Has anyone else never been invited to a party? We've had a fair few ppl look at our profile and they're having a part but we haven't been invited lol
We have our thoughts as to why.
If you were having a part would you invite us ? If not plz tell us why |
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We've been invited to several parties. We only accepted one invitation and are unlikely to ever accept another.
If we had a party we would only invite people we already knew and for that reason only we wouldn't invite you  |
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May help if your profile said party invites welcome.
Also it's generally a case of recommendations so you need to go open the door by finding a party and getting yourselves invited |
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"We've been invited to several parties. We only accepted one invitation and are unlikely to ever accept another.
If we had a party we would only invite people we already knew and for that reason only we wouldn't invite you "
Exactly this |
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"We've been invited to several parties. We only accepted one invitation and are unlikely to ever accept another.
If we had a party we would only invite people we already knew and for that reason only we wouldn't invite you "
That's understandable.can I ask why you wouldn't accept another invite? |
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"We've been invited to several parties. We only accepted one invitation and are unlikely to ever accept another.
If we had a party we would only invite people we already knew and for that reason only we wouldn't invite you
That's understandable.can I ask why you wouldn't accept another invite?"
Because the first one we went to felt like too much pressure to have sex for me and the minute I feel pressure I freeze. There were other reasons but that's the main one. |
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"We've been invited to several parties. We only accepted one invitation and are unlikely to ever accept another.
If we had a party we would only invite people we already knew and for that reason only we wouldn't invite you
That's understandable.can I ask why you wouldn't accept another invite?
Because the first one we went to felt like too much pressure to have sex for me and the minute I feel pressure I freeze. There were other reasons but that's the main one. "
well yes I see why the wife don't play with men so she wouldn't be happy with that either to be fair neither would i. |
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"We've been invited to several parties. We only accepted one invitation and are unlikely to ever accept another.
If we had a party we would only invite people we already knew and for that reason only we wouldn't invite you
That's understandable.can I ask why you wouldn't accept another invite?
Because the first one we went to felt like too much pressure to have sex for me and the minute I feel pressure I freeze. There were other reasons but that's the main one. well yes I see why the wife don't play with men so she wouldn't be happy with that either to be fair neither would i."
I think if you're going to go to a party you need to find out how the hosts are planning to stage it and if you'll be comfortable with what they have in mind. |
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"We've been invited to several parties. We only accepted one invitation and are unlikely to ever accept another.
If we had a party we would only invite people we already knew and for that reason only we wouldn't invite you
That's understandable.can I ask why you wouldn't accept another invite?
Because the first one we went to felt like too much pressure to have sex for me and the minute I feel pressure I freeze. There were other reasons but that's the main one. well yes I see why the wife don't play with men so she wouldn't be happy with that either to be fair neither would i."
That might be why couples don't invite you then. They usually want full swap. Not guaranteed, just a possibility. |
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"We've been invited to several parties. We only accepted one invitation and are unlikely to ever accept another.
If we had a party we would only invite people we already knew and for that reason only we wouldn't invite you
That's understandable.can I ask why you wouldn't accept another invite?
Because the first one we went to felt like too much pressure to have sex for me and the minute I feel pressure I freeze. There were other reasons but that's the main one. well yes I see why the wife don't play with men so she wouldn't be happy with that either to be fair neither would i.
That might be why couples don't invite you then. They usually want full swap. Not guaranteed, just a possibility. "
I Think so well that's the conclusion we've come to anyway,we wouldn't change the way we are just to get an invite. |
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There is a party in brum in July. I tried to get an invite through the forum post but it was impossible, even though I was one of the first to ask. A lot of the advertised meets/party's are so much of a clique. You basically just get ignored, unless your female. |
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"There is a party in brum in July. I tried to get an invite through the forum post but it was impossible, even though I was one of the first to ask. A lot of the advertised meets/party's are so much of a clique. You basically just get ignored, unless your female."
I think couples want just want couples to join that will fuck with anyone I may be wrong |
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"There is a party in brum in July. I tried to get an invite through the forum post but it was impossible, even though I was one of the first to ask. A lot of the advertised meets/party's are so much of a clique. You basically just get ignored, unless your female.
I think couples want just want couples to join that will fuck with anyone I may be wrong "
Sometimes but not always. If all the couples went where only the woman played, it would be boring for the men.
There's loads of parties where singles and couples both go. Some only watch. Sex is never guaranteed. |
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"There is a party in brum in July. I tried to get an invite through the forum post but it was impossible, even though I was one of the first to ask. A lot of the advertised meets/party's are so much of a clique. You basically just get ignored, unless your female.
I think couples want just want couples to join that will fuck with anyone I may be wrong
Sometimes but not always. If all the couples went where only the woman played, it would be boring for the men.
There's loads of parties where singles and couples both go. Some only watch. Sex is never guaranteed. "
I would have just gone for the meet and greet. Sex wasn't even a priority or a necessity for me. |
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"Has anyone else never been invited to a party? We've had a fair few ppl look at our profile and they're having a part but we haven't been invited lol
We have our thoughts as to why.
If you were having a part would you invite us ? If not plz tell us why"
yes parties tend to be at people's own homes so if you're not known that could be reason, it's anybodies guess I suppose |
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Almost every week since we joined.
Stopped replying to the messages sometime ago but still receiving them.
Not attended one yet and in all probability never will. |
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"Almost every week since we joined.
Stopped replying to the messages sometime ago but still receiving them.
Not attended one yet and in all probability never will."
Well you can see why you get invited.
It's not that we want to go to one, we just asking as we had a fair few ppl look at us with status saying looking for couples to come to our party,but never asked lol |
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I’ve had a few party invites ... maybe one day I’ll be brave. 