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"I fully agree. When you've found a good few. Why do you need the rest? " Becoming massively disillusioned here as that was always my understanding | |||
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"What is the big deal if someone wants sex more than once? Is there some code thing written that states can be for one meet only if following on from social you get on etc? Totally perplexed by this? If I get half decent sex on the first whirl why wouldn't I go back for seconds? " So greedy! You'll get what you're given and be grateful! | |||
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"I feel akward in asking for a repeat - there are people I would love to repeate with ![]() Why feel awkward if you've already done it once, awkwardness shudnt be there, just come out with it haha | |||
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"Repeat meets very difficult to find in my experience. Granted I could be crap in bed, but more likely because men always think there's something better round the corner. And I didn’t come here for a series of one-offs. Most disappointing. " This is exactly how I feel and why I've almost quit looking. They stay friends with you though as a back up if they can't get any. | |||
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"Repeat meets very difficult to find in my experience. Granted I could be crap in bed, but more likely because men always think there's something better round the corner. And I didn’t come here for a series of one-offs. Most disappointing. This is exactly how I feel and why I've almost quit looking. They stay friends with you though as a back up if they can't get any. " Haha how very true! | |||
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"I feel akward in asking for a repeat - there are people I would love to repeate with ![]() why? | |||
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"Repeat meets very difficult to find in my experience. Granted I could be crap in bed, but more likely because men always think there's something better round the corner. And I didn’t come here for a series of one-offs. Most disappointing. This is exactly how I feel and why I've almost quit looking. They stay friends with you though as a back up if they can't get any. " I've experienced this, they think the grass is greener, find out it isn't and want to meet again. I politely decline. I won't be anyone's booty call when they can't get it elsewhere and see me as their back up plan. It's insulting. | |||
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"Repeat meets very difficult to find in my experience. Granted I could be crap in bed, but more likely because men always think there's something better round the corner. And I didn’t come here for a series of one-offs. Most disappointing. This is exactly how I feel and why I've almost quit looking. They stay friends with you though as a back up if they can't get any. " Yeah i unfriend them ![]() | |||
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"Who has said it’s a big deal? I’ve got the impression on here that most like repeat meets because they say the sex gets better the more they get to know each other’s bodies." ![]() | |||
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"Are they initially only looking for one offs OP? I always make sure the ones I meet are looking for similar to me, from the off. There are certain flags that you can look out for. What they say on their profile, how often the do in fact meet and if it correlates with their profile text. It's not fool proof, bit it has steered me well in choosing wisely ![]() Some that I've met when I first joined would say they wanted regular, never to be heard from again. That's part of the reason I insist on social meets first it we eds them out. | |||
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"I fully agree. When you've found a good few. Why do you need the rest? Becoming massively disillusioned here as that was always my understanding " Don’t be, there are ppl who want repeat meets, I only ever met if it was with a view to repeating. Obviously it may be that after meeting one or both of you don’t want to repeat, that’s life. I never met anyone who only wanted one offs there was no point ![]() | |||
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"Are they initially only looking for one offs OP? I always make sure the ones I meet are looking for similar to me, from the off. There are certain flags that you can look out for. What they say on their profile, how often the do in fact meet and if it correlates with their profile text. It's not fool proof, bit it has steered me well in choosing wisely ![]() I think when we first join, it's all new and we can be a little naive in our choosing. As we are on here for longer, we get a feel for the ones who are telling you what you want to hear, to meet you ![]() | |||
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"Some people enjoy the thrill of the chase as much as an actual meet. Some people dangle meets like a carrot, but ultimately they enjoy the flattery of your attention but they have a far better offer that they are pursuing. If they only ever intend things to be a one off, let them crack on. The worst thing you can do on here is devalue yourself for the sake of a fuck." Oh i never would.... I'm just disillusioned with the attitude of only wanting a one off. I've had guys message me after saying I was on their bucket list as their fantasy fuck but they believe a fantasy should only happen once....... Sex was easier in the 90's haha | |||
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"Are they initially only looking for one offs OP? I always make sure the ones I meet are looking for similar to me, from the off. There are certain flags that you can look out for. What they say on their profile, how often the do in fact meet and if it correlates with their profile text. It's not fool proof, bit it has steered me well in choosing wisely ![]() The problem Ive found is they say the same but alas lie. Then you soon realise actions dont match the words. Then you realise they have many fingers in many pies. The truth doesnt always lie within the profile. Follow your instincts they are normally right. ![]() | |||
