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Where are all the guys who do this .. instead of raming as many fingers as they can in to TRY get a lady to squirt
... I will be honest... if the guy really knows what he is doing it can be really pleasurable and pleasant but there are far too many wannabes now ...
I would love a good old fashioned clitoral stimulation/edging with the fingers that brings that explosive orgasm so much better than what a lot think is just pissing on the floor anyway x |
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"Where are all the guys who do this .. instead of raming as many fingers as they can in to TRY get a lady to squirt
... I will be honest... if the guy really knows what he is doing it can be really pleasurable and pleasant but there are far too many wannabes now ...
I would love a good old fashioned clitoral stimulation/edging with the fingers that brings that explosive orgasm so much better than what a lot think is just pissing on the floor anyway x "
I reckon easy access to porn is to blame. Obviously not the case with everyone but I would have thought an increasing number as time goes on.
Ultimately not enough time spent talking and listening to what the partner wants |
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I love making a women squirt through clitoral stimulation, whether it's orally or with my fingers.
In the same way that more time spent on foreplay is much more enjoyable than penetrative sex. |
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Porn definitely doesn't help. It's about being aware and talking about pleasures. Also understanding the moment, noises, body language of the other person during the act. |
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"Where are all the guys who do this .. instead of raming as many fingers as they can in to TRY get a lady to squirt
... I will be honest... if the guy really knows what he is doing it can be really pleasurable and pleasant but there are far too many wannabes now ...
I would love a good old fashioned clitoral stimulation/edging with the fingers that brings that explosive orgasm so much better than what a lot think is just pissing on the floor anyway x
I reckon easy access to porn is to blame. Obviously not the case with everyone but I would have thought an increasing number as time goes on.
Ultimately not enough time spent talking and listening to what the partner wants"
Yep agree with you there. Porn has a lot to answer for on how guys think is the right way to treat women in general |
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over a year ago
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I like to think I manage to offer my mrs good clitoral stimulation , she loves me to play with her with my finger, a bit of fingering that gets her moist shall I say and also playing with her clit , and when she’s read I go down and let my tongue do the business , sometimes until she reaches her climax , but sometime just before then I climb on and have sex till we both are completed our orgasm xx |
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over a year ago
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Mr is absolutely amazing at this, he has this nack of sliding two fingers in and using his thumb on your clit, just massaging inside no finger banging.
Haven’t met a guy better at it yet, one of the reasons I married him
Bless him and his flat thumbs  |
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"Mr is absolutely amazing at this, he has this nack of sliding two fingers in and using his thumb on your clit, just massaging inside no finger banging.
Haven’t met a guy better at it yet, one of the reasons I married him
Bless him and his flat thumbs "
You can’t beat fat fingers and thumbs |
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"Mr is absolutely amazing at this, he has this nack of sliding two fingers in and using his thumb on your clit, just massaging inside no finger banging.
Haven’t met a guy better at it yet, one of the reasons I married him
Bless him and his flat thumbs
You can’t beat fat fingers and thumbs "
Haha the funny thing is he has the tiniest hands ever but his thumbs are huge, probably too much Xbox as a kid but I’m not complaining  |
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"Lol what is up with that ramming finger thing?? Worse than a smear test lol
Love slow teasing and wet, mmmm x"
Ooo the dreaded smear test when you haven't had anything for a while and lay there thinking .... don't get too wet... lol or is that just me xx |
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"I love making a women squirt through clitoral stimulation, whether it's orally or with my fingers.
In the same way that more time spent on foreplay is much more enjoyable than penetrative sex."
Squirt through clitoral stimulation... erm no cant say I've ever had that and not even sure you can ? |
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"Where are all the guys who do this .. instead of raming as many fingers as they can in to TRY get a lady to squirt
... I will be honest... if the guy really knows what he is doing it can be really pleasurable and pleasant but there are far too many wannabes now ...
I would love a good old fashioned clitoral stimulation/edging with the fingers that brings that explosive orgasm so much better than what a lot think is just pissing on the floor anyway x "
It's the best part! vibrators are so much fun, I bought my ex girlfriend a wand that made her cum in 30 seconds flat when you pressed it against her clit.
Most of the women i've slept with struggled to orgasm from penetration so that was usually at the end of the list of things to do |
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"Where are all the guys who do this .. instead of raming as many fingers as they can in to TRY get a lady to squirt
... I will be honest... if the guy really knows what he is doing it can be really pleasurable and pleasant but there are far too many wannabes now ...
