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Grrrrr!!! Housemate is a nightmare!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I’m the whole our housemates are lovely people, we all get along (not like it used to be) but there is this one guy who every weekend gets wasted on booze and etc and just talks bollocks to us, owes hundreds of pounds in rent (isn’t our problem of course but he gives us the money to give to the landlady as he is too scared of her) so bangs on about that for what seems like hours, comes in our room really late (we don’t like to lock the door when the kids are here in case we have an emergency) and he stinks the house out with his ‘herb smell’.
We’ve complained to the landlady but tonight he really pissed me off, we’re xooking the lamb for tomorrow’s dinner as we thought we would do it now and not take up too much time in the kitchen tomorrow being shared, he’s taken it out of the oven twice, barged in our room twice and then I was on my own with him and he made me feel so uncomfortable, he put his arm round me and tried to kiss me (I think lol), I’ve told Ads I don’t want to be alone with him now. He does it to the other girl that lives here too, goes in her room and stole her rabbit (real one lol) and started being suggestive to her.
Fucking pissing me off big time!!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Look for somewhere else to live.
It doesn't sound safe.
From what the landlady has said he’s not going to be here much longercan I get his room?  "
Hehe, he’s in our old room and all I can say is I’m sorry to the people that is now our room downstairs, you can hear every single thing... no wonder they had a baby about nine months after Ads and I got together!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Look for somewhere else to live.
It doesn't sound safe.
From what the landlady has said he’s not going to be here much longercan I get his room?
Hehe, he’s in our old room and all I can say is I’m sorry to the people that is now our room downstairs, you can hear every single thing... no wonder they had a baby about nine months after Ads and I got together!! "
what listening to you two trying to break the bed omg how much is rent ......wheres my piggy bank when I need it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Look for somewhere else to live.
It doesn't sound safe.
From what the landlady has said he’s not going to be here much longercan I get his room?
Hehe, he’s in our old room and all I can say is I’m sorry to the people that is now our room downstairs, you can hear every single thing... no wonder they had a baby about nine months after Ads and I got together!! what listening to you two trying to break the bed omg how much is rent ......wheres my piggy bank when I need it "
If only you was female lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Look for somewhere else to live.
It doesn't sound safe.
From what the landlady has said he’s not going to be here much longercan I get his room?
Hehe, he’s in our old room and all I can say is I’m sorry to the people that is now our room downstairs, you can hear every single thing... no wonder they had a baby about nine months after Ads and I got together!! what listening to you two trying to break the bed omg how much is rent ......wheres my piggy bank when I need it
If only you was female lol x"
damn thats what they all say |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Fuck me he took it out a fucking third time!!!!!  did you tell him the first time not to ? "
First time he said he wanted to use the oven so thought ok we would put it in after, then he comes in our room and said he put it in again, then it was out again and then Ads put it back and then we were there happy to wait until half two, go out at twenty past to it sitting on the side. He is perfectly aware he has fucked us off. Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Fuck me he took it out a fucking third time!!!!! did you tell him the first time not to ?
First time he said he wanted to use the oven so thought ok we would put it in after, then he comes in our room and said he put it in again, then it was out again and then Ads put it back and then we were there happy to wait until half two, go out at twenty past to it sitting on the side. He is perfectly aware he has fucked us off. Lol"
good because that's totally ruined the cooking time now |
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Not good your landlord will have to serve a section 21 to get rid this will give him 2 months to get out. Then the landlord can remove him however if he digs his heels in it could take 6 months sorry |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not good your landlord will have to serve a section 21 to get rid this will give him 2 months to get out. Then the landlord can remove him however if he digs his heels in it could take 6 months sorry "
If it's a multi occupancy house I'm pretty sure it's far easier to get soneone out than that.
But regardless, landlord needs to sort it out. Wholly inappropriate to rent rooms to families with kids and d*unks, it's not a safe environment. Amd if the landlord won't sort move and find a better landlord |
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"Why are you house sharing at your ages. Why not just get your own place "
I thought the same ... maybe you ate too mature to role play a student life now.
As for annoying flatmate you could also tell him how much he is getting on your nervous and threaten to stuff his arse with meat, put him in oven for new year dinner and carve him up if he does not shut up and grow up.... then again I think you all need to have a look at your lifestyle. |
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"If a bisexual lady would like to rent it that’d be ideal!!"
.......You got me at lamb dinner 
Seriously. I'd be reporting this all to the landlady to give her more weight to throw him out. Doesn't sound safe. Especially with the little uns around. |
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Maybe he wanted to go to sleep and the smell of lamb cooking at 2am woke him up. Can't be nice for the rest of the house for someone to be cooking at that time.
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"Why are you house sharing at your ages. Why not just get your own place "
Probably because of how much it can cost to rent a property pretty much anywhere in the south east. |
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"Maybe he wanted to go to sleep and the smell of lamb cooking at 2am woke him up. Can't be nice for the rest of the house for someone to be cooking at that time.
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Oh I just presumed the cooking was in the evening,if it's at 2am that's not good. |
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I'd be more concerned about the man thinking he can just walk into your room uninvited, especially if you leave the door unlocked when kids are there.
The fact he's also attempted to make a pass is very shit.
He's got no boundaries. |
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"Why are you house sharing at your ages. Why not just get your own place "
Because sometimes circumstances change. We would love a house and currently saving to change the circumstances. |
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"Maybe he wanted to go to sleep and the smell of lamb cooking at 2am woke him up. Can't be nice for the rest of the house for someone to be cooking at that time.