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"Having seen the problems and misunderstandings that can occur when people meet more than once I can understand why people don't." I can too, but it would be nice if they made it clear that they only want one off, that's fine, it's the ones that lie and say they want regular with no intention of it. At least we can make an informed choice. ![]() | |||
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"Are they initially only looking for one offs OP? I always make sure the ones I meet are looking for similar to me, from the off. There are certain flags that you can look out for. What they say on their profile, how often the do in fact meet and if it correlates with their profile text. It's not fool proof, bit it has steered me well in choosing wisely ![]() ![]() That's why I say it's not fool proof. You can't always trust what someone says on here. You are right. The gut instinct always plays a major part ![]() | |||
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"Having seen the problems and misunderstandings that can occur when people meet more than once I can understand why people don't. I can too, but it would be nice if they made it clear that they only want one off, that's fine, it's the ones that lie and say they want regular with no intention of it. At least we can make an informed choice. ![]() And that's the problem. People lie to get sex, a partially informed choice is all you'll ever get. It's wise to assume that what you're being told is geared to getting you into bed once and no more. | |||
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"Having seen the problems and misunderstandings that can occur when people meet more than once I can understand why people don't. I can too, but it would be nice if they made it clear that they only want one off, that's fine, it's the ones that lie and say they want regular with no intention of it. At least we can make an informed choice. ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Having seen the problems and misunderstandings that can occur when people meet more than once I can understand why people don't. I can too, but it would be nice if they made it clear that they only want one off, that's fine, it's the ones that lie and say they want regular with no intention of it. At least we can make an informed choice. ![]() Yes this....its about informed choices with people who can be open and bloody honest. ![]() | |||
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"Having seen the problems and misunderstandings that can occur when people meet more than once I can understand why people don't. I can too, but it would be nice if they made it clear that they only want one off, that's fine, it's the ones that lie and say they want regular with no intention of it. At least we can make an informed choice. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"What is the big deal if someone wants sex more than once? Is there some code thing written that states can be for one meet only if following on from social you get on etc? Totally perplexed by this? If I get half decent sex on the first whirl why wouldn't I go back for seconds? " Repeated encounters are far better in my opinion. It takes a while to learn what makes the other tick so to speak. The first time is never as good as the tenth, inhibitions are lost as time goes by and you learn as you go as to how to make the other happy and I’m all about making a girl happy. ![]() | |||
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"Repeat meets very difficult to find in my experience. Granted I could be crap in bed, but more likely because men always think there's something better round the corner. And I didn’t come here for a series of one-offs. Most disappointing. This is exactly how I feel and why I've almost quit looking. They stay friends with you though as a back up if they can't get any. Yeah i unfriend them ![]() This.. And I think a lot of people like the chase. | |||
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"If it’s good, it’s good. And if it’s good, I want more. " This ![]() | |||
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"What is the big deal if someone wants sex more than once? Is there some code thing written that states can be for one meet only if following on from social you get on etc? Totally perplexed by this? If I get half decent sex on the first whirl why wouldn't I go back for seconds? " Perhaps they are that bad sexualky they know you will never want to meet them again. Maybe theu are subliminally warning you, that you will be let down. | |||
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"Wanders in reads thread... Sees so many saying they want more than one off meets and it always gets better as we learn each other. Thinks I'm sure I have written that it something close to it so many times....and yet... *smiles* introspectivly. Wanders silently back into the man cave.... " Stop hiding then! ![]() | |||
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"All I get is before we've even had sex is it'll be a one off! ![]() If they are honest and say they only want a one night stand do you still fuck them, even if that's not what you want? | |||
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"All I get is before we've even had sex is it'll be a one off! ![]() I say you can then make that call | |||
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"All I get is before we've even had sex is it'll be a one off! ![]() Only one person has only ever admitted to that, and I did because he was so hot! Also clubs are a different matter, as I don't live near any I don't expect repeat meets from those. | |||
