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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Is there any way of searching for people by amount of verifactions thay have had
as I am guessing there more chance of meeting someone with more veries on there profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is there any way of searching for people by amount of verifactions thay have had
as I am guessing there more chance of meeting someone with more veries on there profile. "
*sniffs the air*
What's that? Oh, yes...desperation.   |
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"Is there any way of searching for people by amount of verifactions thay have had
as I am guessing there more chance of meeting someone with more veries on there profile. "
On the basis of what? They're sluts? Very sociable? Have low standards? Been around the block 15 times?   |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well I guess most don't want to meet a guy with only 1 or no verifications. I feel if a lady has a few she is genuine and dose meet up. So I would imagine there a few people with high meet rates in there 30 to 50 seems a nice high rate of meets.is there a record for the number of meets people have on fab like a top 20 chart |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP makes an excellent point. If someone has been on fab for two years and only had three meets.... I tend to wonder what my chances are of what feels like making history.
Someone who has a high ratio of meets vs time is more likely to meet up in my experience. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"OP makes an excellent point. If someone has been on fab for two years and only had three meets.... I tend to wonder what my chances are of what feels like making history.
Someone who has a high ratio of meets vs time is more likely to meet up in my experience."
what I was thinking is there way to find people with highist meets |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OP makes an excellent point. If someone has been on fab for two years and only had three meets.... I tend to wonder what my chances are of what feels like making history.
Someone who has a high ratio of meets vs time is more likely to meet up in my experience. what I was thinking is there way to find people with highist meets"
It wouldn't help you much. Generally the people with high meet counts are party organisers etc. Rather concentrate on people who match your preferences and then use their meet to time on fab ratio as a yardstick.
For me it's about meeting the RIGHT people but then this site isn't just about sex for me.
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By *ineMan
over a year ago
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And another thread where the tick box mentality reigns.
Desperation ...who knows..
Seeking instashag...maybe more likely..
Verifications prove only that someone has met someone and not necessarily that if it was goid for them it will be good for you and them.
Many here understand that some even understand discretion and either feel no need to collect a tick to prove they can fuck...whose business is that other than the people who they have met...
And some simply don't verify because they feel no need to have a roll of honour on display..
Maybe OP your aspirations and search process require some re-evaluation?
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OP just because a woman has lots of verifications doesn't mean she is guaranteed to fuck you.
Most people with high numbers are those who organise large social meets.
If you want a guarantee you need to employ the services of a prostitute.
(Btw 123 veris is nothing. I've seen people on here with nearly 1000) |
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"Is there any way of searching for people by amount of verifactions thay have had
as I am guessing there more chance of meeting someone with more veries on there profile. "
There isn't a way to search by the amount of verifications. If there was you'd get people who have lots of social verifications too so it wouldn't necessarily prove your theory.
We're all entitled to look for what we want, how we want on fab. Hope you find what you're looking for. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"OP just because a woman has lots of verifications doesn't mean she is guaranteed to fuck you.
Most people with high numbers are those who organise large social meets.
If you want a guarantee you need to employ the services of a prostitute.
(Btw 123 veris is nothing. I've seen people on here with nearly 1000)"
is that people who orgainise or ladys |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OP makes an excellent point. If someone has been on fab for two years and only had three meets.... I tend to wonder what my chances are of what feels like making history.
Someone who has a high ratio of meets vs time is more likely to meet up in my experience."
It's a fair theory. |
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We wouldn’t go anywhere near anyone with more than say 10.
More so if they are graphic ones.
Prefer to meet real folk with very high standards thanks.
As the earlier poster said, it sounds more like you are looking for an escort OP. |
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"We wouldn’t go anywhere near anyone with more than say 10.
More so if they are graphic ones.
Prefer to meet real folk with very high standards thanks.
As the earlier poster said, it sounds more like you are looking for an escort OP."
I don't know if you're post is a piss take. There's no !! Humour marks to suggest it is. You know your last meet is a popular guy |
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"We wouldn’t go anywhere near anyone with more than say 10.
More so if they are graphic ones.
Prefer to meet real folk with very high standards thanks.
As the earlier poster said, it sounds more like you are looking for an escort OP.
