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So you see a smoking hot seductive sex goddess on fab and construct a well thought out complementary alluring message and she doesn't even bloody read it? Do you send another? Don't want to be pushy but do want her naked!
Or she replies with a positive response but misses my reply. Tough to woo a lady without two way traffic.
No problem with rejection everybody is attracted to different things. That's absolutely fine. Is my message just lost in the sea or what?
I get that fab is a total sausage fest and the ladies must be inundated by charming well written messages from distinguished gentleman. I've a rule to never send more than 3 unread.
Maybe a snazzy headline would capture the attention! Tips?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My tip would be to chat in the forum threads and let people see your personality, views etc.
Although I would highly recommend not posting a whinge about ladies not reading messages when they're totally within their rights not to read them. That might give the wrong impression.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So you see a smoking hot seductive sex goddess on fab and construct a well thought out complementary alluring message and she doesn't even bloody read it? Do you send another? Don't want to be pushy but do want her naked!
Or she replies with a positive response but misses my reply. Tough to woo a lady without two way traffic.
No problem with rejection everybody is attracted to different things. That's absolutely fine. Is my message just lost in the sea or what?
I get that fab is a total sausage fest and the ladies must be inundated by charming well written messages from distinguished gentleman. I've a rule to never send more than 3 unread.
Maybe a snazzy headline would capture the attention! Tips??"
probably a mixture tbh..
don't ever send a follow up as some women see that as badgering and you might end up with a block..
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By (user no longer on site)
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Never chase and certainly never sending abusive messages. the chances are she is inundated with messages and doesn't have the time or desire to apply any sort of quality control outside of the filter process.
As suggested get involved in the forums and social side of the site and offline world and things will flow from there |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've always found that if I reply and say 'no thank you' or something along those lines- I get a torrent of abuse. Either I'm called a fake, a time waster or stuck up. It's easier not to respond and a second or third attempt, if I had read original, would likely end in a block. I save messages from people I may get back to these days. Very rarely would I delete a message without reading |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So you see a smoking hot seductive sex goddess on fab
But do you read her profile and not message if you're not going to be her type?"
But she was hot, she was seductive, and she was on fab... reading profiles is not required, she was smoking hot...
OP don't stop at 3 keep messaging every 3 minutes until she gives in and blocks you  |
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"I opened a message once with the headline 'free wine'. Unfortunately the message itself was crap. There was no free wine either. Click bait.  "
Haha! Free wine! That's genius! I'm definitely stealing that.
Guess I'll have to stock up on fine wine as I'm a man of my word! |
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"I opened a message once with the headline 'free wine'. Unfortunately the message itself was crap. There was no free wine either. Click bait.
Haha! Free wine! That's genius! I'm definitely stealing that.
Guess I'll have to stock up on fine wine as I'm a man of my word!"
It says free wine, not necessarily fine wine |
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It can be very hard to make a connection by sending messages. We tried that at first and it was very disheartening. So we decided to chat on the forums and to go to events instead.
It is easier when people come to you |
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It's happened to me before and is happening right now actually. Been messaging a guy. Getting on great. Arranging to meet. Then he has not read my last message. Gone from messages every day or so to nothing. Very odd. Makes me paranoid that i said something weird or something.
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"So you see a smoking hot seductive sex goddess on fab and construct a well thought out complementary alluring message and she doesn't even bloody read it? Do you send another? Don't want to be pushy but do want her naked!
Or she replies with a positive response but misses my reply. Tough to woo a lady without two way traffic.
No problem with rejection everybody is attracted to different things. That's absolutely fine. Is my message just lost in the sea or what?
I get that fab is a total sausage fest and the ladies must be inundated by charming well written messages from distinguished gentleman. I've a rule to never send more than 3 unread.
Maybe a snazzy headline would capture the attention! Tips??"
Lower your expectations/standards? |
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"So you see a smoking hot seductive sex goddess on fab "
Along with the other 500 guys and not forgetting the couples with the bi-fem's on fab too. so you gotta imagine that the smoking hot seductive sex goddess's inbox is probably pretty full.
Part and parcel of fab with regards to the ratio's between single females and everyone else. |
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"So you see a smoking hot seductive sex goddess on fab and construct a well thought out complementary alluring message and she doesn't even bloody read it? Do you send another? Don't want to be pushy but do want her naked!
Or she replies with a positive response but misses my reply. Tough to woo a lady without two way traffic.
No problem with rejection everybody is attracted to different things. That's absolutely fine. Is my message just lost in the sea or what?
I get that fab is a total sausage fest and the ladies must be inundated by charming well written messages from distinguished gentleman. I've a rule to never send more than 3 unread.
Maybe a snazzy headline would capture the attention! Tips??
Lower your expectations/standards?"
I wouldn't lower my standards. I took one for the team once. Big regret. Made me feel all icky for ages after. |
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over a year ago
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"Or she replies with a positive response but misses my reply. Tough to woo a lady without two way traffic."
They maybe busy talking to others, probably a smoking hot guy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Or she replies with a positive response but misses my reply. Tough to woo a lady without two way traffic.
They maybe busy talking to others, probably a smoking hot guy. "
What if they don't meet smokers?  |
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"Or she replies with a positive response but misses my reply. Tough to woo a lady without two way traffic.
They maybe busy talking to others, probably a smoking hot guy.
What if they don't meet smokers? "
That's fussy, you wouldn't want to meet someone who's picky anyway op
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My tip would be to chat in the forum threads and let people see your personality, views etc.
Although I would highly recommend not posting a whinge about ladies not reading messages when they're totally within their rights not to read them. That might give the wrong impression.
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Yes! Forums are the best way to get noticed and make contacts. You get a good feel for people when you see how they post. |
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"So you see a smoking hot seductive sex goddess on fab and construct a well thought out complementary alluring message and she doesn't even bloody read it? Do you send another? Don't want to be pushy but do want her naked!
Or she replies with a positive response but misses my reply. Tough to woo a lady without two way traffic.
No problem with rejection everybody is attracted to different things. That's absolutely fine. Is my message just lost in the sea or what?
I get that fab is a total sausage fest and the ladies must be inundated by charming well written messages from distinguished gentleman. I've a rule to never send more than 3 unread.
Maybe a snazzy headline would capture the attention! Tips??"
I don't bother sending messages, my awesome profile and gusset wetting gallery do all the work for me.
Let the biatches come to me.
They want it, I know they want it, they know I know they want it.
Easy win.....
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By (user no longer on site)
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The message system is difficult to use. If she gets loads of mail she may never see yours as it may have been pushed off the page by other mail.
A snazzy subject line helps I think. "hi" just gets lost in a yellow sea of hi hi hi hi hi hi hi
A snazzy profile pic helps too. As in bright colours or different. Another way to make it easier to spot a mail from that person in a sea of silhouettes and cock pics.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ignore your sent box. You'll be a lot happier."
totally agree there. I have 150 unread messages cos I don't want to just delete without reading them but don't want to read them either cos they will expect a reply and it will be never ending.
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By *aroleBaskinWoman
over a year ago
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"What gets me is when I send a polite rejection to a serious message and say 'no need to respond' ... and they do  "
Or when you send a polite no thanks message and then they message back to tell you they'd rather you'd just deleted.... |
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