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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I’m looking for constructive criticism. What am I missing/doing wrong to explain why I can’t get a meet? I have pics & a profile, I’m polite & friendly in my messages, I send face pics when requested (I’m not a very confident person, but I don’t think I’m ugly). Any honest advice would be appreciated |
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The cock pics are off putting. Some of them look like your'e sat on the toilet. Get rid.
Explain what you're looking for in your text.
The fact that you can't accommodate wouldn't put me off but it would be something that would cause me to keep an eye on other clues that you might be attached. It might be worth referencing if there is something legit.
Your age - many people will be looking for older people due to the age of their kids etc. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m looking for constructive criticism. What am I missing/doing wrong to explain why I can’t get a meet? I have pics & a profile, I’m polite & friendly in my messages, I send face pics when requested (I’m not a very confident person, but I don’t think I’m ugly). Any honest advice would be appreciated"
Do you really think that pants round the ankles, and cock being str**gled is a sexy look?
Really? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You have lots of cock pics. Boring imo.
Your profile text is nothing.
You’re young - this doesn’t prevent meets at all, you may just need to work a wee bit harder.
Sending nice and polite messages should just be a given 
Are you reading profiles? Ensuring you meet what they are looking for? Paying attention to their age preferences, their location etc? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Every photo is of your cock.
You can't accommodate so many will think your attached and playing away.
You haven't got much in the way of a profile either.
There are thousands of male profiles with much more to entice women in.. maybe give your bio a re shuffle and swap all your cock photos for teasing ones.
The ladies have already seen what you have to offer... So there isn't much left to the imagination.
Good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m looking for constructive criticism. What am I missing/doing wrong to explain why I can’t get a meet? I have pics & a profile, I’m polite & friendly in my messages, I send face pics when requested (I’m not a very confident person, but I don’t think I’m ugly). Any honest advice would be appreciated
Do you really think that pants round the ankles, and cock being str**gled is a sexy look?
Really?"
Funniest thing I’ve heard in ages  |
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Urgh.
Shame, as your height and the fact you're a Geordie would be plus points for me. Age doesn't matter per se, but the profile and pics show immaturity.
Get out to the clubs and get some experience, and ffs get rid of those awful pics.....
Men always look at female profiles when bemoaning their lack of interest, when they should be looking at the successful MALE profiles to see what to do... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You are very proud of your cock - well done, we are very pleased for you and this may surprise you but ... less is most definitely more when it comes to cock pics.
You are willing to meet a 99 year old woman? You may want to refine that unless you are genuinely up for a 70+yr age gap.
You may want to expand your profile text, it doesn’t really tell anyone who you are or what you are interested in. |
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"Too many cock pics (all of them, to be honest).
Been here over a year, and no veris? Not even a social??
Sounds like a lazy profile, and that implies a lazy shag.."
I'm a lazy shag but I've got a bad back and a doctors note excusing me from strenuous exercise.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Okay, so delete some of the pics (which I’ve been considering tbh), & be more detailed in my profile. Appreciating the advice so far. I’m 100% single though, just for the record haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Okay, so delete some of the pics (which I’ve been considering tbh), & be more detailed in my profile. Appreciating the advice so far. I’m 100% single though, just for the record haha"
Upload some different pics, that aren’t of your cock. You have body parts that aren’t your cock or face |
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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago
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"Too many cock pics (all of them, to be honest).
Been here over a year, and no veris? Not even a social??
Sounds like a lazy profile, and that implies a lazy shag..
I'm a lazy shag but I've got a bad back and a doctors note excusing me from strenuous exercise. "
So it's wanking for you, then...  |
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"Too many cock pics (all of them, to be honest).
Been here over a year, and no veris? Not even a social??
Sounds like a lazy profile, and that implies a lazy shag..
I'm a lazy shag but I've got a bad back and a doctors note excusing me from strenuous exercise.
So it's wanking for you, then... "
Yup.   |
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Hi op welcome to the forum .
You're quite young in fab terms that will work against you to an extent.
Otherwise I suggest that you replace your pictures with some of your torso or clothed body and write a brief profile that explains what you offer and what you're after.
Sometimes joining in the forums in a positive way helps get to know people and gives you an idea of the way fab works.
Good luck |
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Men always look at female profiles when bemoaning their lack of interest, when they should be looking at the successful MALE profiles to see what to do..."
this is true but then at the same time I've looked at a few profiles of blokes that have got veris by people I've been interested in, but it hasn't worked out for whatever reason and the only thing I can think of is that they must be much better at sending flirty messages or whatever as their profiles aren't all that. I mean mine might be crap also but their text and pictures were pretty generic, nothing to write home about. I'd love to see the messaging style of the more successful users but I very much doubt I'll be allowed into anyone's inbox to have a look lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So it's just 5 cock pictures now. Plus avatar. Great improvement
Well he still needs something to look at while on the loo "
I wonder what that could be and why |
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Men always look at female profiles when bemoaning their lack of interest, when they should be looking at the successful MALE profiles to see what to do...
this is true but then at the same time I've looked at a few profiles of blokes that have got veris by people I've been interested in, but it hasn't worked out for whatever reason and the only thing I can think of is that they must be much better at sending flirty messages or whatever as their profiles aren't all that. I mean mine might be crap also but their text and pictures were pretty generic, nothing to write home about. I'd love to see the messaging style of the more successful users but I very much doubt I'll be allowed into anyone's inbox to have a look lol"
They could have got their veris from club visits. That's where most of ours are from, other than people we know from other sources, that would mean it had nothing to do with their profile or messages |
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Men always look at female profiles when bemoaning their lack of interest, when they should be looking at the successful MALE profiles to see what to do...
this is true but then at the same time I've looked at a few profiles of blokes that have got veris by people I've been interested in, but it hasn't worked out for whatever reason and the only thing I can think of is that they must be much better at sending flirty messages or whatever as their profiles aren't all that. I mean mine might be crap also but their text and pictures were pretty generic, nothing to write home about. I'd love to see the messaging style of the more successful users but I very much doubt I'll be allowed into anyone's inbox to have a look lol
They could have got their veris from club visits. That's where most of ours are from, other than people we know from other sources, that would mean it had nothing to do with their profile or messages"
Nope, the veris were all along the lines of 'messaged Ms X back and forth for a few days, decided to meet, she was waiting for me in lingerie and we got straight to it' kinda thing.
I was a bit surprised by this one tbh as we'd been chatting for a few weeks, getting on well then randomly stopped responding to my messages then got about 5 quite explicit veris in a row, all of which were making me think 'damn, I'm missing out here wtf have I done wrong'... Other than be six on the list, I guess... |
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"Cock pics are a massive off for me and your first line of your profile makes you sound desperate
You’ve had advice but yet haven’t changed anything so I suspect you’re just posting for attention?"
Love your chest ink, Nancy. Looks awesome :D |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You’ve had advice but yet haven’t changed anything so I suspect you’re just posting for attention?"
I do have a life outside of this site, believe it or not, & this isn’t my number one concern. I’ll make changes when I have the time |
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Haven't read the other comments but I'd have to say the pics are very cock-centric. Also the wookie look is so last decade. Bit of manscaping wouldnt go amis. In appearance you might even grow an inch.
Putting yourself in their shoes, would you want to eat that.? Presentation.
Appreciate that your woefully short profile is under construction.
These things are so obvious. Would prefer you came with what you consider to be perfect, for those here to pick over. |
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thank you.
You two look great also 