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Sooo I’ve spent the best part of 15 years trying to achieve the perfect size 12 figure, however due to my love of good food and fine wine I’m fighting a losing battle.... what do blokes REALLY want? Tits, ass, thick thighs and curves or skinny girls they can fling around the room? Discuss.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Slim women can still be curvy....
Not a man...but as a bisexual woman I'll answer anyway....(oh yes, I'm a rule breaker!)
I don't care what size a woman is, her shape is usually what will attract me to her body...I'm all about curves, boobies, bums and thighs....but that's just me  |
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You could ask a hundred blokes and get a hundred different responses. It is not that there is one attractive type for all.
All this will do will start the usual size bashing of one or other.
Just find the people that like you for you and jobs a good 'un.
T x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" what do blokes REALLY want? "
I think the better question is what do YOU really want? You should be happy with you, regardless of what blokes want. Happy and healthy.  |
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Always love how people jump all over these threads.
Slim and skinny are different in my eyes. As is lean. You can be lean and slim or lean and skinny and you can also be skinny and fat. What an oxymoron that is! You can be 'fat' and a size 10 or you can be 'lean' and a 14.
Personally I prefer to see curves, but a size 6 can be curvy just like a size 16 can be.
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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"Always love how people jump all over these threads.
Slim and skinny are different in my eyes. As is lean. You can be lean and slim or lean and skinny and you can also be skinny and fat. What an oxymoron that is! You can be 'fat' and a size 10 or you can be 'lean' and a 14.
Personally I prefer to see curves, but a size 6 can be curvy just like a size 16 can be.
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How can a size 6 be curvy? |
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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago
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"Always love how people jump all over these threads.
Slim and skinny are different in my eyes. As is lean. You can be lean and slim or lean and skinny and you can also be skinny and fat. What an oxymoron that is! You can be 'fat' and a size 10 or you can be 'lean' and a 14.
Personally I prefer to see curves, but a size 6 can be curvy just like a size 16 can be.
How can a size 6 be curvy?"
I'm a size 8 and have D cup boobs.
I mean, it's not a size 6 sure. But it's close.
Unless D cup boobs aren't curvy? |
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"Always love how people jump all over these threads.
Slim and skinny are different in my eyes. As is lean. You can be lean and slim or lean and skinny and you can also be skinny and fat. What an oxymoron that is! You can be 'fat' and a size 10 or you can be 'lean' and a 14.
Personally I prefer to see curves, but a size 6 can be curvy just like a size 16 can be.
How can a size 6 be curvy?"
It's is possible for super slim women to have curves...
I was a size 8/10 with an e/f cup chest and a sizable butt....curvy is a shape, not a size. |
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"Always love how people jump all over these threads.
Slim and skinny are different in my eyes. As is lean. You can be lean and slim or lean and skinny and you can also be skinny and fat. What an oxymoron that is! You can be 'fat' and a size 10 or you can be 'lean' and a 14.
Personally I prefer to see curves, but a size 6 can be curvy just like a size 16 can be.
How can a size 6 be curvy?"
A 6 is petite, doesn't mean they can't have an ass and boobs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A nice healthy slim woman without excess wobbly bits and in proportion
Do you insist on a full round of blood tests and an appraisal of their health status by a GP before meeting?"
Its important to me than a STI test |
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It seems to me we're seeing more of these types of thread's surprising made by women,whereby they're trying to turn it into some kind of competition between us ladies and it's alway's the curvy women v skinny minnies.
I mean come on please have some confidence in yourselves,you really should know that 100% of men don't find the same body type attractive. Stop putting women up against each other,be confident in your own skin! |
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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"Always love how people jump all over these threads.
Slim and skinny are different in my eyes. As is lean. You can be lean and slim or lean and skinny and you can also be skinny and fat. What an oxymoron that is! You can be 'fat' and a size 10 or you can be 'lean' and a 14.
Personally I prefer to see curves, but a size 6 can be curvy just like a size 16 can be.
How can a size 6 be curvy?
A 6 is petite, doesn't mean they can't have an ass and boobs. "
They would be a very odd shape if so. |
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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago
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"Always love how people jump all over these threads.
Slim and skinny are different in my eyes. As is lean. You can be lean and slim or lean and skinny and you can also be skinny and fat. What an oxymoron that is! You can be 'fat' and a size 10 or you can be 'lean' and a 14.
Personally I prefer to see curves, but a size 6 can be curvy just like a size 16 can be.
How can a size 6 be curvy?
A 6 is petite, doesn't mean they can't have an ass and boobs.
They would be a very odd shape if so."
Guess I'm an odd shape then. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Size isn’t a factor for me, it’s all about the ratio...
Hips slightly larger than chest and waist smaller than both is my preference, an hour glass figure.
