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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Partner has habit of coming home late, slipping into bed and expecting sex, indicated by pokey object in back."
Get one of those handshake shockers from the joke shop and grasp him firmly  |
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over a year ago
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Boredom. My girlfriend isn't adventurous at all, most suggestions I make are dismissed. And its not a case of asking for anything intimidating like anal or watersports, just stuff thats a bit of fun, e.g. watching a porn and acting it out, sex in other rooms etc. |
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"I'm separated so I can contribute loads but be nice to see what others think?"
Same here... was thinking the exact same thing.
Mrs Ex-Carambar and I get on very well, but the spark went in the bedroom and that was the end of our marriage. Life's a bitch sometimes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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no foreplay!!!!!
I love oral giving and receiving...mutual masturbation.
Oh and i hate it when a partner goes for that sudden new haircut-if it as one of my reasons for being attracted(i love long straight hair) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm separated so I can contribute loads but be nice to see what others think?
Same here... was thinking the exact same thing.
Mrs Ex-Carambar and I get on very well, but the spark went in the bedroom and that was the end of our marriage. Life's a bitch sometimes."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"no foreplay!!!!!
I love oral giving and receiving...mutual masturbation.
Oh and i hate it when a partner goes for that sudden new haircut-if it as one of my reasons for being attracted(i love long straight hair)"
had mine cut really short pixie style last week.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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abuse of understanding. It's one thing to cancel an intimate evening cos your sister or brother is in a pickle. Quite another to cancel it cos you "met up with some old friend".
This is actually very hurtful and is one of those little things which when repeated "kills" the respect and eventually the love. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"no foreplay!!!!!
I love oral giving and receiving...mutual masturbation.
Oh and i hate it when a partner goes for that sudden new haircut-if it as one of my reasons for being attracted(i love long straight hair)
had mine cut really short pixie style last week. "
well I dont know what ur hair looked/looks like do I??? lol
Id still DoYa xxxxxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"no foreplay!!!!!
I love oral giving and receiving...mutual masturbation.
Oh and i hate it when a partner goes for that sudden new haircut-if it as one of my reasons for being attracted(i love long straight hair)
had mine cut really short pixie style last week.
well I dont know what ur hair looked/looks like do I??? lol
Id still DoYa xxxxxx" I knows. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Great one from an my ex hubby. I got to fat for sex... he said that!!!"
oh ive had that
tho to be honest i could see where he was coming from, i was a size 8 when we met after 3 kids i was a size 20, he used to say to me if i wanted a fat wife id have married one lol
hurtful but i could see his reasoning |
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"Great one from an my ex hubby. I got to fat for sex... he said that!!!
oh ive had that
tho to be honest i could see where he was coming from, i was a size 8 when we met after 3 kids i was a size 20, he used to say to me if i wanted a fat wife id have married one lol
hurtful but i could see his reasoning "
sorry i dont, yes i was size 8 when i 1st meet hubby now i go between a size 12 and 14, my weight goes up and down. When you take your vowels it doesnt say you must remain the same size as when i married you. Life isnt that str forward, and if married only for looks then good ridance  |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria |
"Great one from an my ex hubby. I got to fat for sex... he said that!!!
oh ive had that
tho to be honest i could see where he was coming from, i was a size 8 when we met after 3 kids i was a size 20, he used to say to me if i wanted a fat wife id have married one lol
hurtful but i could see his reasoning "
did the twat ever offer to help you lose weight and feel better about yourself??? Arse! |
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"not feeling appreciated or loved
appreciated and loved...ignore my accent comment xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
you need to do better than that now
You are delicious to my dreams,
from had to toe along those stocking seams,
You have that sweet shy demure,
It makes my heart just want to lure,
I have looked into your pretty face,
With a wonder as I consistently gaze,
When you smile and I can see your dimples.
OOOOOOOOH! I get the most amazing goosepimples!"
your getting there  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Great one from an my ex hubby. I got to fat for sex... he said that!!!
oh ive had that
tho to be honest i could see where he was coming from, i was a size 8 when we met after 3 kids i was a size 20, he used to say to me if i wanted a fat wife id have married one lol
hurtful but i could see his reasoning
did the twat ever offer to help you lose weight and feel better about yourself??? Arse!"
haha yeah i remember after i had my 3rd child, it was quite a bad brith they lost the heart beat and rushed me down for a section, we was both in a bad way, i'lll never forget him turning up and opening his bag to give me a flyer of all the local weight watchers class for me to join when i got home lol
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By (user no longer on site)
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"not feeling appreciated or loved
appreciated and loved...ignore my accent comment xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
you need to do better than that now
You are delicious to my dreams,
from had to toe along those stocking seams,
You have that sweet shy demure,
It makes my heart just want to lure,
I have looked into your pretty face,
With a wonder as I consistently gaze,
When you smile and I can see your dimples.
