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over a year ago
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"A mix of both.
See a friendly caring sweet but naughty personality turns me on more than looks alone"
I did say both.
IF you were by personality alone surely you'd be at least bi-curious? |
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"A mix of both.
See a friendly caring sweet but naughty personality turns me on more than looks alone
I did say both.
IF you were by personality alone surely you'd be at least bi-curious?"
That's an interesting point but no. I like the female bits not men's bits  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes I go with there personality and how much they make me laugh
Actually I should have included sense of humour in my statement!"
Sense of humour ...personality  |
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"I am being truly honest when I say that I can fancy someone based on their personality and not their looks.
Anyone else feel like this?
Very mutch agree  "
Shame most of the ladies I chat to don't lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am being truly honest when I say that I can fancy someone based on their personality and not their looks.
Anyone else feel like this?
Very mutch agree
Shame most of the ladies I chat to don't lol"
Perhaps the begging for them to sit on your face in a pleading tone isn't working to get them interested in you |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am being truly honest when I say that I can fancy someone based on their personality and not their looks.
Anyone else feel like this? "
A bit of both is ideal. No amount of goods looks makes up for a lack of personality. |
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"I am being truly honest when I say that I can fancy someone based on their personality and not their looks.
Anyone else feel like this?
A bit of both is ideal. No amount of goods looks makes up for a lack of personality."
I like conversation too |
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"I am being truly honest when I say that I can fancy someone based on their personality and not their looks.
Anyone else feel like this?
Very mutch agree
Shame most of the ladies I chat to don't lol
Perhaps the begging for them to sit on your face in a pleading tone isn't working to get them interested in you"
I have a sense of humour, that's all lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personality draws us in each and every time. Pics can make or break after but if the zing and twinkle is there its always good to have that social and see if it leads anywhere. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me if I'm looking to meet someone for a one off meet then initial attraction is bound to be physical. However I love to laugh and if a guy is a good man than makes me laugh it really changes the initial physical attraction to something deeper than what's on the outside x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its a mix really. Obviously there has to be attraction, but you do have to feel OK with the person you are going to be with I think I'm coming down on the side of personality really. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends on the intention and purpose of the attraction. Friendships are born out of personalities and not necessarily physical traits. I think if it's to be intimate and physical then both are key. Some on here said if it's one offs meets then personality plays a lesser part but if you get both right then it makes for an explosive meet and experience. Who knows those may not be just one offs. |
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"I have to be initially attracted to someone. But their personality is what gets me interested in meeting. So for me, a mix of both  "
You have the most incredibly sparkling beautiful personality. I have always thought that x |
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"Looks most important for me. If I'm not attracted to them it doesn't matter how good their personality is, I won't be meeting them. "
But is personality important in any way? Are you ok fucking a really good looking guy even if he has no personality? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Looks most important for me. If I'm not attracted to them it doesn't matter how good their personality is, I won't be meeting them.
But is personality important in any way? Are you ok fucking a really good looking guy even if he has no personality?"
I didn't say they have to be good looking, I just said *I* have to be attracted to him or her. I find some people attractive, and some not.
If I'm attracted to their looks but not their personality then I won't be meeting them anyway, no. |
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"Looks most important for me. If I'm not attracted to them it doesn't matter how good their personality is, I won't be meeting them.
But is personality important in any way? Are you ok fucking a really good looking guy even if he has no personality?
I didn't say they have to be good looking, I just said *I* have to be attracted to him or her. I find some people attractive, and some not.
If I'm attracted to their looks but not their personality then I won't be meeting them anyway, no. "
You said "looks most important" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It is a balance between the two on here; I am attracted to personality and character however there has to be a physical attraction as well for me to meet and play. |
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"Being totally honest it's got to be looks,.... i know it sounds shallow but if we are gonna shag someone they have got to be attractive "
It's your choice, at least your honest about it and honesty is good. But some woman (and men) are shallow. If I mention my financial situation and then suddenly a lady is interested I am then very wary of there motives |
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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago
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Always personality and voices. I like to be blindfolded in the bedroom, and even if I don't I'll close my eyes as it heightens the whole experience for me. So some of my partners have quite frankly baffled my friends and other half but for me, it's all about the force of their personality and the way they talk to me that gets me going.