I went out with a cougar who was 5’10” and a size 8/10 but she still had a lovely curve to her. It’s the barrel shaped figure that does nothing for me, sorry but I just don’t find that attractive  |
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"Always love how people jump all over these threads.
Slim and skinny are different in my eyes. As is lean. You can be lean and slim or lean and skinny and you can also be skinny and fat. What an oxymoron that is! You can be 'fat' and a size 10 or you can be 'lean' and a 14.
Personally I prefer to see curves, but a size 6 can be curvy just like a size 16 can be.
How can a size 6 be curvy?
I'm a size 8 and have D cup boobs.
I mean, it's not a size 6 sure. But it's close.
Unless D cup boobs aren't curvy?"
They look curvy from your pic |
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"It seems to me we're seeing more of these types of thread's surprising made by women,whereby they're trying to turn it into some kind of competition between us ladies and it's alway's the curvy women v skinny minnies.
I mean come on please have some confidence in yourselves,you really should know that 100% of men don't find the same body type attractive. Stop putting women up against each other,be confident in your own skin!"
Hmmm Yes. But with the holidays and New Year's coming I think you should prepare yourself for plenty more threads of this type, mainly from women. Based on my past experience in the forums, anyway... |
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"Always love how people jump all over these threads.
Slim and skinny are different in my eyes. As is lean. You can be lean and slim or lean and skinny and you can also be skinny and fat. What an oxymoron that is! You can be 'fat' and a size 10 or you can be 'lean' and a 14.
Personally I prefer to see curves, but a size 6 can be curvy just like a size 16 can be.
How can a size 6 be curvy?
A 6 is petite, doesn't mean they can't have an ass and boobs.
They would be a very odd shape if so."
Haha trust me, she's anything but an odd shape!
Depends what your definition of curvy is? Hourglass figure? That's curvy. The size of the hourglass doesn't define the shape though. Know what I mean? |
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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago
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"To me curvy is all round. Boobs bum hips etc. But yeah fair play i stand corrected."
I mean, I have a fat ass and wide hips too. But I'm still only 5ft tall or so, so everything is just all round smaller. Still 'curvy' though. Sill go in and out. |
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"They all like fat ladies. There I said it,we can all move on now that's settled 
With fat comments like yours know wonder some women have issues"
I was being sarcastic,it's what the op probably wants to hear. I'm just sick to death of these type's of thread's,where we as women are put up against each other and especially bad when it's started by a women.
What if a slim women had started a thread like this,they'd be outrage do you not think! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Always love how people jump all over these threads.
Slim and skinny are different in my eyes. As is lean. You can be lean and slim or lean and skinny and you can also be skinny and fat. What an oxymoron that is! You can be 'fat' and a size 10 or you can be 'lean' and a 14.
Personally I prefer to see curves, but a size 6 can be curvy just like a size 16 can be.
How can a size 6 be curvy?
A 6 is petite, doesn't mean they can't have an ass and boobs.
They would be a very odd shape if so.
Guess I'm an odd shape then."
You most certainly aren't....
These kind of comments are exactly why these threads are dangerous....
All bodies are beautiful to someone, we're all different and we all like different things.
And curvy is a fecking shape...not a size. You can be fat and curvy or thin and curvy....we don't need to bash one body type to compliment another! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm 16 and happy with my curves and had no complaints and can still be thrown around the bedroom .confidence and being happy with what you have is a good thing .real men love curves |
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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"Always love how people jump all over these threads.
Slim and skinny are different in my eyes. As is lean. You can be lean and slim or lean and skinny and you can also be skinny and fat. What an oxymoron that is! You can be 'fat' and a size 10 or you can be 'lean' and a 14.
Personally I prefer to see curves, but a size 6 can be curvy just like a size 16 can be.
How can a size 6 be curvy?
A 6 is petite, doesn't mean they can't have an ass and boobs.
They would be a very odd shape if so.
Haha trust me, she's anything but an odd shape!
Depends what your definition of curvy is? Hourglass figure? That's curvy. The size of the hourglass doesn't define the shape though. Know what I mean? "
Yeah i see what you mean. I have an image in my head and it doesnt fit a size 6 that's all. |
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"It seems to me we're seeing more of these types of thread's surprising made by women,whereby they're trying to turn it into some kind of competition between us ladies and it's alway's the curvy women v skinny minnies.
I mean come on please have some confidence in yourselves,you really should know that 100% of men don't find the same body type attractive. Stop putting women up against each other,be confident in your own skin!
Hmmm Yes. But with the holidays and New Year's coming I think you should prepare yourself for plenty more threads of this type, mainly from women. Based on my past experience in the forums, anyway..."
I really should stay away from them... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Each to their own when it comes to preference but I find it sad that we're comparing body shapes as a negative.
