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over a year ago
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"Nothing
I’ve never done the chasing. Since day 1 the sperm came to me, and I was created. And I stick by that "
May have missed out on some hot men then cus they didn't notice you |
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"Nothing
I’ve never done the chasing. Since day 1 the sperm came to me, and I was created. And I stick by that
May have missed out on some hot men then cus they didn't notice you"
Or risked humiliation, or annoying people? |
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over a year ago
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"If he's that aloof, he's not worth pursuing. Walk away and find someone who actually wants you
Bit of a quitter attitude  "
It's not at all. It doesn't matter how hot a guy is, if he doesn't show an interest then he's not worth spending the time and effort on. Life is short, I've got no time for games and players |
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"If he's that aloof, he's not worth pursuing. Walk away and find someone who actually wants you
Bit of a quitter attitude
It's not at all. It doesn't matter how hot a guy is, if he doesn't show an interest then he's not worth spending the time and effort on. Life is short, I've got no time for games and players"
Plus, pushing despite lack of interest is disrespectful. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If he's that aloof, he's not worth pursuing. Walk away and find someone who actually wants you
Bit of a quitter attitude
It's not at all. It doesn't matter how hot a guy is, if he doesn't show an interest then he's not worth spending the time and effort on. Life is short, I've got no time for games and players"
Have you considered he might be shy? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If he's that aloof, he's not worth pursuing. Walk away and find someone who actually wants you
Bit of a quitter attitude
It's not at all. It doesn't matter how hot a guy is, if he doesn't show an interest then he's not worth spending the time and effort on. Life is short, I've got no time for games and players
Have you considered he might be shy?"
Oh hunni, if he's that shy then he definitely isn't for me  |
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By *manaWoman
over a year ago
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"If he's that aloof, he's not worth pursuing. Walk away and find someone who actually wants you
Bit of a quitter attitude
It's not at all. It doesn't matter how hot a guy is, if he doesn't show an interest then he's not worth spending the time and effort on. Life is short, I've got no time for games and players
Have you considered he might be shy?
Oh hunni, if he's that shy then he definitely isn't for me "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If he's that aloof, he's not worth pursuing. Walk away and find someone who actually wants you
Bit of a quitter attitude
It's not at all. It doesn't matter how hot a guy is, if he doesn't show an interest then he's not worth spending the time and effort on. Life is short, I've got no time for games and players
Have you considered he might be shy?
Oh hunni, if he's that shy then he definitely isn't for me "
Fair enough but that doesn’t make him a player. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would imagine many men on here would be surprised to learn a woman might fancy them. Ladies need to be more direct, something like 'I fancy you' would be good... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe aloof was the wrong word. I meant if he seems oblivious or doesn't know who you are "
Thank you for explaining.
I think it's relatively easy to engage with someone on here if you want to be known to that person? You do mean on forum? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Maybe aloof was the wrong word. I meant if he seems oblivious or doesn't know who you are
Thank you for explaining.
I think it's relatively easy to engage with someone on here if you want to be known to that person? You do mean on forum? "
Yeh on here but also in real world. On here it's easy to get noticed |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I think you women are lying. So you're saying that the only time you've got with a guy is when he has perused you? You've done nothing to get noticed by him? Fuck off |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think you women are lying. So you're saying that the only time you've got with a guy is when he has perused you? You've done nothing to get noticed by him? Fuck off"
If he's being aloof he's not interested. If the situation is neutral then I would ask. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think you women are lying. So you're saying that the only time you've got with a guy is when he has perused you? You've done nothing to get noticed by him? Fuck off"
You're question wasnt have we pursued a guy, your question was if a guy was aloof what would we do for his attention.
So again, absolutely nothing. If a guy has indicated interest then I have no problem with doing the chasing when I know hes mutually interested. What I wont do is try and force an interest from his side. |
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"Nothing
I’ve never done the chasing. Since day 1 the sperm came to me, and I was created. And I stick by that
May have missed out on some hot men then cus they didn't notice you"
How will she ever cope! |
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"Think I'm learning that I need to be less lazy and do more chasing haha "
Nah I don't want to be chased or chase anyone. I'm about equal enthusiasm. If I always have to make the first move for us to interact I'll eventually get bored. If I never make the first move that usually means I've lost interest and should put the poor person out of their misery. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think you women are lying. So you're saying that the only time you've got with a guy is when he has perused you? You've done nothing to get noticed by him? Fuck off"
I mean
Yeah
I’m fucking lazy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nothing
I’ve never done the chasing. Since day 1 the sperm came to me, and I was created. And I stick by that
May have missed out on some hot men then cus they didn't notice you
How will she ever cope!"