I don't know if you're post is a piss take. There's no !! Humour marks to suggest it is. You know your last meet is a popular guy "
And he knows his game.
Didn’t meet him on here and had not met him previously, but sure will again.
My comment was based on our preference on here and how we see verifications being some kind of badge of honour for some. |
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"We wouldn’t go anywhere near anyone with more than say 10.
More so if they are graphic ones.
Prefer to meet real folk with very high standards thanks.
As the earlier poster said, it sounds more like you are looking for an escort OP.
I don't know if you're post is a piss take. There's no !! Humour marks to suggest it is. You know your last meet is a popular guy
And he knows his game.
Didn’t meet him on here and had not met him previously, but sure will again.
My comment was based on our preference on here and how we see verifications being some kind of badge of honour for some."
But over time you can soon clock up meets and therefore be verified. Like three of our veris are from guys I've met in the past, like years ago in one instance. It's a funny one I think. Also not everyone verifies. So you could be meeting someone who's a prolific player and never know.
Verifications for me are just an indicator. They tell a bit of the truth. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A refreshing take on looking at veris, some think lots of verifications are a turn off.
I don't think you can search like that. I suppose you'll have to read through each one that stands out. |
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So why have the option to not display them them?
In reality they are just an indicator.
Anyone could set up multiple accounts and then verify themselves on here.
We just use them to give us an initial feel and decide from there.
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"And another thread where the tick box mentality reigns.
Desperation ...who knows..
Seeking instashag...maybe more likely..
Verifications prove only that someone has met someone and not necessarily that if it was goid for them it will be good for you and them.
Many here understand that some even understand discretion and either feel no need to collect a tick to prove they can fuck...whose business is that other than the people who they have met...
And some simply don't verify because they feel no need to have a roll of honour on display..
Maybe OP your aspirations and search process require some re-evaluation?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OP makes an excellent point. If someone has been on fab for two years and only had three meets.... I tend to wonder what my chances are of what feels like making history.
Someone who has a high ratio of meets vs time is more likely to meet up in my experience. what I was thinking is there way to find people with highist meets
It wouldn't help you much. Generally the people with high meet counts are party organisers etc. Rather concentrate on people who match your preferences and then use their meet to time on fab ratio as a yardstick.
For me it's about meeting the RIGHT people but then this site isn't just about sex for me.
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Good point. We have loads of Veris, but most are from the parties we hold, very few are from meets. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ive think I properly found one she got 123 verifications so I am guessing she has to be one of the dirtiest ladys on fab"
Maybe you could fuck her with your sky remote, it's a popular sex toy it seems x |
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"Ive think I properly found one she got 123 verifications so I am guessing she has to be one of the dirtiest ladys on fab
Maybe you could fuck her with your sky remote, it's a popular sex toy it seems x"
Maybe then you could press all the right buttons, |
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I'm still surprised how naive some people are.
Not everyone displays their verifications, not everyone relies on Fab for sex and shock! horror! Not everyone tells the truth.
Yet some people see a profile and verifications as a sworn affidavit! |
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"We wouldn’t go anywhere near anyone with more than say 10.
More so if they are graphic ones.
Prefer to meet real folk with very high standards thanks.
As the earlier poster said, it sounds more like you are looking for an escort OP."
So according to your stated standards of avoiding anyone with 10 or more veris, willing you be leaving swinging behind after you have met 2 more people? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We wouldn’t go anywhere near anyone with more than say 10.
More so if they are graphic ones.
Prefer to meet real folk with very high standards thanks.
As the earlier poster said, it sounds more like you are looking for an escort OP.
So according to your stated standards of avoiding anyone with 10 or more veris, willing you be leaving swinging behind after you have met 2 more people?"
God forbid if they shagged anyone in there teens or during their university days and didn't state in their profile how many sexual encounters they've truly had. Jeez, swinging with standards is only choosing less than 3 during the lifestyle, I never knew that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wouldn't have thought it would help you one iota if you message someone as a single male who has hundreds of veris but none from a single male, you would be better filtering veris by the people who left them.
Also 500 veris from 2 or 3 different people doesn't mean a lot. |
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"We wouldn’t go anywhere near anyone with more than say 10.
More so if they are graphic ones.
Prefer to meet real folk with very high standards thanks.
