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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Men have a tendency to say what they mean; very black and white. Women have much more grey area with shades of rainbow. Trying to Understand the difference between what a woman says and what she actually means is no easy feat.

So I thought I will start a series on 'Decoding woman's mind', which will help us all men to understand women better and perhaps enable us to be a better lovers.

So the first word we are going to talk about is 'Fine'. When a guy says fine, it means fine. But if a woman says 'FINE', there is more to it. What does it mean when a woman say - FINE?

Appreciate comments from men and women!

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By *epsonWoman  over a year ago

Biddulph

Her body language and tone of voice will give you a clue.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Instant thread fail..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Sorry OP but that is something that I know I will never be able to work out. Say one thing wrong and booofff blocked

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

You can tell what a woman is thinking by looking at their feet.

If one of them is rapidly moving towards your crotch, it means they don't like you

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"You can tell what a woman is thinking by looking at their feet.

If one of them is rapidly moving towards your crotch, it means they don't like you"

Hahahahhahah

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By *ohohoWoman  over a year ago

Up North


"Men have a tendency to say what they mean; very black and white...........

Appreciate comments from men and women! "

Are you kidding? No man I know is like that. Tend to say nothing and keep it in is what I find. Whereas women want to talk about it. No all obviously.

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Oh this should be fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

I thought I will share my experience with the word 'FINE'.

The four letter word she uses during an argument, just to get you to shut the fuck up. This doesn't mean you won the aforementioned argument; It's just buying her time to plan her retaliation. When she says 'FINE' it's time for you to start worrying. Go to the gift shop, maybe buy her something nice. When she finally decides that she wants to continue this argument, it will be shit storm, she will win, and you will have nowhere to hide.

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

I have found that the problem lies with people just not talking properly to each other. There's nothing to decide, just talk!

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman  over a year ago

No3 on 26th

I'm ready to take notes

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By *ourayloversCouple  over a year ago

chesterfield

(Ray) read the 7%-38%-55% Rule

People focus too much on vocal communication

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I'm ready to take notes "

Me too! My first post after a long time. Hope I can learn something new!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I thought I will share my experience with the word 'FINE'.

The four letter word she uses during an argument, just to get you to shut the fuck up. This doesn't mean you won the aforementioned argument; It's just buying her time to plan her retaliation. When she says 'FINE' it's time for you to start worrying. Go to the gift shop, maybe buy her something nice. When she finally decides that she wants to continue this argument, it will be shit storm, she will win, and you will have nowhere to hide.

"

Example.

I’m going to the pub

Ok that’s fine

That means it’s not fine

No. Honestly it’s fine. You go, go on

Note - it really isn’t fine.

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By *ourayloversCouple  over a year ago

chesterfield

(Ray) if you want to improve your vocal communication read up on NLP as well

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By *isaB45Woman  over a year ago

Fabville


"Men have a tendency to say what they mean; very black and white. Women have much more grey area with shades of rainbow. Trying to Understand the difference between what a woman says and what she actually means is no easy feat.

So I thought I will start a series on 'Decoding woman's mind', which will help us all men to understand women better and perhaps enable us to be a better lovers.

So the first word we are going to talk about is 'Fine'. When a guy says fine, it means fine. But if a woman says 'FINE', there is more to it. What does it mean when a woman say - FINE?

Appreciate comments from men and women! "

'Fine' never means anything good.

It usualy means they either want to rip your bollocks off, or cry..

You just have to work out which it is...

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I thought I will share my experience with the word 'FINE'.

The four letter word she uses during an argument, just to get you to shut the fuck up. This doesn't mean you won the aforementioned argument; It's just buying her time to plan her retaliation. When she says 'FINE' it's time for you to start worrying. Go to the gift shop, maybe buy her something nice. When she finally decides that she wants to continue this argument, it will be shit storm, she will win, and you will have nowhere to hide.

Example.

I’m going to the pub

Ok that’s fine

That means it’s not fine

No. Honestly it’s fine. You go, go on

Note - it really isn’t fine. "

It is the 'Fine' when arguing. Or should I say debating!

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By *ourayloversCouple  over a year ago

chesterfield

(ray)

If she says fine then run, hide, change your name and address and disown your family ...... or she will find you and explain what's NOT fine

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Men have a tendency to say what they mean; very black and white. Women have much more grey area with shades of rainbow. Trying to Understand the difference between what a woman says and what she actually means is no easy feat.

So I thought I will start a series on 'Decoding woman's mind', which will help us all men to understand women better and perhaps enable us to be a better lovers.

So the first word we are going to talk about is 'Fine'. When a guy says fine, it means fine. But if a woman says 'FINE', there is more to it. What does it mean when a woman say - FINE?

Appreciate comments from men and women!

'Fine' never means anything good.

It usualy means they either want to rip your bollocks off, or cry..

You just have to work out which it is... "

Lol. Thanks Lisa. Hope you have recove_ed completely from that terrible flu!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"(ray)

If she says fine then run, hide, change your name and address and disown your family ...... or she will find you and explain what's NOT fine "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Men have a tendency to say what they mean; very black and white. Women have much more grey area with shades of rainbow. Trying to Understand the difference between what a woman says and what she actually means is no easy feat.

So I thought I will start a series on 'Decoding woman's mind', which will help us all men to understand women better and perhaps enable us to be a better lovers.

So the first word we are going to talk about is 'Fine'. When a guy says fine, it means fine. But if a woman says 'FINE', there is more to it. What does it mean when a woman say - FINE?

Appreciate comments from men and women! "

`Fine` means it's actually not fine at all

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I thought I will share my experience with the word 'FINE'.

The four letter word she uses during an argument, just to get you to shut the fuck up. This doesn't mean you won the aforementioned argument; It's just buying her time to plan her retaliation. When she says 'FINE' it's time for you to start worrying. Go to the gift shop, maybe buy her something nice. When she finally decides that she wants to continue this argument, it will be shit storm, she will win, and you will have nowhere to hide.