No one I’ve fancied has ever not noticed me  |
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"I think you women are lying. So you're saying that the only time you've got with a guy is when he has perused you? You've done nothing to get noticed by him? Fuck off"
No. I'm friendly and make myself open. If he's aloof he sees me but is showing no signs of interest. I don't pursue, that's creepy, he appears uninterested. I at most remain open in my approach. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There's a guy you fancy but he's acting aloof. What's your move to get on his radar
I’m currently experiencing this in real life, 
Me too, it's hard work!"
It’s painful |
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By *mberWoman
over a year ago
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"There's a guy you fancy but he's acting aloof. What's your move to get on his radar
I’m currently experiencing this in real life,
Me too, it's hard work!
It’s painful "
Yes, that's a good word for it. Painful! If I thought for one second he wasn't interested I'd leave him be. But he is, he's just....hard work! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'll make it perfectly clear I want to fuck him, if he still acts aloof and doesn't give me a definite sign he's interested or not, I'll just move onto the next piece of meat "
I did say though, please don’t spank me (publicly) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Set him on fire for rejecting my advances.
That'll fecking learn him
Then we pull out the marshmallows and have a 'burn bitch burn' party?"
Yeah!! While dancing to Disco Inferno!! |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
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"I'll make it perfectly clear I want to fuck him, if he still acts aloof and doesn't give me a definite sign he's interested or not, I'll just move onto the next piece of meat
I did say though, please don’t spank me (publicly)"
Spanking would be the last thing on my mind if I got you in private  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nothing. I like down to earth guys, not one who's stuck up his own backside."
So if a guy doesn’t express interest in you, he’s stuck up his own back side? |
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"Nothing. I like down to earth guys, not one who's stuck up his own backside.
So if a guy doesn’t express interest in you, he’s stuck up his own back side? "
Personally, I only realise a guy likes me once he’s stuck up my back side |
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"Nothing. I like down to earth guys, not one who's stuck up his own backside.
So if a guy doesn’t express interest in you, he’s stuck up his own back side? "
No, I meant if he is aloof. If he doesnt express interest that's entirely different. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nothing. I like down to earth guys, not one who's stuck up his own backside.
So if a guy doesn’t express interest in you, he’s stuck up his own back side?
No, I meant if he is aloof. If he doesnt express interest that's entirely different."
Admittedly it is not my first language so your answer puzzled me. I went and search for the definition of aloof and I found this: at a distance especially in feeling or interest; reserved or reticent; indifferent or disinterested.
Isn’t it what it means? |
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"Nothing. I like down to earth guys, not one who's stuck up his own backside.
So if a guy doesn’t express interest in you, he’s stuck up his own back side?
No, I meant if he is aloof. If he doesnt express interest that's entirely different.
Admittedly it is not my first language so your answer puzzled me. I went and search for the definition of aloof and I found this: at a distance especially in feeling or interest; reserved or reticent; indifferent or disinterested.
Isn’t it what it means?"
Guess so then. In that case my answer would still be nothing. Why would I do anything for someone who was indifferent or disinterested...when there are plenty of others who are  |
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"Maybe aloof was the wrong word. I meant if he seems oblivious or doesn't know who you are "
OP clarified his question, he didn’t mean aloof. Would all of you that said no I wouldn’t bother or do nothing, still answer in the same way if you liked someone, but they are oblivious to it ? |
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"Nothing. I like down to earth guys, not one who's stuck up his own backside.
So if a guy doesn’t express interest in you, he’s stuck up his own back side?
No, I meant if he is aloof. If he doesnt express interest that's entirely different.
Admittedly it is not my first language so your answer puzzled me. I went and search for the definition of aloof and I found this: at a distance especially in feeling or interest; reserved or reticent; indifferent or disinterested.
Isn’t it what it means?
Guess so then. In that case my answer would still be nothing. Why would I do anything for someone who was indifferent or disinterested...when there are plenty of others who are "
The op’s question was «if there is someone you fancy... » . Isn’t it a worthy enough reason to give the guy a nudge? I understand the balance of power is strongly in favour of women on here, but I also see many women complaining about the underwhelming offers they receive. Isn’t it worth putting a little effort in to get what you want?
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"Maybe aloof was the wrong word. I meant if he seems oblivious or doesn't know who you are
OP clarified his question, he didn’t mean aloof. Would all of you that said no I wouldn’t bother or do nothing, still answer in the same way if you liked someone, but they are oblivious to it ? "
My answer would stay the same, I'd make my interest clear, if I got nothing back I'd move on |
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"Maybe aloof was the wrong word. I meant if he seems oblivious or doesn't know who you are
OP clarified his question, he didn’t mean aloof. Would all of you that said no I wouldn’t bother or do nothing, still answer in the same way if you liked someone, but they are oblivious to it ?
