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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What do you think when you see a profile that states "I'm very attractive" or "I have a great personality"?
I have a tendency to think, betcha aren't/don't. Harsh?  |
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over a year ago
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"What do you think when you see a profile that states "I'm very attractive" or "I have a great personality"?
I have a tendency to think, betcha aren't/don't. Harsh? "
I think...arrogant. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What do you think when you see a profile that states "I'm very attractive" or "I have a great personality"?
I have a tendency to think, betcha aren't/don't. Harsh? "
Maybe you should test your theory? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I hate seeing it esppecially on a couples profile
she: the best tits and tightest tastiest pussy ever
he: big cock really wide and will make any woman squirt
any single(man mainly)saying that would induce huge cringeyness factors |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I try not to overthink it. I think confidence is sexy... It's when it feels more like arrogance that it becomes a problem. It's good to have a certain confidence about yourself. False modesty puts me off more. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hate seeing it esppecially on a couples profile
she: the best tits and tightest tastiest pussy ever
he: big cock really wide and will make any woman squirt
any single(man mainly)saying that would induce huge cringeyness factors"
Haha i like this guy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In saying all that OP..
unsure if you dont sound a little up yourself about where/who other people meet..really just sounds like you are saying other peoples standards cannot match yours... |
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over a year ago
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"I try not to overthink it. I think confidence is sexy... It's when it feels more like arrogance that it becomes a problem. It's good to have a certain confidence about yourself. False modesty puts me off more. "
I'm a juxtaposed stunning minger |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hate seeing it esppecially on a couples profile
she: the best tits and tightest tastiest pussy ever
he: big cock really wide and will make any woman squirt
any single(man mainly)saying that would induce huge cringeyness factors
Haha i like this guy"
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over a year ago
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"I try not to overthink it. I think confidence is sexy... It's when it feels more like arrogance that it becomes a problem. It's good to have a certain confidence about yourself. False modesty puts me off more.
I'm a juxtaposed stunning minger"
Delete the minger part  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I try not to overthink it. I think confidence is sexy... It's when it feels more like arrogance that it becomes a problem. It's good to have a certain confidence about yourself. False modesty puts me off more.
I'm a juxtaposed stunning minger
Delete the minger part "
I just came in my pants  |
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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Ive been told im good looking in a rugged way. Apparently this is a compliment lol. I dont think im ugly but id never say im a candidate for modelling. Im confident generally so i dont count on my looks anyway. In terms of what others say about themselves i will always make my mind up. The ladies i have met have always without exception played themselves down. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I try not to overthink it. I think confidence is sexy... It's when it feels more like arrogance that it becomes a problem. It's good to have a certain confidence about yourself. False modesty puts me off more.
I'm a juxtaposed stunning minger
Delete the minger part
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I just came in my pants "
That was quick! Ummm.... Sorry... I mean.... Don't worry. It happens to everyone at some point  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In saying all that OP..
unsure if you dont sound a little up yourself about where/who other people meet..really just sounds like you are saying other peoples standards cannot match yours..."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I try not to overthink it. I think confidence is sexy... It's when it feels more like arrogance that it becomes a problem. It's good to have a certain confidence about yourself. False modesty puts me off more.
I'm a juxtaposed stunning minger
Delete the minger part
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I just came in my pants
That was quick! Ummm.... Sorry... I mean.... Don't worry. It happens to everyone at some point "
its been a 24HR wank..was just waiting till someone said something nice |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I try not to overthink it. I think confidence is sexy... It's when it feels more like arrogance that it becomes a problem. It's good to have a certain confidence about yourself. False modesty puts me off more.
I'm a juxtaposed stunning minger
Delete the minger part
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I just came in my pants
That was quick! Ummm.... Sorry... I mean.... Don't worry. It happens to everyone at some point
its been a 24HR wank..was just waiting till someone said something nice "
I believe you........ |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"In saying all that OP..
unsure if you dont sound a little up yourself about where/who other people meet..really just sounds like you are saying other peoples standards cannot match yours..."