We should celebrate womens (and mens) bodies for what they are, pleasure vessels that are perfection to some and not to others.
I was built for fun and I'm more than happy with that but I find beauty in many body types |
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"its the barrel shaped figure that does nothing for me
Nor me!
I definitely prefer 'barrel shape' skinny women. Curvy isn't really my thing."
Barrel shaped to me is if you're standing upright and can't see your toes... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It's amazing how many people take offence to these threads and jump on every comment made.
If you're fat, you're fat. If you're thin, you're thin.
Get over it, not everyone is going to fancy you anyway |
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"Always love how people jump all over these threads.
Slim and skinny are different in my eyes. As is lean. You can be lean and slim or lean and skinny and you can also be skinny and fat. What an oxymoron that is! You can be 'fat' and a size 10 or you can be 'lean' and a 14.
Personally I prefer to see curves, but a size 6 can be curvy just like a size 16 can be.
How can a size 6 be curvy?
A 6 is petite, doesn't mean they can't have an ass and boobs.
They would be a very odd shape if so.
Guess I'm an odd shape then.
You most certainly aren't....
These kind of comments are exactly why these threads are dangerous....
All bodies are beautiful to someone, we're all different and we all like different things.
And curvy is a fecking shape...not a size. You can be fat and curvy or thin and curvy....we don't need to bash one body type to compliment another!"
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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"To me curvy is all round. Boobs bum hips etc. But yeah fair play i stand corrected.
I mean, I have a fat ass and wide hips too. But I'm still only 5ft tall or so, so everything is just all round smaller. Still 'curvy' though. Sill go in and out."
Yeah my bad. I didn't mean to cause any offence. I just couldn't get my head round a curvy size 6. My understanding on women's clothes sizing is obviously off! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Why is the question about what men like? Why do we care?
Love yourself!! If you're not happy with your body then do what you can to change it.
I don't care what most men think, I'm only interested in the ones interested in me. |
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"Why is the question about what men like? Why do we care?
Love yourself!! If you're not happy with your body then do what you can to change it.
I don't care what most men think, I'm only interested in the ones interested in me. "
That's a perfect answer |
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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"Always love how people jump all over these threads.
Slim and skinny are different in my eyes. As is lean. You can be lean and slim or lean and skinny and you can also be skinny and fat. What an oxymoron that is! You can be 'fat' and a size 10 or you can be 'lean' and a 14.
Personally I prefer to see curves, but a size 6 can be curvy just like a size 16 can be.
How can a size 6 be curvy?
A 6 is petite, doesn't mean they can't have an ass and boobs.
They would be a very odd shape if so.
Guess I'm an odd shape then.
You most certainly aren't....
These kind of comments are exactly why these threads are dangerous....
All bodies are beautiful to someone, we're all different and we all like different things.
And curvy is a fecking shape...not a size. You can be fat and curvy or thin and curvy....we don't need to bash one body type to compliment another!"
Woah back off a little. If anything have a go at my bad understanding of sizing but I was not bashing anyone. |
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"It seems to me we're seeing more of these types of thread's surprising made by women,whereby they're trying to turn it into some kind of competition between us ladies and it's alway's the curvy women v skinny minnies.
I mean come on please have some confidence in yourselves,you really should know that 100% of men don't find the same body type attractive. Stop putting women up against each other,be confident in your own skin!"
I can assure you that was not my intention, I was purely trying to gauge whether a quest to be smaller was worth my while or whether blokes still like a fuller figure and what the majority of men preferred. I also think the only person making it a “competition” between skinny/Fuller is you with your they all like fat girls comments you are the only one who said the word fat....no one else..
It’s also easy to say come on please have self confidence..... it doesn’t always come that easy when girls are referring to people of my size as fat....
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The opposite of skinny is fat...the opposite of curvy is straight-up-and-down. Women can be any combination of those, plus everything in between. I'm a curvy hourglass size 16, but I've also been a curvy size 8 - my bust size as an adult has never been less than a DD.
I don't understand why females get so het up about other women's shapes and sizes? It's not a competition, and it's been shown many, many times in posts like this that men like a whole range of body types. No one size or shape is better or more attractive, but body confidence certainly is. If you're not happy with the way you look, do something about it and change it - but only for yourself, not to conform to perceived standards of attractiveness  |
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Personality sense of fun personality wit personality someone who captures my imagination personality a girl who can laugh at the world personality someone who has the same fire in her eyes every time we meet personality the girl who dares to live her dreams personality a girl who I think of first thing in a morning ladt thing at night and lots of times in between who wants to be with me as much as I want to be with them who is as happy in a ball gown as a field full of muddy dogs...oh and did I mention personality...
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"Why is the question about what men like? Why do we care?
Love yourself!! If you're not happy with your body then do what you can to change it.