I would love a good old fashioned clitoral stimulation/edging with the fingers that brings that explosive orgasm so much better than what a lot think is just pissing on the floor anyway x "
A-fucking-men! |
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"Where are all the guys who do this .. instead of raming as many fingers as they can in to TRY get a lady to squirt
... I will be honest... if the guy really knows what he is doing it can be really pleasurable and pleasant but there are far too many wannabes now ...
I would love a good old fashioned clitoral stimulation/edging with the fingers that brings that explosive orgasm so much better than what a lot think is just pissing on the floor anyway x
It's the best part! vibrators are so much fun, I bought my ex girlfriend a wand that made her cum in 30 seconds flat when you pressed it against her clit.
Most of the women i've slept with struggled to orgasm from penetration so that was usually at the end of the list of things to do "
I don't want to come in 30 seconds flat. Would you? |
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"Where are all the guys who do this .. instead of raming as many fingers as they can in to TRY get a lady to squirt
... I will be honest... if the guy really knows what he is doing it can be really pleasurable and pleasant but there are far too many wannabes now ...
I would love a good old fashioned clitoral stimulation/edging with the fingers that brings that explosive orgasm so much better than what a lot think is just pissing on the floor anyway x
It's the best part! vibrators are so much fun, I bought my ex girlfriend a wand that made her cum in 30 seconds flat when you pressed it against her clit.
Most of the women i've slept with struggled to orgasm from penetration so that was usually at the end of the list of things to do
I don't want to come in 30 seconds flat. Would you?"
no bloody way I want that explosive build up that leaves me clinging to them shaking from head to foot ... then the mind blowing sex .... gone are the days all we left are now is the selfish men who just want to please themselves x |
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By *horltzMan
over a year ago
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"Where are all the guys who do this .. instead of raming as many fingers as they can in to TRY get a lady to squirt
... I will be honest... if the guy really knows what he is doing it can be really pleasurable and pleasant but there are far too many wannabes now ...
I would love a good old fashioned clitoral stimulation/edging with the fingers that brings that explosive orgasm so much better than what a lot think is just pissing on the floor anyway x
It's the best part! vibrators are so much fun, I bought my ex girlfriend a wand that made her cum in 30 seconds flat when you pressed it against her clit.
Most of the women i've slept with struggled to orgasm from penetration so that was usually at the end of the list of things to do
I don't want to come in 30 seconds flat. Would you?
no bloody way I want that explosive build up that leaves me clinging to them shaking from head to foot ... then the mind blowing sex .... gone are the days all we left are now is the selfish men who just want to please themselves x "
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"Where are all the guys who do this .. instead of raming as many fingers as they can in to TRY get a lady to squirt
... I will be honest... if the guy really knows what he is doing it can be really pleasurable and pleasant but there are far too many wannabes now ...
I would love a good old fashioned clitoral stimulation/edging with the fingers that brings that explosive orgasm so much better than what a lot think is just pissing on the floor anyway x
It's the best part! vibrators are so much fun, I bought my ex girlfriend a wand that made her cum in 30 seconds flat when you pressed it against her clit.
Most of the women i've slept with struggled to orgasm from penetration so that was usually at the end of the list of things to do
I don't want to come in 30 seconds flat. Would you?"
You're asking if I would like to last three times as long? Well duh |
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"Where are all the guys who do this .. instead of raming as many fingers as they can in to TRY get a lady to squirt
... I will be honest... if the guy really knows what he is doing it can be really pleasurable and pleasant but there are far too many wannabes now ...
I would love a good old fashioned clitoral stimulation/edging with the fingers that brings that explosive orgasm so much better than what a lot think is just pissing on the floor anyway x
It's the best part! vibrators are so much fun, I bought my ex girlfriend a wand that made her cum in 30 seconds flat when you pressed it against her clit.
Most of the women i've slept with struggled to orgasm from penetration so that was usually at the end of the list of things to do
I don't want to come in 30 seconds flat. Would you?
no bloody way I want that explosive build up that leaves me clinging to them shaking from head to foot ... then the mind blowing sex .... gone are the days all we left are now is the selfish men who just want to please themselves x "
dont know where your finding your men the ones i meet arnt selfish |
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"yes i used to squirt from having my clit slapped hard ive also had a massive orgasm from the crack of a whip on it. Literally first crack and i exploded"
I don't really think that's a mind blowing orgasm x but that's just my opinion because its not my type of thing xx but hell if it works for you and its mind blowing good on ya babe xx |
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"Where are all the guys who do this .. instead of raming as many fingers as they can in to TRY get a lady to squirt
... I will be honest... if the guy really knows what he is doing it can be really pleasurable and pleasant but there are far too many wannabes now ...