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"Are they initially only looking for one offs OP? I always make sure the ones I meet are looking for similar to me, from the off. There are certain flags that you can look out for. What they say on their profile, how often the do in fact meet and if it correlates with their profile text. It's not fool proof, bit it has steered me well in choosing wisely ![]() ![]() But why wouldn't folk have their fingers in many pies? Surely it is the nature of the site, for men to be like a kid in a candy shop. | |||
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"Are they initially only looking for one offs OP? I always make sure the ones I meet are looking for similar to me, from the off. There are certain flags that you can look out for. What they say on their profile, how often the do in fact meet and if it correlates with their profile text. It's not fool proof, bit it has steered me well in choosing wisely ![]() ![]() or women. | |||
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"Are they initially only looking for one offs OP? I always make sure the ones I meet are looking for similar to me, from the off. There are certain flags that you can look out for. What they say on their profile, how often the do in fact meet and if it correlates with their profile text. It's not fool proof, bit it has steered me well in choosing wisely ![]() ![]() They wouldn't do such a thing surely? It's only the men who behave in such a manner | |||
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"* ducks * what about trying before you but though? ![]() This has to be how you approach sex off here. You can't commit to anything, in case you aren't sexually compatible. | |||
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"Regular sex with same person.....oh boy ![]() Exactly, aren’t we here to avoid that lol Darlo oh Darlo lll | |||
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"Are they initially only looking for one offs OP? I always make sure the ones I meet are looking for similar to me, from the off. There are certain flags that you can look out for. What they say on their profile, how often the do in fact meet and if it correlates with their profile text. It's not fool proof, bit it has steered me well in choosing wisely ![]() ![]() Nothing wrong with that...its about being honest, open with integrity. ![]() ![]() | |||
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"You have to try it before you buy it after you buy it there are 28 days to properly try it then you are fucked! " It's a refund policy ![]() | |||
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"Are they initially only looking for one offs OP? I always make sure the ones I meet are looking for similar to me, from the off. There are certain flags that you can look out for. What they say on their profile, how often the do in fact meet and if it correlates with their profile text. It's not fool proof, bit it has steered me well in choosing wisely ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Honest folk on fab? Have a stepped into a parallel universe? ![]() | |||
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"You have to try it before you buy it after you buy it there are 28 days to properly try it then you are fucked! It's a refund policy ![]() Exactly! People are here to avoid having sex with the same person lol | |||
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"You have to try it before you buy it after you buy it there are 28 days to properly try it then you are fucked! It's a refund policy ![]() Don't assume everyone is here for the same reason - people are here for all sorts of different things. I am by no means looking for monogamy but a few regular partners would not go amiss! | |||
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"You have to try it before you buy it after you buy it there are 28 days to properly try it then you are fucked! It's a refund policy ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"What is the big deal if someone wants sex more than once? Is there some code thing written that states can be for one meet only if following on from social you get on etc? Totally perplexed by this? If I get half decent sex on the first whirl why wouldn't I go back for seconds? " I've been going back for over a year now ![]() | |||
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"What is the big deal if someone wants sex more than once? Is there some code thing written that states can be for one meet only if following on from social you get on etc? Totally perplexed by this? If I get half decent sex on the first whirl why wouldn't I go back for seconds? I've been going back for over a year now ![]() Smug! | |||
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"Who has said it’s a big deal? I’ve got the impression on here that most like repeat meets because they say the sex gets better the more they get to know each other’s bodies." I was thinking the same. Seems to me that 'for regular meets' is the norm rather than the exception. | |||
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"Oh I'm all for variety..... that being said there's something to be said for regular and one offs my argument is how would you know it was only a one off before youve even got your kit off " There are no guarantees with any meet but if they’ve said it’s only one offs they want then there won’t be a repeat. Only meet those who are definitely looking for repeats ![]() | |||
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"Oh I'm all for variety..... that being said there's something to be said for regular and one offs my argument is how would you know it was only a one off before youve even got your kit off There are no guarantees with any meet but if they’ve said it’s only one offs they want then there won’t be a repeat. Only meet those who are definitely looking for repeats ![]() No way of telling unfortunately! | |||
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"What is the big deal if someone wants sex more than once? Is there some code thing written that states can be for one meet only if following on from social you get on etc? Totally perplexed by this? If I get half decent sex on the first whirl why wouldn't I go back for seconds? " We'd do it more than once with you | |||
