"any tips on meeting genuine people and spotting the fakes xxx"
From experience I'm weary of:
1.people who have been on here for longer than 6 months and no veris
2.talking to male half of "couple" where female just happens to always be busy
3. May come down to experience, but if you feel someone is wasting your time, go with your gut feelings |
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"Meet at a Club, if people are genuine they will turn up and you go from there. If they don't turn up you have a Club of people to get to know "
This is what we tend to do.
Otherwise arrange a social, somewhere mutually convenient. If it goes well you can move on to sex or arrange another meet.
Nita |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
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Check they are verified and look at the people who verified them , to ensure they are genuine too.
Phone them and chat to both on the phone.
Have a social meet first.
Go with your gut feeling.
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Clubs are a good place to start, there's no fakes or "no shows" in a club.
On here, you can reduce the risk by blocking unverified and new users.
From there, search and find people who you like the look of. Look at there verifications and send them a message.
Often the fakes will want to move the chat onto other platforms, and are keen on making the conversation sexual ( wank fodder)... something to be aware of.
Cal |
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"Clubs are a good place to start, there's no fakes or "no shows" in a club.
On here, you can reduce the risk by blocking unverified and new users.
From there, search and find people who you like the look of. Look at there verifications and send them a message.
See there was no dirty talk etc just general chit chat maybe got scared and chickened out ha
Often the fakes will want to move the chat onto other platforms, and are keen on making the conversation sexual ( wank fodder)... something to be aware of.
Cal"
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over a year ago
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"Why have we got three posts about this
I wrote a second one because first was in capitals and offended some so I'm been polite and re wrote it without coming across as offensive "
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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Always have a plan B if someone stands you up. If you're travelling and booking into a hotel check out the area for local clubs. Also use the 'who's near' function on your phone for last minute meets.
The main thing is, though, don't put yourself in a position where you'll be out of pocket or stranded if someone doesn't turn up. |
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"Always have a plan B if someone stands you up. If you're travelling and booking into a hotel check out the area for local clubs. Also use the 'who's near' function on your phone for last minute meets.
The main thing is, though, don't put yourself in a position where you'll be out of pocket or stranded if someone doesn't turn up."
Thank you oh we had a good night anyway we don't get away much so made the most of it ha ha even if the hotel receptionist was ringing our room at 2.30am to say there have been noise complaints he he |
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"Clubs are a good place to start, there's no fakes or "no shows" in a club.
On here, you can reduce the risk by blocking unverified and new users.
From there, search and find people who you like the look of. Look at there verifications and send them a message.
Thankyou I have changed my settings and blocked newbies etc guess it's all about learning ha ha xx
Often the fakes will want to move the chat onto other platforms, and are keen on making the conversation sexual ( wank fodder)... something to be aware of.
Cal"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Meet at a Club, if people are genuine they will turn up and you go from there. If they don't turn up you have a Club of people to get to know "
This response should be some sort of pinned post every time someone asks how to meet genuine people.  |
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