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over a year ago
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My mum’s really struggling at the moment and I’m just getting used to the idea she might not be around for much longer. I feel for you. Do something special to remember her- celebrate all the good stuff  |
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over a year ago
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"My mum’s really struggling at the moment and I’m just getting used to the idea she might not be around for much longer. I feel for you. Do something special to remember her- celebrate all the good stuff "
I'm there too Doc. I feel mum slipping away a little every time I see her. This is going to be a tough one.
Jintz x |
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By *arlo82Woman
over a year ago
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Lost my mum last month so this will be the first mothers day without her.
I've always been an adventurous soul who enjoyed firsts..... this first however has to the worst one imaginable.
Hope you surround yourself with people who care and understand how tough it is |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lost my mum last month so this will be the first mothers day without her.
I've always been an adventurous soul who enjoyed firsts..... this first however has to the worst one imaginable.
Hope you surround yourself with people who care and understand how tough it is "
Time hon  so sorry for your loss.
I lost my Mum just over a year ago, and I swear my confidence and vibrancy died with her. Trying to get it back, but failing.
She was one solid presence, she had my back and fought for me, even when I was in the wrong she fought my corner. |
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I never quite know what to do on mother’s day, this will be the second one without her. Do I visit her grave? She was never one for visiting graves! When I have visited her grave I’ve never felt fulfilled just more upset. I’ve the added pressure this year that her house is going through being sold and having Solicitors mucking about for want of a better description...Think I’ll just spend the day thinking of times gone by.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not looking forward to this I miss my mum more than I can say.
So people who are lucky enough to have them around please spoil them.
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It's not nice. I lost my mum on my birthday so I really don't look forward to that either xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My mum’s really struggling at the moment and I’m just getting used to the idea she might not be around for much longer. I feel for you. Do something special to remember her- celebrate all the good stuff
I'm there too Doc. I feel mum slipping away a little every time I see her. This is going to be a tough one.
Jintz x"
My thoughts are with you x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Lost my mum last month so this will be the first mothers day without her.
I've always been an adventurous soul who enjoyed firsts..... this first however has to the worst one imaginable.
Hope you surround yourself with people who care and understand how tough it is "
wishing the same for you |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"I never quite know what to do on mother’s day, this will be the second one without her. Do I visit her grave? She was never one for visiting graves! When I have visited her grave I’ve never felt fulfilled just more upset. I’ve the added pressure this year that her house is going through being sold and having Solicitors mucking about for want of a better description...Think I’ll just spend the day thinking of times gone by...."
Visiting loved one's graves isn't for everyone. My little sister struggles to go, but she lights a candle, for our mum, everyday and puts it next to her photo with fresh flowers. I get a lot of comfort visiting her grave and will go there on mother's day. You have to do what gives you comfort and just sitting quietly and reflecting on your memories, is a good way. Hugs  |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"My mum’s really struggling at the moment and I’m just getting used to the idea she might not be around for much longer. I feel for you. Do something special to remember her- celebrate all the good stuff "
I know how this feels, was dreading losing her and it was devastating when she died. We have to be strong, as their children, but yes it's hard. Hugs |
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"I never quite know what to do on mother’s day, this will be the second one without her. Do I visit her grave? She was never one for visiting graves! When I have visited her grave I’ve never felt fulfilled just more upset. I’ve the added pressure this year that her house is going through being sold and having Solicitors mucking about for want of a better description...Think I’ll just spend the day thinking of times gone by...."
I lost my mum. 4 years ago ....I never visit the crematorium ... my mum isnt there .
On mothers day I buy some pink roses ... put them in a vase in my kitchen .... so I see them everyday . |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"I never quite know what to do on mother’s day, this will be the second one without her. Do I visit her grave? She was never one for visiting graves! When I have visited her grave I’ve never felt fulfilled just more upset. I’ve the added pressure this year that her house is going through being sold and having Solicitors mucking about for want of a better description...Think I’ll just spend the day thinking of times gone by....
I lost my mum. 4 years ago ....I never visit the crematorium ... my mum isnt there .
On mothers day I buy some pink roses ... put them in a vase in my kitchen .... so I see them everyday ."
