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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Easy I hope. It's something we do together and if one of us wanted to stop then the other would respect their wishes. neither of us has any wish to fly solo and its something we agreed on when we started..'One out all out'  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"to stop swinging, if your partner said they didn't want to do it anymore? "
It wouldn’t be difficult as our relationship is far more important to us than swinging.
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"Easy I hope. It's something we do together and if one of us wanted to stop then the other would respect their wishes. neither of us has any wish to fly solo and its something we agreed on when we started..'One out all out' "
saved me typing it.. lol its the same here we do it together or not at all..
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Well its not difficult. If we dont both want it anymore it would detract from our relationship not add to it. So, would stop. Whether we would miss some aspects of it... thats another matter. Think I would miss the social aspect the most.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If one of us decided to stop we both would, never be thinking what we are missing we are a loving couple so have great fun anyway.
Having other peeps join us is a fantasy thing, not a love thing hench nolove8.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"to stop swinging, if your partner said they didn't want to do it anymore? "
Really easy... I do it for our enjoyment... not mine.. its something that is together or not at all.. I certainly don't need the sex with others.. its never as exciting or as good as with master.. It's just fun and extras.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It would be the easiset thing in the world to do.
We do this together and if either one of us wants to stop, we both stop and it's as simple as that"
+1... well 2 actually (both of us lol). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Very easy!
I met my OH on another swinging site four years ago. I'm the only person he's ever met or played with.
During that time I've gone on to meet other men and he's never said stop, I don't like it, or what do you get up to, but I could tell he wasn't happy about it.
We sat down and talked about it honestly and he said it made him feel inadequate. It made me realise that I had all I wanted in front of me: a very close friend, someone I spoke to several times a day every day, an attentive lover and a playmate that was a willing particpant in my very kinky side - I didn't need others, so gave it up! |
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By *umourCouple
over a year ago
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Very nicely put Sassy, although not a complete break... Read on... x
Yes, no doubt that we could stop swinging, but give it up? I would bet that there would still be visits to sites like this. I'll also bet that when you sit indoors on a Saturday evening and think what dross is on the telly... Or when you are down the pub with vanilla friends, There would be some "what could we be doing now?" Looking at others and thinking "I wonder?" Catching the eye of a young chap or chapess and thinking....
Yeah I know I would find it difficult, just like I would find it difficult giving up my guitar if she asked me to and many other things I like to do.
Although either one of us would give up the physical side of swinging for the other, we both agree that the virtual side would still have a pull and although we would do it, I can't pretend for the sake of looking good that it would be easy! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Due to either baby making or baby making recovery, we haven't swung with anyone for three years. Although I've been on here almost daily in all that time.
I would class myself as a swinger at heart - it is what I am. Siren doesn't identify with it so much but she does find the occassional meet & play a huge turn on (when she isn't knackered). Will we ever get back to swinging? Probably but probably not for a good long while. |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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No partner here but I think some will struggle.
A lot won't because they are genuine in their approach it is for them BOTH.
Nice to read the above comments.
Saying that, some single will if they ever establish relationships giving it up if their new partner doesn't. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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the physical side of it without a doubt it would be easy to give up but i think the habit of using this and similar sites would be much harder
it becomes very habitual logging on whenever we open up the lappy and i have a few friends that have quit swinging but use the sites still socially so maybe we would do that but if either wanted to cut all ties it would be done but not as easy as quiting the physical side |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Very nicely put Sassy, although not a complete break... Read on... x
Yes, no doubt that we could stop swinging, but give it up? I would bet that there would still be visits to sites like this. I'll also bet that when you sit indoors on a Saturday evening and think what dross is on the telly... Or when you are down the pub with vanilla friends, There would be some "what could we be doing now?" Looking at others and thinking "I wonder?" Catching the eye of a young chap or chapess and thinking....
Yeah I know I would find it difficult, just like I would find it difficult giving up my guitar if she asked me to and many other things I like to do.
Although either one of us would give up the physical side of swinging for the other, we both agree that the virtual side would still have a pull and although we would do it, I can't pretend for the sake of looking good that it would be easy!"
I'm with you on the virtual pull. I'm on here most days for the forums and I do chat with people and flirt with many a young and young at heart men.
Would I want to stop that side: no, I wouldn't.  |
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