Spot on, as ever, Paddy!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What do you think when you see a profile that states "I'm very attractive" or "I have a great personality"?
I have a tendency to think, betcha aren't/don't. Harsh?
Maybe you should test your theory?"
The statements preclude the testing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I try not to overthink it. I think confidence is sexy... It's when it feels more like arrogance that it becomes a problem. It's good to have a certain confidence about yourself. False modesty puts me off more. "
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"I try not to overthink it. I think confidence is sexy... It's when it feels more like arrogance that it becomes a problem. It's good to have a certain confidence about yourself. False modesty puts me off more. "
What's with the eyes? Haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What do you think when you see a profile that states "I'm very attractive" or "I have a great personality"?
I have a tendency to think, betcha aren't/don't. Harsh?
Maybe you should test your theory?
The statements preclude the testing. "
Sometimes things don't come across as it's intended online.
But yes.. you're right.. Also worth remembering there is a fine line between confidence and arrogance.. and the two are often sent out or interpreted in a way other than intended.
Someone saying look at me I'm so kind, nice, lovable and special.
Is as gross as look at my perfect looks and body.
This place is a bloody minefield. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What do you think when you see a profile that states "I'm very attractive" or "I have a great personality"?
I have a tendency to think, betcha aren't/don't. Harsh?
Maybe you should test your theory?
The statements preclude the testing.
Sometimes things don't come across as it's intended online.
But yes.. you're right.. Also worth remembering there is a fine line between confidence and arrogance.. and the two are often sent out or interpreted in a way other than intended.
Someone saying look at me I'm so kind, nice, lovable and special.
Is as gross as look at my perfect looks and body.
This place is a bloody minefield."
One day I might figure out how this place works..
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What do you think when you see a profile that states "I'm very attractive" or "I have a great personality"?
I have a tendency to think, betcha aren't/don't. Harsh?
Maybe you should test your theory?
The statements preclude the testing.
Sometimes things don't come across as it's intended online.
But yes.. you're right.. Also worth remembering there is a fine line between confidence and arrogance.. and the two are often sent out or interpreted in a way other than intended.
Someone saying look at me I'm so kind, nice, lovable and special.
Is as gross as look at my perfect looks and body.
This place is a bloody minefield."
Very true.
O wad some Power the giftie gie us
To see oorsels as ithers see us!  |
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"What do you think when you see a profile that states "I'm very attractive" or "I have a great personality"?
I have a tendency to think, betcha aren't/don't. Harsh? "
I think we're all just human!
Many things could be seen as arrogant or self important - such as stating 'if I need you I'll find you' etc!
Everyone on here seems to have their own peculiarities - and I do believe there's a difference between confidence and arrogance!
For instance - I know I'm far from gorgeous, but neither do I look like a bulldog chewing a wasp!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I try not to overthink it. I think confidence is sexy... It's when it feels more like arrogance that it becomes a problem. It's good to have a certain confidence about yourself. False modesty puts me off more.
What's with the eyes? Haha"
I'm getting worried I really might be a bit arrogant at times on here.. I mean I can be.. quite often.. but it's usually when I know I'm factually accurate about something.. but it's only ever at work that I catch myself out.
You pulled me up on it the other day.. fairly i might add.. though I think we agreed after the confusion.. was something else.. that came across arrogant.. but was actually self doubt.
Now I read OPs points and I'm (overthinking) I do that I've just been singing my own praises I don't want to be a tool  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What do you think when you see a profile that states "I'm very attractive" or "I have a great personality"?
I have a tendency to think, betcha aren't/don't. Harsh? "
I just think you lucky b'stard or yes you are miss |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I try not to overthink it. I think confidence is sexy... It's when it feels more like arrogance that it becomes a problem. It's good to have a certain confidence about yourself. False modesty puts me off more.
