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had another one last nite .total waste of time ..luckily i was dressed anyway
just recently any meets i have seemed to have been somewhat disappointing .
maybe its time to get a normal hobby.
ever feel like giving up on here ?
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over a year ago
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Yet another? What due diligence / ground work are you putting in before meeting people?
One or two bad meets I can understand. Shit happens. But if it seems to be a recurrent theme then I guess there's only one common factor in all of them ... |
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Your mother didn't raise a quitter did she ?No she didn't so suck it up(excuse the pun)and put your big boy/girl pants on.we all have shit meets I recently went on one where it was more of an interrogation than a relaxed chat hence to say it went no further but I have a meet lined up that will eclipse the memory of it so there's always a bright spell round the corner |
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"Your selection process needs refining. id disagree if its just the sex that is bad as you can't tell that till you meet. "
Yeah I find it annoying when people say thing's like that,as if to say well it's your own fault you had a crap meet! |
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"Your selection process needs refining. id disagree if its just the sex that is bad as you can't tell that till you meet.
Yeah I find it annoying when people say thing's like that,as if to say well it's your own fault you had a crap meet!"
you can chat swap pics to what you think will be the best meet and it can turn sour 
i would look on all meets as totally crap then on the meet if its good, it becomes a bonus |
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"had another one last nite .total waste of time ..luckily i was dressed anyway
just recently any meets i have seemed to have been somewhat disappointing .
maybe its time to get a normal hobby.
ever feel like giving up on here ?
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Long long ago. |
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"Your selection process needs refining. id disagree if its just the sex that is bad as you can't tell that till you meet.
Yeah I find it annoying when people say thing's like that,as if to say well it's your own fault you had a crap meet!
you can chat swap pics to what you think will be the best meet and it can turn sour
i would look on all meets as totally crap then on the meet if its good, it becomes a bonus"
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"had another one last nite .total waste of time ..luckily i was dressed anyway
just recently any meets i have seemed to have been somewhat disappointing .
maybe its time to get a normal hobby.
ever feel like giving up on here ?
Long long ago. "
Still here though ..   |
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"How much communication went on prior to meets op was it just pop round andlets fuck or did u do lots of prep"
lots of prep !
i just wanted a quickie... he'd been asking to meet 4 ages .. he just happened to ask me at the right moment and i said yes .. he was like a frightened rabbit sat on the edge of the bed
i dont spend ages chatting as most are full of shit and fail to show up anyway ..its more about catching me when im dressed and horny .. which isnt that often |
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"Your selection process needs refining. id disagree if its just the sex that is bad as you can't tell that till you meet.
Yeah I find it annoying when people say thing's like that,as if to say well it's your own fault you had a crap meet!"
Maybe it is?
Once or twice I can understand.
For it to *keep* happening at what point do you start to take some personal responsibility?
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"Your selection process needs refining. id disagree if its just the sex that is bad as you can't tell that till you meet.
Yeah I find it annoying when people say thing's like that,as if to say well it's your own fault you had a crap meet!
Maybe it is?
Once or twice I can understand.
For it to *keep* happening at what point do you start to take some personal responsibility?
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Perhaps Bournemouth just has it's fair share of dickhead's I don't know. |
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"Your selection process needs refining. id disagree if its just the sex that is bad as you can't tell that till you meet.
Yeah I find it annoying when people say thing's like that,as if to say well it's your own fault you had a crap meet!
Maybe it is?
Once or twice I can understand.
For it to *keep* happening at what point do you start to take some personal responsibility?
Perhaps Bournemouth just has it's fair share of dickhead's I don't know."
It takes two to tango doesn't it? Why is it always "the other guys fault"? |
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"Your selection process needs refining. id disagree if its just the sex that is bad as you can't tell that till you meet.
Yeah I find it annoying when people say thing's like that,as if to say well it's your own fault you had a crap meet!
Maybe it is?
Once or twice I can understand.
For it to *keep* happening at what point do you start to take some personal responsibility?
Perhaps Bournemouth just has it's fair share of dickhead's I don't know.