Though a cute bum and nice shoulders never hurt me any |
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"Always personality and voices. I like to be blindfolded in the bedroom, and even if I don't I'll close my eyes as it heightens the whole experience for me. So some of my partners have quite frankly baffled my friends and other half but for me, it's all about the force of their personality and the way they talk to me that gets me going.
Though a cute bum and nice shoulders never hurt me any "
I loved our chats before but now I seem to be out of your age range  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On here, looks first.
As said on the "other thread". Physical attraction is paramount.
Then comes the personality bit. I've chatted here to really hot guys who have no personality and rely on looks to get meets, not for me!
If we meet and get on on a basic level, then comes the next bit.... The mutual sexual pleasure. If the sex is very good, we meet again. If the sex is crap, he'll be a one off! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personality plays a big part in how attractive I find people. Fancy their mind, and the body and face follows "
This for me. And hopefully vice Versa x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On here the face will catch my eye, the personality will decide if I want to meet them, or not. In person the face will catch my eye, how they walk, talk and what they say will decide if they are for me, or not.
And the shoes make a difference. |
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"I am being truly honest when I say that I can fancy someone based on their personality and not their looks.
Anyone else feel like this? "
Yep!
In my job, I work around some very good looking people, but I don't mind many of them attractive.
If someone can make me smile, laugh & I'm happy in their company, thars always a winner |
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"I am being truly honest when I say that I can fancy someone based on their personality and not their looks.
Anyone else feel like this?
Yep!
In my job, I work around some very good looking people, but I don't mind many of them attractive.
If someone can make me smile, laugh & I'm happy in their company, thars always a winner "
It's truly refreshing when someone has this view xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd say that perfectly normal but in this world of online dating/shagging you only have the looks from a few photos option. Being in a persons company provides so much more than a visual inspection. A persons mannerisms, smell, a look they give, their general persona etc etc all adds to what makes us fancy people. Most of it is lost online. Sadly for me, I'm the type of guy that grows on you when you get to know them and become more fanciable than a photo of my face would suggest. |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
"I am being truly honest when I say that I can fancy someone based on their personality and not their looks.
Anyone else feel like this? "
Yes. On a site like this there is obviously a visual component at first, especially when my filters are on and I am the one doing the first messaging (and I would be an idiot to say that isn't a factor) but a profile or decent message exchange will pique my interest far more than a pretty face. Once I like someone I find them attractive, regardless of what they look like. It's why I don't have a visual 'type. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Reeding throw the thread and seeing how meney meet on just looks alown is a bit depressing.....
I'm leaving this thread .......
*walks off to find a mor jolly thread*
I agree, it's sad"
Why is it sad? I'm not a charity shag.
I fuck people I'm attracted to.
Do you fuck women no matter what they look like?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am being truly honest when I say that I can fancy someone based on their personality and not their looks.
Anyone else feel like this? "
I'd say my personality and good sense of humour are better than my looks so I hope people go for that more... |
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"I am being truly honest when I say that I can fancy someone based on their personality and not their looks.
Anyone else feel like this?
Yes. On a site like this there is obviously a visual component at first, especially when my filters are on and I am the one doing the first messaging (and I would be an idiot to say that isn't a factor) but a profile or decent message exchange will pique my interest far more than a pretty face. Once I like someone I find them attractive, regardless of what they look like. It's why I don't have a visual 'type. "
thats exactly my views as well |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am being truly honest when I say that I can fancy someone based on their personality and not their looks.
Anyone else feel like this?
Yes. On a site like this there is obviously a visual component at first, especially when my filters are on and I am the one doing the first messaging (and I would be an idiot to say that isn't a factor) but a profile or decent message exchange will pique my interest far more than a pretty face. Once I like someone I find them attractive, regardless of what they look like. It's why I don't have a visual 'type. "
There's hope for me yet then  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am being truly honest when I say that I can fancy someone based on their personality and not their looks.