That's lovely |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"Our kids treat me to loads of nice things on the morning then the day turns sad for us as we do the cemetery visits for Mark's mum then mine  "
It is sad for you all, but you have your lovely children to help you through |
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"I never quite know what to do on mother’s day, this will be the second one without her. Do I visit her grave? She was never one for visiting graves! When I have visited her grave I’ve never felt fulfilled just more upset. I’ve the added pressure this year that her house is going through being sold and having Solicitors mucking about for want of a better description...Think I’ll just spend the day thinking of times gone by....
Visiting loved one's graves isn't for everyone. My little sister struggles to go, but she lights a candle, for our mum, everyday and puts it next to her photo with fresh flowers. I get a lot of comfort visiting her grave and will go there on mother's day. You have to do what gives you comfort and just sitting quietly and reflecting on your memories, is a good way. Hugs "
Thank you |
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"I never quite know what to do on mother’s day, this will be the second one without her. Do I visit her grave? She was never one for visiting graves! When I have visited her grave I’ve never felt fulfilled just more upset. I’ve the added pressure this year that her house is going through being sold and having Solicitors mucking about for want of a better description...Think I’ll just spend the day thinking of times gone by....
I lost my mum. 4 years ago ....I never visit the crematorium ... my mum isnt there .
On mothers day I buy some pink roses ... put them in a vase in my kitchen .... so I see them everyday ."
I may do this. My mum loved daffodils, I see them and think of her. Does it get easier as the years go by? |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"I never quite know what to do on mother’s day, this will be the second one without her. Do I visit her grave? She was never one for visiting graves! When I have visited her grave I’ve never felt fulfilled just more upset. I’ve the added pressure this year that her house is going through being sold and having Solicitors mucking about for want of a better description...Think I’ll just spend the day thinking of times gone by....
Visiting loved one's graves isn't for everyone. My little sister struggles to go, but she lights a candle, for our mum, everyday and puts it next to her photo with fresh flowers. I get a lot of comfort visiting her grave and will go there on mother's day. You have to do what gives you comfort and just sitting quietly and reflecting on your memories, is a good way. Hugs
Thank you "
You're welcome, lovely and it does get a little easier, but there will always be difficult times |
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By *uxom red OP Couple
over a year ago
Shrewsbury |
"Thank you all your comments.
Big hugs to all who've lost loved ones.
Big Hugs to you too xx"
Thank you its especially hard when mum died this year it falls on mothers day.
She was taken into hospital on mothers day too. |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"Thank you all your comments.
Big hugs to all who've lost loved ones.
Big Hugs to you too xx
Thank you its especially hard when mum died this year it falls on mothers day.
She was taken into hospital on mothers day too."
Oh dear, bless you.xx |
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By *uxom red OP Couple
over a year ago
Shrewsbury |
"First one without my mum this year.still find myself looking at cards.i forget for a second. "
I do it ever year, I think about taking one to her grave then I hear her telling me not to be daft spend the money on the kids,
Dicks mum past away six months before mine so despite being a mum it's a pretty crappy day.
She would also say don't waste your money. |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"First one without my mum this year.still find myself looking at cards.i forget for a second.
I do it ever year, I think about taking one to her grave then I hear her telling me not to be daft spend the money on the kids,
Dicks mum past away six months before mine so despite being a mum it's a pretty crappy day.
She would also say don't waste your money. "
You do what you feel |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"First one without my mum this year.still find myself looking at cards.i forget for a second.
Ah, sorry to hear that. I still look at cards longingly "
thank you.still miss her.thought she be here for ever.so quick her going no time to spend with her.x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"First one without my mum this year.still find myself looking at cards.i forget for a second.
I do it ever year, I think about taking one to her grave then I hear her telling me not to be daft spend the money on the kids,
Dicks mum past away six months before mine so despite being a mum it's a pretty crappy day.
She would also say don't waste your money.
You do what you feel "
we havent scattered her ashes yet so no were to go.but I'll think about her.x |
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By *uxom red OP Couple
over a year ago
Shrewsbury |
"First one without my mum this year.still find myself looking at cards.i forget for a second.
I do it ever year, I think about taking one to her grave then I hear her telling me not to be daft spend the money on the kids,
Dicks mum past away six months before mine so despite being a mum it's a pretty crappy day.
She would also say don't waste your money.
You do what you feel "
I wouldn't want to upset her, I feel she looks out for me even though she's not physically here if that makes sense. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Big hugs to all you guys who have lost your mummas 
Mine lives in Bulgaria now, but will be over in May for a few weeks so we'll have ours late.