It takes two to tango doesn't it? Why is it always "the other guys fault"?"
feel free to put the boot in |
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"Your selection process needs refining. id disagree if its just the sex that is bad as you can't tell that till you meet.
Yeah I find it annoying when people say thing's like that,as if to say well it's your own fault you had a crap meet!
Maybe it is?
Once or twice I can understand.
For it to *keep* happening at what point do you start to take some personal responsibility?
Perhaps Bournemouth just has it's fair share of dickhead's I don't know.
It takes two to tango doesn't it? Why is it always "the other guys fault"?"
Because the op's wearing a skirt that automatically make's it the other guy's fault. Women are alway's in the right!  |
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"How much communication went on prior to meets op was it just pop round andlets fuck or did u do lots of prep
lots of prep !
i just wanted a quickie... he'd been asking to meet 4 ages .. he just happened to ask me at the right moment and i said yes .. he was like a frightened rabbit sat on the edge of the bed
i dont spend ages chatting as most are full of shit and fail to show up anyway ..its more about catching me when im dressed and horny .. which isnt that often "
perhaps the guy found you a little intimidating (not necessarily through any fault of yours). This may have been his first meeting with a woman like you (a bit of a niche interest) and the exciting fantasy may have overwhelmed him when it became reality.Did you try to put him at his ease?
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"How much communication went on prior to meets op was it just pop round andlets fuck or did u do lots of prep
lots of prep !
i just wanted a quickie... he'd been asking to meet 4 ages .. he just happened to ask me at the right moment and i said yes .. he was like a frightened rabbit sat on the edge of the bed
i dont spend ages chatting as most are full of shit and fail to show up anyway ..its more about catching me when im dressed and horny .. which isnt that often "
then obviously he didn't get that vibe u get when meeting someone for first time op not your fault it happens I had it happen other night lots of chatting flirting and pic exchanging got to hers quick chat and she said sorry u better leave I'm not feeling it |
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"How much communication went on prior to meets op was it just pop round andlets fuck or did u do lots of prep
lots of prep !
i just wanted a quickie... he'd been asking to meet 4 ages .. he just happened to ask me at the right moment and i said yes .. he was like a frightened rabbit sat on the edge of the bed
i dont spend ages chatting as most are full of shit and fail to show up anyway ..its more about catching me when im dressed and horny .. which isnt that often
perhaps the guy found you a little intimidating (not necessarily through any fault of yours). This may have been his first meeting with a woman like you (a bit of a niche interest) and the exciting fantasy may have overwhelmed him when it became reality.Did you try to put him at his ease?
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this maybe he is in denial op it happens |
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I wouldn't let one frightened bunny put you off ... as they say shit happens... its kinda like when you see a trailer for a movie and think gotta watch that... then 2hrs later your leaving the cinema thinking wtf was that |
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"Did you get him on web cam for a flirt before the meet I do find that helps.
i do not do cam in case i put them off "
I am sure it would not .They would be gagging for it .. you see. Have a go .. |
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"Did you get him on web cam for a flirt before the meet I do find that helps.
i do not do cam in case i put them off I am sure it would not .They would be gagging for it .. you see. Have a go .. "
looking at your pics I'm gagging for it lol |
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"How much communication went on prior to meets op was it just pop round andlets fuck or did u do lots of prep
lots of prep !
i just wanted a quickie... he'd been asking to meet 4 ages .. he just happened to ask me at the right moment and i said yes .. he was like a frightened rabbit sat on the edge of the bed
i dont spend ages chatting as most are full of shit and fail to show up anyway ..its more about catching me when im dressed and horny .. which isnt that often "
the poor feller what did you do to put him at ease there he is a poor frightened rabbit sitting on the edge of the bed next to a predatory wolf |
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i had a meet once
he was nervous, so was I
he says not for me this..
i replied fuck you, get on that bed now, ive not spent 2 hours getting ready for fuck all
now on the bed
it worked out well we fucked for 3 hours and he thanked me for it |
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"had another one last nite .total waste of time ..luckily i was dressed anyway
just recently any meets i have seemed to have been somewhat disappointing .
maybe its time to get a normal hobby.
ever feel like giving up on here ?
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There is a common element to these meets. |
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