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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Or do messages that read "what are you into" bore other people?
I find my eyes rolling (and not in a good way) when I see this.
I know that over time any potential meet will have an idea of what I'm into but that comes from conversation, lots of messages even phone calls.
I don't want to write a shopping list at any other times |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Or do messages that read "what are you into" bore other people?
I find my eyes rolling (and not in a good way) when I see this.
I know that over time any potential meet will have an idea of what I'm into but that comes from conversation, lots of messages even phone calls.
I don't want to write a shopping list at any other times "
Drives me bonkers especially when you write the "list" and think, shit, I'm not as naughty as I thought! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Err I like the great outdoors, sailing, bike riding and the other stuff.
I didn't think sex was a sport..just take your clothes off and interact...it's fairly obv5 when they knee you in the balls you've done something unpleasant for them  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Or do messages that read "what are you into" bore other people?
I find my eyes rolling (and not in a good way) when I see this.
I know that over time any potential meet will have an idea of what I'm into but that comes from conversation, lots of messages even phone calls.
I don't want to write a shopping list at any other times "
Tell me about it, I just say oh the normal stuff. I have our interests listed, if we want different we'd ask. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Or do messages that read "what are you into" bore other people?
I find my eyes rolling (and not in a good way) when I see this.
I know that over time any potential meet will have an idea of what I'm into but that comes from conversation, lots of messages even phone calls.
I don't want to write a shopping list at any other times "
some people just dont have great conversational skills oh and just want to get straight to sex suppose sometimes you've just got to see beyond the occasional daft question |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
If anything I will actually ask the opposite (i.e. what are you NOT into) and even then only once we've progressed as far as talking about a meet and to be sure I'm aware of any boundaries before that meet.
Would much prefer a meet that is fluid, where you find out unconciously what makes each other tick, without having a shopping list of things to tick off during that meet.
If there's something they particularly like and they choose to tell me beforehand that's slightly different. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I guess maybe it cuts to the chase quicker. What works for some won't for others. "
true we are all different and moods come into the equation too oh and if profile pics amazing that could sway you to
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" Err I like the great outdoors, sailing, bike riding and the other stuff.
I didn't think sex was a sport..just take your clothes off and interact...it's fairly obv5 when they knee you in the balls you've done something unpleasant for them "
Depends what you're into ha;)
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I don't mind that question. I tend to ignore it.