What's with the eyes? Haha
I'm getting worried I really might be a bit arrogant at times on here.. I mean I can be.. quite often.. but it's usually when I know I'm factually accurate about something.. but it's only ever at work that I catch myself out.
You pulled me up on it the other day.. fairly i might add.. though I think we agreed after the confusion.. was something else.. that came across arrogant.. but was actually self doubt.
Now I read OPs points and I'm (overthinking) I do that I've just been singing my own praises I don't want to be a tool "
I think we both agreed you are not a tool haha. It's okay to be confident if you feel you are good at something. Yes, I did initially believe you were arrogant and did pull you up on it. It was misconstrued, that's all. The fact that you are overthinking it, suggests you are not arrogant. Don't sweat the small stuff lovely |
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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"What do you think when you see a profile that states "I'm very attractive" or "I have a great personality"?
I have a tendency to think, betcha aren't/don't. Harsh?
Maybe you should test your theory?
The statements preclude the testing.
Sometimes things don't come across as it's intended online.
But yes.. you're right.. Also worth remembering there is a fine line between confidence and arrogance.. and the two are often sent out or interpreted in a way other than intended.
Someone saying look at me I'm so kind, nice, lovable and special.
Is as gross as look at my perfect looks and body.
This place is a bloody minefield.
Very true.
O wad some Power the giftie gie us
To see oorsels as ithers see us! "
I just got an image of rab c nesbits female alter ego! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What do you think when you see a profile that states "I'm very attractive" or "I have a great personality"?
I have a tendency to think, betcha aren't/don't. Harsh?
Maybe you should test your theory?
The statements preclude the testing.
Sometimes things don't come across as it's intended online.
But yes.. you're right.. Also worth remembering there is a fine line between confidence and arrogance.. and the two are often sent out or interpreted in a way other than intended.
Someone saying look at me I'm so kind, nice, lovable and special.
Is as gross as look at my perfect looks and body.
This place is a bloody minefield.
Very true.
O wad some Power the giftie gie us
To see oorsels as ithers see us!
I just got an image of rab c nesbits female alter ego!"
So have i now!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I try not to overthink it. I think confidence is sexy... It's when it feels more like arrogance that it becomes a problem. It's good to have a certain confidence about yourself. False modesty puts me off more.
What's with the eyes? Haha
I'm getting worried I really might be a bit arrogant at times on here.. I mean I can be.. quite often.. but it's usually when I know I'm factually accurate about something.. but it's only ever at work that I catch myself out.
You pulled me up on it the other day.. fairly i might add.. though I think we agreed after the confusion.. was something else.. that came across arrogant.. but was actually self doubt.
Now I read OPs points and I'm (overthinking) I do that I've just been singing my own praises I don't want to be a tool
I think we both agreed you are not a tool haha. It's okay to be confident if you feel you are good at something. Yes, I did initially believe you were arrogant and did pull you up on it. It was misconstrued, that's all. The fact that you are overthinking it, suggests you are not arrogant. Don't sweat the small stuff lovely "
I do.. constantly.. but I am aware I'm doing it and I'm working on it.
*Thrill passes the forum all a "Tool" Card and a "Chill the fuck out" Card..
In case of an emergency |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What do you think when you see a profile that states "I'm very attractive" or "I have a great personality"?
I have a tendency to think, betcha aren't/don't. Harsh?
I think we're all just human!
Many things could be seen as arrogant or self important - such as stating 'if I need you I'll find you' etc!
Everyone on here seems to have their own peculiarities - and I do believe there's a difference between confidence and arrogance!
For instance - I know I'm far from gorgeous, but neither do I look like a bulldog chewing a wasp!! "
eerrr.. I'd say you look pretty damn good actually |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What do you think when you see a profile that states "I'm very attractive" or "I have a great personality"?
I have a tendency to think, betcha aren't/don't. Harsh?
Maybe you should test your theory?
The statements preclude the testing.
Sometimes things don't come across as it's intended online.