I was born on mother's day...which is kinda cool 
We may go take Jeff's mum out...or get might |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"First one without my mum this year.still find myself looking at cards.i forget for a second.
I do it ever year, I think about taking one to her grave then I hear her telling me not to be daft spend the money on the kids,
Dicks mum past away six months before mine so despite being a mum it's a pretty crappy day.
She would also say don't waste your money.
You do what you feel
I wouldn't want to upset her, I feel she looks out for me even though she's not physically here if that makes sense. "
Makes loads of sense to me |
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By *uxom red OP Couple
over a year ago
Shrewsbury |
"I'm probably guessing it's a good thing... I grew up without her... and I'm a fucking delight "
My mum never knew her birth mother and finally met her siblings after 60+ years apart only to die shortly after. |
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By *uxom red OP Couple
over a year ago
Shrewsbury |
"First one without my mum this year.still find myself looking at cards.i forget for a second.
I do it ever year, I think about taking one to her grave then I hear her telling me not to be daft spend the money on the kids,
Dicks mum past away six months before mine so despite being a mum it's a pretty crappy day.
She would also say don't waste your money.
You do what you feel
I wouldn't want to upset her, I feel she looks out for me even though she's not physically here if that makes sense.
Makes loads of sense to me "
Thank you x |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"Big hugs to all you guys who have lost your mummas
Mine lives in Bulgaria now, but will be over in May for a few weeks so we'll have ours late.
I was born on mother's day...which is kinda cool
We may go take Jeff's mum out...or get might "
Well you all have a lovely time |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"I'm probably guessing it's a good thing... I grew up without her... and I'm a fucking delight
My mum never knew her birth mother and finally met her siblings after 60+ years apart only to die shortly after. "
Oh goodness, but at least she finally met them |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"First one without my mum this year.still find myself looking at cards.i forget for a second.
I do it ever year, I think about taking one to her grave then I hear her telling me not to be daft spend the money on the kids,
Dicks mum past away six months before mine so despite being a mum it's a pretty crappy day.
She would also say don't waste your money.
You do what you feel
I wouldn't want to upset her, I feel she looks out for me even though she's not physically here if that makes sense.
Makes loads of sense to me
Thank you x"
You're welcome.xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I realise how lucky I am as not only do I have my mum and dad but I also have a nan with me too... My life will crumble when one of them goes so my love to ALL of you without a parent xxxx |
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By *uxom red OP Couple
over a year ago
Shrewsbury |
"I'm probably guessing it's a good thing... I grew up without her... and I'm a fucking delight
My mum never knew her birth mother and finally met her siblings after 60+ years apart only to die shortly after.
Oh goodness, but at least she finally met them "
Maybe but non have kept in touch. So wasn't a big thing for them I guess |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"I realise how lucky I am as not only do I have my mum and dad but I also have a nan with me too... My life will crumble when one of them goes so my love to ALL of you without a parent xxxx"
Thank you lovely and I know you cherish them all |
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By *uxom red OP Couple
over a year ago
Shrewsbury |
"I realise how lucky I am as not only do I have my mum and dad but I also have a nan with me too... My life will crumble when one of them goes so my love to ALL of you without a parent xxxx"
You'd be surprised on how life just goes on because you have no choice.
I guess I've never had time to greive due to life going on around me, I expect when I do its going to be pretty shitty |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"I'm probably guessing it's a good thing... I grew up without her... and I'm a fucking delight
My mum never knew her birth mother and finally met her siblings after 60+ years apart only to die shortly after.
Oh goodness, but at least she finally met them
Maybe but non have kept in touch. So wasn't a big thing for them I guess "
That's strange, isn't it? |
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By *uxom red OP Couple
over a year ago
Shrewsbury |
"I'm probably guessing it's a good thing... I grew up without her... and I'm a fucking delight
My mum never knew her birth mother and finally met her siblings after 60+ years apart only to die shortly after.
Oh goodness, but at least she finally met them
Maybe but non have kept in touch. So wasn't a big thing for them I guess
That's strange, isn't it? "
You live without knowing some one or their existence for 60 years I guess it's no big deal to them they never knew her or the family
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"I'm probably guessing it's a good thing... I grew up without her... and I'm a fucking delight
My mum never knew her birth mother and finally met her siblings after 60+ years apart only to die shortly after.