As the earlier poster said, it sounds more like you are looking for an escort OP.
So according to your stated standards of avoiding anyone with 10 or more veris, willing you be leaving swinging behind after you have met 2 more people?"
Don’t think it’s coming across what we are saying.
It’s the type of veri, less is more in our book! |
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"We wouldn’t go anywhere near anyone with more than say 10.
More so if they are graphic ones.
Prefer to meet real folk with very high standards thanks.
As the earlier poster said, it sounds more like you are looking for an escort OP.
So according to your stated standards of avoiding anyone with 10 or more veris, willing you be leaving swinging behind after you have met 2 more people?
God forbid if they shagged anyone in there teens or during their university days and didn't state in their profile how many sexual encounters they've truly had. Jeez, swinging with standards is only choosing less than 3 during the lifestyle, I never knew that. "
Nothing wrong with having standards, even in the swinging world |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We wouldn’t go anywhere near anyone with more than say 10.
More so if they are graphic ones.
Prefer to meet real folk with very high standards thanks.
As the earlier poster said, it sounds more like you are looking for an escort OP.
So according to your stated standards of avoiding anyone with 10 or more veris, willing you be leaving swinging behind after you have met 2 more people?
God forbid if they shagged anyone in there teens or during their university days and didn't state in their profile how many sexual encounters they've truly had. Jeez, swinging with standards is only choosing less than 3 during the lifestyle, I never knew that.
Nothing wrong with having standards, even in the swinging world"
Everyone is absolutely allowed to have there own standards. But, having more of your high standards is surely acceptable. Or is it just the numbers that makes it look like someone doesn't have 'standards'? |
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"We wouldn’t go anywhere near anyone with more than say 10.
More so if they are graphic ones.
Prefer to meet real folk with very high standards thanks.
As the earlier poster said, it sounds more like you are looking for an escort OP.
So according to your stated standards of avoiding anyone with 10 or more veris, willing you be leaving swinging behind after you have met 2 more people?
God forbid if they shagged anyone in there teens or during their university days and didn't state in their profile how many sexual encounters they've truly had. Jeez, swinging with standards is only choosing less than 3 during the lifestyle, I never knew that.
Nothing wrong with having standards, even in the swinging world"
Absolutely nothing wrong with standards but you didn't answer the question.
If 10 is your cut off point for your standards, will you be giving up after 2 more meets? |
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"We wouldn’t go anywhere near anyone with more than say 10.
More so if they are graphic ones.
Prefer to meet real folk with very high standards thanks.
As the earlier poster said, it sounds more like you are looking for an escort OP.
So according to your stated standards of avoiding anyone with 10 or more veris, willing you be leaving swinging behind after you have met 2 more people?
God forbid if they shagged anyone in there teens or during their university days and didn't state in their profile how many sexual encounters they've truly had. Jeez, swinging with standards is only choosing less than 3 during the lifestyle, I never knew that.
Nothing wrong with having standards, even in the swinging world
Absolutely nothing wrong with standards but you didn't answer the question.
If 10 is your cut off point for your standards, will you be giving up after 2 more meets?"
Of course not
It's what's in them that counts for us. |
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"We wouldn’t go anywhere near anyone with more than say 10.
More so if they are graphic ones.
Prefer to meet real folk with very high standards thanks.
As the earlier poster said, it sounds more like you are looking for an escort OP.
So according to your stated standards of avoiding anyone with 10 or more veris, willing you be leaving swinging behind after you have met 2 more people?
God forbid if they shagged anyone in there teens or during their university days and didn't state in their profile how many sexual encounters they've truly had. Jeez, swinging with standards is only choosing less than 3 during the lifestyle, I never knew that.
Nothing wrong with having standards, even in the swinging world
Absolutely nothing wrong with standards but you didn't answer the question.
If 10 is your cut off point for your standards, will you be giving up after 2 more meets?
Of course not
It's what's in them that counts for us."
But ealrier in the thread you stated your standards were you would not meet anyone with more than 10 veris. So, does this mean your standards will change once you have been verified by 10 people? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ive think I properly found one she got 123 verifications so I am guessing she has to be one of the dirtiest ladys on fab"
that's not a lot really. I'm stunned at your age you think that's a lot for a woman to have met.