My answer would stay the same, I'd make my interest clear, if I got nothing back I'd move on "
That’s fair enough, but you tried in the first place |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"Maybe aloof was the wrong word. I meant if he seems oblivious or doesn't know who you are
OP clarified his question, he didn’t mean aloof. Would all of you that said no I wouldn’t bother or do nothing, still answer in the same way if you liked someone, but they are oblivious to it ?
My answer would stay the same, I'd make my interest clear, if I got nothing back I'd move on
That’s fair enough, but you tried in the first place "
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"Nothing. I like down to earth guys, not one who's stuck up his own backside.
So if a guy doesn’t express interest in you, he’s stuck up his own back side?
No, I meant if he is aloof. If he doesnt express interest that's entirely different.
Admittedly it is not my first language so your answer puzzled me. I went and search for the definition of aloof and I found this: at a distance especially in feeling or interest; reserved or reticent; indifferent or disinterested.
Isn’t it what it means?
Guess so then. In that case my answer would still be nothing. Why would I do anything for someone who was indifferent or disinterested...when there are plenty of others who are
The op’s question was «if there is someone you fancy... » . Isn’t it a worthy enough reason to give the guy a nudge? I understand the balance of power is strongly in favour of women on here, but I also see many women complaining about the underwhelming offers they receive. Isn’t it worth putting a little effort in to get what you want?
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Ofcourse I would let him know but certainly wouldn't pursue it if he were to be 'aloof' about it. |
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"Maybe aloof was the wrong word. I meant if he seems oblivious or doesn't know who you are
OP clarified his question, he didn’t mean aloof. Would all of you that said no I wouldn’t bother or do nothing, still answer in the same way if you liked someone, but they are oblivious to it ?
My answer would stay the same, I'd make my interest clear, if I got nothing back I'd move on
That’s fair enough, but you tried in the first place
Yep, I'd flirt in my not so subtle way, 'fancy a fuck?' "
Haha yes you don’t beat around the bush, I love it makes me laugh |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"Maybe aloof was the wrong word. I meant if he seems oblivious or doesn't know who you are
OP clarified his question, he didn’t mean aloof. Would all of you that said no I wouldn’t bother or do nothing, still answer in the same way if you liked someone, but they are oblivious to it ?
My answer would stay the same, I'd make my interest clear, if I got nothing back I'd move on
That’s fair enough, but you tried in the first place
Yep, I'd flirt in my not so subtle way, 'fancy a fuck?'
Haha yes you don’t beat around the bush, I love it makes me laugh "
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"Nothing. I like down to earth guys, not one who's stuck up his own backside.
So if a guy doesn’t express interest in you, he’s stuck up his own back side?
No, I meant if he is aloof. If he doesnt express interest that's entirely different.
Admittedly it is not my first language so your answer puzzled me. I went and search for the definition of aloof and I found this: at a distance especially in feeling or interest; reserved or reticent; indifferent or disinterested.
Isn’t it what it means?
Guess so then. In that case my answer would still be nothing. Why would I do anything for someone who was indifferent or disinterested...when there are plenty of others who are
The op’s question was «if there is someone you fancy... » . Isn’t it a worthy enough reason to give the guy a nudge? I understand the balance of power is strongly in favour of women on here, but I also see many women complaining about the underwhelming offers they receive. Isn’t it worth putting a little effort in to get what you want?
Ofcourse I would let him know but certainly wouldn't pursue it if he were to be 'aloof' about it."
That is only fair. And works both ways.
And I was not having a go at you personally. The thread is generally infuriating in my point of view |
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"Maybe aloof was the wrong word. I meant if he seems oblivious or doesn't know who you are
OP clarified his question, he didn’t mean aloof. Would all of you that said no I wouldn’t bother or do nothing, still answer in the same way if you liked someone, but they are oblivious to it ?
My answer would stay the same, I'd make my interest clear, if I got nothing back I'd move on
That’s fair enough, but you tried in the first place
Yep, I'd flirt in my not so subtle way, 'fancy a fuck?' "
Still waiting for my offer ... |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
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"Maybe aloof was the wrong word. I meant if he seems oblivious or doesn't know who you are
OP clarified his question, he didn’t mean aloof. Would all of you that said no I wouldn’t bother or do nothing, still answer in the same way if you liked someone, but they are oblivious to it ?
My answer would stay the same, I'd make my interest clear, if I got nothing back I'd move on
That’s fair enough, but you tried in the first place
Yep, I'd flirt in my not so subtle way, 'fancy a fuck?'