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"Oh I'm all for variety..... that being said there's something to be said for regular and one offs my argument is how would you know it was only a one off before youve even got your kit off There are no guarantees with any meet but if they’ve said it’s only one offs they want then there won’t be a repeat. Only meet those who are definitely looking for repeats ![]() Hmmm I seemed to manage it, maybe it was luck I don’t know, although I was pretty strict about how I met. I was on a chat site for a year prior to Fab, it was an education and definitely helped ![]() | |||
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"I dream of once ... ![]() I think I may leave the north east! It's very sexless ![]() | |||
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"I dream of once ... ![]() ![]() Hop over the border ![]() | |||
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"I dream of once ... ![]() ![]() ![]() Haha it was only slightly better up there! Mind you slightly better is better than none! | |||
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"Oh I'm all for variety..... that being said there's something to be said for regular and one offs my argument is how would you know it was only a one off before youve even got your kit off There are no guarantees with any meet but if they’ve said it’s only one offs they want then there won’t be a repeat. Only meet those who are definitely looking for repeats ![]() ![]() I have been on various NSA sites for 15+ years, so don't consider myself inexperienced. I use instinct as much as possible, but no way of predicting some people's behaviour. | |||
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"Oh I'm all for variety..... that being said there's something to be said for regular and one offs my argument is how would you know it was only a one off before youve even got your kit off There are no guarantees with any meet but if they’ve said it’s only one offs they want then there won’t be a repeat. Only meet those who are definitely looking for repeats ![]() ![]() I expect I would have had the same issue in time then. To be fair I hardly got started ![]() | |||
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"Are they initially only looking for one offs OP? I always make sure the ones I meet are looking for similar to me, from the off. There are certain flags that you can look out for. What they say on their profile, how often the do in fact meet and if it correlates with their profile text. It's not fool proof, bit it has steered me well in choosing wisely ![]() ![]() Very true ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Are they initially only looking for one offs OP? I always make sure the ones I meet are looking for similar to me, from the off. There are certain flags that you can look out for. What they say on their profile, how often the do in fact meet and if it correlates with their profile text. It's not fool proof, bit it has steered me well in choosing wisely ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() The world of fab coexisting with and having certain similiarities to the real world but different from it in some fundamental way. ![]() | |||
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"I dream of once ... ![]() ![]() Yes I think the east Midlands would be much better. We appreciate a good posing suit here heh heh ![]() | |||
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"It's one of the reasons I don't meet anyone with more than 4 sex meet veris on their profile. " Secret meets which must not be told...it all happens here within these forum walls..can you believe that hah x | |||
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"It's one of the reasons I don't meet anyone with more than 4 sex meet veris on their profile. Secret meets which must not be told...it all happens here within these forum walls..can you believe that hah x" What? | |||
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"We're not too concerned if it's one off or repeats. The kind of thing we enjoy needs a certain knowledge of each other but that's easily discussed socially. If it works out well and they want to repeat that's fine but the people we meet from here owe us nothing beyond discretion and respect and vice versa. I can see no problem with a guy meeting other people then coming back, it's swinging that's how many people do it. " ![]() ![]() | |||
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"What is the big deal if someone wants sex more than once? Is there some code thing written that states can be for one meet only if following on from social you get on etc? Totally perplexed by this? If I get half decent sex on the first whirl why wouldn't I go back for seconds? " I agree completely. If you click, have good chemistry with that person and the sex is good, why not want a repeat? Seems a no brainer to be honest. | |||
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"All I get is before we've even had sex is it'll be a one off! ![]() At least they're being honest up front... some will pretend they want something regular. Gives you the power to decide if you still want to meet them or not ![]() | |||
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"You have to try it before you buy it after you buy it there are 28 days to properly try it then you are fucked! It's a refund policy ![]() No they aren't. I've been having sex with someone from here, regularly, for over a year. | |||
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"It's one of the reasons I don't meet anyone with more than 4 sex meet veris on their profile. " From the same person? | |||