I don't care what most men think, I'm only interested in the ones interested in me. "
I'm interested   |
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"The opposite of skinny is fat...the opposite of curvy is straight-up-and-down. Women can be any combination of those, plus everything in between. I'm a curvy hourglass size 16, but I've also been a curvy size 8 - my bust size as an adult has never been less than a DD.
I don't understand why females get so het up about other women's shapes and sizes? It's not a competition, and it's been shown many, many times in posts like this that men like a whole range of body types. No one size or shape is better or more attractive, but body confidence certainly is. If you're not happy with the way you look, do something about it and change it - but only for yourself, not to conform to perceived standards of attractiveness "
I must say I've only ever really seen women who are fat have a careless what others think attitude.  |
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"Always love how people jump all over these threads.
Slim and skinny are different in my eyes. As is lean. You can be lean and slim or lean and skinny and you can also be skinny and fat. What an oxymoron that is! You can be 'fat' and a size 10 or you can be 'lean' and a 14.
Personally I prefer to see curves, but a size 6 can be curvy just like a size 16 can be.
How can a size 6 be curvy?
A 6 is petite, doesn't mean they can't have an ass and boobs.
They would be a very odd shape if so.
Guess I'm an odd shape then.
You most certainly aren't....
These kind of comments are exactly why these threads are dangerous....
All bodies are beautiful to someone, we're all different and we all like different things.
And curvy is a fecking shape...not a size. You can be fat and curvy or thin and curvy....we don't need to bash one body type to compliment another!
Woah back off a little. If anything have a go at my bad understanding of sizing but I was not bashing anyone."
Wasn't all aimed at you....more of an overall rant at the thread. |
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"It seems to me we're seeing more of these types of thread's surprising made by women,whereby they're trying to turn it into some kind of competition between us ladies and it's alway's the curvy women v skinny minnies.
I mean come on please have some confidence in yourselves,you really should know that 100% of men don't find the same body type attractive. Stop putting women up against each other,be confident in your own skin!
I can assure you that was not my intention, I was purely trying to gauge whether a quest to be smaller was worth my while or whether blokes still like a fuller figure and what the majority of men preferred. I also think the only person making it a “competition” between skinny/Fuller is you with your they all like fat girls comments you are the only one who said the word fat....no one else..
It’s also easy to say come on please have self confidence..... it doesn’t always come that easy when girls are referring to people of my size as fat....
Enjoy your day "
It's thread's like this that infuriate me into saying it and you were making it into a competition simply by asking the question.
You don't change your shape and size because of a man you do it for yourself no-one else! Besides I haven't a clue what size you are so wasn't referring to you especially.
Do you seriously think all men like the same size? |
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Op, you're a beautiful woman! Look at your pics and see how sexy you are! Attractiveness is having the confidence in yourself, which isn't easy for most people,but when you do accept that you are gorgeous when you look in the mirror suddenly your size doesn't matter.
Strut with sass op!
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"Most blokes are just after a wet hole.
Sigh
I didn’t say all. I said most.
A slightly less air expelling sigh then.
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"Personality sense of fun personality wit personality someone who captures my imagination personality a girl who can laugh at the world personality someone who has the same fire in her eyes every time we meet personality the girl who dares to live her dreams personality a girl who I think of first thing in a morning ladt thing at night and lots of times in between who wants to be with me as much as I want to be with them who is as happy in a ball gown as a field full of muddy dogs...oh and did I mention personality...
Maybe one day ....."
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"The opposite of skinny is fat...the opposite of curvy is straight-up-and-down. Women can be any combination of those, plus everything in between. I'm a curvy hourglass size 16, but I've also been a curvy size 8 - my bust size as an adult has never been less than a DD.
I don't understand why females get so het up about other women's shapes and sizes? It's not a competition, and it's been shown many, many times in posts like this that men like a whole range of body types. No one size or shape is better or more attractive, but body confidence certainly is. If you're not happy with the way you look, do something about it and change it - but only for yourself, not to conform to perceived standards of attractiveness
I must say I've only ever really seen women who are fat have a careless what others think attitude. "
You clearly don't know many women then... |
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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"Always love how people jump all over these threads.
Slim and skinny are different in my eyes. As is lean. You can be lean and slim or lean and skinny and you can also be skinny and fat. What an oxymoron that is! You can be 'fat' and a size 10 or you can be 'lean' and a 14.
Personally I prefer to see curves, but a size 6 can be curvy just like a size 16 can be.
How can a size 6 be curvy?
A 6 is petite, doesn't mean they can't have an ass and boobs.
They would be a very odd shape if so.
Guess I'm an odd shape then.
You most certainly aren't....
These kind of comments are exactly why these threads are dangerous....
All bodies are beautiful to someone, we're all different and we all like different things.