"

Am I right in saying this?

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By *affeine DuskMan  over a year ago

Caerphilly


"Men have a tendency to say what they mean... "

Disagree immediately.

...unless 'fancy a bj' is the tendency? If so, then bloody hell.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Men have a tendency to say what they mean; very black and white. Women have much more grey area with shades of rainbow. Trying to Understand the difference between what a woman says and what she actually means is no easy feat.

So I thought I will start a series on 'Decoding woman's mind', which will help us all men to understand women better and perhaps enable us to be a better lovers.

So the first word we are going to talk about is 'Fine'. When a guy says fine, it means fine. But if a woman says 'FINE', there is more to it. What does it mean when a woman say - FINE?

Appreciate comments from men and women!

`Fine` means it's actually not fine at all "

So what do we do? Run, hide, take cover?

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman  over a year ago

No3 on 26th


"(ray)

If she says fine then run, hide, change your name and address and disown your family ...... or she will find you and explain what's NOT fine "

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By *ourayloversCouple  over a year ago

chesterfield

Also when responding to a question about what an item of clothing looks like apparently "nice" is not a good choice of describing the said item

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Men have a tendency to say what they mean...

Disagree immediately.

...unless 'fancy a bj' is the tendency? If so, then bloody hell."

I should have said most men.

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By *ourayloversCouple  over a year ago

chesterfield

(ray) also when walking into a room and the woman you love, treasure and adore looks unhappy and somewhat downhearted "fucks up with you" is not the best way to engage in and open and emotional exchange.

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By *affeine DuskMan  over a year ago

Caerphilly


"Men have a tendency to say what they mean...

Disagree immediately.

...unless 'fancy a bj' is the tendency? If so, then bloody hell.

I should have said most men. "

In my experience 'most' men are, as my ol' nan used to say, "flappy as fook".

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Her body language and tone of voice will give you a clue."

Some guys may not be able to. Especially millennials. They are looking for emojis. Sad, happy or angry face!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Sorry OP but that is something that I know I will never be able to work out. Say one thing wrong and booofff blocked"

Lol..Dont you want to crack the code?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"You can tell what a woman is thinking by looking at their feet.

If one of them is rapidly moving towards your crotch, it means they don't like you"

Ouch!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Her body language and tone of voice will give you a clue."

This. If in a tone that indicates either irritation or disinterest then the lady in question isn't fine at all, but is either A) biting her tongue, B ) responding with disbelief that you are asking a question to which the negative answer should in her opinion be obvious or is C) being sarcastic.

In most of these occasions the lady will find it foolish of you that you can't figure the answer out from recent events PLUS her body language and demeanour. Men don't notice these latter especially as easily as women which is why from a woman's perspective the question being asked in the first place is one only an idiot would ask, when in fact it's just one asked due to men communicating differently.

It works the other way too of course. If a woman asks a man if he is ok and he replies that he is fine, he means more often than not that he actually IS fine. The woman from her perspective will instead of taking it at the face value it is intended, mistakenly then spend time searching for other signs indicating his true feelings that often aren't there and when she can't find any will often ask the question a second or third time. This will lead the man to believe that she is angling to get some other response out of him and find her doing so irritating at times.

The whole thing is silly really, but it's just a general difference between the majority of the sexes.

B

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Her body language and tone of voice will give you a clue.

This. If in a tone that indicates either irritation or disinterest then the lady in question isn't fine at all, but is either A) biting her tongue, B ) responding with disbelief that you are asking a question to which the negative answer should in her opinion be obvious or is C) being sarcastic.

In most of these occasions the lady will find it foolish of you that you can't figure the answer out from recent events PLUS her body language and demeanour. Men don't notice these latter especially as easily as women which is why from a woman's perspective the question being asked in the first place is one only an idiot would ask, when in fact it's just one asked due to men communicating differently.

It works the other way too of course. If a woman asks a man if he is ok and he replies that he is fine, he means more often than not that he actually IS fine. The woman from her perspective will instead of taking it at the face value it is intended, mistakenly then spend time searching for other signs indicating his true feelings that often aren't there and when she can't find any will often ask the question a second or third time. This will lead the man to believe that she is angling to get some other response out of him and find her doing so irritating at times.

The whole thing is silly really, but it's just a general difference between the majority of the sexes.

B"

So complicated for my lil brain!

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By *hebritukCouple  over a year ago

London

More chance winning the jackpot on the lottery!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"More chance winning the jackpot on the lottery! "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I can't even de code my own mind so nobody else has a chance!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I can't even de code my own mind so nobody else has a chance! "

Is that a dare?

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By *urulovesnylonMan  over a year ago

Harrow

It’s always walking on egg shells mate.. lol

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By *manaWoman  over a year ago

Basingstoke

For me Fine means the following...

It is absolutely in no way, shape or form, fine.

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

I know this thread is tongue in cheek but do people genuinely still think that men can't understand women?

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By *eviantdeeliteCouple  over a year ago

Cheltenham

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"For me Fine means the following...

It is absolutely in no way, shape or form, fine.

"

Oops! I better be careful then.

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By *mberWoman  over a year ago

Preston

Fine if said light hearted means, yes that's really OK.

Fine said in a stern manner means....you are wrong, you are a complete fucking idiot, I just want this conversation to end.

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By *eviantdeeliteCouple  over a year ago

Cheltenham

Woah! Tarring all with the same brush....not all women are the same....some are mature/understanding enough to communicate with men in the way they wish to be communicated with

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Woman - emotional communication

Men - logical communication

None wrong, just different ways due to nature

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I know this thread is tongue in cheek but do people genuinely still think that men can't understand women? "

Some men are quite thick like me!

I meant thick in the head! Not down!

In my case I am thick, up and down!