Anyone else feel like this?
Yes. On a site like this there is obviously a visual component at first, especially when my filters are on and I am the one doing the first messaging (and I would be an idiot to say that isn't a factor) but a profile or decent message exchange will pique my interest far more than a pretty face. Once I like someone I find them attractive, regardless of what they look like. It's why I don't have a visual 'type.
There's hope for me yet then "
Shushhh you! You're a good looking guy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am being truly honest when I say that I can fancy someone based on their personality and not their looks.
Anyone else feel like this?
Yes. On a site like this there is obviously a visual component at first, especially when my filters are on and I am the one doing the first messaging (and I would be an idiot to say that isn't a factor) but a profile or decent message exchange will pique my interest far more than a pretty face. Once I like someone I find them attractive, regardless of what they look like. It's why I don't have a visual 'type.
There's hope for me yet then
Shushhh you! You're a good looking guy
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You havnt seen the boat race have you?  |
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By *eesideMan
over a year ago
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"Reeding throw the thread and seeing how meney meet on just looks alown is a bit depressing.....
I'm leaving this thread .......
*walks off to find a mor jolly thread*
I agree, it's sad
Why is it sad? I'm not a charity shag.
I fuck people I'm attracted to.
Do you fuck women no matter what they look like? "
I don't think its quit that.......
I think wot op ment is thar is a lot of people Hoo woodount even consider meeting sumone els simple on thar looks so won't even try to get to no them....
So dispite thay cood be the best pursoun you ever meet cos of looks thay just get over looked with no atempet to get to no them......
This make sense ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sorry guys total disagree here! If you met someone in a bar that was ugly, I doubt you would talk to them to realise the personality could win you over!
Most people are shallow and rely on looks first then personality.
My thoughts anyway! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sorry guys total disagree here! If you met someone in a bar that was ugly, I doubt you would talk to them to realise the personality could win you over!
Most people are shallow and rely on looks first then personality.
My thoughts anyway!"
I'd agree with that in a bar say or night out but people can get more attractive as you get to know them which suggests it is their personality that wins you over in time. Also people can get less attractive too as you get to know them. |
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"Reeding throw the thread and seeing how meney meet on just looks alown is a bit depressing.....
I'm leaving this thread .......
*walks off to find a mor jolly thread*
I agree, it's sad
Why is it sad? I'm not a charity shag.
I fuck people I'm attracted to.
Do you fuck women no matter what they look like? "
I get to know people, if I like them and we are sexually compactable then we play. But compactable isn't about looks in my view |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Reeding throw the thread and seeing how meney meet on just looks alown is a bit depressing.....
I'm leaving this thread .......
*walks off to find a mor jolly thread*
I agree, it's sad
Why is it sad? I'm not a charity shag.
I fuck people I'm attracted to.
Do you fuck women no matter what they look like?
I get to know people, if I like them and we are sexually compactable then we play. But compactable isn't about looks in my view"
I also like someone I can squish into a box |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Reeding throw the thread and seeing how meney meet on just looks alown is a bit depressing.....
I'm leaving this thread .......
*walks off to find a mor jolly thread*
I agree, it's sad"
I'm confused by this. I would have thought that a mix was a given. The fact that everybody has different idea of what they find physically attractive is what gets people meeting. There is no ideal look that every single person goes for, so we all have a chance to meet. Personality is equally important to me. I also find that my attraction to somebody can grow as I get to know them more. If I find someone very unattractive and have no sexual desire for someone, so choose not to have sex with them. How is that sad?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I guess I'm one of those "up their own arse" women then as I don't find personalities alone make me fancy a person. If I'm not attracted to a guy physically then we'll only ever be mates. If I find a guy physically attractive but no personality. ..well. ..that's what gags were invented for  |
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"Reeding throw the thread and seeing how meney meet on just looks alown is a bit depressing.....