And curvy is a fecking shape...not a size. You can be fat and curvy or thin and curvy....we don't need to bash one body type to compliment another!
Woah back off a little. If anything have a go at my bad understanding of sizing but I was not bashing anyone.
Wasn't all aimed at you....more of an overall rant at the thread."
Fair enough. Ive made myself look a dick and pissed a couple of peeps off. I inteded to do neither. |
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"The opposite of skinny is fat...the opposite of curvy is straight-up-and-down. Women can be any combination of those, plus everything in between. I'm a curvy hourglass size 16, but I've also been a curvy size 8 - my bust size as an adult has never been less than a DD.
I don't understand why females get so het up about other women's shapes and sizes? It's not a competition, and it's been shown many, many times in posts like this that men like a whole range of body types. No one size or shape is better or more attractive, but body confidence certainly is. If you're not happy with the way you look, do something about it and change it - but only for yourself, not to conform to perceived standards of attractiveness
I must say I've only ever really seen women who are fat have a careless what others think attitude.
You clearly don't know many women then..."
I don't know many fat women, no |
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"Can we start the thread from scratch!
Will always reach the same outcome....
Maybe but i could avoid commenting!"
If your view has changed it was worth commenting... |
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By *ieman300Man
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"Can we start the thread from scratch!
Will always reach the same outcome....
Maybe but i could avoid commenting!
If your view has changed it was worth commenting..."
Well yes of course I have been educated. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Can we start the thread from scratch!
Will always reach the same outcome....
Maybe but i could avoid commenting!
If your view has changed it was worth commenting...
Well yes of course I have been educated."
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Depending on the height we normally go for sizes 8 to 14 thats what we find physically attractive. Were not normally attracted to bigger than that. that could easily change after chatting to the woman. We could click on a intellectual level then it wouldnt matter what size she is
But as long as your happy in your own skin. It doesnt really matter what other people think.
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I don't judge. I love both.
I love it when nice curvy ass slaps against me when im doggystyling while I'm rubbing those voluptuous curvy titties.
I also love picking skinny minies upside down in the air and licking out thier pussies, 69 mid air and also air humping |
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"It seems to me we're seeing more of these types of thread's surprising made by women,whereby they're trying to turn it into some kind of competition between us ladies and it's alway's the curvy women v skinny minnies.
I mean come on please have some confidence in yourselves,you really should know that 100% of men don't find the same body type attractive. Stop putting women up against each other,be confident in your own skin!
I can assure you that was not my intention, I was purely trying to gauge whether a quest to be smaller was worth my while or whether blokes still like a fuller figure and what the majority of men preferred. I also think the only person making it a “competition” between skinny/Fuller is you with your they all like fat girls comments you are the only one who said the word fat....no one else..
It’s also easy to say come on please have self confidence..... it doesn’t always come that easy when girls are referring to people of my size as fat....
Enjoy your day "
The thread definitely reads like a competition. I don't think the word "fat" magically transforms it from a discussion to a competition. The X vs/or Y nature of the OP did that...
Anyway, "fat" isn't any more or less offensive than "skinny minnie." Only you can decide if your quest to lose weight is worth it. Only you can decide to have self-confidence (which is, by its very nature not dependent on what others think, even "blokes").
If this thread is really about your quest or your self confidence then I'll say what I said originally - decide what makes you happy and do that. Otherwise this thread really is about validation from others, in which case is does become a type of competition. |
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"Curvy all day! Slim ladies have to be cute in the face.
But curvy women can be butt ugly?"
Nope that's certainly not what I meant lol I love curves, so if I'm with a slim lady in emphasis more on looks than I normally would. You get me ? |
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"I don't like the term skinny Minnie after all people get slaughtered for calling people fat. So I prefer slim or athletic ladies. Rather than the larger girls."
Yeah that's what irritated me. It seems to be acceptable somehow for people to call very slim women skinny minnies,but as someone has already stated the opposite of that is fat,but that's not acceptable is it apparently.
They alway's say skinny minnies as an insult as well whereas fat woman are curvy |
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"Always love how people jump all over these threads.
Slim and skinny are different in my eyes. As is lean. You can be lean and slim or lean and skinny and you can also be skinny and fat. What an oxymoron that is! You can be 'fat' and a size 10 or you can be 'lean' and a 14.
Personally I prefer to see curves, but a size 6 can be curvy just like a size 16 can be.
How can a size 6 be curvy?
A 6 is petite, doesn't mean they can't have an ass and boobs. "
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"I don't like the term skinny Minnie after all people get slaughtered for calling people fat. So I prefer slim or athletic ladies. Rather than the larger girls.
Yeah that's what irritated me. It seems to be acceptable somehow for people to call very slim women skinny minnies,but as someone has already stated the opposite of that is fat,but that's not acceptable is it apparently.