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex


"Woah! Tarring all with the same brush....not all women are the same....some are mature/understanding enough to communicate with men in the way they wish to be communicated with "
I

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex


"I know this thread is tongue in cheek but do people genuinely still think that men can't understand women?

Some men are quite thick like me!

I meant thick in the head! Not down!

In my case I am thick, up and down! "

I don't think you're thick.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Woah! Tarring all with the same brush....not all women are the same....some are mature/understanding enough to communicate with men in the way they wish to be communicated with "

Did it hurt when you fell from heaven?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I know this thread is tongue in cheek but do people genuinely still think that men can't understand women?

Some men are quite thick like me!

I meant thick in the head! Not down!

In my case I am thick, up and down!

I don't think you're thick. "

Upstairs or downstairs.

One of them is correct!

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By *aitonelMan  over a year ago

Liverpool


"Woman - emotional communication

Men - logical communication

None wrong, just different ways due to nature"

Have you seen the way some men communicate? Logical is far from it. It goes beyond the emotional of women too, just pure childish tantrum.

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex


"I know this thread is tongue in cheek but do people genuinely still think that men can't understand women?

Some men are quite thick like me!

I meant thick in the head! Not down!

In my case I am thick, up and down!

I don't think you're thick.

Upstairs or downstairs.

One of them is correct! "

I

Ok, I don't think you're stupid I can't comment on anything else.

I think you and a lot of men assume they won't understand a woman's mind and a lot of women are happy to reinforce that.

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex


"Woman - emotional communication

Men - logical communication

None wrong, just different ways due to nature

Have you seen the way some men communicate? Logical is far from it. It goes beyond the emotional of women too, just pure childish tantrum. "

Yep, frustration coming out as anger due to inability to express emotions

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By *xtrafun4youMan  over a year ago

Dunstable

I wouldn’t bother. It will be full of sh*t hehe.

Sits back with popcorn

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I know this thread is tongue in cheek but do people genuinely still think that men can't understand women?

Some men are quite thick like me!

I meant thick in the head! Not down!

In my case I am thick, up and down!

I don't think you're thick.

Upstairs or downstairs.

One of them is correct! I

Ok, I don't think you're stupid I can't comment on anything else.

I think you and a lot of men assume they won't understand a woman's mind and a lot of women are happy to reinforce that. "

You are one smart women! I missed chatting to you.

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By *xtrafun4youMan  over a year ago

Dunstable


"You can tell what a woman is thinking by looking at their feet.

If one of them is rapidly moving towards your crotch, it means they don't like you"

lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I wouldn’t bother. It will be full of sh*t hehe.

Sits back with popcorn "

My apologies. No food or drinks allowed in this thread, I am afraid!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Her body language and tone of voice will give you a clue."

Don't need clues. Women always mean the same thing. "Your wrong!"

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By *aitonelMan  over a year ago

Liverpool


"I wouldn’t bother. It will be full of sh*t hehe.

Sits back with popcorn

My apologies. No food or drinks allowed in this thread, I am afraid! "

But popcorn is healthy.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Fine = not fine!!

MsD

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I wouldn’t bother. It will be full of sh*t hehe.

Sits back with popcorn

My apologies. No food or drinks allowed in this thread, I am afraid!

But popcorn is healthy. "

It may be. But they do make a lot of mess. And some of the guys do not clean after themselves!

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex


"I know this thread is tongue in cheek but do people genuinely still think that men can't understand women?

Some men are quite thick like me!

I meant thick in the head! Not down!

In my case I am thick, up and down!

I don't think you're thick.

Upstairs or downstairs.

One of them is correct! I

Ok, I don't think you're stupid I can't comment on anything else.

I think you and a lot of men assume they won't understand a woman's mind and a lot of women are happy to reinforce that.

You are one smart women! I missed chatting to you. "

Smooth move and you claim you don't understand woman. Methinks though doth protest too much

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

When I say something is fine, I mean it's absolutely ok, no problem, doesn't bother me one bit, happy for you to do that etc. If it's not ok, I have no issues with stating that using my big words or writing it in crayon if necessary.

Not all women think purely with emotion. Many of us can be just as, or more logical than men.

Unfortunately, preconceived judgement from a misogynistic perspective prevents most men from actually understanding what women mean.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I know this thread is tongue in cheek but do people genuinely still think that men can't understand women?

Some men are quite thick like me!

I meant thick in the head! Not down!

In my case I am thick, up and down!

I don't think you're thick.

Upstairs or downstairs.

One of them is correct! I

Ok, I don't think you're stupid I can't comment on anything else.

I think you and a lot of men assume they won't understand a woman's mind and a lot of women are happy to reinforce that.

You are one smart women! I missed chatting to you.

Smooth move and you claim you don't understand woman. Methinks though doth protest too much "

Haven't you heard the saying, be smart, act dumb!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"When I say something is fine, I mean it's absolutely ok, no problem, doesn't bother me one bit, happy for you to do that etc. If it's not ok, I have no issues with stating that using my big words or writing it in crayon if necessary.

Not all women think purely with emotion. Many of us can be just as, or more logical than men.

Unfortunately, preconceived judgement from a misogynistic perspective prevents most men from actually understanding what women mean. "

Wow.. you are a woman of wisdom!

And I must admit you are gorgeous. I wish I were your mirror. I could watch you looking at me every morning!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It also depends on the woman. I have come from a controlling marriage where my opintion wasnt valued and it was better to say everything was fine!

I am a tad more outspoken with MrD...he knows where I stand most of the time and sure he actively encourages me to speak up! Just doin' as I was told so

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"It also depends on the woman. I have come from a controlling marriage where my opintion wasnt valued and it was better to say everything was fine!

I am a tad more outspoken with MrD...he knows where I stand most of the time and sure he actively encourages me to speak up! Just doin' as I was told so "

Sorry to hear about your past. Glad you have met someone, were you could be yourself.

