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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have my preferences clearly stated on my profile..
and the last 20 or so messages I got were all from people that were the opposite.. so maybe if I put the opposite to what I want.. I will reverse the trend..
It could work..
Cali |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have tried loads of things.. tried not having any preferences on there...
but it seems of late I am getting pretty much 99% of my messages from guys I have no interest in meeting..
Oh and latest thing seems to be couples asking me if I will join them that night for fun..
I try not to reply with same as I do for men that message me like that.. although think I should not discrimanate lol
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have tried loads of things.. tried not having any preferences on there...
but it seems of late I am getting pretty much 99% of my messages from guys I have no interest in meeting..
Oh and latest thing seems to be couples asking me if I will join them that night for fun..
I try not to reply with same as I do for men that message me like that.. although think I should not discrimanate lol
cali"
Why not block everyone when you don't want to meet?
Your friends can still mail you  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Why not block everyone when you don't want to meet?
Your friends can still mail you "
Because all my good meets have come from guys that have found me....
I have tv/ts blocked and may re block couples as have no real interest in them at the moment..
but the thing is I get a lot of messages not related to swinging direct..
Some of it is people asking me stuff about forum posts.... so if I blocked them I wouldnt make some of the friends that I have.. lol
This was more meant as a funny... but it has made me laugh that I am getting pretty much people that I am not looking for..
Maybe they are reading it as I dont want white straight men.. :S
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"I have my preferences clearly stated on my profile..
and the last 20 or so messages I got were all from people that were the opposite.. so maybe if I put the opposite to what I want.. I will reverse the trend..
It could work..
Cali "
Well I think it is a good idea!!
Let me know how you get on and I might follow your lead  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have tried loads of things.. tried not having any preferences on there...
but it seems of late I am getting pretty much 99% of my messages from guys I have no interest in meeting..
Oh and latest thing seems to be couples asking me if I will join them that night for fun..
I try not to reply with same as I do for men that message me like that.. although think I should not discrimanate lol
cali
Why not block everyone when you don't want to meet?
Your friends can still mail you "
thats what i have done put all mail filters , means i can find what im looking  |
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