They alway's say skinny minnies as an insult as well whereas fat woman are curvy "
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"Sooo I’ve spent the best part of 15 years trying to achieve the perfect size 12 figure, however due to my love of good food and fine wine I’m fighting a losing battle.... what do blokes REALLY want? Tits, ass, thick thighs and curves or skinny girls they can fling around the room? Discuss...."
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"Sooo I’ve spent the best part of 15 years trying to achieve the perfect size 12 figure, however due to my love of good food and fine wine I’m fighting a losing battle.... what do blokes REALLY want? Tits, ass, thick thighs and curves or skinny girls they can fling around the room? Discuss....
A wet pussy is the only necessity, everything else is just a bonus! "
What like a pulse!  |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"They all like fat ladies. There I said it,we can all move on now that's settled
With fat comments like yours know wonder some women have issues"
Ah so it is quite acceptable to use the word 'skinny' instead of 'slim' but as soon as the 'fat' word is used instead of 'curvy' then that is an insult?
Yeah ok.....I get it now |
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By *ineMan
over a year ago
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"Personality sense of fun personality wit personality someone who captures my imagination personality a girl who can laugh at the world personality someone who has the same fire in her eyes every time we meet personality the girl who dares to live her dreams personality a girl who I think of first thing in a morning ladt thing at night and lots of times in between who wants to be with me as much as I want to be with them who is as happy in a ball gown as a field full of muddy dogs...oh and did I mention personality...
Maybe one day .....
Yeah,but fat or skinny? State your choice."
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Sincerely the age of my puberty, I've spent most of my days ogling women of all sizes Op. I know I don't speak for the rest of mankind, but woman are sexy regardless of that dress size you buy. Marylin Monroe was the most beautiful woman I know of. I know some woman like to point out she wasn't slim, I shrug because I wasn't alone thinking she was gorgeous. |
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"Personality sense of fun personality wit personality someone who captures my imagination personality a girl who can laugh at the world personality someone who has the same fire in her eyes every time we meet personality the girl who dares to live her dreams personality a girl who I think of first thing in a morning ladt thing at night and lots of times in between who wants to be with me as much as I want to be with them who is as happy in a ball gown as a field full of muddy dogs...oh and did I mention personality...
Maybe one day .....
Yeah,but fat or skinny? State your choice.
Creeps out quietly "
Wise! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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This post was always bound to be negative. We all have different preferences for partners, that's cool.
We should all be trying to encourage each other to be happy and if someone is trying to make a change in their life then support is what they need. Life can be hard enough as it is without any more hassle.
Nobody has ever been truly happy by trying to compare themselves to others to show them in a more positive light. |
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By *ineMan
over a year ago
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"Personality sense of fun personality wit personality someone who captures my imagination personality a girl who can laugh at the world personality someone who has the same fire in her eyes every time we meet personality the girl who dares to live her dreams personality a girl who I think of first thing in a morning ladt thing at night and lots of times in between who wants to be with me as much as I want to be with them who is as happy in a ball gown as a field full of muddy dogs...oh and did I mention personality...
Maybe one day .....
Yeah,but fat or skinny? State your choice.
Creeps out quietly
Wise!"
Never been accused of that before |
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"Sincerely the age of my puberty, I've spent most of my days ogling women of all sizes Op. I know I don't speak for the rest of mankind, but woman are sexy regardless of that dress size you buy. Marylin Monroe was the most beautiful woman I know of. I know some woman like to point out she wasn't slim, I shrug because I wasn't alone thinking she was gorgeous. "
What's sexy to one isn't sexy to all. It's that simple. |
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"I'm 16 and happy with my curves and had no complaints and can still be thrown around the bedroom .confidence and being happy with what you have is a good thing .real men love curves "
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
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"Always love how people jump all over these threads.
Slim and skinny are different in my eyes. As is lean. You can be lean and slim or lean and skinny and you can also be skinny and fat. What an oxymoron that is! You can be 'fat' and a size 10 or you can be 'lean' and a 14.
Personally I prefer to see curves, but a size 6 can be curvy just like a size 16 can be.
How can a size 6 be curvy?
A 6 is petite, doesn't mean they can't have an ass and boobs.
They would be a very odd shape if so."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"real men love curves"
I’m a bigger girl and I must say I really dislike this term.
Men have the right to love any body type they wish, as do women and everyone in between. |
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"Always love how people jump all over these threads.
Slim and skinny are different in my eyes. As is lean. You can be lean and slim or lean and skinny and you can also be skinny and fat. What an oxymoron that is! You can be 'fat' and a size 10 or you can be 'lean' and a 14.
Personally I prefer to see curves, but a size 6 can be curvy just like a size 16 can be.
How can a size 6 be curvy?
A 6 is petite, doesn't mean they can't have an ass and boobs.