I'm leaving this thread .......
*walks off to find a mor jolly thread*
I agree, it's sad
I'm confused by this. I would have thought that a mix was a given. The fact that everybody has different idea of what they find physically attractive is what gets people meeting. There is no ideal look that every single person goes for, so we all have a chance to meet. Personality is equally important to me. I also find that my attraction to somebody can grow as I get to know them more. If I find someone very unattractive and have no sexual desire for someone, so choose not to have sex with them. How is that sad? "
I think it's sad the amount of women that judge men on there looks alone compared to men who are attracted by personality. And also the amount of times a conversation ends instantly when a man sends a face pic. No further messages at all even tho your may have been chatting for hours or even days |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Call it shallow, up our own arse, sad, whatever...but we're here to fulfill fantasies of sexual interaction with others. That interaction requires us to have certain level of attraction that is purely physical. No amount of personality can overcome looks we don't find desirable for the purposes of shagging. We're not here to form meaningful relationships/friendships where personality would be of more importance. |
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"Call it shallow, up our own arse, sad, whatever...but we're here to fulfill fantasies of sexual interaction with others. That interaction requires us to have certain level of attraction that is purely physical. No amount of personality can overcome looks we don't find desirable for the purposes of shagging. We're not here to form meaningful relationships/friendships where personality would be of more importance. "
Loooooool |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Reeding throw the thread and seeing how meney meet on just looks alown is a bit depressing.....
I'm leaving this thread .......
*walks off to find a mor jolly thread*
I agree, it's sad
I'm confused by this. I would have thought that a mix was a given. The fact that everybody has different idea of what they find physically attractive is what gets people meeting. There is no ideal look that every single person goes for, so we all have a chance to meet. Personality is equally important to me. I also find that my attraction to somebody can grow as I get to know them more. If I find someone very unattractive and have no sexual desire for someone, so choose not to have sex with them. How is that sad?
I think it's sad the amount of women that judge men on there looks alone compared to men who are attracted by personality. And also the amount of times a conversation ends instantly when a man sends a face pic. No further messages at all even tho your may have been chatting for hours or even days "
I would want to meet someone who was sexually attracted to me as well as liked my personality. I'd want to feel desired as well as liked. But that's just me |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"Reeding throw the thread and seeing how meney meet on just looks alown is a bit depressing.....
I'm leaving this thread .......
*walks off to find a mor jolly thread*
I agree, it's sad
I'm confused by this. I would have thought that a mix was a given. The fact that everybody has different idea of what they find physically attractive is what gets people meeting. There is no ideal look that every single person goes for, so we all have a chance to meet. Personality is equally important to me. I also find that my attraction to somebody can grow as I get to know them more. If I find someone very unattractive and have no sexual desire for someone, so choose not to have sex with them. How is that sad?
I think it's sad the amount of women that judge men on there looks alone compared to men who are attracted by personality. And also the amount of times a conversation ends instantly when a man sends a face pic. No further messages at all even tho your may have been chatting for hours or even days "
I would understand and agree with your views if I was looking for a long term partner, but this site isn't for that, attraction does come into it, I honestly don't know why on a site like this you think it is shallow |
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"Reeding throw the thread and seeing how meney meet on just looks alown is a bit depressing.....
I'm leaving this thread .......
*walks off to find a mor jolly thread*
I agree, it's sad
I'm confused by this. I would have thought that a mix was a given. The fact that everybody has different idea of what they find physically attractive is what gets people meeting. There is no ideal look that every single person goes for, so we all have a chance to meet. Personality is equally important to me. I also find that my attraction to somebody can grow as I get to know them more. If I find someone very unattractive and have no sexual desire for someone, so choose not to have sex with them. How is that sad?