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex


"I know this thread is tongue in cheek but do people genuinely still think that men can't understand women?

Some men are quite thick like me!

I meant thick in the head! Not down!

In my case I am thick, up and down!

I don't think you're thick.

Upstairs or downstairs.

One of them is correct! I

Ok, I don't think you're stupid I can't comment on anything else.

I think you and a lot of men assume they won't understand a woman's mind and a lot of women are happy to reinforce that.

You are one smart women! I missed chatting to you.

Smooth move and you claim you don't understand woman. Methinks though doth protest too much

Haven't you heard the saying, be smart, act dumb! "

Yes, it's on my family crest

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By *hilloutMan  over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"Her body language and tone of voice will give you a clue.

This. If in a tone that indicates either irritation or disinterest then the lady in question isn't fine at all, but is either A) biting her tongue, B ) responding with disbelief that you are asking a question to which the negative answer should in her opinion be obvious or is C) being sarcastic.

In most of these occasions the lady will find it foolish of you that you can't figure the answer out from recent events PLUS her body language and demeanour. Men don't notice these latter especially as easily as women which is why from a woman's perspective the question being asked in the first place is one only an idiot would ask, when in fact it's just one asked due to men communicating differently.

It works the other way too of course. If a woman asks a man if he is ok and he replies that he is fine, he means more often than not that he actually IS fine. The woman from her perspective will instead of taking it at the face value it is intended, mistakenly then spend time searching for other signs indicating his true feelings that often aren't there and when she can't find any will often ask the question a second or third time. This will lead the man to believe that she is angling to get some other response out of him and find her doing so irritating at times.

The whole thing is silly really, but it's just a general difference between the majority of the sexes.

B"

Men and women really are wi_ed differently and this is something I appreciate. Even if it causes some confusion, certainly keeps things interesting!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It also depends on the woman. I have come from a controlling marriage where my opintion wasnt valued and it was better to say everything was fine!

I am a tad more outspoken with MrD...he knows where I stand most of the time and sure he actively encourages me to speak up! Just doin' as I was told so

Sorry to hear about your past. Glad you have met someone, were you could be yourself. "

Xx thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I know this thread is tongue in cheek but do people genuinely still think that men can't understand women?

Some men are quite thick like me!

I meant thick in the head! Not down!

In my case I am thick, up and down!

I don't think you're thick.

Upstairs or downstairs.

One of them is correct! I

Ok, I don't think you're stupid I can't comment on anything else.

I think you and a lot of men assume they won't understand a woman's mind and a lot of women are happy to reinforce that.

You are one smart women! I missed chatting to you.

Smooth move and you claim you don't understand woman. Methinks though doth protest too much

Haven't you heard the saying, be smart, act dumb!

Yes, it's on my family crest "

Lol..We may be related then.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"When I say something is fine, I mean it's absolutely ok, no problem, doesn't bother me one bit, happy for you to do that etc. If it's not ok, I have no issues with stating that using my big words or writing it in crayon if necessary.

Not all women think purely with emotion. Many of us can be just as, or more logical than men.

Unfortunately, preconceived judgement from a misogynistic perspective prevents most men from actually understanding what women mean.

Wow.. you are a woman of wisdom!

And I must admit you are gorgeous. I wish I were your mirror. I could watch you looking at me every morning! "

Wisdom comes from experience. I see no point in not saying exactly what I mean because that leads to ambiguity and misunderstandings.

I'm perfectly entitled to go to the pub (or anywhere else) myself if I wish so why would I want to interfere with someone else's autonomy and decision to go out unless there is good reason?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"When I say something is fine, I mean it's absolutely ok, no problem, doesn't bother me one bit, happy for you to do that etc. If it's not ok, I have no issues with stating that using my big words or writing it in crayon if necessary.

Not all women think purely with emotion. Many of us can be just as, or more logical than men.

Unfortunately, preconceived judgement from a misogynistic perspective prevents most men from actually understanding what women mean.

Wow.. you are a woman of wisdom!

And I must admit you are gorgeous. I wish I were your mirror. I could watch you looking at me every morning!

Wisdom comes from experience. I see no point in not saying exactly what I mean because that leads to ambiguity and misunderstandings.

I'm perfectly entitled to go to the pub (or anywhere else) myself if I wish so why would I want to interfere with someone else's autonomy and decision to go out unless there is good reason? "

Good question. Can I ponder over that question and come back to you?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Life's like a pantomime

Women say they don't want you to see your cock.

What they are really saying is ..they don't want you to know they actually want to see your cock.

And if you play your part well....then you get to show them your cock....

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Life's like a pantomime

Women say they don't want you to see your cock.

What they are really saying is ..they don't want you to know they actually want to see your cock.

And if you play your part well....then you get to show them your cock.... "

Mate, you are a legend!

Make sure you wear a hat when you go out in the sun! Dont want that brain to melt!

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By *a LunaWoman  over a year ago

o o OO o o


"Life's like a pantomime

Women say they don't want you to see your cock.

What they are really saying is ..they don't want you to know they actually want to see your cock.

And if you play your part well....then you get to show them your cock.... "

Nailed it

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Life's like a pantomime

Women say they don't want you to see your cock.

What they are really saying is ..they don't want you to know they actually want to see your cock.

And if you play your part well....then you get to show them your cock.... "

When I say I don't want to see your cock, I literally mean I have no interest in seeing your cock. I don't know how anyone can read anything different into that.

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By *izzy69Man  over a year ago

London


"Men have a tendency to say what they mean; very black and white. Women have much more grey area with shades of rainbow. Trying to Understand the difference between what a woman says and what she actually means is no easy feat.

So I thought I will start a series on 'Decoding woman's mind', which will help us all men to understand women better and perhaps enable us to be a better lovers.

So the first word we are going to talk about is 'Fine'. When a guy says fine, it means fine. But if a woman says 'FINE', there is more to it. What does it mean when a woman say - FINE?

