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Kissing....Deal breaker or Not
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’d still meet. Me and my ex fuckbuddy managed to meet for a year without kissing.
When we first met I got the giggles when he went to kiss me - yet I wasn’t shy about sucking his cock after ten minutes of meeting! So it was sort of a running joke that we had never kissed. Kissed when we decided to not see each other anymore though - sort of bittersweet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If someone says absoultly no kissing during a sexual meet... would you still meet or not?"
No - kissing is all part of the foreplay and without it, it’s just random sex. We prefer a completely sensual approach to our swinging. |
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"I do like the kissing. If it was some sort of roleplaying where kissing wasnt involved I could probably manage that."
Or how about if the kissing was really bad, stinky breath, awful technique and lips that feel like a dead arm, could you still kiss then?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do like the kissing. If it was some sort of roleplaying where kissing wasnt involved I could probably manage that.
Or how about if the kissing was really bad, stinky breath, awful technique and lips that feel like a dead arm, could you still kiss then?
Asking for a friend "
Id pop a gag on (your friend)  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do like the kissing. If it was some sort of roleplaying where kissing wasnt involved I could probably manage that.
Or how about if the kissing was really bad, stinky breath, awful technique and lips that feel like a dead arm, could you still kiss then?
Asking for a friend "
I would not continue with the meet! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me kissing is probably the most important part, I love it and it’s one of my favourite things to do.
I think it’s a very sensual and intimate way of slowly raising the intensity, it’s also a good way too of finding out if youre compatible.
I couldn’t meet without kissing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have to kiss. I could be content just kissing and chatting and giggling with the right person. Don’t get me wrong, sex - yes please, but kissing is the whole world sometimes.
There’s someone I really want to kiss and yet, the idea of kissing him scares me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If someone says absoultly no kissing during a sexual meet... would you still meet or not?"
No, not that it makes people who don’t kiss wrong in any way at all. We simply couldn’t have sex with someone and not kiss them x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s a deal breaker.
I want to smog someone’s face off if I’m going to have sex with them.
It would feel very mechanical and emotionless without kissing! |
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"If someone says absoultly no kissing during a sexual meet... would you still meet or not?"
We only meet people who are happy for there to be no passionate kissing on the mouth. So yes, we would still meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How could not kiss on a meet ?? "
I don't kiss men ( with the very few exceptions) and never had an issue. I do kiss the girls but also as I don't meet 121 it's perhaps why it's never an issue ( there is usually a cock in my mouth)
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im too good at it to let girls miss out
Don't try and walk through a door...your head will get stuck
Ur fault should have not told me
I never said a word  "
Still lying i see |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How could that work? Kissing is a massive part of it all for me, I'd rather not bother. "
if your wanting 121 what I'd call couples sex. Then it is hard.. Hence I don't tend to do that. But I only don't full on kiss men on the lips. I found that 90% of guys haven't even noticed. Because of the ways I've learnt to get around it . Even with couples meets with my ex... most never realised I hadn't kissed the guy. Even though my partner at the time would have spent ages kissing the other lady.
I'd have moved and kissed the edges of his lips.. his face. My hands teasing and touching and kissing areas like his throat.. moving my way down. Using my eyes to do what my lips aren't.
Before anyone says well how can you lov3 kissing your partner but not another man.
I had a very unfortunate incident in my teens which was traumatic and the worst bit was the intimacy and kisses. So till my now ex I didn't kiss men. As it causes me great distress. For some reasons my connection to my ex made it possible for me to relax and not feel the panic I normally would |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love it and personally couldn't have a meet without it... I can have quite an effect on me "
I can understand that. As experienced the amaxing sensations with my ex but for me I just can't do it with a random person. It takes a special bond. Which is a little  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If someone says absoultly no kissing during a sexual meet... would you still meet or not?"
I love kissing but would happily meet without it. Some people just don't like it I guess! |
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"I love it and personally couldn't have a meet without it... I can have quite an effect on me I can understand that. As experienced the amaxing sensations with my ex but for me I just can't do it with a random person. It takes a special bond. Which is a little "
I totally get why some people won't or can't and would never condone anyone who refused. Everyone deserves to do/or not do which makes them feel comfortable x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It all depends on the kind of meet...totally understand from a one to one perspective and for smaller group meets but in a club or at a party, I have never had anyone stop me from sucking, licking or fucking them because I haven't kissed them first...
J |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It all depends on the kind of meet...totally understand from a one to one perspective and for smaller group meets but in a club or at a party, I have never had anyone stop me from sucking, licking or fucking them because I haven't kissed them first...
J "
this is what I was trying to say x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not a chance. Kissing is of paramount importance to me and turns me on so much.
If I'm not good enough to kiss then I'm certainly not good enough to fuck. |
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For me personally I wouldn’t be able to meet without kissing if it was a 1-1... I think this maybe happens when meeting couples but I haven’t met any yet... so would have to judge at the time if or when it happens!!? |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Totally respect the boundaries of those that don't but I'd find a meet without kissing very odd - kissing is the ultimate turn on for me and without it I'd find it very difficult to get turned on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’d lose my main advantage if we couldn’t kiss.
I love to tease, gently bite lips, eye contact, tongues, kiss neck, ear....
....one simply has to go through the stages first...and kissing is the foundation that a great connection is based on. |
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By *khot1Couple
over a year ago
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Depends whether your single or a couple I think. As the female half of a couple there is no interest for me in kissing other men I keep that to my husband but would happily kiss other women. It might not be everyones choice and if people didnt want to meet us because of this then that would be their loss x |
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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago
Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria |
I would prefer if they did kiss but wouldn't cancel a meet if they don't, just hope they change their mind as it does make for a more horny play, can't say we have met anyone that doesn't other than at a party so guessed we just got lucky |
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Deal breaker for me. Has to be great kissing or it just ain't gonna happen. In fact I have kissed a meet and felt nothing. Total turn off so we didn't play. You can tell alot about compatability from a good smooch. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What about kissing other things
That goes without saying ohhh love kissing down south and taking my time  
Me too, though I could be there for a very long time "
mmmmmm well just make sure you time it right then make the most of your hard work  |
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"What about kissing other things
That goes without saying ohhh love kissing down south and taking my time
Me too, though I could be there for a very long time mmmmmm well just make sure you time it right then make the most of your hard work "
My timing is always right on queue |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"And as an after thought... doesn’t that parting kiss at the end of a social (the one that would embarrass a CCTV operator!) seal the deal on further meetings? .... does for me "
You can tell a lot from a kiss |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"Especially if you are attracted to the other person...wondering about that first touch of the lips..the tongue
*shivers* 
Such a turn on if you feel that spark"
Abso-blooming-lutely - kissing is the perfect aphrodisiac  |
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"Especially if you are attracted to the other person...wondering about that first touch of the lips..the tongue
*shivers*
Such a turn on if you feel that spark
Abso-blooming-lutely - kissing is the perfect aphrodisiac "
Soft gentle flicks of the tongue, not to sloppy |
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