OOOOOOOOH! I get the most amazing goosepimples!
your getting there "
stop making posts up for me, i never typed that! heheheheheh xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx |
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"Great one from an my ex hubby. I got to fat for sex... he said that!!!
oh ive had that
tho to be honest i could see where he was coming from, i was a size 8 when we met after 3 kids i was a size 20, he used to say to me if i wanted a fat wife id have married one lol
hurtful but i could see his reasoning
did the twat ever offer to help you lose weight and feel better about yourself??? Arse!
haha yeah i remember after i had my 3rd child, it was quite a bad brith they lost the heart beat and rushed me down for a section, we was both in a bad way, i'lll never forget him turning up and opening his bag to give me a flyer of all the local weight watchers class for me to join when i got home lol
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Sorry but has to be said, the inconsiderate selfish bastard. I would have shoved it up his ass attached to a extra large pole  |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria |
"Great one from an my ex hubby. I got to fat for sex... he said that!!!
oh ive had that
tho to be honest i could see where he was coming from, i was a size 8 when we met after 3 kids i was a size 20, he used to say to me if i wanted a fat wife id have married one lol
hurtful but i could see his reasoning
did the twat ever offer to help you lose weight and feel better about yourself??? Arse!
haha yeah i remember after i had my 3rd child, it was quite a bad brith they lost the heart beat and rushed me down for a section, we was both in a bad way, i'lll never forget him turning up and opening his bag to give me a flyer of all the local weight watchers class for me to join when i got home lol
Sorry but has to be said, the inconsiderate selfish bastard. I would have shoved it up his ass attached to a extra large pole "
+1 and can't stop myself from saying "What a complete C**T" |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria |
"Great one from an my ex hubby. I got to fat for sex... he said that!!!
oh ive had that
tho to be honest i could see where he was coming from, i was a size 8 when we met after 3 kids i was a size 20, he used to say to me if i wanted a fat wife id have married one lol
hurtful but i could see his reasoning "
By the way - your photos look amazing - hope the ex bastard is on this site and realises what the fuck he is missing |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Stress followed by stress medication...;-)
Usually does the trick...
In sickness and in health... My arse... "
your arse! you can soon remedy that, get down t't gym. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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nah hes not on the site, he dont do this kinda thing happily setttled with his new woman lol
i did loose 7 stone after we split so im not as big as i was when he used to moan at me
to be honest it really dont bother me anymore, i find it all quite funny now days, brings you down at the time and the lower you feel the more you eat, and the bigger you get, i was in a kinda catch 22, but as soon as we split i felt better so i joined and lost the weight
also felt like it was a extra kick in the balls to him as childish as that sounds
life goes on tho  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Stress followed by stress medication...;-)
Usually does the trick...
In sickness and in health... My arse...
your arse! you can soon remedy that, get down t't gym."
Theres no Jim goin anywhere near my arse...
But if I need a workout Ill call ya...;-) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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She developed a real problem with flatulence, which got a bit too much, but the bigger problem was the face shed pull while she was doing it.
Horrible reason for going of someone, and to be fair it was only one of a few that killed the relationship, but yeah...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"finding out they had an irish accent....
RUNS!
*runs towards the lady with an Irish accent*
woo hooo about time "
I've drank a lot of wine my lovely xxxxx
Give me a voddy and I'll BOAK  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"finding out they had an irish accent....
RUNS!
*runs towards the lady with an Irish accent* "
*Politely steps out of the way... Thus allowing the two ladies to warm each other up before "requesting the pleasure" with both of them...* |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"finding out they had an irish accent....
RUNS!
*runs towards the lady with an Irish accent* "
*Politely steps out of the way... Thus allowing the two ladies to warm each other up before "requesting the pleasure" with both of them...* |
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"finding out they had an irish accent....
RUNS!
*runs towards the lady with an Irish accent*
woo hooo about time
I've drank a lot of wine my lovely xxxxx
Give me a voddy and I'll BOAK "
I am on the rum  |
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"finding out they had an irish accent....
