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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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When you message someone and don't get a reply or it just gets deleted is sometimes quite a kick in the balls lol. What happened to a bit of common courtesy or being acknowledged? |
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By *p4funCouple
over a year ago
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Just take it as "no thank you" and move on  |
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There’s a million threads on this. Basically it boils down to
A) some women get in excess of 100 messages a day. Imagine replying to every one, that’s before they all start replying.
B) a large % of people on here have received nasty responses to a polite ‘no thanks’ message so it puts you off even replying |
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"When you message someone and don't get a reply or it just gets deleted is sometimes quite a kick in the balls lol. What happened to a bit of common courtesy or being acknowledged?"
Is it really more of a kick in the valks than someone actually telling you they're not interested though? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Suck it up OP
Or read the FAQs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Other fab users happened. I used to reply to every message I got. Mind you, I was never getting tons of messages due to my filters, not like some women and couples who get hundreds per day. However, plenty of times I'd get 'why' or similar to my polite 'no, thank you'. Which created more messages to reply to. Some of the replies can be very rude as not everyone takes rejection well. Some initial messages are just too rude or ridiculous to even reply to them, so I now delete them without replying.
Have a look on FAQ section, it does mention that fab users should take no reply as a 'not interested'. Also, most people would look person's profile before replying. |
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It is a reply ...... it means not interested  |
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I don't reply to anyone that hasn't taken the slightest bit of notice to my profile. To be honest I barely reply to anyone,I say the odd no thankyou and that's it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When you message someone and don't get a reply or it just gets deleted is sometimes quite a kick in the balls lol. What happened to a bit of common courtesy or being acknowledged?"
I think it's rude not to reply to first messages. Think of it as a good thing- you wouldn't want to meet them anyway.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is why I think my idea is such a good one:
A "thank you, but no thanks" message return button, come on Fab surely it can't be that difficult.
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"This is why I think my idea is such a good one:
A "thank you, but no thanks" message return button, come on Fab surely it can't be that difficult.
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I think everyone has dreamt up that idea at a point. I think they should at least trial it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is why I think my idea is such a good one:
A "thank you, but no thanks" message return button, come on Fab surely it can't be that difficult.
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It exists. Just write a nice reply and copy & paste it. Easy and it makes people happy.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is why I think my idea is such a good one:
A "thank you, but no thanks" message return button, come on Fab surely it can't be that difficult.
It exists. Just write a nice reply and copy & paste it. Easy and it makes people happy. "
It doesn't make everyone happy..
Even if i do sometimes reject them in a nice way, its still a rejection and some idiots cannot handle rejection |
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"When you message someone and don't get a reply or it just gets deleted is sometimes quite a kick in the balls lol. What happened to a bit of common courtesy or being acknowledged?"
Do you respond to every piece of junk mail that drops through your letterbox?
Cal |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We used to reply thanks but your not for us sorry have a great life and naughty swinging
We got reported for a abusive message so now just delete saves the grief |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When you message someone and don't get a reply or it just gets deleted is sometimes quite a kick in the balls lol. What happened to a bit of common courtesy or being acknowledged?
Do you respond to every piece of junk mail that drops through your letterbox?
Cal"
I do
I crap in an envelope and send it back to them
See how they like it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There’s a million threads on this. Basically it boils down to
A) some women get in excess of 100 messages a day. Imagine replying to every one, that’s before they all start replying.
B) a large % of people on here have received nasty responses to a polite ‘no thanks’ message so it puts you off even replying "
this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I receive a message, I check their location, if they can accom and sneek a peek at public photos if they have any..
If they meet my requirements on my profile I will answer via message.. if not I just delete..
I also delete all friend invites from people I've not engaged with |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When I receive a message, I check their location, if they can accom and sneek a peek at public photos if they have any..
If they meet my requirements on my profile I will answer via message.. if not I just delete..
I also delete all friend invites from people I've not engaged with "
Winning at Fab |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
Forum Mod O o O oo |
Some people reply, some don't, if you accept this your time on the site will probably be more enjoyable |
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