Oh goodness, but at least she finally met them
Maybe but non have kept in touch. So wasn't a big thing for them I guess
That's strange, isn't it?
You live without knowing some one or their existence for 60 years I guess it's no big deal to them they never knew her or the family
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I don't know how I'd react, I think I would want to know everything. |
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By *uxom red OP Couple
over a year ago
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"I'm probably guessing it's a good thing... I grew up without her... and I'm a fucking delight
My mum never knew her birth mother and finally met her siblings after 60+ years apart only to die shortly after.
Oh goodness, but at least she finally met them
Maybe but non have kept in touch. So wasn't a big thing for them I guess
That's strange, isn't it?
You live without knowing some one or their existence for 60 years I guess it's no big deal to them they never knew her or the family
I don't know how I'd react, I think I would want to know everything."
Mum knew she was adopted and never questioned why it was the siblings that found her and then stopped, maybe they answered their own questions |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Everyone in this thread seems to lost their mum .
Times like this make a me realise how lucky I am to still have my great nan, my grandad, my mum, myself and my children still alive and healthy.
5 generations celebrating mothers day has been a wonderful thing.
However you guys choose to spend your day, I hope mothering Sunday ends up with happy smiley memories for You! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I realise how lucky I am as not only do I have my mum and dad but I also have a nan with me too... My life will crumble when one of them goes so my love to ALL of you without a parent xxxx
Thank you lovely and I know you cherish them all "
I really, really do |
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By *uxom red OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Everyone in this thread seems to lost their mum .
Times like this make a me realise how lucky I am to still have my great nan, my grandad, my mum, myself and my children still alive and healthy.
5 generations celebrating mothers day has been a wonderful thing.
However you guys choose to spend your day, I hope mothering Sunday ends up with happy smiley memories for You! "
That's why I posted the thread, make the most of your mum, or dad while they are still with you
Make memories count! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I realise how lucky I am as not only do I have my mum and dad but I also have a nan with me too... My life will crumble when one of them goes so my love to ALL of you without a parent xxxx
You'd be surprised on how life just goes on because you have no choice.
I guess I've never had time to greive due to life going on around me, I expect when I do its going to be pretty shitty"
It will be very hard for me because they are all I have left of my family - I lost my 2 babies in the womb - so I will be bereft when they have all gone xx |
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By *uxom red OP Couple
over a year ago
Shrewsbury |
"I realise how lucky I am as not only do I have my mum and dad but I also have a nan with me too... My life will crumble when one of them goes so my love to ALL of you without a parent xxxx
You'd be surprised on how life just goes on because you have no choice.
I guess I've never had time to greive due to life going on around me, I expect when I do its going to be pretty shitty
It will be very hard for me because they are all I have left of my family - I lost my 2 babies in the womb - so I will be bereft when they have all gone xx"
Oh I'm so sorry to hear this,makes me feel so bad what I posted before. |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"I'm probably guessing it's a good thing... I grew up without her... and I'm a fucking delight
My mum never knew her birth mother and finally met her siblings after 60+ years apart only to die shortly after.
Oh goodness, but at least she finally met them
Maybe but non have kept in touch. So wasn't a big thing for them I guess
That's strange, isn't it?
You live without knowing some one or their existence for 60 years I guess it's no big deal to them they never knew her or the family
I don't know how I'd react, I think I would want to know everything.
Mum knew she was adopted and never questioned why it was the siblings that found her and then stopped, maybe they answered their own questions "
Hmmm...maybe, yes. |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"I realise how lucky I am as not only do I have my mum and dad but I also have a nan with me too... My life will crumble when one of them goes so my love to ALL of you without a parent xxxx
You'd be surprised on how life just goes on because you have no choice.
I guess I've never had time to greive due to life going on around me, I expect when I do its going to be pretty shitty
It will be very hard for me because they are all I have left of my family - I lost my 2 babies in the womb - so I will be bereft when they have all gone xx
Oh I'm so sorry to hear this,makes me feel so bad what I posted before. "
Don't feel bad, a lot of us here have lost a loved one and that's hard for us all. |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"I realise how lucky I am as not only do I have my mum and dad but I also have a nan with me too... My life will crumble when one of them goes so my love to ALL of you without a parent xxxx
You'd be surprised on how life just goes on because you have no choice.