They would be a very odd shape if so.
Really do I LOOK odd to you! "
Odd isn't the word I'd use |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
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"Sooo I’ve spent the best part of 15 years trying to achieve the perfect size 12 figure, however due to my love of good food and fine wine I’m fighting a losing battle.... what do blokes REALLY want? Tits, ass, thick thighs and curves or skinny girls they can fling around the room? Discuss....
A wet pussy is the only necessity, everything else is just a bonus!
What like a pulse! "
Its hob NOB time isnt it
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"Sooo I’ve spent the best part of 15 years trying to achieve the perfect size 12 figure, however due to my love of good food and fine wine I’m fighting a losing battle.... what do blokes REALLY want? Tits, ass, thick thighs and curves or skinny girls they can fling around the room? Discuss....
A wet pussy is the only necessity, everything else is just a bonus!
What like a pulse!
Its hob NOB time isnt it
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It appears so yes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Where is there a need to label everything these days.
You should like someone for being themselves.
I have fat but I'm not fat I am a human being.
People like/find attractive the people that they do....why is there a need to put it all on tick box theory.
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By *ineMan
over a year ago
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"Sooo I’ve spent the best part of 15 years trying to achieve the perfect size 12 figure, however due to my love of good food and fine wine I’m fighting a losing battle.... what do blokes REALLY want? Tits, ass, thick thighs and curves or skinny girls they can fling around the room? Discuss....
A wet pussy is the only necessity, everything else is just a bonus!
What like a pulse!
Its hob NOB time isnt it
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"I would imagine that every single guy has a different preference. Just like every women does too."
This!!
Why has it ALWAYS have to be about curvy Vs Skinny, fit Vs fat???
So long as you are happy in your own skin thats all that matters and those that don't prefer your physique, drop them out and find ones that do. |
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"Sooo I’ve spent the best part of 15 years trying to achieve the perfect size 12 figure, however due to my love of good food and fine wine I’m fighting a losing battle.... what do blokes REALLY want? Tits, ass, thick thighs and curves or skinny girls they can fling around the room? Discuss...."
Your opinion isn't biased at all lol |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
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"Sooo I’ve spent the best part of 15 years trying to achieve the perfect size 12 figure, however due to my love of good food and fine wine I’m fighting a losing battle.... what do blokes REALLY want? Tits, ass, thick thighs and curves or skinny girls they can fling around the room? Discuss....
A wet pussy is the only necessity, everything else is just a bonus!
What like a pulse!
Its hob NOB time isnt it
Got any custard creams "
Hah only choc hobnobs tonight |
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"Sincerely the age of my puberty, I've spent most of my days ogling women of all sizes Op. I know I don't speak for the rest of mankind, but woman are sexy regardless of that dress size you buy. Marylin Monroe was the most beautiful woman I know of. I know some woman like to point out she wasn't slim, I shrug because I wasn't alone thinking she was gorgeous.
What's sexy to one isn't sexy to all. It's that simple. "
Precisely |
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"Sincerely the age of my puberty, I've spent most of my days ogling women of all sizes Op. I know I don't speak for the rest of mankind, but woman are sexy regardless of that dress size you buy. Marylin Monroe was the most beautiful woman I know of. I know some woman like to point out she wasn't slim, I shrug because I wasn't alone thinking she was gorgeous.
What's sexy to one isn't sexy to all. It's that simple.
Precisely "
100% agree a person who is comfortable with themselves is the most sexy! |
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"Sincerely the age of my puberty, I've spent most of my days ogling women of all sizes Op. I know I don't speak for the rest of mankind, but woman are sexy regardless of that dress size you buy. Marylin Monroe was the most beautiful woman I know of. I know some woman like to point out she wasn't slim, I shrug because I wasn't alone thinking she was gorgeous.
What's sexy to one isn't sexy to all. It's that simple.
Precisely
100% agree a person who is comfortable with themselves is the most sexy! "
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over a year ago
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"Nice people please... size irrelevant.
Size is very relevant you can't sleep with someone who you don't find attractive "
To him he only find nice people attractive regardless of size. |
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"Nice people please... size irrelevant.
Size is very relevant you can't sleep with someone who you don't find attractive
To him he only find nice people attractive regardless of size."
Exactly... thank you |
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"Nice people please... size irrelevant.
Size is very relevant you can't sleep with someone who you don't find attractive
To him he only find nice people attractive regardless of size."
I've never understood when people say this.
I have to be physically attracted to somebody in order to want to have sex with them |
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"Nice people please... size irrelevant.
Size is very relevant you can't sleep with someone who you don't find attractive
To him he only find nice people attractive regardless of size.
I've never understood when people say this.