But yes.. you're right.. Also worth remembering there is a fine line between confidence and arrogance.. and the two are often sent out or interpreted in a way other than intended.
Someone saying look at me I'm so kind, nice, lovable and special.
Is as gross as look at my perfect looks and body.
This place is a bloody minefield.
Very true.
O wad some Power the giftie gie us
To see oorsels as ithers see us! "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I try not to overthink it. I think confidence is sexy... It's when it feels more like arrogance that it becomes a problem. It's good to have a certain confidence about yourself. False modesty puts me off more.
What's with the eyes? Haha
I'm getting worried I really might be a bit arrogant at times on here.. I mean I can be.. quite often.. but it's usually when I know I'm factually accurate about something.. but it's only ever at work that I catch myself out.
You pulled me up on it the other day.. fairly i might add.. though I think we agreed after the confusion.. was something else.. that came across arrogant.. but was actually self doubt.
Now I read OPs points and I'm (overthinking) I do that I've just been singing my own praises I don't want to be a tool
I think we both agreed you are not a tool haha. It's okay to be confident if you feel you are good at something. Yes, I did initially believe you were arrogant and did pull you up on it. It was misconstrued, that's all. The fact that you are overthinking it, suggests you are not arrogant. Don't sweat the small stuff lovely
I do.. constantly.. but I am aware I'm doing it and I'm working on it.
*Thrill passes the forum all a "Tool" Card and a "Chill the fuck out" Card..
In case of an emergency "
If what we discussed is even a part of why you feel like this, then i am truly sorry. I never meant to be toxic to you  |
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"I try not to overthink it. I think confidence is sexy... It's when it feels more like arrogance that it becomes a problem. It's good to have a certain confidence about yourself. False modesty puts me off more.
What's with the eyes? Haha
I'm getting worried I really might be a bit arrogant at times on here.. I mean I can be.. quite often.. but it's usually when I know I'm factually accurate about something.. but it's only ever at work that I catch myself out.
You pulled me up on it the other day.. fairly i might add.. though I think we agreed after the confusion.. was something else.. that came across arrogant.. but was actually self doubt.
Now I read OPs points and I'm (overthinking) I do that I've just been singing my own praises I don't want to be a tool
I think we both agreed you are not a tool haha. It's okay to be confident if you feel you are good at something. Yes, I did initially believe you were arrogant and did pull you up on it. It was misconstrued, that's all. The fact that you are overthinking it, suggests you are not arrogant. Don't sweat the small stuff lovely
I do.. constantly.. but I am aware I'm doing it and I'm working on it.
*Thrill passes the forum all a "Tool" Card and a "Chill the fuck out" Card..
In case of an emergency
If what we discussed is even a part of why you feel like this, then i am truly sorry. I never meant to be toxic to you "
Oh no no... lol.. you're part of the cure Angel.. honesty and warmth I can trust and I can tell if it's sincere.. that's my antibiotic x |
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"I try not to overthink it. I think confidence is sexy... It's when it feels more like arrogance that it becomes a problem. It's good to have a certain confidence about yourself. False modesty puts me off more.
What's with the eyes? Haha
I'm getting worried I really might be a bit arrogant at times on here.. I mean I can be.. quite often.. but it's usually when I know I'm factually accurate about something.. but it's only ever at work that I catch myself out.
You pulled me up on it the other day.. fairly i might add.. though I think we agreed after the confusion.. was something else.. that came across arrogant.. but was actually self doubt.
Now I read OPs points and I'm (overthinking) I do that I've just been singing my own praises I don't want to be a tool
I think we both agreed you are not a tool haha. It's okay to be confident if you feel you are good at something. Yes, I did initially believe you were arrogant and did pull you up on it. It was misconstrued, that's all. The fact that you are overthinking it, suggests you are not arrogant. Don't sweat the small stuff lovely
I do.. constantly.. but I am aware I'm doing it and I'm working on it.