I guess I've never had time to greive due to life going on around me, I expect when I do its going to be pretty shitty
It will be very hard for me because they are all I have left of my family - I lost my 2 babies in the womb - so I will be bereft when they have all gone xx"
Xxx |
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By *uxom red OP Couple
over a year ago
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"I realise how lucky I am as not only do I have my mum and dad but I also have a nan with me too... My life will crumble when one of them goes so my love to ALL of you without a parent xxxx
You'd be surprised on how life just goes on because you have no choice.
I guess I've never had time to greive due to life going on around me, I expect when I do its going to be pretty shitty
It will be very hard for me because they are all I have left of my family - I lost my 2 babies in the womb - so I will be bereft when they have all gone xx
Oh I'm so sorry to hear this,makes me feel so bad what I posted before.
Don't feel bad, a lot of us here have lost a loved one and that's hard for us all. "
I do it's just me, I don't like people feeling bad |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"I realise how lucky I am as not only do I have my mum and dad but I also have a nan with me too... My life will crumble when one of them goes so my love to ALL of you without a parent xxxx
You'd be surprised on how life just goes on because you have no choice.
I guess I've never had time to greive due to life going on around me, I expect when I do its going to be pretty shitty
It will be very hard for me because they are all I have left of my family - I lost my 2 babies in the womb - so I will be bereft when they have all gone xx
Oh I'm so sorry to hear this,makes me feel so bad what I posted before.
Don't feel bad, a lot of us here have lost a loved one and that's hard for us all.
I do it's just me, I don't like people feeling bad "
Ah, bless you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Is it wrong to care for your mother at my age where she now in hospital with pneumonia which she fighting and hopefully wining the fight i saw her in hospital for her birthday yesterday she now 77 years old.. |
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By *uxom red OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Is it wrong to care for your mother at my age where she now in hospital with pneumonia which she fighting and hopefully wining the fight i saw her in hospital for her birthday yesterday she now 77 years old.."
No not at all, you should cate for your mum what ever age you both are and make the most of the time you have with her..
Mum was 77 when she died. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Last Mother’s Day we all went out for a family meal. Mum had just got out of hospital. At the meal she mentioned it would probably be her last. She’s still with us. Recently moved into a lovely care home. She’s made new friends.
She’s on oxygen 24/7 but knows that she won’t get any better. She’s recently paid for her funeral.
Every day is a bonus. I can’t see her daily due to distance but we chat every day
Wishing she is here this mother’s Day. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is it wrong to care for your mother at my age where she now in hospital with pneumonia which she fighting and hopefully wining the fight i saw her in hospital for her birthday yesterday she now 77 years old..
No not at all, you should cate for your mum what ever age you both are and make the most of the time you have with her..
Mum was 77 when she died. "
thanks... well its a dam cold day today its showed |
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"I realise how lucky I am as not only do I have my mum and dad but I also have a nan with me too... My life will crumble when one of them goes so my love to ALL of you without a parent xxxx
You'd be surprised on how life just goes on because you have no choice.
I guess I've never had time to greive due to life going on around me, I expect when I do its going to be pretty shitty
It will be very hard for me because they are all I have left of my family - I lost my 2 babies in the womb - so I will be bereft when they have all gone xx"
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I know how you feel. I had multiple miscarriages and have no living children. My first child’s due date was Mothering Sunday which was especially hard. Deep in my heart I am a mum. I have carried and loved my babies. Even though I didn’t get to hold them in my arms, I will always carry them with me in my heart. But, I have no one to buy me a card which breaks my heart year after year. I no longer have my grandparents and parents are aging and not in the best of health. Although I no longer make a big fuss for my mum, it’s just too emotionally hard a day for me, I do send her a card and let her know I love her. I know the time will come when I can’t do that anymore and I have no idea how I’ll cope with Mothering Sunday then |
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for reasons that only my own mother knows, she has chosen not to acknowledge my daughter, so since she was born, i’ve not seen my mother..... coming up to 8 years this year.
families eh  |
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By *uxom red OP Couple
over a year ago
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"for reasons that only my own mother knows, she has chosen not to acknowledge my daughter, so since she was born, i’ve not seen my mother..... coming up to 8 years this year.
families eh "
That socks, my daughter refuses to acknowledge me and has done since my mum died so nearly 3 years |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"for reasons that only my own mother knows, she has chosen not to acknowledge my daughter, so since she was born, i’ve not seen my mother..... coming up to 8 years this year.