Appreciate comments from men and women! "

Easiest way to not misinterpret what she is saying is by not taking ypur dick out of her mouth so she has no chance of saying anything.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I don't get women at all either tbh and have happily spent my life around men but the one main difference that I have noticed is that men retreat when talking to ladies about anything emotional whereas women like to talk about emotional things ... this behaviour falls down greatly and quite frankly I find it really annoying when saying something important to me (doesn't happen very often I'm not much of an emotional talker) and when to a man I know they've switched off! Annoying and I just leave

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By *otlovefun42Couple  over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

Decoding a woman's mind?

Where's Alan Turing when you need him?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Life's like a pantomime

Women say they don't want you to see your cock.

What they are really saying is ..they don't want you to know they actually want to see your cock.

And if you play your part well....then you get to show them your cock....

When I say I don't want to see your cock, I literally mean I have no interest in seeing your cock. I don't know how anyone can read anything different into that. "

The "cock " is just a metaphor... we all like to look at things without others knowing we have looked...there are some great social experiments on this...for another time

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By *ily WhiteWoman  over a year ago

?

I think i'm hard-wi_ed like a man - if I say fine then it's absolutely fine. You will be well aware if it's not fine.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Life's like a pantomime

Women say they don't want you to see your cock.

What they are really saying is ..they don't want you to know they actually want to see your cock.

And if you play your part well....then you get to show them your cock....

When I say I don't want to see your cock, I literally mean I have no interest in seeing your cock. I don't know how anyone can read anything different into that.

The "cock " is just a metaphor... we all like to look at things without others knowing we have looked...there are some great social experiments on this...for another time"

That's the thing, we don't ALL want these things. We don't ALL operate in the same way. Even within social experiments, there will always be people who are the exception but these aren't discussed as much as the norm.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Life's like a pantomime

Women say they don't want you to see your cock.

What they are really saying is ..they don't want you to know they actually want to see your cock.

And if you play your part well....then you get to show them your cock....

When I say I don't want to see your cock, I literally mean I have no interest in seeing your cock. I don't know how anyone can read anything different into that.

The "cock " is just a metaphor... we all like to look at things without others knowing we have looked...there are some great social experiments on this...for another time

That's the thing, we don't ALL want these things. We don't ALL operate in the same way. Even within social experiments, there will always be people who are the exception but these aren't discussed as much as the norm. "

The very small percentage of people who are say " different " are that for lots of varying reasons.. but we ALL like to look at things, we maybe wouldn't admit in public, if we know we won't get caught...it's human nature...

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By *eviantdeeliteCouple  over a year ago

Cheltenham


"I know this thread is tongue in cheek but do people genuinely still think that men can't understand women?

Some men are quite thick like me!

I meant thick in the head! Not down!

In my case I am thick, up and down!

I don't think you're thick.

Upstairs or downstairs.

One of them is correct! I

Ok, I don't think you're stupid I can't comment on anything else.

I think you and a lot of men assume they won't understand a woman's mind and a lot of women are happy to reinforce that.

You are one smart women! I missed chatting to you.

Smooth move and you claim you don't understand woman. Methinks though doth protest too much

Haven't you heard the saying, be smart, act dumb! "

Silent knowledge is power

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Life's like a pantomime

Women say they don't want you to see your cock.

What they are really saying is ..they don't want you to know they actually want to see your cock.

And if you play your part well....then you get to show them your cock....

When I say I don't want to see your cock, I literally mean I have no interest in seeing your cock. I don't know how anyone can read anything different into that.

The "cock " is just a metaphor... we all like to look at things without others knowing we have looked...there are some great social experiments on this...for another time

That's the thing, we don't ALL want these things. We don't ALL operate in the same way. Even within social experiments, there will always be people who are the exception but these aren't discussed as much as the norm.

The very small percentage of people who are say " different " are that for lots of varying reasons.. but we ALL like to look at things, we maybe wouldn't admit in public, if we know we won't get caught...it's human nature..."

I think I understand your perspective and reasoning a little better now. Everyone has probably looked at porn but some people would deny it if asked. I concur.

I'm looking at it from a different focus.

"..they don't want you to know they actually want to see your cock."

My view on this initial statement is that if I say I'm not interested in something, I'm truly not interested. There's no hidden meaning, no games. Why be dishonest? If I want to see something, I'll ask to see. Using cocks as an example, males want to show them off far more than I want to see them.

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By *moothdickMan  over a year ago

stoke

All I can say to this is “fucking good luck”

A women’s mind is like a pizza .. u cook it round to put in a sq box and then cut it into triangles ... work that out and you’ve sussed it

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Life's like a pantomime

Women say they don't want you to see your cock.

What they are really saying is ..they don't want you to know they actually want to see your cock.

And if you play your part well....then you get to show them your cock....

When I say I don't want to see your cock, I literally mean I have no interest in seeing your cock. I don't know how anyone can read anything different into that.

The "cock " is just a metaphor... we all like to look at things without others knowing we have looked...there are some great social experiments on this...for another time

That's the thing, we don't ALL want these things. We don't ALL operate in the same way. Even within social experiments, there will always be people who are the exception but these aren't discussed as much as the norm.

The very small percentage of people who are say " different " are that for lots of varying reasons.. but we ALL like to look at things, we maybe wouldn't admit in public, if we know we won't get caught...it's human nature...

I think I understand your perspective and reasoning a little better now. Everyone has probably looked at porn but some people would deny it if asked. I concur.

I'm looking at it from a different focus.

"..they don't want you to know they actually want to see your cock."

My view on this initial statement is that if I say I'm not interested in something, I'm truly not interested. There's no hidden meaning, no games. Why be dishonest? If I want to see something, I'll ask to see. Using cocks as an example, males want to show them off far more than I want to see them. "

You are one of the exceptions...but generalising, men want to show their Cocks because they have worked out that women actually like to see them...but women ( generaly) don't want to say so...hence the pantomime ...why do you think so many men on here have several dick pic's in their profile....even though they keep getting told by women..."put it away..we don't want to see them"... it helps them get laid..