*Thrill passes the forum all a "Tool" Card and a "Chill the fuck out" Card..
In case of an emergency
If what we discussed is even a part of why you feel like this, then i am truly sorry. I never meant to be toxic to you
Oh no no... lol.. you're part of the cure Angel.. honesty and warmth I can trust and I can tell if it's sincere.. that's my antibiotic x"
That means a lot. Thank you. I see you as someone who could be a great friend. I have a lot of time for you lovely x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I try not to overthink it. I think confidence is sexy... It's when it feels more like arrogance that it becomes a problem. It's good to have a certain confidence about yourself. False modesty puts me off more.
What's with the eyes? Haha
I'm getting worried I really might be a bit arrogant at times on here.. I mean I can be.. quite often.. but it's usually when I know I'm factually accurate about something.. but it's only ever at work that I catch myself out.
You pulled me up on it the other day.. fairly i might add.. though I think we agreed after the confusion.. was something else.. that came across arrogant.. but was actually self doubt.
Now I read OPs points and I'm (overthinking) I do that I've just been singing my own praises I don't want to be a tool
I think we both agreed you are not a tool haha. It's okay to be confident if you feel you are good at something. Yes, I did initially believe you were arrogant and did pull you up on it. It was misconstrued, that's all. The fact that you are overthinking it, suggests you are not arrogant. Don't sweat the small stuff lovely
I do.. constantly.. but I am aware I'm doing it and I'm working on it.
*Thrill passes the forum all a "Tool" Card and a "Chill the fuck out" Card..
In case of an emergency
If what we discussed is even a part of why you feel like this, then i am truly sorry. I never meant to be toxic to you
Oh no no... lol.. you're part of the cure Angel.. honesty and warmth I can trust and I can tell if it's sincere.. that's my antibiotic x"
Was never confident as a child, teen because of the overthinking personality trait.. hurt badly in love because I give all and extra after because again I overthink. But joined the army and got way too much confidence.. it's slowly settled to point I feel comfortable in my skin. First meets can be a bit tentative.. but they can be for anyone.
Important thing is know I do it.. and listen to my friends. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm smart, attractive, sexy, intelligent, interesting, entertaining, funny, skilled, well mannered, loving, understanding, respectful, superhuman, indomitable, unequivocal, modest...and as you can probably tell by now, bored |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh my god I hate this. It's even worse when people say they're "classy" or "well-read".
Yeah, I'll decide that for myself thanks. "
Haha well-read? I'm sure that is definitely something the can figure out for themselves |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't like it when it's a couple and it says she's really hot ect....makes me think there's no point messaging them as little old me won't measure up. XXX |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't like it when it's a couple and it says she's really hot ect....makes me think there's no point messaging them as little old me won't measure up. XXX"
But she may not be as superficial as you think she might.. not that there's anything wrong with little old you anyway. More of should dare to ask.. once you have.. you'll know it's a no.. and move along soon forgetting your rejection. Or you could find yourself the filling in a sexy sandwich. |
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"What do you think when you see a profile that states "I'm very attractive" or "I have a great personality"?
I have a tendency to think, betcha aren't/don't. Harsh? "
No not really. If they are told that in the real world or even on here then I think they have a right to repeat it. |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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its a fine line between confidence and arrogance.........
normally displayed by people who complain
"well why are all the ugly people getting meets but the good looking ones can't"
or the classic
"well i can pull on a normal night out, but can't here!!!"
or the unforgetable
"why do people think they can pull and punch above their weight?" |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"its a fine line between confidence and arrogance.........
normally displayed by people who complain
"well why are all the ugly people getting meets but the good looking ones can't"
or the classic
"well i can pull on a normal night out, but can't here!!!"
or the unforgetable
"why do people think they can pull and punch above their weight?""
This might be a compliment Mr Fabio lol..