Still waiting for my offer ... "
I think I made my interest in you perfectly clear, I want to fuck you until you can't move |
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"Maybe aloof was the wrong word. I meant if he seems oblivious or doesn't know who you are
OP clarified his question, he didn’t mean aloof. Would all of you that said no I wouldn’t bother or do nothing, still answer in the same way if you liked someone, but they are oblivious to it ? "
If he's oblivious or doesn't know who I am then my answer would change. I would start a conversation, put some effort into it and see where it went from there. But,it does take participation from both parties. However, if he's aloof or disintetested my answer would remain the same. |
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"Maybe aloof was the wrong word. I meant if he seems oblivious or doesn't know who you are
OP clarified his question, he didn’t mean aloof. Would all of you that said no I wouldn’t bother or do nothing, still answer in the same way if you liked someone, but they are oblivious to it ?
My answer would stay the same, I'd make my interest clear, if I got nothing back I'd move on
That’s fair enough, but you tried in the first place
Yep, I'd flirt in my not so subtle way, 'fancy a fuck?'
Still waiting for my offer ...
I think I made my interest in you perfectly clear, I want to fuck you until you can't move "
Name the date! You’re on! |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"Maybe aloof was the wrong word. I meant if he seems oblivious or doesn't know who you are
OP clarified his question, he didn’t mean aloof. Would all of you that said no I wouldn’t bother or do nothing, still answer in the same way if you liked someone, but they are oblivious to it ?
My answer would stay the same, I'd make my interest clear, if I got nothing back I'd move on
That’s fair enough, but you tried in the first place
Yep, I'd flirt in my not so subtle way, 'fancy a fuck?'
Still waiting for my offer ...
I think I made my interest in you perfectly clear, I want to fuck you until you can't move
Name the date! You’re on!"
I'll be on you |
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"Maybe aloof was the wrong word. I meant if he seems oblivious or doesn't know who you are
OP clarified his question, he didn’t mean aloof. Would all of you that said no I wouldn’t bother or do nothing, still answer in the same way if you liked someone, but they are oblivious to it ?
If he's oblivious or doesn't know who I am then my answer would change. I would start a conversation, put some effort into it and see where it went from there. But,it does take participation from both parties. However, if he's aloof or disintetested my answer would remain the same."
Which is something we all would do, we tried, it’s not working move on. The important part is attempting the contact rather than just waiting if you like someone |
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"Maybe aloof was the wrong word. I meant if he seems oblivious or doesn't know who you are
OP clarified his question, he didn’t mean aloof. Would all of you that said no I wouldn’t bother or do nothing, still answer in the same way if you liked someone, but they are oblivious to it ?
If he's oblivious or doesn't know who I am then my answer would change. I would start a conversation, put some effort into it and see where it went from there. But,it does take participation from both parties. However, if he's aloof or disintetested my answer would remain the same.
Which is something we all would do, we tried, it’s not working move on. The important part is attempting the contact rather than just waiting if you like someone "
It could be a mutual attraction and you'd never know if you had made no effort at all.
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"Maybe aloof was the wrong word. I meant if he seems oblivious or doesn't know who you are
OP clarified his question, he didn’t mean aloof. Would all of you that said no I wouldn’t bother or do nothing, still answer in the same way if you liked someone, but they are oblivious to it ?
If he's oblivious or doesn't know who I am then my answer would change. I would start a conversation, put some effort into it and see where it went from there. But,it does take participation from both parties. However, if he's aloof or disintetested my answer would remain the same.
Which is something we all would do, we tried, it’s not working move on. The important part is attempting the contact rather than just waiting if you like someone
It could be a mutual attraction and you'd never know if you had made no effort at all.
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Exactly ! The guy could also be a bit shy or (and I hate these words) they think they are out of your league.
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"Maybe aloof was the wrong word. I meant if he seems oblivious or doesn't know who you are
OP clarified his question, he didn’t mean aloof. Would all of you that said no I wouldn’t bother or do nothing, still answer in the same way if you liked someone, but they are oblivious to it ?
If he's oblivious or doesn't know who I am then my answer would change. I would start a conversation, put some effort into it and see where it went from there. But,it does take participation from both parties. However, if he's aloof or disintetested my answer would remain the same.
Which is something we all would do, we tried, it’s not working move on. The important part is attempting the contact rather than just waiting if you like someone
It could be a mutual attraction and you'd never know if you had made no effort at all.
Exactly ! The guy could also be a bit shy or (and I hate these words) they think they are out of your league.
You’ve got nothing to lose and potential everything to gain "
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