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By *VineMan
over a year ago
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"My Fab fellow lovelies what are your responses of posting meets?
I've posted numerous social meets and have had literally no responses!  "
You have the disadvantage of being male. If women do it, it generally gets a lot of interest |
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the last line of our profile says we're happy to meet local people for a purely social meet in a relaxed atmosphere. Not one person has taken us up on the offer.
I think very few people want to socialise unless there is the possibility at least, of more later. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"the last line of our profile says we're happy to meet local people for a purely social meet in a relaxed atmosphere. Not one person has taken us up on the offer.
I think very few people want to socialise unless there is the possibility at least, of more later."
That's interesting because I always put a social meet with no pressure, just see if we get on, is that where I've gone wrong do you think? |
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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago
Craggy Island |
"My Fab fellow lovelies what are your responses of posting meets?
I've posted numerous social meets and have had literally no responses! "
Doesn't mean no one seen it, besides if every lady/couple goes round like meets and pic they would double the number of messages they have to deal with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"the last line of our profile says we're happy to meet local people for a purely social meet in a relaxed atmosphere. Not one person has taken us up on the offer.
I think very few people want to socialise unless there is the possibility at least, of more later."
Be thankful I don't live local  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"the last line of our profile says we're happy to meet local people for a purely social meet in a relaxed atmosphere. Not one person has taken us up on the offer.
I think very few people want to socialise unless there is the possibility at least, of more later."
Maybe I've been too reticent on my meet posts, be more forward and say sex is the ultimate goal?? |
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I quite often go for friendship only cuppa meets from here, some have suprised and the chemistry is there, but mostly it's just nice to spend an hour having a pleasant conversation with no expectations or pressure.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We posted one but noticed that people wanted us to play by their rules I.e. Meet elsewhere than where we were based or wouldn't send face pics even though they responded to our meet.
We also posted another regarding a club meet but when we arrived we literally couldn't recognise anyone as it was so dimly lit and we couldn't have phones so couldn't say where we were haha. Nevermind! |
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"the last line of our profile says we're happy to meet local people for a purely social meet in a relaxed atmosphere. Not one person has taken us up on the offer.
I think very few people want to socialise unless there is the possibility at least, of more later.
That's interesting because I always put a social meet with no pressure, just see if we get on, is that where I've gone wrong do you think?"
I honestly don't know. I find it quite confusing because the number of people who say that the social aspect of swinging is as important as anything else doesn't reflect our experience except in one or two cases. |
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"the last line of our profile says we're happy to meet local people for a purely social meet in a relaxed atmosphere. Not one person has taken us up on the offer.
I think very few people want to socialise unless there is the possibility at least, of more later.
Be thankful I don't live local "
 , you'd convince me to buy gadgets and I wouldn't be able to resist in person |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My Fab fellow lovelies what are your responses of posting meets?
I've posted numerous social meets and have had literally no responses! "
You, me and many others I suspect |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"the last line of our profile says we're happy to meet local people for a purely social meet in a relaxed atmosphere. Not one person has taken us up on the offer.
I think very few people want to socialise unless there is the possibility at least, of more later.
Be thankful I don't live local
, you'd convince me to buy gadgets and I wouldn't be able to resist in person"
Absolutely  |
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"the last line of our profile says we're happy to meet local people for a purely social meet in a relaxed atmosphere. Not one person has taken us up on the offer.
I think very few people want to socialise unless there is the possibility at least, of more later.
Be thankful I don't live local
, you'd convince me to buy gadgets and I wouldn't be able to resist in person
Absolutely "
you'd probably drag me off to a shop and I'd come out with all sorts . What fun we'd have |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"the last line of our profile says we're happy to meet local people for a purely social meet in a relaxed atmosphere. Not one person has taken us up on the offer.
I think very few people want to socialise unless there is the possibility at least, of more later.
Be thankful I don't live local
, you'd convince me to buy gadgets and I wouldn't be able to resist in person
Absolutely
you'd probably drag me off to a shop and I'd come out with all sorts . What fun we'd have "
Bare Minerals make up. You resisted a free sample |
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"the last line of our profile says we're happy to meet local people for a purely social meet in a relaxed atmosphere. Not one person has taken us up on the offer.
I think very few people want to socialise unless there is the possibility at least, of more later.
Be thankful I don't live local
, you'd convince me to buy gadgets and I wouldn't be able to resist in person
Absolutely
you'd probably drag me off to a shop and I'd come out with all sorts . What fun we'd have
Bare Minerals make up. You resisted a free sample "
I did but I bought some anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"the last line of our profile says we're happy to meet local people for a purely social meet in a relaxed atmosphere. Not one person has taken us up on the offer.
I think very few people want to socialise unless there is the possibility at least, of more later.
Be thankful I don't live local
, you'd convince me to buy gadgets and I wouldn't be able to resist in person
Absolutely
you'd probably drag me off to a shop and I'd come out with all sorts . What fun we'd have
Bare Minerals make up. You resisted a free sample
I did but I bought some anyway "
Only blusher though ? |
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I have two social meets arranged this week. One of the guys has already suggested "going back to your place" while the other said he quite happy to meet for a social. Guess which one has the better chance of getting lucky. |
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"the last line of our profile says we're happy to meet local people for a purely social meet in a relaxed atmosphere. Not one person has taken us up on the offer.
I think very few people want to socialise unless there is the possibility at least, of more later.
Be thankful I don't live local
, you'd convince me to buy gadgets and I wouldn't be able to resist in person
Absolutely
you'd probably drag me off to a shop and I'd come out with all sorts . What fun we'd have
Bare Minerals make up. You resisted a free sample
I did but I bought some anyway
Only blusher though ?"
isn't that enough!?  |
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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago
Hull |
I tend to find that when I post a meet request, no-one else is looking, but when THEY ARE, I'm not available!
However, my career, which I enjoy, gets in the way of Meets. I work a fixed roster of Nights, so in many respects, I'm awake at the opposite end of the clock-face to everyone else! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My Fab fellow lovelies what are your responses of posting meets?
I've posted numerous social meets and have had literally no responses! "
Get yourself some tits..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Rate of success is directly linked to your sex. I often have a few hours free during the day and post looking for a social on my status. Never had anyone not turn up...
Sorry single gentlemen that life is so hard for you on Fab. However, when you do strike lucky, then I believe, you really are lucky so don't give up |
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