals you to be one I won't fancy you.
Which is why I said it's the integellgence e.g. Personality that grows (or perhaps embeds would be the better term) the attraction
It's the personality that is the attraction first and foremost for me. I've decided to meet people based on whether or not I fancy them mentally before I've even seen them. The visual has so far 100% cemented the attraction but it just isn't that important an element to me.
You see I've had occasions where I've chatted to some truely great people on here but when pics are exchanged later on I'm not sexually attracted to them regardless of how great we get on. I'd be curious to know if this as ever happened to you? (Of course you don't have to answer) "
Not yet. People have looked different to how I imagined and I've had to readjust my mental image but they are still the same person I found attractive so that overriding factor has always won the day. I'm never saying it won't happen, just that it hasn't happened yet. |
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"Whenever I've first saw/met soneone I've never gone "phwoar look at the intellengence on him" instead I think things like "cor he's got a nice arse".
If everyone's being honest the physical attributes get your attention first and getting to know them (so the intelligence can shine) is what grows the attractioni dont switch on the 'do i fancy' until i have a connection elsewhere..im not a visual person in the main...if no compatability, its doesnt matter how visually appealing you might be..
i dont go there, to that possibility, until i've sorted out the other first,that may be unusual but that's compartmentalisation for you x
I have to say I agree with Suzy on this point. It doesn't matter how nice the arse, if your personality reveals you to be one I won't fancy you.
Which is why I said it's the integellgence e.g. Personality that grows (or perhaps embeds would be the better term) the attraction
It's the personality that is the attraction first and foremost for me. I've decided to meet people based on whether or not I fancy them mentally before I've even seen them. The visual has so far 100% cemented the attraction but it just isn't that important an element to me.
You see I've had occasions where I've chatted to some truely great people on here but when pics are exchanged later on I'm not sexually attracted to them regardless of how great we get on. I'd be curious to know if this as ever happened to you? (Of course you don't have to answer)
Not yet. People have looked different to how I imagined and I've had to readjust my mental image but they are still the same person I found attractive so that overriding factor has always won the day. I'm never saying it won't happen, just that it hasn't happened yet."
And for me those people end up becoming really great friends that yes I think they're gorgeous based on their personality but I wouldn't sleep with them. |
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I like it when I'm told I smell nice. It's something I have more control over than my looks, my body or my brain. So it means a did a good job of something I actually tried to do.
It's also nice when I'm told I'm articulate or well spoken. |
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"I like compliments about my intelligence or that I'm a good person.
Though I will happily accept compliments about my hair and poetry. "
Hatter please.... you know what I want. I want the compliment you got.
Please tell us all again |
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"I like compliments about my intelligence or that I'm a good person.
Though I will happily accept compliments about my hair and poetry.
Hatter please.... you know what I want. I want the compliment you got.
Please tell us all again "
"You're funny, intelligent and non-rapey"
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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago
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"I'm much more likely to jump on a guy if he tells me I'm intelligent and funny. This whole "you're cute, you're hot" stuff just isn't that believable.
Weirdly, no guy tells me I'm clever or funny.
What's the compliment that would get you? "
OP, I love this post - you seem extremely intelligent and also show a large degree of humour |
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"I like compliments about my intelligence or that I'm a good person.
Though I will happily accept compliments about my hair and poetry.
Hatter please.... you know what I want. I want the compliment you got.
Please tell us all again
"You're funny, intelligent and non-rapey"
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"That I have a nice mouth and my eyes don't look as wonky as they do in pics
You look like you have smiley eyes with a mischievious twinkle. "
cheers they do have a twinkle but are also lopsided and one has a droop. I had surgery a couple of years ago to fix it, didn't work 
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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago
Hull |
Years ago, when engaged to be married, I once gave my fiancee a bunch of roses.
She counted them and said, "There's just 11 in here, have you been short-changed by the florist?" to which my reply was, "the 12th is YOU!" Melted her heart straight away!
PS. We broke up 6 wks before the wedding.
Nicest comment said to me these days is "you don't look your age, you look like you're in your 50's!"
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"I have found the most beautiful woman respond better to having the piss taken out of them and having a laugh instead of resorting to the old chat up lines. Humour and confidence always wins.
My favourite compliment...... I was recently complimented on my physique by a couple I swung with...... not bad taking into consideration the volume of food I have consumed the last few days
That's too much effort tbh. I rarely see anyone worth the effort."
Well you will go far ..... ish |
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My favourate compliment is when people compliment my kids and how well they have turned out, considering I've been single most of my life and was put into care as a child
honest that's really a compliment apparently |
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over a year ago
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"Omg that'll never fit..
But I always prove her wrong, I've always been good at packing the boot  "
That's the only time I've said that..boom boom!
I'm joking! He doesn't fit in my butt or throat he he. 
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When people say I'm funny, I always get a warm feeling inside. I spent a lot of years as a young adult being laughed at, not in a good way, so to hear it as a compliment, means a lot to me... |
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Mine is when I hear patients telling other folk I'm lovely girl and how helpful I am to them.that's always nice to hear because so many are quick to give out to us |
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