Oh I just presumed the cooking was in the evening,if it's at 2am that's not good."
It did not make any difference if 2am or 3pm, we wasn’t making any extra noise, everyone was up anyway that lives there so hence why we decided to cook at that time. If everyone was in bed we wouldn’t have. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Why are you house sharing at your ages. Why not just get your own place
I thought the same ... maybe you ate too mature to role play a student life now.
As for annoying flatmate you could also tell him how much he is getting on your nervous and threaten to stuff his arse with meat, put him in oven for new year dinner and carve him up if he does not shut up and grow up.... then again I think you all need to have a look at your lifestyle. "
We aren’t ‘playing the student life’ we had a house but unfortunately the landlord wanted it back and we had to take what we could, currently saving for a house or a flat but these things take time. |
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"Maybe he wanted to go to sleep and the smell of lamb cooking at 2am woke him up. Can't be nice for the rest of the house for someone to be cooking at that time.
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I hadnt realised the lamb was being cooked at 2 am ! Id be annoyed at that too ! Its not very thoughtful when sharing a house ! |
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"Maybe he wanted to go to sleep and the smell of lamb cooking at 2am woke him up. Can't be nice for the rest of the house for someone to be cooking at that time.
I hadnt realised the lamb was being cooked at 2 am ! Id be annoyed at that too ! Its not very thoughtful when sharing a house !"
Everyone was up, it’s that kind of house as lots do shift work etc, if everyone was asleep we wouldn’t have started cooking it lol. |
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"Maybe he wanted to go to sleep and the smell of lamb cooking at 2am woke him up. Can't be nice for the rest of the house for someone to be cooking at that time.
Oh I just presumed the cooking was in the evening,if it's at 2am that's not good.
It did not make any difference if 2am or 3pm, we wasn’t making any extra noise, everyone was up anyway that lives there so hence why we decided to cook at that time. If everyone was in bed we wouldn’t have."
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"Not good your landlord will have to serve a section 21 to get rid this will give him 2 months to get out. Then the landlord can remove him however if he digs his heels in it could take 6 months sorry "
Well the fact he hasn’t paid rent for 3 months so he is technically a squatter
We know all about the section 21 issue we decided not to go down that route when we were kick out of our house but I wish we had now.
As for “playing the student lifestyle” as people have put it. When houses are costing more than you’re earning why would you put yourself in debt surely that’s more irresponsible? We had a house the landlord was a dick and kicked us out (we didn’t realise he was being a dick at the time he pleaded poverty so needed to move back only for us to see the house go back up for an extra £250 per month). After the wedding our next step is a house/flat but we need the deposit first. People should try to understand other people’s situations before assuming we’re “role playing”
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"Not good your landlord will have to serve a section 21 to get rid this will give him 2 months to get out. Then the landlord can remove him however if he digs his heels in it could take 6 months sorry
Well the fact he hasn’t paid rent for 3 months so he is technically a squatter
We know all about the section 21 issue we decided not to go down that route when we were kick out of our house but I wish we had now.
As for “playing the student lifestyle” as people have put it. When houses are costing more than you’re earning why would you put yourself in debt surely that’s more irresponsible? We had a house the landlord was a dick and kicked us out (we didn’t realise he was being a dick at the time he pleaded poverty so needed to move back only for us to see the house go back up for an extra £250 per month). After the wedding our next step is a house/flat but we need the deposit first. People should try to understand other people’s situations before assuming we’re “role playing”
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What the hell are you moaning about ... what about that poor bloody lamb not only was he slautered and butchered to feel your guts he was then not even allowed to rest in peace ... ad you all squabble about who is carving him up ...
As a landlord I would evict all of you and take you to the market for sale.
God bless that wee lamb and his parents who are looking good around the field heartbroken |
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"Maybe he wanted to go to sleep and the smell of lamb cooking at 2am woke him up. Can't be nice for the rest of the house for someone to be cooking at that time.
I hadnt realised the lamb was being cooked at 2 am ! Id be annoyed at that too ! Its not very thoughtful when sharing a house !
Everyone was up, it’s that kind of house as lots do shift work etc, if everyone was asleep we wouldn’t have started cooking it lol."
Fair enough.
Are there any government grants to help with mortgage deposits? If this guy is kicked out it sounds like your current place will be fine for a while longer. If it's cheaper than other places it's worth staying as you'll be able to save more. You never know what eejits might be in a new place.  Hope your landlord gets it sorted soon. I'd be locking the door though. x |
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"What the hell are you moaning about ... what about that poor bloody lamb not only was he slautered and butchered to feel your guts he was then not even allowed to rest in peace ... ad you all squabble about who is carving him up ...
As a landlord I would evict all of you and take you to the market for sale.
God bless that wee lamb and his parents who are looking good around the field heartbroken "
Poor lamb rest in peace... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’ll be honest we just put it on here to vent
But thank you everyone for your advice etc"
If I may offer my advice from my point of view.
If you know what you're doing in your hearts is the right thing to do (and it most certainly is) don't ever explain yourself to critics, it's none of their damn business how you live your life.
Hope things work out for you |
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I'd want to get some clear rules and boundaries set, that he would not dare to cross. And a firm date that he is departing. You can be friendly but both of you insist he does not enter your room or touch physically, for example.
The other rules should relate to your property and his behaviour generally. Only accept his 100% agreement to them and nothing less. |
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keep taking the meat out the oven ? Hope he's better behaved when your children are there x