I would love a good old fashioned clitoral stimulation/edging with the fingers that brings that explosive orgasm so much better than what a lot think is just pissing on the floor anyway x "
Nothing like a good gentle clit flick on a Sunday morning to wake the lady up and then gently slipping down to let the tongue finish off |
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"Where are all the guys who do this .. instead of raming as many fingers as they can in to TRY get a lady to squirt
... I will be honest... if the guy really knows what he is doing it can be really pleasurable and pleasant but there are far too many wannabes now ...
I would love a good old fashioned clitoral stimulation/edging with the fingers that brings that explosive orgasm so much better than what a lot think is just pissing on the floor anyway x
It's the best part! vibrators are so much fun, I bought my ex girlfriend a wand that made her cum in 30 seconds flat when you pressed it against her clit.
Most of the women i've slept with struggled to orgasm from penetration so that was usually at the end of the list of things to do
I don't want to come in 30 seconds flat. Would you?
no bloody way I want that explosive build up that leaves me clinging to them shaking from head to foot ... then the mind blowing sex .... gone are the days all we left are now is the selfish men who just want to please themselves x dont know where your finding your men the ones i meet arnt selfish"
There are a lot on here x |
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"I love to be fingered slowly feeling my body react to slow seductive fingering. "
Now that I agree with it's a lovely feeling just a shame it's been so long I can't remember what that feels like x |
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"I love making a women squirt through clitoral stimulation, whether it's orally or with my fingers.
In the same way that more time spent on foreplay is much more enjoyable than penetrative sex.
Squirt through clitoral stimulation... erm no cant say I've ever had that and not even sure you can ? "
Oh believe me, you can (and it isn't "pissing on the floor" either) |
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"Where are all the guys who do this .. instead of raming as many fingers as they can in to TRY get a lady to squirt
... I will be honest... if the guy really knows what he is doing it can be really pleasurable and pleasant but there are far too many wannabes now ...
I would love a good old fashioned clitoral stimulation/edging with the fingers that brings that explosive orgasm so much better than what a lot think is just pissing on the floor anyway x "
The only way a guy or girl can learn is from the person receiving telling them exactly what the want and how they want it, be confident and confirm the person what you want. Communication is key to great foreplay and great sex.
Everyone is different so what people learn from other people might not be what the new person likes |
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Awww i love just laying there tickling, stroking,kissing my way around a clit, watching her tummy going up and down with each breath.
Huh call me old fashioned  |
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"I love making a women squirt through clitoral stimulation, whether it's orally or with my fingers.
In the same way that more time spent on foreplay is much more enjoyable than penetrative sex.
Squirt through clitoral stimulation... erm no cant say I've ever had that and not even sure you can ? "
I've actually slept with a woman who could. Though of course it's not the way most women squirt. |
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"I love making a women squirt through clitoral stimulation, whether it's orally or with my fingers.
In the same way that more time spent on foreplay is much more enjoyable than penetrative sex.
Squirt through clitoral stimulation... erm no cant say I've ever had that and not even sure you can ?
I've actually slept with a woman who could. Though of course it's not the way most women squirt."
Wow never heard or seen that one but sounds interesting wonder if it's as intense as a clitoral orgasm xx |
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"I love making a women squirt through clitoral stimulation, whether it's orally or with my fingers.
In the same way that more time spent on foreplay is much more enjoyable than penetrative sex.
Squirt through clitoral stimulation... erm no cant say I've ever had that and not even sure you can ?
I've actually slept with a woman who could. Though of course it's not the way most women squirt.
Wow never heard or seen that one but sounds interesting wonder if it's as intense as a clitoral orgasm xx"
I've never heard if that either....Hmmm interesting |
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By *ussD1Man
over a year ago
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I’ve only really found that clitoral stimulation is the most effective way to pleasure a partner. Start with my usual technique and watch, learn and adapt to her likes.
Not sure I’ve been asked to ram multiple fingers hard into a partner. “Ooh baby thrust three fingers in and rummage about” |
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"I'm a follower of the keep your fingers still and let her sqwirm about school of fingering"
Keeping them still ?? Really can't see how that would intensify pleasure maybe a little moment every few seconds ... now that could be good
I once had a guy give me finger clitoral stimulation and he was so good at knowing when I was ready and he slowed down then started again it was really mind blowing but the best was him really knowing when I was at height of arousal and inserted just as I was ready and few movements I was cuming hard on him i could feel it pulsing it was the most amazing feeling ....
