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By *Jones19Man
over a year ago
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Who says that meet is going to notice your having a fat day? What if they help cheer you up and make you feel better? I think having a fat day is an excuse to actually meet. Nothing makes me feel better about myself than having a good meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When you are having a fat day on a day you planned to meet
... is it a valid reason to rearrange til your feeling better?  "
no suck it up buttercup he'll make you feel better anyways  |
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Okay, we all have days when nothing seems to fit comfortably and you look in the mirror and you just think 'urrgghhh'. This obviously affects your self confidence but being objective, and realistic, just how much 'fatter' do you really think you are compared to when you agreed to meet? The likelihood is that you may have put on a couple of pounds which is nothing and/or you might simply be bloated for whatever reason. What I'm trying to say is, that unless you agreed to meet months ago and have put on several stone since then chances are you are more or less exactly the same person that your meet felt attracted to still. So you should go for it! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"i bet you look just as beautiful as ever. but if you feeling uncomfortable then its a fairly valid reason in my book"
Want to see you though, Lust you  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Okay, we all have days when nothing seems to fit comfortably and you look in the mirror and you just think 'urrgghhh'. This obviously affects your self confidence but being objective, and realistic, just how much 'fatter' do you really think you are compared to when you agreed to meet? The likelihood is that you may have put on a couple of pounds which is nothing and/or you might simply be bloated for whatever reason. What I'm trying to say is, that unless you agreed to meet months ago and have put on several stone since then chances are you are more or less exactly the same person that your meet felt attracted to still. So you should go for it!"
 thank you, this made me feel better
And Thanks everyone  xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When you are having a fat day on a day you planned to meet
... is it a valid reason to rearrange til your feeling better? "
No burn it off on your meet |
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"When you are having a fat day on a day you planned to meet
... is it a valid reason to rearrange til your feeling better? "
Of course it is, if you’re not feeling it then you’re not feeling it, don’t make a job out of it lol  |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"I always have fat days, although I’m not currently meeting anyway"
 No SB.
I always have fat days and life is too bloody short to miss out on decent fucking.
They'll still find you attractive anyway - a lot of it is in your head. Fake it until you make it or have a power wank and start feeling yourself and how sexy you can be. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When you are having a fat day on a day you planned to meet
... is it a valid reason to rearrange til your feeling better? "
Do what you feel is right for you. If you don't want to meet today at least you find out how genuinely this meet wants you and should understand...  |
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Would you say to a friend “you look a bit fat, I wouldn’t go and potentially meet a nice bloke and enjoy awesome sex”?
No? So don’t treat yourself worse than you would treat other people, be kind to yourself |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We need some Positive mental attitude here, body confidence is a tricky thing to deal with but there's always people out there that appreciate the beautiful imperfections, no one is perfect and you are you, do you want be like someone else because they say it's not right to be the way you are? Have pride in what you have because we're all beautiful in our own way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i bet you look just as beautiful as ever. but if you feeling uncomfortable then its a fairly valid reason in my book
Want to see you though, Lust you "
i know you do. want to see you sooner rayher tham later |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’d sell a kidney for your figure you are gorgeous! But I understand that feeling, usually when I feel like that I make myself go to wherever I’m going and end up having the best time x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’d sell a kidney for your figure you are gorgeous! But I understand that feeling, usually when I feel like that I make myself go to wherever I’m going and end up having the best time x"
you look amazing both of you, if only you were closer!!
Bum pic ... wow |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’d sell a kidney for your figure you are gorgeous! But I understand that feeling, usually when I feel like that I make myself go to wherever I’m going and end up having the best time x
you look amazing both of you, if only you were closer!!
Bum pic ... wow "
: 26th Feb pic!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’d sell a kidney for your figure you are gorgeous! But I understand that feeling, usually when I feel like that I make myself go to wherever I’m going and end up having the best time x
you look amazing both of you, if only you were closer!!
Bum pic ... wow : 26th Feb pic!! "
Thank you! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’d sell a kidney for your figure you are gorgeous! But I understand that feeling, usually when I feel like that I make myself go to wherever I’m going and end up having the best time x
you look amazing both of you, if only you were closer!!
Bum pic ... wow : 26th Feb pic!!
Thank you! "
Road trip? Lol xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I always have fat days, although I’m not currently meeting anywayyou had a meet on Wednesday lol"
Erm if you read it, it’s from the social I cohosted on Saturday |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When you are having a fat day on a day you planned to meet
... is it a valid reason to rearrange til your feeling better? "
I understand but it simply isn't fair to rearrange.... For all you know they could make you feel a whole lot better about yourself |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When you are having a fat day on a day you planned to meet
... is it a valid reason to rearrange til your feeling better?