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" Not with single women. They can get a bit..... well, you know." Oh Clem you tease.... you know I have the veil bought and save the day cards sent out ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"It's one of the reasons I don't meet anyone with more than 4 sex meet veris on their profile. From the same person?" Same one or different people. | |||
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" Not with single women. They can get a bit..... well, you know. Oh Clem you tease.... you know I have the veil bought and save the day cards sent out ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I'm not surprised.. she nearly wore my cock off last time! ![]() | |||
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" Not with single women. They can get a bit..... well, you know. Oh Clem you tease.... you know I have the veil bought and save the day cards sent out ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Well you did bring her flowers.... ![]() ![]() | |||
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" Not with single women. They can get a bit..... well, you know. Oh Clem you tease.... you know I have the veil bought and save the day cards sent out ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I'm not made of stone! | |||
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" Not with single women. They can get a bit..... well, you know." Not really. Doesn't mean we want you in our life's, doesn't mean we want to wash your socks or iron your shirt, doesn't mean a lot. Often men think they know what we think without asking the question. Why cant men just except the fact that sometimes it's just about having fun with someone more than once or twice. About being bloody honest and not full of bull shit lies. ![]() | |||
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" Not with single women. They can get a bit..... well, you know. Not really. Doesn't mean we want you in our life's, doesn't mean we want to wash your socks or iron your shirt, doesn't mean a lot. Often men think they know what we think without asking the question. Why cant men just except the fact that sometimes it's just about having fun with someone more than once or twice. About being bloody honest and not full of bull shit lies. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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" Not with single women. They can get a bit..... well, you know. Not really. Doesn't mean we want you in our life's, doesn't mean we want to wash your socks or iron your shirt, doesn't mean a lot. Often men think they know what we think without asking the question. Why cant men just except the fact that sometimes it's just about having fun with someone more than once or twice. About being bloody honest and not full of bull shit lies. ![]() Does someone need a hug? Deep breaths gal, deep breaths..... and breathe.. there. ![]() | |||
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" Not with single women. They can get a bit..... well, you know. Not really. Doesn't mean we want you in our life's, doesn't mean we want to wash your socks or iron your shirt, doesn't mean a lot. Often men think they know what we think without asking the question. Why cant men just except the fact that sometimes it's just about having fun with someone more than once or twice. About being bloody honest and not full of bull shit lies. ![]() ![]() Hah hah this is me calm believe it or not....but go on then thats an offer I can't refuse right now. Unfortunately I dont tolerant liers its a weakness of mine. My ex lied to me for 8 years at the end of the relationship I didn't even know what was true and what wasn't anymore. What does round comes round....thats all Im saying. x ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I've had guys message me after saying I was on their bucket list as their fantasy fuck but they believe a fantasy should only happen once......." Lunacy. If the reality lives up to the fantasy, why would anybody *not* want a repeat? | |||
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" Not with single women. They can get a bit..... well, you know. Not really. Doesn't mean we want you in our life's, doesn't mean we want to wash your socks or iron your shirt, doesn't mean a lot. Often men think they know what we think without asking the question. Why cant men just except the fact that sometimes it's just about having fun with someone more than once or twice. About being bloody honest and not full of bull shit lies. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() You'll have to find a marine. You're well outside of my half hour meet sphere. But seriously, last woman i met was immediately when can we meet again? When ? when? WHEN? Had to block. Even the Mrs was perplexed, she's knows I'm a shit in the sack! | |||
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"If the sex is good and you have a great time why not meet more than once, we have met several people several times but also like to meet new people, variety and all that lol. Oh and as for girls being a bit 'you know' lol then I can tell you there are a lot of guys on here like that also...just saying ![]() You bet there is! But this is Fabswingles, what do you expect? ![]() | |||
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"If the sex is good and you have a great time why not meet more than once, we have met several people several times but also like to meet new people, variety and all that lol. Oh and as for girls being a bit 'you know' lol then I can tell you there are a lot of guys on here like that also...just saying ![]() ![]() Expect nothing, hope for fun x | |||
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"All I get is before we've even had sex is it'll be a one off! ![]() I'd prefer regular. OK, I'd like a meet 1st (been a while!) ![]() ![]() | |||
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"It's one of the reasons I don't meet anyone with more than 4 sex meet veris on their profile. From the same person? Same one or different people. " Does that make you think they will fall for you if you met them, or just want a one off? | |||