This is all about courtship..

Of course not everyone is the same I am only making a general observation.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"All I can say to this is “fucking good luck”

A women’s mind is like a pizza .. u cook it round to put in a sq box and then cut it into triangles ... work that out and you’ve sussed it "

Haha love this!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


" ... though they keep getting told by women..."put it away..we don't want to see them"... it helps them get laid..

This is all about courtship..

Of course not everyone is the same I am only making a general observation. "

Totally disagree ... of all the ladies I've talked to on here its actually the exception that likes having them shown to us or likes seeing them in abundance! Men like showing them because they all love their dicks quite rightly so. I like them in person but don't want to look at pics of them at all ... it's boring and not attractive

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Have to admit. If I say ‘fine’ it’s like the beginning of the end. Be prepa_ed to be slaughte_ed...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


" ... though they keep getting told by women..."put it away..we don't want to see them"... it helps them get laid..

This is all about courtship..

Of course not everyone is the same I am only making a general observation.

Totally disagree ... of all the ladies I've talked to on here its actually the exception that likes having them shown to us or likes seeing them in abundance! Men like showing them because they all love their dicks quite rightly so. I like them in person but don't want to look at pics of them at all ... it's boring and not attractive "

That's the point I'm trying to make... people DON'T admit to it...that's why it's a pantomime...but men know that secretly women do want to see the goods....or the 1000s of men on here with their dick out pic's wouldn't get anywhere... it's your subconscious.... for the men it's peacocking and women are playing coy.... it is the courting ritual...

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By *mberWoman  over a year ago

Preston


"Life's like a pantomime

Women say they don't want you to see your cock.

What they are really saying is ..they don't want you to know they actually want to see your cock.

And if you play your part well....then you get to show them your cock.... "

So you're the reason the bloke sent me a photo of his cock, with a woman's mouth round it.

Honestly, when I told him I didn't want to see it. I meant...I don't want to see it!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Her body language and tone of voice will give you a clue."
yes a bat to the noggin and a line of fs is normally a good indicator

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


" ... though they keep getting told by women..."put it away..we don't want to see them"... it helps them get laid..

This is all about courtship..

Of course not everyone is the same I am only making a general observation.

Totally disagree ... of all the ladies I've talked to on here its actually the exception that likes having them shown to us or likes seeing them in abundance! Men like showing them because they all love their dicks quite rightly so. I like them in person but don't want to look at pics of them at all ... it's boring and not attractive

That's the point I'm trying to make... people DON'T admit to it...that's why it's a pantomime...but men know that secretly women do want to see the goods....or the 1000s of men on here with their dick out pic's wouldn't get anywhere... it's your subconscious.... for the men it's peacocking and women are playing coy.... it is the courting ritual... "

Why can't you understand that there is nothing to admit to .... the majority DO NOT LIKE DICK PICS simple nothing to admit to

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By *mberWoman  over a year ago

Preston


" ... though they keep getting told by women..."put it away..we don't want to see them"... it helps them get laid..

This is all about courtship..

Of course not everyone is the same I am only making a general observation.

Totally disagree ... of all the ladies I've talked to on here its actually the exception that likes having them shown to us or likes seeing them in abundance! Men like showing them because they all love their dicks quite rightly so. I like them in person but don't want to look at pics of them at all ... it's boring and not attractive

That's the point I'm trying to make... people DON'T admit to it...that's why it's a pantomime...but men know that secretly women do want to see the goods....or the 1000s of men on here with their dick out pic's wouldn't get anywhere... it's your subconscious.... for the men it's peacocking and women are playing coy.... it is the courting ritual... "

Erm no. Men have many many attractive bits that I'd like to see. The penis is not one of them. If someone shows me theirs unsolicited. I think they lack respect and manners and wouldn't pursue the conversation any more. Most women I know are the same.

I mean....continue believing that you are correct if you want to, but that's the way I feel.

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By *izzy69Man  over a year ago

London


" ... though they keep getting told by women..."put it away..we don't want to see them"... it helps them get laid..

This is all about courtship..

Of course not everyone is the same I am only making a general observation.

Totally disagree ... of all the ladies I've talked to on here its actually the exception that likes having them shown to us or likes seeing them in abundance! Men like showing them because they all love their dicks quite rightly so. I like them in person but don't want to look at pics of them at all ... it's boring and not attractive

That's the point I'm trying to make... people DON'T admit to it...that's why it's a pantomime...but men know that secretly women do want to see the goods....or the 1000s of men on here with their dick out pic's wouldn't get anywhere... it's your subconscious.... for the men it's peacocking and women are playing coy.... it is the courting ritual...

Why can't you understand that there is nothing to admit to .... the majority DO NOT LIKE DICK PICS simple nothing to admit to "

Lmao

Give it up Trudy.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


" ... though they keep getting told by women..."put it away..we don't want to see them"... it helps them get laid..

This is all about courtship..

Of course not everyone is the same I am only making a general observation.

Totally disagree ... of all the ladies I've talked to on here its actually the exception that likes having them shown to us or likes seeing them in abundance! Men like showing them because they all love their dicks quite rightly so. I like them in person but don't want to look at pics of them at all ... it's boring and not attractive

That's the point I'm trying to make... people DON'T admit to it...that's why it's a pantomime...but men know that secretly women do want to see the goods....or the 1000s of men on here with their dick out pic's wouldn't get anywhere... it's your subconscious.... for the men it's peacocking and women are playing coy.... it is the courting ritual...

Why can't you understand that there is nothing to admit to .... the majority DO NOT LIKE DICK PICS simple nothing to admit to "

Trudy you are right

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


" ... though they keep getting told by women..."put it away..we don't want to see them"... it helps them get laid..