I understand but it simply isn't fair to rearrange.... For all you know they could make you feel a whole lot better about yourself "
Does he posess that quality? They can't be all like me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I'm having a fat day, it usually means I'm not feeling sexy and if that's the case any meets I'd have would be crap...so I would not do it. A crap meet is no fun for anyone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When you are having a fat day on a day you planned to meet
... is it a valid reason to rearrange til your feeling better?
I understand but it simply isn't fair to rearrange.... For all you know they could make you feel a whole lot better about yourself
Does he posess that quality? They can't be all like me "
Can't speak for all but my fb makes me feel like the sexiest minx in the world... Fat days or not |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When you are having a fat day on a day you planned to meet
... is it a valid reason to rearrange til your feeling better?
I understand but it simply isn't fair to rearrange.... For all you know they could make you feel a whole lot better about yourself
Does he posess that quality? They can't be all like me
Can't speak for all but my fb makes me feel like the sexiest minx in the world... Fat days or not "
Or like your Fb |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Everyday is a fat day for me these days so I rarely arrange anything. But, I definitely wouldn't sort a meet then message him and say, "I'm cancelling because I feel fat." It seems like a shit excuse really. Guys don't understand! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When you are having a fat day on a day you planned to meet
... is it a valid reason to rearrange til your feeling better? "
My fat day has lasted about two years now
If you don't feel comfortable don't go but let them know in good time and ask to rearrange
Do what you feel is right for you x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Everyday is a fat day for me these days so I rarely arrange anything. But, I definitely wouldn't sort a meet then message him and say, "I'm cancelling because I feel fat." It seems like a shit excuse really. Guys don't understand! "
Blimey! I'm not sure that was the message! It's ok to say you're not feeling too good and can you rearrange  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If it was me and if you're uncomfortable then I could understand the cancellation. I have my body foibles too.
The flip is we all get to know meets before hand, so if someone is seeing recent pics of you before meeting then how you perceive yourself may not be a consideration they've thought through as they've found you attractive already. |
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"For goodness sake... all this fat day stuff is internal...snog us hard ... worry about making us feel great being with you...you won't have time or the energy of feel bad about yourself"
I'm not sure ignoring our own needs is good advice. |
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"For goodness sake... all this fat day stuff is internal...snog us hard ... worry about making us feel great being with you...you won't have time or the energy of feel bad about yourself"
Yeh OP ignore your internal shit and make sure you make *him* feel great! ....iv never heard such pap....  |
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"For goodness sake... all this fat day stuff is internal...snog us hard ... worry about making us feel great being with you...you won't have time or the energy of feel bad about yourself
Yeh OP ignore your internal shit and make sure you make *him* feel great! ....iv never heard such pap.... "
Quite.
There's something to be said about losing yourself in the moment, but not focusing all on someone else. I came on Fab to get away from that shit. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wish women wouldn't put themselves down like this,
as Freddie Mercury would sing "fat bottom girls make the rocking world go round"
Personally I see nothing wrong with it as long as it isn't affecting your health poorly.
You can be large and perfectly healthy just others don't see that.
I've always liked large girls and I wouldn't have it any other way. |
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"I wish women wouldn't put themselves down like this,
as Freddie Mercury would sing "fat bottom girls make the rocking world go round"
Personally I see nothing wrong with it as long as it isn't affecting your health poorly.
You can be large and perfectly healthy just others don't see that.
I've always liked large girls and I wouldn't have it any other way. "
But how else will we get attention?
OP. Don’t worry about it. Fat days don’t last forever. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know how you feel OP.
I have cancelled all sorts of things because I don't feel good about myself.
Wait until you feel better - you'll have a better time x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wish women wouldn't put themselves down like this,
as Freddie Mercury would sing "fat bottom girls make the rocking world go round"
Personally I see nothing wrong with it as long as it isn't affecting your health poorly.
You can be large and perfectly healthy just others don't see that.
I've always liked large girls and I wouldn't have it any other way.
But how else will we get attention?
OP. Don’t worry about it. Fat days don’t last forever. "
how else would you get attention? .... Quite simple .... Tits OOOT! Hahaha just kidding. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For goodness sake... all this fat day stuff is internal...snog us hard ... worry about making us feel great being with you...you won't have time or the energy of feel bad about yourself"
Nice |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’d sell a kidney for your figure you are gorgeous! But I understand that feeling, usually when I feel like that I make myself go to wherever I’m going and end up having the best time x
you look amazing both of you, if only you were closer!!
Bum pic ... wow : 26th Feb pic!! "
i concure |
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and got a meet was thinking of cancelling glad it's not just me 