I think it's sad the amount of women that judge men on there looks alone compared to men who are attracted by personality. And also the amount of times a conversation ends instantly when a man sends a face pic. No further messages at all even tho your may have been chatting for hours or even days
I would understand and agree with your views if I was looking for a long term partner, but this site isn't for that, attraction does come into it, I honestly don't know why on a site like this you think it is shallow "
It's when your really getting on well with someone. Chatting lots, being flirty, talking about meeting. Having naughty chats etc. Then you exchange pics and that's the last you hear from them. That's really sad |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"Reeding throw the thread and seeing how meney meet on just looks alown is a bit depressing.....
I'm leaving this thread .......
*walks off to find a mor jolly thread*
I agree, it's sad
I'm confused by this. I would have thought that a mix was a given. The fact that everybody has different idea of what they find physically attractive is what gets people meeting. There is no ideal look that every single person goes for, so we all have a chance to meet. Personality is equally important to me. I also find that my attraction to somebody can grow as I get to know them more. If I find someone very unattractive and have no sexual desire for someone, so choose not to have sex with them. How is that sad?
I think it's sad the amount of women that judge men on there looks alone compared to men who are attracted by personality. And also the amount of times a conversation ends instantly when a man sends a face pic. No further messages at all even tho your may have been chatting for hours or even days
I would understand and agree with your views if I was looking for a long term partner, but this site isn't for that, attraction does come into it, I honestly don't know why on a site like this you think it is shallow
It's when your really getting on well with someone. Chatting lots, being flirty, talking about meeting. Having naughty chats etc. Then you exchange pics and that's the last you hear from them. That's really sad"
^^And I also learnt the hard way, exchange face pics asap, there is nothing worse than being disappointed and also upsetting the other person, but it is life I'm afraid, I didn't go quiet, but I did have to say sorry, but not for me |
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"Don't get me wrong, I am not criticising anyone who judges on looks alone, but personally I like a bubbly nice person who just happens to be naughty as well"
I'm with you on this one, but the 'Face pic then silence' thread was enlightening today..... |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
"Looks initially as you don't see a persons personality you get to know it. All those people who says personality as the initial attraction are either ugly or fooling themselves."
I know myself well enough to know that I am more likely to be talked into bed than be drawn there by a 'phwoar' moment, so I'm not fooling myself when I say personality is the initial attraction. I didn't see a pic of my regular squeeze until just before we met in real life; since I'd already fallen for him it didn't seem important. According to the above logic I must therefore be ugly. |
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"Looks initially as you don't see a persons personality you get to know it. All those people who says personality as the initial attraction are either ugly or fooling themselves.
I know myself well enough to know that I am more likely to be talked into bed than be drawn there by a 'phwoar' moment, so I'm not fooling myself when I say personality is the initial attraction. I didn't see a pic of my regular squeeze until just before we met in real life; since I'd already fallen for him it didn't seem important. According to the above logic I must therefore be ugly. "
True enough, but I'm willing to take one for the team. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am being truly honest when I say that I can fancy someone based on their personality and not their looks.
Anyone else feel like this? "
Yes i feel exactly the same |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am being truly honest when I say that I can fancy someone based on their personality and not their looks.
Anyone else feel like this?
Yes i feel exactly the same "
Yes but there still has to be something that I'm attracted to. It could be something small though, smile, eyes etc. |
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"Don't get me wrong, I am not criticising anyone who judges on looks alone, but personally I like a bubbly nice person who just happens to be naughty as well
I'm with you on this one, but the 'Face pic then silence' thread was enlightening today..... "
It was! Us men know how bad that can be on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am being truly honest when I say that I can fancy someone based on their personality and not their looks.
Anyone else feel like this?
Yes i feel exactly the same
Yes but there still has to be something that I'm attracted to. It could be something small though, smile, eyes etc."
Same for me .... personality. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"Personality and sense of humour are paramount for me, if I would set a percentage on how much looks count for me, then I would say 10%."
So you have no public pics on display, can I ask why someone would either message you or why would you message a profile, if looks are not the first thing that attracts you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am being truly honest when I say that I can fancy someone based on their personality and not their looks.
Anyone else feel like this? "
Yes.. most definately. it's that age old thingymajig innit..
someone who at first appeared ugly.. can turn into someone beautiful.