This is all about courtship..

Of course not everyone is the same I am only making a general observation.

Totally disagree ... of all the ladies I've talked to on here its actually the exception that likes having them shown to us or likes seeing them in abundance! Men like showing them because they all love their dicks quite rightly so. I like them in person but don't want to look at pics of them at all ... it's boring and not attractive

That's the point I'm trying to make... people DON'T admit to it...that's why it's a pantomime...but men know that secretly women do want to see the goods....or the 1000s of men on here with their dick out pic's wouldn't get anywhere... it's your subconscious.... for the men it's peacocking and women are playing coy.... it is the courting ritual...

Erm no. Men have many many attractive bits that I'd like to see. The penis is not one of them. If someone shows me theirs unsolicited. I think they lack respect and manners and wouldn't pursue the conversation any more. Most women I know are the same.

I mean....continue believing that you are correct if you want to, but that's the way I feel."

Sorry you are totally right

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Life's like a pantomime

Women say they don't want you to see your cock.

What they are really saying is ..they don't want you to know they actually want to see your cock.

And if you play your part well....then you get to show them your cock....

So you're the reason the bloke sent me a photo of his cock, with a woman's mouth round it.

Honestly, when I told him I didn't want to see it. I meant...I don't want to see it!"

I hope we all had an unsee.button.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


" ... though they keep getting told by women..."put it away..we don't want to see them"... it helps them get laid..

This is all about courtship..

Of course not everyone is the same I am only making a general observation.

Totally disagree ... of all the ladies I've talked to on here its actually the exception that likes having them shown to us or likes seeing them in abundance! Men like showing them because they all love their dicks quite rightly so. I like them in person but don't want to look at pics of them at all ... it's boring and not attractive

That's the point I'm trying to make... people DON'T admit to it...that's why it's a pantomime...but men know that secretly women do want to see the goods....or the 1000s of men on here with their dick out pic's wouldn't get anywhere... it's your subconscious.... for the men it's peacocking and women are playing coy.... it is the courting ritual...

Erm no. Men have many many attractive bits that I'd like to see. The penis is not one of them. If someone shows me theirs unsolicited. I think they lack respect and manners and wouldn't pursue the conversation any more. Most women I know are the same.

I mean....continue believing that you are correct if you want to, but that's the way I feel."

I like this woman. She is full of class!

Do you think I can take you out on a dinner date? I guarantee that I will behave!

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By *edVelveteenCouple  over a year ago

Heaven in the Midlands


"I thought I will share my experience with the word 'FINE'.

The four letter word she uses during an argument, just to get you to shut the fuck up. This doesn't mean you won the aforementioned argument; It's just buying her time to plan her retaliation. When she says 'FINE' it's time for you to start worrying. Go to the gift shop, maybe buy her something nice. When she finally decides that she wants to continue this argument, it will be shit storm, she will win, and you will have nowhere to hide.

"

Fine!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman  over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I thought I will share my experience with the word 'FINE'.

The four letter word she uses during an argument, just to get you to shut the fuck up. This doesn't mean you won the aforementioned argument; It's just buying her time to plan her retaliation. When she says 'FINE' it's time for you to start worrying. Go to the gift shop, maybe buy her something nice. When she finally decides that she wants to continue this argument, it will be shit storm, she will win, and you will have nowhere to hide.

Am I right in saying this? "

Nailed it totally lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I thought I will share my experience with the word 'FINE'.

The four letter word she uses during an argument, just to get you to shut the fuck up. This doesn't mean you won the aforementioned argument; It's just buying her time to plan her retaliation. When she says 'FINE' it's time for you to start worrying. Go to the gift shop, maybe buy her something nice. When she finally decides that she wants to continue this argument, it will be shit storm, she will win, and you will have nowhere to hide.

Am I right in saying this?

Nailed it totally lol. "

I am trying to teach these men a lesson or two! But they dont want to listen. Still hanging on to their willie, like a 4 year old kid from kindergarten!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I thought I will share my experience with the word 'FINE'.

The four letter word she uses during an argument, just to get you to shut the fuck up. This doesn't mean you won the aforementioned argument; It's just buying her time to plan her retaliation. When she says 'FINE' it's time for you to start worrying. Go to the gift shop, maybe buy her something nice. When she finally decides that she wants to continue this argument, it will be shit storm, she will win, and you will have nowhere to hide.

"

Fine

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I thought I will share my experience with the word 'FINE'.

The four letter word she uses during an argument, just to get you to shut the fuck up. This doesn't mean you won the aforementioned argument; It's just buying her time to plan her retaliation. When she says 'FINE' it's time for you to start worrying. Go to the gift shop, maybe buy her something nice. When she finally decides that she wants to continue this argument, it will be shit storm, she will win, and you will have nowhere to hide.

Fine "

Oh no! I am in trouble. You carry my secrets! Heading to the gift shops now!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I thought I will share my experience with the word 'FINE'.

The four letter word she uses during an argument, just to get you to shut the fuck up. This doesn't mean you won the aforementioned argument; It's just buying her time to plan her retaliation. When she says 'FINE' it's time for you to start worrying. Go to the gift shop, maybe buy her something nice. When she finally decides that she wants to continue this argument, it will be shit storm, she will win, and you will have nowhere to hide.

Fine

Oh no! I am in trouble. You carry my secrets! Heading to the gift shops now! "

Hurry it up man and I’ll keep your secret

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By *reya73Woman  over a year ago

Whitley Bay

If I say 'fine'I will mean that's it's fine, whatever it is.

If a woman says fine to you and you're left with a feeling of ambiguity as to whether that's what she means or not.. ask for clarity.

Simps.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I thought I will share my experience with the word 'FINE'.

The four letter word she uses during an argument, just to get you to shut the fuck up. This doesn't mean you won the aforementioned argument; It's just buying her time to plan her retaliation. When she says 'FINE' it's time for you to start worrying. Go to the gift shop, maybe buy her something nice. When she finally decides that she wants to continue this argument, it will be shit storm, she will win, and you will have nowhere to hide.