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" Not with single women. They can get a bit..... well, you know. Not really. Doesn't mean we want you in our life's, doesn't mean we want to wash your socks or iron your shirt, doesn't mean a lot. Often men think they know what we think without asking the question. Why cant men just except the fact that sometimes it's just about having fun with someone more than once or twice. About being bloody honest and not full of bull shit lies. ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Depends on the person. I've had great one offs, then the repeat hasn't lived up to the first time. I've had one offs which were good but I wouldn't want to repeat. And I've had repeats which get better and better. " Yes, I try to avoid meeting anyone who isn't 'open' to repeat meeting, and by hook or by crook you can tell. Either I choose well or I'm lucky because I've never had anyone who didn't ask to meet again, but in the end there are very few who I want to continue meeting regularly. ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I've had guys message me after saying I was on their bucket list as their fantasy fuck but they believe a fantasy should only happen once....... Lunacy. If the reality lives up to the fantasy, why would anybody *not* want a repeat? " Cos I'm fast finding that men are broken ![]() | |||
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"Oh my, what an interesting read ![]() and you have a few more surprises coming your way yet ![]() | |||
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"All I get is before we've even had sex is it'll be a one off! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() You know where I am! ![]() | |||
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"Oh my, what an interesting read ![]() ![]() I do? Me personally or the forum in general? I'm a bit confused.... | |||
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"If the sex is good and you have a great time why not meet more than once, we have met several people several times but also like to meet new people, variety and all that lol. Oh and as for girls being a bit 'you know' lol then I can tell you there are a lot of guys on here like that also...just saying ![]() ![]() Why so much hatred for singles? How often do you meet together as a couple? | |||
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"It's one of the reasons I don't meet anyone with more than 4 sex meet veris on their profile. From the same person? Same one or different people. Does that make you think they will fall for you if you met them, or just want a one off?" Crikey no they wouldn't fall for me. They're just looking for a different type of person, not me. | |||
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"Depends on the person. I've had great one offs, then the repeat hasn't lived up to the first time. I've had one offs which were good but I wouldn't want to repeat. And I've had repeats which get better and better. Yes, I try to avoid meeting anyone who isn't 'open' to repeat meeting, and by hook or by crook you can tell. Either I choose well or I'm lucky because I've never had anyone who didn't ask to meet again, but in the end there are very few who I want to continue meeting regularly. ![]() ![]() You have to be realistic. Nothing lasts forever, but while it's fun for both it's worth pursuing.. ![]() | |||
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"If the sex is good and you have a great time why not meet more than once, we have met several people several times but also like to meet new people, variety and all that lol. Oh and as for girls being a bit 'you know' lol then I can tell you there are a lot of guys on here like that also...just saying ![]() ![]() Not so much a hatred for singles, just noticed that there's alot of singles on here who seem surprised with how swinging actually works! No strings fun didn't have enough strings attached, a man asked if he could suck my cock, now i feel dirty. Someone touched me in a club without written permission so i glassed them. I went to a club and saw 2 guys kissing now I'm complaining to my local MP. A man fucked me and didn't want to do it again even though i sent 346 texts. I saw a woman with multiple verifications and they WEREN'T from a forum social! Etc etc..... and on and on ![]() ![]() | |||
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"If the sex is good and you have a great time why not meet more than once, we have met several people several times but also like to meet new people, variety and all that lol. Oh and as for girls being a bit 'you know' lol then I can tell you there are a lot of guys on here like that also...just saying ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() But not everyone are swingers are they! This one meet rule, nsa whatever whatever etc its all great and fine but just say it before just be bloody honest. Treat others how you would like to be treated, so we can make informed decisions based on that truth... People think they can use people and its just ok, well it's not ![]() ![]() | |||
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"If the sex is good and you have a great time why not meet more than once, we have met several people several times but also like to meet new people, variety and all that lol. Oh and as for girls being a bit 'you know' lol then I can tell you there are a lot of guys on here like that also...just saying ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() What is wrong, is that people think they want nsa. When actually they want a relationship. | |||
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"If the sex is good and you have a great time why not meet more than once, we have met several people several times but also like to meet new people, variety and all that lol. Oh and as for girls being a bit 'you know' lol then I can tell you there are a lot of guys on here like that also...just saying ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Right ![]() | |||