A beautiful looking person can become hideous in one sentance or action.
OP if this is true for you.. then you're in good company and will have more than you ever expected from this site.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You'll never see a group of women looking lustfully at a photo of a hot guy and declaring "Phwoarr! - look at the personality and GSOH on him!".
For the majority of fabbers, it is initially ALL about the pictures. Ten seconds of make or break.
You could be the funniest and most amiable guy in the world but if people don't like the photos, then everything else - personality, humour, etc - means diddly squat.
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To be honest I experienced that before. If it clicks for me I don't care much about the look. I like intelligent people who appreciate my sarcasm so that's why I had some problems with finding a guy lol. |
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"To be honest I experienced that before. If it clicks for me I don't care much about the look. I like intelligent people who appreciate my sarcasm so that's why I had some problems with finding a guy lol. "
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"Personality and sense of humour are paramount for me, if I would set a percentage on how much looks count for me, then I would say 10%.
So you have no public pics on display, can I ask why someone would either message you or why would you message a profile, if looks are not the first thing that attracts you? "
It's my choice to have my photos for my friends only to see. I do know how to 'get my message across' when I want to and spending time conversing and getting to know someone is never wasting time for me. I reply with a facephoto within a couple of messages. Different strokes for different people. |
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over a year ago
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"To be honest I experienced that before. If it clicks for me I don't care much about the look. I like intelligent people who appreciate my sarcasm so that's why I had some problems with finding a guy lol. "
This but not really looking for guys.. If a guy gets me and my personality. Can engage with me and not talk to my tits there is a possibility things may progress.
Still looking!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Reads thread
Invents Google
Looks up personality....and looks..
Think I need me some of each...
Wanders into man cave starts whittling...
Face mask sorted...
Wonder how I carve personality out of tree trunk...
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Reeding throw the thread and seeing how meney meet on just looks alown is a bit depressing.....
I'm leaving this thread .......
*walks off to find a mor jolly thread*
I agree, it's sad
Why is it sad? I'm not a charity shag.
I fuck people I'm attracted to.
Do you fuck women no matter what they look like?
I don't think its quit that.......
I think wot op ment is thar is a lot of people Hoo woodount even consider meeting sumone els simple on thar looks so won't even try to get to no them....
So dispite thay cood be the best pursoun you ever meet cos of looks thay just get over looked with no atempet to get to no them......
This make sense ?"
Yes it does make sense. But most people aren't here looking to date. They want to meet people they want to fuck.
If I was looking for friends, looks have nothing to do with it.
I'm happy for the sad OP to call me shallow. His pathetic attempt to shame women into fucking him doesn't affect me at all.
He's hurt that someone turned him down, I understand that. People turn me down all the time. It's not the end of the world. Some people fancy me and most don't.
It's no-one else's business what my criteria are for who I choose to have sex with. |
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"I am being truly honest when I say that I can fancy someone based on their personality and not their looks.
Anyone else feel like this? "
It's got to be a mixture of both. I've met people on the extreme ends of both of those qualities, extremely awesome personality and a face only a mother could love, and guys with faces that were carved by angels but have zero or very shit personalities. Gotta be a mixture of both. |
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"I am being truly honest when I say that I can fancy someone based on their personality and not their looks.
Anyone else feel like this?
It's got to be a mixture of both. I've met people on the extreme ends of both of those qualities, extremely awesome personality and a face only a mother could love, and guys with faces that were carved by angels but have zero or very shit personalities. Gotta be a mixture of both. "
I'm alright to look at, and I'm a bit of a prick......? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Personality every time. Make me smile and laugh, challenge my mind and you'll have my attention and maybe alot more. I say personality often makes for good sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Why the fuck do I bother trying to look attactive? Might as well mong out in my trakkie with bolognese slurped down the front. No fucker cares what I look like alledgedly so I'll do away with pics too. |
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"Why the fuck do I bother trying to look attactive? Might as well mong out in my trakkie with bolognese slurped down the front. No fucker cares what I look like alledgedly so I'll do away with pics too."