I have NEVER found anyone who could do that since lol and it was so long ago i can't even remember who he was ... know he wasnt on this site though x |
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"Ladies, we should form a Fingering Excellence School and run workshops for these poor porn-educated men 
They can practice on each other should we wear false clitorises?"
Use your noses. |
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The Clit
Hidden away in nook and cranny
Their in lies the little fanny
It get's excited when it's ticked
Its very small and sometimes fickle
It's hidden between the flaps
It's sensitive and always under wraps
To find it you must first kneel
And then slowly with your hands peel
It feels great when with the tounge it's touched
Oh! The pleasure it's just too much
Eating it with minty delight
Man licking this pussy will be such a fight
Ohh and aah aah's are in store
So get down on it man and stop being a bore
And poke that pussy till it's sore
The clit with it's pinky skin
Leaving it alone will be a sin |
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By *rK MrsJCouple
over a year ago
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I(mr) don't like ramming my fingers in,I prefer to be more gentle perhaps I'm in the minority but I will only do it if they ask as I feel that I dont want to hurt the lady and ramming your fingers in may do. |
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I love giving a good lick, rub and suck of the clit .. then sticking tongue right in pussy. .. moan a little because my tongue vibrates alot when doing it, then when she starts convulsing and squirting before squeezing your head between her thighs, that is so satisfying and I always love to please this way before shoving my cock in there  |
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"I love making a women squirt through clitoral stimulation, whether it's orally or with my fingers.
In the same way that more time spent on foreplay is much more enjoyable than penetrative sex.
Squirt through clitoral stimulation... erm no cant say I've ever had that and not even sure you can ?
I've actually slept with a woman who could. Though of course it's not the way most women squirt.
Wow never heard or seen that one but sounds interesting wonder if it's as intense as a clitoral orgasm xx
I've never heard if that either....Hmmm interesting"
I take some time to reach orgasm and only can, initially, through clitoral stimulation but once it has happened any further contact has me orgasming and squirting over and over.
Penetration of any sort, prior to my first orgasm, will not result in me cumming or squirting though. |
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"Lol what is up with that ramming finger thing?? Worse than a smear test lol
Love slow teasing and wet, mmmm x"
Check out one of the other post about having sex just before a smear test |
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"Absolutely love using a magic wand for this and teasing a lady till she's helpless  "
So you cheat? No magic fingers for you....you rely on a magic wand = lazy |
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"Absolutely love using a magic wand for this and teasing a lady till she's helpless
So you cheat? No magic fingers for you....you rely on a magic wand = lazy "
Get back to me when your fingers can vibrate at 20000rpm |
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"Absolutely love using a magic wand for this and teasing a lady till she's helpless
So you cheat? No magic fingers for you....you rely on a magic wand = lazy
Get back to me when your fingers can vibrate at 20000rpm "
They don’t need to.....stag is great with his hands and tongue  |
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"Absolutely love using a magic wand for this and teasing a lady till she's helpless
So you cheat? No magic fingers for you....you rely on a magic wand = lazy
Get back to me when your fingers can vibrate at 20000rpm
They don’t need to.....stag is great with his hands and tongue "
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"I love giving a good lick, rub and suck of the clit .. then sticking tongue right in pussy. .. moan a little because my tongue vibrates alot when doing it, then when she starts convulsing and squirting before squeezing your head between her thighs, that is so satisfying and I always love to please this way before shoving my cock in there "
I.was more meaning finger clit and the long lost slow tantalising fingering inside boy I'm old lol x |
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"They are on here i have been amazed at how skilled some of them are and they seem to enjoy doing it or at least they dont mind, they arent in a hurry for you to cum."
Point me in the right direction lol xxx |
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"Absolutely love using a magic wand for this and teasing a lady till she's helpless
So you cheat? No magic fingers for you....you rely on a magic wand = lazy "
Not at all. Love giving oral or using fingers too  |
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An early girlfriend of mine would cum and cum from the very lightest touch. Literally, just the tip of my middle finger 'hovering' on her clit, no pressure, no rubbing, no penetration (she always had her eyes closed and was probably fantasising that it was a film or rock heartthrob not her boring boyfriend)! |
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"An early girlfriend of mine would cum and cum from the very lightest touch. Literally, just the tip of my middle finger 'hovering' on her clit, no pressure, no rubbing, no penetration (she always had her eyes closed and was probably fantasising that it was a film or rock heartthrob not her boring boyfriend)!"
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