RUNS!
*runs towards the lady with an Irish accent*
woo hooo about time
I've drank a lot of wine my lovely xxxxx
Give me a voddy and I'll BOAK "
not to worry i have red for you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On a serious note. I lost interest in sex with my ex because he was too big and he never made the effort to arouse me through foreplay which may have made a difference. |
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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago
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"Great one from an my ex hubby. I got to fat for sex... he said that!!!
oh ive had that
tho to be honest i could see where he was coming from, i was a size 8 when we met after 3 kids i was a size 20, he used to say to me if i wanted a fat wife id have married one lol
hurtful but i could see his reasoning
did the twat ever offer to help you lose weight and feel better about yourself??? Arse!
haha yeah i remember after i had my 3rd child, it was quite a bad brith they lost the heart beat and rushed me down for a section, we was both in a bad way, i'lll never forget him turning up and opening his bag to give me a flyer of all the local weight watchers class for me to join when i got home lol
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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago
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mine sent me off on the bus alone to have my first child,had an emergency c section in the end,he turned up when it was all over........i am not that woman anymore,he unfortunatly is still that man,the barsteward |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I must have been really blessed after reading all these, cos every time has always been fresh and different, no matter who I was with. I feel for anyone who has lost that sparkle on their bedroom antics, because it should always be special, and I mean special in a good way
Wolf
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By (user no longer on site)
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I must have been really blessed after reading all these, cos every time has always been fresh and different, no matter who I was with. I feel for anyone who has lost that sparkle on their bedroom antics, because it should always be special, and I mean special in a good way
Wolf
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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when it gets so predictable you know exactly whats gonna happen and in what order. i even knew what day of the week we would have sex.
i like variety not boring and routine. |
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"I must have been really blessed after reading all these, cos every time has always been fresh and different, no matter who I was with. I feel for anyone who has lost that sparkle on their bedroom antics, because it should always be special, and I mean special in a good way
Wolf
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Will Mrs. Wolf be on later ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"He had a girlfriend, he drank, he hit me and ....... he left the top off the tooth-paste!
That fuckin' toothpaste top ..... the bastid !!"
Utter utter b'stard ........... he used to squeeze the tube in the middle too. |
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Hormones and stress here. We've had a tough time over the last 5 months what with the 2 rounds of IVF and the miscarriage and it's been difficult getting back into having sex for fun. We'll get there tho.
*Her* |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I must have been really blessed after reading all these, cos every time has always been fresh and different, no matter who I was with. I feel for anyone who has lost that sparkle on their bedroom antics, because it should always be special, and I mean special in a good way
Wolf
Will Mrs. Wolf be on later ?"
If she wants to she will..
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By (user no longer on site)
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If you keep saying to your partner that you want to have sex, they call you a randy bitch, but they expect you to do it with them when they are in the mood for it.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you keep saying to your partner that you want to have sex, they call you a randy, but they expect you to do it with them when they are in the mood for it. " Yep that ones does happen, i just got feed up with be told "im not in the mood for it"....then when she sex drive came back, i found myself not even bothered anymore, guess all the rejection, made me put up a wall against it......but not anymore lol!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you keep saying to your partner that you want to have sex, they call you a randy, but they expect you to do it with them when they are in the mood for it. Yep that ones does happen, i just got feed up with be told "im not in the mood for it"....then when she sex drive came back, i found myself not even bothered anymore, guess all the rejection, made me put up a wall against it......but not anymore lol!!"
Yup. Had that one with my ex. When I tried to initiate anything, I was a perve, but then when she wanted it and I wasn't in the mood, she'd complain that I wasn't giving her attention...
Another one for me is going-through-the-motions-sex. Few bigger turn-offs  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To keep being groped from the minute you get up till the time you go to bed drove me crazy.....also not being able to wear a sexy nighty or underwear without sexual implications,another turn off...and the worst thing having hands grabbing your breasts as you are trying to do the dishes....rant over .. |
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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago
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Mrs Wolf very often comes online and comments on posts and she uses her own profile, which is the exact opposite to Mr Wolfdevil, I am Mrs Devilwolf, both profiles are the same tho, don't wanna go confoosing anyone... lol..
Devil  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To keep being groped from the minute you get up till the time you go to bed drove me crazy.....also not being able to wear a sexy nighty or underwear without sexual implications,another turn off...and the worst thing having hands grabbing your breasts as you are trying to do the dishes....rant over .."