Apparently all I've got to do is fake flirt like the rest of you. ..oh and pretend to be sickly sweet. That works too apparently.  |
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My feeling is that although looks are important when a great personality attracts me, if the looks are maybe not initially apparent they can grow on me. It doesn't work the other way round though. |
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"Why the fuck do I bother trying to look attactive? Might as well mong out in my trakkie with bolognese slurped down the front. No fucker cares what I look like alledgedly so I'll do away with pics too.
Apparently all I've got to do is fake flirt like the rest of you. ..oh and pretend to be sickly sweet. That works too apparently. "
Men love that shit. I look like utter shit but if I flirt and say nice things they'll all shag me. 
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"Might as well mong out in my trakkie with bolognese slurped down the front.
*faps*
Admit it. ..that's for my new hair really "
Ooooh new hair, show me!! |
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"Why the fuck do I bother trying to look attactive? Might as well mong out in my trakkie with bolognese slurped down the front. No fucker cares what I look like alledgedly so I'll do away with pics too.
Apparently all I've got to do is fake flirt like the rest of you. ..oh and pretend to be sickly sweet. That works too apparently.
Men love that shit. I look like utter shit but if I flirt and say nice things they'll all shag me.
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Yay...now I know where to come when i get desperate. Forum guys don't care what the fuck I look like as long as I pretend to agree with them and be nice. Got it. ....oh fuck. ..it's harder than I thought |
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"You'll never see a group of women looking lustfully at a photo of a hot guy and declaring "Phwoarr! - look at the personality and GSOH on him!".
For the majority of fabbers, it is initially ALL about the pictures. Ten seconds of make or break.
You could be the funniest and most amiable guy in the world but if people don't like the photos, then everything else - personality, humour, etc - means diddly squat.
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I think you'll find a lot of women aren't anywhere near as superficial as you think they are And even if they were.. Don't you'd think they'd prefer to spend some time with the nice, normal, pleasant... ripped, big cocked fuck machine.. over the guy with the quirky photos or text with a big, ripped cock on his head?
But there are a lot of lovely superficial sluts who'll prove me wrong.. Horses for courses. |
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"Why the fuck do I bother trying to look attactive? Might as well mong out in my trakkie with bolognese slurped down the front. No fucker cares what I look like alledgedly so I'll do away with pics too.
Apparently all I've got to do is fake flirt like the rest of you. ..oh and pretend to be sickly sweet. That works too apparently.
Men love that shit. I look like utter shit but if I flirt and say nice things they'll all shag me.
Yay...now I know where to come when i get desperate. Forum guys don't care what the fuck I look like as long as I pretend to agree with them and be nice. Got it. ....oh fuck. ..it's harder than I thought "
Put your sexy arse away ffs. Show your personality or you'll never get laid. |
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"My feeling is that although looks are important when a great personality attracts me, if the looks are maybe not initially apparent they can grow on me. It doesn't work the other way round though."
Very put. Lot a truth in that. How often have you seen couples walking hand in hand and you've thought what does she see in him or what he see in her.
Yes it's not a dating site but many of the rules do actually. |
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"I am being truly honest when I say that I can fancy someone based on their personality and not their looks.
Anyone else feel like this? "
I am the same |
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"I am being truly honest when I say that I can fancy someone based on their personality and not their looks.
Anyone else feel like this?
I am the same "
MY NIGGA! |
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"I am being truly honest when I say that I can fancy someone based on their personality and not their looks.
Anyone else feel like this?
I am the same
MY NIGGA! "
nope.. don't work with pink thumbs |
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"I am being truly honest when I say that I can fancy someone based on their personality and not their looks.
Anyone else feel like this?
I am the same
MY NIGGA!
nope.. don't work with pink thumbs"
But it came from my black soul |
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"Might as well mong out in my trakkie with bolognese slurped down the front.
*faps*
Admit it. ..that's for my new hair really
Ooooh new hair, show me!! "
I can attest to the fact that the hair is epic. |
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