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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago
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No in a relationship I would not think to ask, not interested in past relationships.
On fab, it is a swingers site of course people are going to have shagged others, so again not really a problem so long as we stick to our boundaries. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I really think it depends what you’re looking for. For me too many would put me off yes. If I wanted random just sex meets and I’d had lots of sexual partners then it would be hypocritical to say it put me off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have as many as you want, if someone is going to judge you for it are they really someone you'd want in your life? "
I don’t think it’s judging though at all. I’ve always said people can do what they want as it doesn’t affect me one bit. When it does affect me then yes I’ll judge, in every way! |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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The number wouldn't put me off as such, I've had a couple over the years. What would put me off is if they didn't approach things in a similar way to me. That would suggest incompatibility. In real life and on fab you don't really know how many people someone has fucked. There are some with a high amount of meets who I'd avoid, likewise some I wouldn't. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don’t think any number is too many. What would put us off is the thought we are just another number on a list of conquests.
We prefer to build a connection |
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"I don’t think any number is too many. What would put us off is the thought we are just another number on a list of conquests.
We prefer to build a connection"
Connected - Stereo MC's 
www.youtube.com/watch?v=LMGdRgtblmk |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think it's more about how sexually healthy you are and have been
The number of people you've been with means nothing
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This is true. Once your sexual health is looked after that's the main thing. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"How many is to many sexual partners? Now it here or in real life? Is there a number that would put you off?
Certainly no more than five or six at a time."
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By *hechapMan
over a year ago
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"How many is to many sexual partners? Now it here or in real life? Is there a number that would put you off?"
Do you mean at the same time?
I suppose it could be off putting if there was too many and some people didnt get as big a share of the pie as everyone else.
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By *hechapMan
over a year ago
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"Ive no interest in how many people someone has shagged and if they asked me id call them a cheeky twat and tell them to fuck off"
Just out of curiosity have you had many sexual partners in your time? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have as many as you want, if someone is going to judge you for it are they really someone you'd want in your life?
I don’t think it’s judging though at all. I’ve always said people can do what they want as it doesn’t affect me one bit. When it does affect me then yes I’ll judge, in every way!"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How many is to many sexual partners? Now it here or in real life? Is there a number that would put you off?"
More than 4 sex veris on their profile puts me off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It depends.
I'm not looking for a relationship from anyone on here - so it's none of my business.
People usually aren't honest about how many sexual partners they've had or in most swingers cases cant remember
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"How many is to many sexual partners? Now it here or in real life? Is there a number that would put you off?"
I’m with a lovely guy at the moment (early days though) and suffice to say I’ve had many more sexual partners than he has!
In bed though, we absolutely do it for each other - and outside of the bed we get on great!
If number of sexual partners mattered to a chap who was considering dating me in the future, then I wouldn’t be the right woman for him! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Have as many as you want, if someone is going to judge you for it are they really someone you'd want in your life?
I don’t think it’s judging though at all. I’ve always said people can do what they want as it doesn’t affect me one bit. When it does affect me then yes I’ll judge, in every way!"
But how does how many previous sexual partners someone has had effect you in anyway? |
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"The number wouldn't put me off as such, I've had a couple over the years. What would put me off is if they didn't approach things in a similar way to me. That would suggest incompatibility. In real life and on fab you don't really know how many people someone has fucked. There are some with a high amount of meets who I'd avoid, likewise some I wouldn't. "
I agree with this!
A couple of months ago I ‘almost’ mr a total hottie from the forums - a really lovely guy! I’d met a lot more people than him. However - when it came down to arranging to meet up - he stated that he didn’t have socials and wanted to ‘get down to it’ straight away, as it were - so regretfully we left things there!
The number of people one sleeps with is only a small part of the measure of sexual compatibility either on fab or in real life! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Have as many as you want, if someone is going to judge you for it are they really someone you'd want in your life?
I don’t think it’s judging though at all. I’ve always said people can do what they want as it doesn’t affect me one bit. When it does affect me then yes I’ll judge, in every way!
But how does how many previous sexual partners someone has had effect you in anyway? "
Are you joking? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Have as many as you want, if someone is going to judge you for it are they really someone you'd want in your life?
I don’t think it’s judging though at all. I’ve always said people can do what they want as it doesn’t affect me one bit. When it does affect me then yes I’ll judge, in every way!
But how does how many previous sexual partners someone has had effect you in anyway? "
Affect is probably the wrong word. Involve me as in if I’m meeting someone. How many veris and partners people have is irrelevant to me unless I’m potentially meeting them. |
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By *am4CamWoman
over a year ago
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My Mr has slept with far more people than I have, yes that sometimes befuddles me as I worry that I am a little green in comparison, he seems broadly content with his lot and his breadth of experience means we have a great sex life. I’m learning from him, he is learning from me and the fact that I’m his first truly bisexual partner, which befuddles him from time to time. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The number wouldn't put me off as such, I've had a couple over the years. What would put me off is if they didn't approach things in a similar way to me. That would suggest incompatibility. In real life and on fab you don't really know how many people someone has fucked. There are some with a high amount of meets who I'd avoid, likewise some I wouldn't.
I agree with this!
A couple of months ago I ‘almost’ mr a total hottie from the forums - a really lovely guy! I’d met a lot more people than him. However - when it came down to arranging to meet up - he stated that he didn’t have socials and wanted to ‘get down to it’ straight away, as it were - so regretfully we left things there!
The number of people one sleeps with is only a small part of the measure of sexual compatibility either on fab or in real life! X"
True |
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