When all of the above stopped and the five minutes missionary once a month became the norm. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Great one from an my ex hubby. I got to fat for sex... he said that!!!" bloody hell girl you sure we didnt have the same guy. i got told i was too fat for sex and wasnt girly. so i went on a miracle diet, fucked him off and lost 18 stone of unwanted fat just like that
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"Great one from an my ex hubby. I got to fat for sex... he said that!!! bloody hell girl you sure we didnt have the same guy. i got told i was too fat for sex and wasnt girly. so i went on a miracle diet, fucked him off and lost 18 stone of unwanted fat just like that"
The thing is the woman he is shacked up with now is a size 28 and looks like miss piggy.... I am crap in relationships I can never quite get them right  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Great one from an my ex hubby. I got to fat for sex... he said that!!! bloody hell girl you sure we didnt have the same guy. i got told i was too fat for sex and wasnt girly. so i went on a miracle diet, fucked him off and lost 18 stone of unwanted fat just like that
The thing is the woman he is shacked up with now is a size 28 and looks like miss piggy.... I am crap in relationships I can never quite get them right "
well my ex resurected his single profile on here that was supposed to have been deleted. he added to it, any size for women. when i questioned him on this. his answer was, he will shag anything and any size but he doesnt want a live in g/f on his arm who put weight on  |
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"Great one from an my ex hubby. I got to fat for sex... he said that!!! bloody hell girl you sure we didnt have the same guy. i got told i was too fat for sex and wasnt girly. so i went on a miracle diet, fucked him off and lost 18 stone of unwanted fat just like that
The thing is the woman he is shacked up with now is a size 28 and looks like miss piggy.... I am crap in relationships I can never quite get them right
well my ex resurected his single profile on here that was supposed to have been deleted. he added to it, any size for women. when i questioned him on this. his answer was, he will shag anything and any size but he doesnt want a live in g/f on his arm who put weight on "
OMG hun that is shocking.... Its difficult being a plus size woman with the magazines and stuff but you not meant to feel like shit because your OH thinks you are fat.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I guess when i first saw her picking her nose and eating it,and i guess her having the spontanuatey of a wet match didn't help either poster (him) although that was seven years ago and my floozy now i can say is absolutley blooming perfuct  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have the opposite problem so I went to see my doctor about my sex addiction.
"Right, lie on the bed and take your underwear off."
She said, "I beg your pardon?" |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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Going out to work and leaving money for groceries, only to find he'd spent it at the pub. Being picked on until we had a flaming row just so he could threaten to leave. Finding out he was lying about meeting other women. Acting like a spoiled, narcisstic twat.
The sex was awesome but sometimes it just isn't enough. |
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Of all the things mentioned, pregnancy and birth or a new baby didn't kill my horn... Had to get the morning after pill, 3 days after giving birth. Not the drinking,drugs violence, childhood sexual abuse, cheating...was the fact he didn't kiss me for ten years that put me off sex. |
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"depression
yes that would be a reason. But there is often a deep rooted reason for depression, with me it was putting up with too muchshit ."
Post natal and childhood experiences for me...although i do believe depression can be hereditry too, my mother is also a moody cow  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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my wife had no depression etc just her sex drive went, there was no reason for this at all!! I was attentive, took her out romantic meals etc, and I still love her to this day, and she me, but I couldnt be with someone who wouldnt kiss me or have sex more than once every 4 months for about 10 mins. I gave it 3 years of this before finally admitting defeat. i tried on numerous occasions to spice things up etc and advised we went to councelling she didnt want to so had to end it. now I'm happy having sex with others who have a sex drive. Alot of the time sex just dwindles over time and leaves a relationship, it takes two to tango after all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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post natal depression is a definate sex drive killer.......so is depression, and alas some people actually think you have to feel and look down to be depressed. Wrong!!!!! many people suffer from these and go about their life without a tear being shed, but lack sex drive is probably one of the first symptoms to be recognised!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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predictability. I got so bored with my Ex, he never did anything any different no matter what I tried to tempt him with ...Routine is such a passion killer I still realy fancied him too... got tummy lurch just looking at his hands, he had beautiful hands... just didn't know where to put them
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The sad thing is I had great sex with my ex but the problem was that he used his fists on my face... I spent years in fear but the sex was amazing.. However I could not stay just for that... "
that is so sad...i hope karma comes round and bites him hard.. |
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