I have to be physically attracted to somebody in order to want to have sex with them "
Ok let me explain: it doesn’t matter how ‘hot’ (whatever that might be) one might be, you have to be a nice person. I’m not going to fuck someone e just because they’re hot. |
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"Nice people please... size irrelevant.
Size is very relevant you can't sleep with someone who you don't find attractive
To him he only find nice people attractive regardless of size.
I've never understood when people say this.
I have to be physically attracted to somebody in order to want to have sex with them
Ok let me explain: it doesn’t matter how ‘hot’ (whatever that might be) one might be, you have to be a nice person. I’m not going to fuck someone e just because they’re hot. "
Yeah I understand that, I'd never sleep with someone who was a dick but I would still need to be physically attracted to them
If a guy was hot and an idiot it would be a massive no go |
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"Sooo I’ve spent the best part of 15 years trying to achieve the perfect size 12 figure, however due to my love of good food and fine wine I’m fighting a losing battle.... what do blokes REALLY want? Tits, ass, thick thighs and curves or skinny girls they can fling around the room? Discuss...."
you look pretty perfect to me. |
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"Always love how people jump all over these threads.
Slim and skinny are different in my eyes. As is lean. You can be lean and slim or lean and skinny and you can also be skinny and fat. What an oxymoron that is! You can be 'fat' and a size 10 or you can be 'lean' and a 14.
Personally I prefer to see curves, but a size 6 can be curvy just like a size 16 can be.
How can a size 6 be curvy?
A 6 is petite, doesn't mean they can't have an ass and boobs.
They would be a very odd shape if so.
Really do I LOOK odd to you! "
Hard to say. I'm going to need a closer look.. |
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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"Always love how people jump all over these threads.
Slim and skinny are different in my eyes. As is lean. You can be lean and slim or lean and skinny and you can also be skinny and fat. What an oxymoron that is! You can be 'fat' and a size 10 or you can be 'lean' and a 14.
Personally I prefer to see curves, but a size 6 can be curvy just like a size 16 can be.
How can a size 6 be curvy?
A 6 is petite, doesn't mean they can't have an ass and boobs.
They would be a very odd shape if so.
Really do I LOOK odd to you! "
You didn't read my posts lower down where I pointed out my misunderstanding of how female clothes sizing works then? |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
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"Always love how people jump all over these threads.
Slim and skinny are different in my eyes. As is lean. You can be lean and slim or lean and skinny and you can also be skinny and fat. What an oxymoron that is! You can be 'fat' and a size 10 or you can be 'lean' and a 14.
Personally I prefer to see curves, but a size 6 can be curvy just like a size 16 can be.
How can a size 6 be curvy?
A 6 is petite, doesn't mean they can't have an ass and boobs.
They would be a very odd shape if so.
Really do I LOOK odd to you!
You didn't read my posts lower down where I pointed out my misunderstanding of how female clothes sizing works then? "
No I didnt. Odd is something Ive not been called before wouldnt life be boring if we were all the same
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"Nice people please... size irrelevant.
Size is very relevant you can't sleep with someone who you don't find attractive
To him he only find nice people attractive regardless of size.
I've never understood when people say this.
I have to be physically attracted to somebody in order to want to have sex with them
Ok let me explain: it doesn’t matter how ‘hot’ (whatever that might be) one might be, you have to be a nice person. I’m not going to fuck someone e just because they’re hot.
Yeah I understand that, I'd never sleep with someone who was a dick but I would still need to be physically attracted to them
If a guy was hot and an idiot it would be a massive no go"
Exactly. That’s not to say I haven’t let the superficial lead me before. |
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"Sooo I’ve spent the best part of 15 years trying to achieve the perfect size 12 figure, however due to my love of good food and fine wine I’m fighting a losing battle.... what do blokes REALLY want? Tits, ass, thick thighs and curves or skinny girls they can fling around the room? Discuss....
A wet pussy is the only necessity, everything else is just a bonus!
What like a pulse! "
Suppose that would be nice too... |
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"Always love how people jump all over these threads.
Slim and skinny are different in my eyes. As is lean. You can be lean and slim or lean and skinny and you can also be skinny and fat. What an oxymoron that is! You can be 'fat' and a size 10 or you can be 'lean' and a 14.
Personally I prefer to see curves, but a size 6 can be curvy just like a size 16 can be.
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"Sooo I’ve spent the best part of 15 years trying to achieve the perfect size 12 figure, however due to my love of good food and fine wine I’m fighting a losing battle.... what do blokes REALLY want? Tits, ass, thick thighs and curves or skinny girls they can fling around the room? Discuss....
A wet pussy is the only necessity, everything else is just a bonus!
What like a pulse!
Suppose that would be nice too... "
But not necessary though eh!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A simple solution is to add dress size and BMI to profiles as an option.
Some people will show it on profiles and other may choose to leave it blank.
I personally don't discriminate on body size but some do.
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