families eh
That socks, my daughter refuses to acknowledge me and has done since my mum died so nearly 3 years "
That's very sad, sorry to hear this |
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By *uxom red OP Couple
over a year ago
Shrewsbury |
"for reasons that only my own mother knows, she has chosen not to acknowledge my daughter, so since she was born, i’ve not seen my mother..... coming up to 8 years this year.
families eh
That socks, my daughter refuses to acknowledge me and has done since my mum died so nearly 3 years
That's very sad, sorry to hear this "
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"for reasons that only my own mother knows, she has chosen not to acknowledge my daughter, so since she was born, i’ve not seen my mother..... coming up to 8 years this year.
families eh
That socks, my daughter refuses to acknowledge me and has done since my mum died so nearly 3 years
That's very sad, sorry to hear this thank you. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"for reasons that only my own mother knows, she has chosen not to acknowledge my daughter, so since she was born, i’ve not seen my mother..... coming up to 8 years this year.
families eh
That socks, my daughter refuses to acknowledge me and has done since my mum died so nearly 3 years
That's very sad, sorry to hear this "
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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago
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Ive neverhad a close relationship with my mum butstill make a point of seeing her mothers day, her birthday and christmas.... take flowers cards and presents. I got a card in the post for my birthday last weekend. She lives 6 miles away.
My stepmum however im very close to... she had a stroke just before christmas and is still pretty poorly in hospital, theyve just dicovered she has cancer of her bladder too so things are not looking good. I visit most days, as much to see my dad guess and be a support to him.
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By *uxom red OP Couple
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"Ive neverhad a close relationship with my mum butstill make a point of seeing her mothers day, her birthday and christmas.... take flowers cards and presents. I got a card in the post for my birthday last weekend. She lives 6 miles away.
My stepmum however im very close to... she had a stroke just before christmas and is still pretty poorly in hospital, theyve just dicovered she has cancer of her bladder too so things are not looking good. I visit most days, as much to see my dad guess and be a support to him.
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Sorry to hear this hope she gets better x |
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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago
Slough Windsor ish |
"Ive neverhad a close relationship with my mum butstill make a point of seeing her mothers day, her birthday and christmas.... take flowers cards and presents. I got a card in the post for my birthday last weekend. She lives 6 miles away.
My stepmum however im very close to... she had a stroke just before christmas and is still pretty poorly in hospital, theyve just dicovered she has cancer of her bladder too so things are not looking good. I visit most days, as much to see my dad guess and be a support to him.
Sorry to hear this hope she gets better x "
Thank you x |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"Ive neverhad a close relationship with my mum butstill make a point of seeing her mothers day, her birthday and christmas.... take flowers cards and presents. I got a card in the post for my birthday last weekend. She lives 6 miles away.
My stepmum however im very close to... she had a stroke just before christmas and is still pretty poorly in hospital, theyve just dicovered she has cancer of her bladder too so things are not looking good. I visit most days, as much to see my dad guess and be a support to him.
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I'm so sorry to hear your stepmum is poorly and I'm sure your dad appreciates your support. Best wishes. Xx |
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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago
Slough Windsor ish |
"Ive neverhad a close relationship with my mum butstill make a point of seeing her mothers day, her birthday and christmas.... take flowers cards and presents. I got a card in the post for my birthday last weekend. She lives 6 miles away.
My stepmum however im very close to... she had a stroke just before christmas and is still pretty poorly in hospital, theyve just dicovered she has cancer of her bladder too so things are not looking good. I visit most days, as much to see my dad guess and be a support to him.
I'm so sorry to hear your stepmum is poorly and I'm sure your dad appreciates your support. Best wishes. Xx"
Thank you x |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"Ive neverhad a close relationship with my mum butstill make a point of seeing her mothers day, her birthday and christmas.... take flowers cards and presents. I got a card in the post for my birthday last weekend. She lives 6 miles away.
My stepmum however im very close to... she had a stroke just before christmas and is still pretty poorly in hospital, theyve just dicovered she has cancer of her bladder too so things are not looking good. I visit most days, as much to see my dad guess and be a support to him.
I'm so sorry to hear your stepmum is poorly and I'm sure your dad appreciates your support. Best wishes. Xx
Thank you x"
Hey, you're welcome |
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