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"If the sex is good and you have a great time why not meet more than once, we have met several people several times but also like to meet new people, variety and all that lol. Oh and as for girls being a bit 'you know' lol then I can tell you there are a lot of guys on here like that also...just saying ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() So how does swinging actually work then? I've seen all your examples stated by people in couples over the last few years. Not just by singles. I've seen married men complaining that men kept messaging their wife when the husband asked them not to. Is that what Swinging is? | |||
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"If the sex is good and you have a great time why not meet more than once, we have met several people several times but also like to meet new people, variety and all that lol. Oh and as for girls being a bit 'you know' lol then I can tell you there are a lot of guys on here like that also...just saying ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Yeah, it's a fucking minefield isn't it!? Too many people watching fifty shades and eyes wide shut? There's just one rule that holds true. The single woman is ALWAYS right... | |||
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"Don't have sex, it's safer." Just have sex at clubs. Sooooo much simpler. ![]() | |||
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"I want to sit on your face, Clem. #singlelady" Of course you do, you're not made of wood are you?! | |||
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"Don't have sex, it's safer. Just have sex at clubs. Sooooo much simpler. ![]() Not at bridge club surely? | |||
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"If the sex is good and you have a great time why not meet more than once, we have met several people several times but also like to meet new people, variety and all that lol. Oh and as for girls being a bit 'you know' lol then I can tell you there are a lot of guys on here like that also...just saying ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() You're wrong darling... the wife is always right. Single women know Jack ![]() | |||
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"If the sex is good and you have a great time why not meet more than once, we have met several people several times but also like to meet new people, variety and all that lol. Oh and as for girls being a bit 'you know' lol then I can tell you there are a lot of guys on here like that also...just saying ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() No wonder you're always pissed off. | |||
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"I want to sit on your face, Clem. #singlelady Of course you do, you're not made of wood are you?!" I’ve been known to have a little wood inside me ![]() | |||
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"Don't have sex, it's safer. Just have sex at clubs. Sooooo much simpler. ![]() Don't rule it out... ![]() | |||
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"If the sex is good and you have a great time why not meet more than once, we have met several people several times but also like to meet new people, variety and all that lol. Oh and as for girls being a bit 'you know' lol then I can tell you there are a lot of guys on here like that also...just saying ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() It’s true. We all have Jack on speed dial. ![]() | |||
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"If the sex is good and you have a great time why not meet more than once, we have met several people several times but also like to meet new people, variety and all that lol. Oh and as for girls being a bit 'you know' lol then I can tell you there are a lot of guys on here like that also...just saying ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() The strings weren't stringy enough.. | |||
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"I want to sit on your face, Clem. #singlelady Of course you do, you're not made of wood are you?! I’ve been known to have a little wood inside me ![]() Ah i was wondering about that bed knob.. | |||
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"If the sex is good and you have a great time why not meet more than once, we have met several people several times but also like to meet new people, variety and all that lol. Oh and as for girls being a bit 'you know' lol then I can tell you there are a lot of guys on here like that also...just saying ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I want to sit on your face, Clem. #singlelady Of course you do, you're not made of wood are you?! I’ve been known to have a little wood inside me ![]() He was called Jack. Stop acting out because you’re jealous. ![]() | |||
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"Don't have sex, it's safer. Just have sex at clubs. Sooooo much simpler. ![]() ![]() I may look into joining the local WI. Scissor sisters or mercy. | |||
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"I want to sit on your face, Clem. #singlelady Of course you do, you're not made of wood are you?! I’ve been known to have a little wood inside me ![]() ![]() And pissed off, don't forget that bit. ![]() | |||
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"I want to sit on your face, Clem. #singlelady Of course you do, you're not made of wood are you?! I’ve been known to have a little wood inside me ![]() ![]() ![]() Awww baby, I’m always here to give you a disinterested handjob. ![]() | |||
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"What is the big deal if someone wants sex more than once? Is there some code thing written that states can be for one meet only if following on from social you get on etc? Totally perplexed by this? If I get half decent sex on the first whirl why wouldn't I go back for seconds? " It's only ok if the man says so. Otherwise it's not swinging. ![]() | |||
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