And also this post shows you think women that have lots of sex is dirty which isn't a good way to look at it.
For the record.. when I met my partner he had more than that and he was on as a single guy. |
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"We wouldn’t go anywhere near anyone with more than say 10.
More so if they are graphic ones.
Prefer to meet real folk with very high standards thanks.
As the earlier poster said, it sounds more like you are looking for an escort OP.
So according to your stated standards of avoiding anyone with 10 or more veris, willing you be leaving swinging behind after you have met 2 more people?
God forbid if they shagged anyone in there teens or during their university days and didn't state in their profile how many sexual encounters they've truly had. Jeez, swinging with standards is only choosing less than 3 during the lifestyle, I never knew that.
Nothing wrong with having standards, even in the swinging world
Absolutely nothing wrong with standards but you didn't answer the question.
If 10 is your cut off point for your standards, will you be giving up after 2 more meets?
Of course not
It's what's in them that counts for us.
But ealrier in the thread you stated your standards were you would not meet anyone with more than 10 veris. So, does this mean your standards will change once you have been verified by 10 people?"
Prefer grown ups thanks |
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"Is there any way of searching for people by amount of verifactions thay have had
as I am guessing there more chance of meeting someone with more veries on there profile. "
Combine that search with the age range 85plus and they'll be gagging for it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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When we first started this a few months ago we were very wary about meeting people who had lots of verifications. Then we met a couple that had hundreds and we were very unsure for exactly the same reasons as a lot of responses on this s thread. We were so wrong, they were the most fabulous couple with whom we have become very good friends with. Don’t judge anyone by the amount of verifications they may or may not have. Take every profile as different and assess them individually. If someone has very few verifications they could have reasons for not playing for long periods of time. If someone has lots of verifications they may have been on here since the site started. It’s pretty obvious to spot time wasters and fakes so a search for amount of verifications is not needed in our view |
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"We wouldn’t go anywhere near anyone with more than say 10.
More so if they are graphic ones.
Prefer to meet real folk with very high standards thanks.
As the earlier poster said, it sounds more like you are looking for an escort OP.
So according to your stated standards of avoiding anyone with 10 or more veris, willing you be leaving swinging behind after you have met 2 more people?
God forbid if they shagged anyone in there teens or during their university days and didn't state in their profile how many sexual encounters they've truly had. Jeez, swinging with standards is only choosing less than 3 during the lifestyle, I never knew that.
Nothing wrong with having standards, even in the swinging world
Absolutely nothing wrong with standards but you didn't answer the question.
If 10 is your cut off point for your standards, will you be giving up after 2 more meets?
Of course not
It's what's in them that counts for us.
But ealrier in the thread you stated your standards were you would not meet anyone with more than 10 veris. So, does this mean your standards will change once you have been verified by 10 people?
Prefer grown ups thanks"
Fab hypocrisy at its finest! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We wouldn’t go anywhere near anyone with more than say 10.
More so if they are graphic ones.
Prefer to meet real folk with very high standards thanks.
As the earlier poster said, it sounds more like you are looking for an escort OP."
you do realise this is a site where people tend to meet people for sex .. I'm exceptionally picky but on a good weekend we could quite easily have met and even had sex or sexual contact with more than that.. In fact I remember one club night where between us it would have been well over that. Lots of meets doesn't mean wikl fuck anything ( as the abuse in the inbox will often show)
We don't have that many for us on this profile but we took a break and have been busy away from fab this last year. Our previous profiles had many more verifications and then there are those that aren't on fab or dont verify. |
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"Ive think I properly found one she got 123 verifications so I am guessing she has to be one of the dirtiest ladys on fab"
How will you feel if she won't meet you? Even people with a high number of veris have a lot of choice and their own standards on who they'll meet |
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"We wouldn’t go anywhere near anyone with more than say 10.
More so if they are graphic ones.
Prefer to meet real folk with very high standards thanks.
As the earlier poster said, it sounds more like you are looking for an escort OP."
So according to you i dont have standards because i have 15 veris?
Even though a few are from a pervious profile? |
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"We wouldn’t go anywhere near anyone with more than say 10.
More so if they are graphic ones.
