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Do you love your mother more than your father because she carried and gave birth to you?
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over a year ago
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nope. shes Mrs Bucket and a cold hearted block of ice, i never met my father until I was 16
I love my step father ... the most amazing and annoying man I've ever known  |
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No, that doesn't factor into the quality and strength of the relationship - though a woman who carries her unborn baby and gives birth will probably have a different relationship that in turn can influence how her child relates to her.
They've been different relationships for me it's a near perfect relationship |
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As you can see above, everyones relationship with the woman that gave birth to them is different, some will love their mother all their life, their best friend, their confidant.. others feel and see their relationship with the woman that gave them life very differently..
a man can be a father and not a daddy! A step father can be a dad to another mans child.. relationships are built as you grow, learn and develop.. how you communicate with your parents and they you.
Each is as individual as a fingerprint and as fragile as glass.
And love comes in many forms and many levels..
That’s a tough one to answer and definitely and excellent thought provoking post. Well done OP X
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No, it’s due to the unconditional love which, we’re unlikely to have with anyone else.
There are some truly sad life events being posted on here. Life can be truly cruel  |
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Lost my Mum this year. She wasn’t a great Mum at all but I look back now with nothing but love and no bad feeling.
My parents split when I was very young. When I can to the UK to live with him he was very aloof but the years have mellowed him.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My Dad didn't want me and told my mum to get rid of me. She refused and said she would bring me up alone. In the end he said he had to do the "right thing" and he married her. He had two kids already and his first wife had died. My mum struggled with 3 kids and no love from dad. Mum then went on to have had my sister, who was a "mistake" also. My whole childhood consisted of arguments, shouting, screaming, being scared and mentally abused. Dad died 22 yrs ago. I love my mum very much, she had a bloody tough life. I wish my Dad had left my mum alone, things would have been better for us all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My dad passed away last week m I loved him to bits n I do my mum too I’ve never felt so lost than I have since he died  "
It's hard sending a little virtual hug x |
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By *manaWoman
over a year ago
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I love my mum just as much as my dad. I was lucky, she was a tough londoner who taught me how to be strong in a tough world. I miss her very much, but my dad is the bees knees and without a doubt the best man I know xx |
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Not at all. I love my parents. But I have a strong dislike for my mum. I avoid spending any time alone in her company, as we bring out the worse in each other.
My Dad on the other hand, we are very close. I think because he isn't my biological dad (I never met him), he kind of chose to stick around when I was at my worse, my Mum did stick around, but blames me every day. It doesn't help that she is an alcoholic. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No, I’ve had a very difficult relationship with both my parents. Lost my dad over 2 years ago and haven’t cried at all. It’s hard when your parents make you feel as though whatever you do it’s not good enough x |
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"No, I’ve had a very difficult relationship with both my parents. Lost my dad over 2 years ago and haven’t cried at all. It’s hard when your parents make you feel as though whatever you do it’s not good enough x "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nope. It's special being able to create a life and grow a little bambino but it definitely doesn't entitle someone to my love. I've had a very difficult relationship with my mum but couldn't say a bad word about my dad. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Do I feel a deeper connection to my mum? Yeah I guess I do maybe party because you feel you need to protect your mum more than your dad.
My dad grafted every day to keep a roof over our head so I respect him immensely |
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"As I suspect no one remembers being in the womb, relationships with parents are built over entire lives, not pre birth."
Exactly this. Also my dad carried me in different ways. He was talking to me about the day I was born the other day and referred to it as feeling he had witnessed a miracle. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love my parents equally for very different reasons.
My mum is there for me emotionally, whenever I need a shoulder to cry on or need any advice.
My dad takes care of everything practical, he will always be the first person I call in a crisis.
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