I ended up hating being a BBC or whatever...I felt like some kind of commodity...yes I sold it and let people buy it...(occasionally I still do)
hats off to you , you have always been a consistent reminder not to bend over backwards for anything just to get a shag |
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over a year ago
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"If they say they like brocolli.....then i know their takin the fuckin piss
But I do like broccoli. I don't need my diet to take the piss."
broccoli.......its best served roasted after being up a womans chuff..
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I tend to avoid those, no way am I going to be comfortable getting naked with someone who thinks that of themselves. And I wouldn't say it about us, I always apologise before I send a face pic and keep my fingers crossed that we're not blocked x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm smart, attractive, sexy, intelligent, interesting, entertaining, funny, skilled, well mannered, loving, understanding, respectful, superhuman, indomitable, unequivocal, modest...and as you can probably tell by now, bored "
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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This might be a compliment Mr Fabio lol..
I ended up hating being a BBC or whatever...I felt like some kind of commodity...yes I sold it and let people buy it...(occasionally I still do)
hats off to you , you have always been a consistent reminder not to bend over backwards for anything just to get a shag"
thanks paddy.... I think I just found that being me was way more comfortable!
someone in pm called me "mr anti-bbc" which i think is about as cool a compliment as i could get, don't think it was meant as one though!!!! (should still see some of the hater mail i get though... cracking!!!)
thing is... for everything i have said, people still wink me or mail and try to get me to go to their events.... not sure why! |
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"I hate seeing it esppecially on a couples profile
she: the best tits and tightest tastiest pussy ever
he: big cock really wide and will make any woman squirt
any single(man mainly)saying that would induce huge cringeyness factors"
This gives me the fear each and every time I see a profile like this. haha |
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"I hate seeing it esppecially on a couples profile
she: the best tits and tightest tastiest pussy ever
he: big cock really wide and will make any woman squirt
any single(man mainly)saying that would induce huge cringeyness factors
This gives me the fear each and every time I see a profile like this. haha "
hey Dita..apologies, I sincerely thought you were someone else lol...even messaged her and she said for some reason other people thought you were her lol...sorry again.
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This might be a compliment Mr Fabio lol..
I ended up hating being a BBC or whatever...I felt like some kind of commodity...yes I sold it and let people buy it...(occasionally I still do)
hats off to you , you have always been a consistent reminder not to bend over backwards for anything just to get a shag
thanks paddy.... I think I just found that being me was way more comfortable!
someone in pm called me "mr anti-bbc" which i think is about as cool a compliment as i could get, don't think it was meant as one though!!!! (should still see some of the hater mail i get though... cracking!!!)
thing is... for everything i have said, people still wink me or mail and try to get me to go to their events.... not sure why! "
I dont mind the 'events' so much but I dictate how I play lol...........I rarely engage in any BBC threads...nothing to do with cock size or colour its just fucking boring as fuck.....being that black guy...and of course that 'bbc'
another thread at some point mentions the guy are better than others sexually and dont pester...however, they fail to realise the guys might be great at sex....but they are probably only ever going to be there for instant sex...and will find it elsewhere ASAP. I have seen this at socials-that might lead to more...
I'm quite happy meeting someone and just doing what we do on the meet...no pre socials etc required...if someone doesnt like ya...say it sooner than later..thankfully its been very rare for me
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"What do you think when you see a profile that states "I'm very attractive" or "I have a great personality"?
I have a tendency to think, betcha aren't/don't. Harsh?
Maybe you should test your theory?
The statements preclude the testing.
Sometimes things don't come across as it's intended online.
But yes.. you're right.. Also worth remembering there is a fine line between confidence and arrogance.. and the two are often sent out or interpreted in a way other than intended.
Someone saying look at me I'm so kind, nice, lovable and special.
Is as gross as look at my perfect looks and body.
This place is a bloody minefield.
Very true.
O wad some Power the giftie gie us
To see oorsels as ithers see us!
I just got an image of rab c nesbits female alter ego!"
Scots can also be refined, and modest. |
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