Prefer to meet real folk with very high standards thanks.
As the earlier poster said, it sounds more like you are looking for an escort OP."
Right?
What about social veris? Events? parties? Repeat veris?
I have 28 from 32 meets.
I havn't slept with 32 people, some are from social meets that never went further, a social then a follow up when we met again, social organised nights where sex wasn't even on the agenda, several from someone I see regularly.
What happens when you get past 10? Will you change your own standards of judging?
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"We wouldn’t go anywhere near anyone with more than say 10.
More so if they are graphic ones.
Prefer to meet real folk with very high standards thanks.
As the earlier poster said, it sounds more like you are looking for an escort OP.
Right?
What about social veris? Events? parties? Repeat veris?
I have 28 from 32 meets.
I havn't slept with 32 people, some are from social meets that never went further, a social then a follow up when we met again, social organised nights where sex wasn't even on the agenda, several from someone I see regularly.
What happens when you get past 10? Will you change your own standards of judging?
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I asked just that question and the response was “prefer grown ups thanks” whatever that means........
It’s either gross hypocrisy or they just want to avoid answering |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We wouldn’t go anywhere near anyone with more than say 10.
More so if they are graphic ones.
Prefer to meet real folk with very high standards thanks.
As the earlier poster said, it sounds more like you are looking for an escort OP.
Right?
What about social veris? Events? parties? Repeat veris?
I have 28 from 32 meets.
I havn't slept with 32 people, some are from social meets that never went further, a social then a follow up when we met again, social organised nights where sex wasn't even on the agenda, several from someone I see regularly.
What happens when you get past 10? Will you change your own standards of judging?
I asked just that question and the response was “prefer grown ups thanks” whatever that means........
It’s either gross hypocrisy or they just want to avoid answering "
They know they said somthing stupid, so instead of thinking about it and maybe saying to themselves, "ok ive said something without thinking" they have just shown their own immaturity by simply doubling down on the stupid comment
And "prefer grow ups thanks"...that literally has no meaning in the context you say it in, think we all know who AREN'T the grown ups here |
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"We wouldn’t go anywhere near anyone with more than say 10.
More so if they are graphic ones.
Prefer to meet real folk with very high standards thanks.
As the earlier poster said, it sounds more like you are looking for an escort OP."
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I've been veri'd by 100 meets and 7 cams.
Ohhh I'm pure dirt. One if the dirtiest women on fab.
Please note: I have attended 2 large organised social events, I don't have much of a social life but when I do go out I generally go to swingers clubs as I feel safer there than at a regular bar/club. Doesn't mean I'm fucking when I go, but I am meeting people.
Also out of those veri's there are a fair few repeat meets.
So, OP, whilst some have done the deed on every veri, there are plenty of people that haven't. *Theory disintegrated at 10.54am* |
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"Was a genuine question"
It was but what you need to remember most will just ignore your question and use it as an opportunity to give you a kidney punch lol. I don't believe there is a feature to do so no. Even though you could've been asking bcz you don't want to meet someone with lots of verifications. Go figure |
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"Is there any way of searching for people by amount of verifactions thay have had
as I am guessing there more chance of meeting someone with more veries on there profile.
On the basis of what? They're sluts? Very sociable? Have low standards? Been around the block 15 times? "
You missed out, enjoy sex. Or do all people who have a lot of sex have low standards and sluts? |
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"Is there any way of searching for people by amount of verifactions thay have had
as I am guessing there more chance of meeting someone with more veries on there profile.
On the basis of what? They're sluts? Very sociable? Have low standards? Been around the block 15 times?
You missed out, enjoy sex. Or do all people who have a lot of sex have low standards and sluts?"
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Like all of these threads you aren't allowed to have your own opinion without it becoming a witch hunt.
We play how we choose to and with whom we choose to.
Apologies to the OP for getting his thread hijacked.
If you are looking to just get laid then a profile with a high number of explicit veri's is more likely to return a result.
All we are saying is it wouldn't be for us....simple as! |
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More veries doesnt mean they don't have standards.
Like others have said organised socials ie in forum,clubs ..
Someone could display 4 and in reality have 755 ,we will never know unless every person they have met verified them and they display their summary.
If you are struggling for meets people check profiles first op .
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