Fine

Oh no! I am in trouble. You carry my secrets! Heading to the gift shops now!

Hurry it up man and I’ll keep your secret "

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By *reya73Woman  over a year ago

Whitley Bay

Oh and it's not your job to 'decode a woman's mind' ... just listen to her and know your own.

X

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'll pass op I give up years ago wondering what a woman wanted it's easier to arrange a mass orgy on a Dubai beach for all to watch than figure them out but good luck in your search

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By *eastAndTheHarlotCouple  over a year ago

Hartlepool

Fine

Whatever. It's not worth arguing. I don't care or we can revisit this.

The key is to work on communication so you don't have to resort to 'fine'.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Oh and it's not your job to 'decode a woman's mind' ... just listen to her and know your own.

X "

Hey Freya. Great to see you again.

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By *pider-WomanWoman  over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

I often dont need to speak a word it's all in my body language

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By *itty9899Man  over a year ago

Craggy Island


"I have found that the problem lies with people just not talking properly to each other. There's nothing to decide, just talk! "

With all the forms of communication these days it's a shame ADULTS still can't be honest with each other with their feelings.

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By *hropmMan  over a year ago

shrewsbury


"Men have a tendency to say what they mean; very black and white. Women have much more grey area with shades of rainbow. Trying to Understand the difference between what a woman says and what she actually means is no easy feat.

Good luck with strageist creatures that ever walked the earth lol but love them all

So I thought I will start a series on 'Decoding woman's mind', which will help us all men to understand women better and perhaps enable us to be a better lovers.

So the first word we are going to talk about is 'Fine'. When a guy says fine, it means fine. But if a woman says 'FINE', there is more to it. What does it mean when a woman say - FINE?

Appreciate comments from men and women! "

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By *ornylittlesubWoman  over a year ago

Grangemouth

The females meaning(s) of "fine".

1) Fine-Yes, it really is "fine"

2) Fine-Are you stupid, of course it's not.

3) Fine-If you want shit loads of trouble.

4) Fine-Just you feking dare!.

5) Fine-We will see about that.

6) Fine-Don't bring that up again...ever.

Just some examples to help you guys out. (At no time will us females give any clues to which one we really mean)

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By *ncognito!Woman  over a year ago

falkirk

Good luck with that one, up there with the enigma code

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Good luck with that one, up there with the enigma code "

Lol. Are you not going to contribute?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"The females meaning(s) of "fine".

1) Fine-Yes, it really is "fine"

2) Fine-Are you stupid, of course it's not.

3) Fine-If you want shit loads of trouble.

4) Fine-Just you feking dare!.

5) Fine-We will see about that.

6) Fine-Don't bring that up again...ever.

Just some examples to help you guys out. (At no time will us females give any clues to which one we really mean) "

I am not sure if this helped. Too much to rem_mber for my lil brain!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Men have a tendency to say what they mean; very black and white. Women have much more grey area with shades of rainbow. Trying to Understand the difference between what a woman says and what she actually means is no easy feat.

So I thought I will start a series on 'Decoding woman's mind', which will help us all men to understand women better and perhaps enable us to be a better lovers.

So the first word we are going to talk about is 'Fine'. When a guy says fine, it means fine. But if a woman says 'FINE', there is more to it. What does it mean when a woman say - FINE?

Appreciate comments from men and women! "

ahhhh but you will only perceive a womans reply dont worry we all do it, women don't know themselves its pointless asking them

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It is easy,

Hello = Fancy a fuck

How are you = Fancy a BJ

Fine = Shut up and fuck me

Women are so easy to please

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By *ornylittlesubWoman  over a year ago

Grangemouth


"The females meaning(s) of "fine".

1) Fine-Yes, it really is "fine"

2) Fine-Are you stupid, of course it's not.

3) Fine-If you want shit loads of trouble.

4) Fine-Just you feking dare!.

5) Fine-We will see about that.

6) Fine-Don't bring that up again...ever.

Just some examples to help you guys out. (At no time will us females give any clues to which one we really mean)

I am not sure if this helped. Too much to rem_mber for my lil brain! "

Yes I did fear as much, not for your "lil brain" personally you understand but you lot in general. Too far! I will issue an apology with this message as my intention is not to offend anyone....not yet anyways.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Men have a tendency to say what they mean; very black and white. Women have much more grey area with shades of rainbow. Trying to Understand the difference between what a woman says and what she actually means is no easy feat.

So I thought I will start a series on 'Decoding woman's mind', which will help us all men to understand women better and perhaps enable us to be a better lovers.

So the first word we are going to talk about is 'Fine'. When a guy says fine, it means fine. But if a woman says 'FINE', there is more to it. What does it mean when a woman say - FINE?

Appreciate comments from men and women! ahhhh but you will only perceive a womans reply dont worry we all do it, women don't know themselves its pointless asking them "

Maybe you may be able to answer that question once you had that surgery.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Men have a tendency to say what they mean; very black and white. Women have much more grey area with shades of rainbow. Trying to Understand the difference between what a woman says and what she actually means is no easy feat.

So I thought I will start a series on 'Decoding woman's mind', which will help us all men to understand women better and perhaps enable us to be a better lovers.

So the first word we are going to talk about is 'Fine'. When a guy says fine, it means fine. But if a woman says 'FINE', there is more to it. What does it mean when a woman say - FINE?

Appreciate comments from men and women! ahhhh but you will only perceive a womans reply dont worry we all do it, women don't know themselves its pointless asking them

Maybe you may be able to answer that question once you had that surgery. "

lol hey I'm a guy similar in that we have the basic principle man in common i Understand women even when they dont understand themselves but we all gotta learn sometime

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"The females meaning(s) of "fine".

1) Fine-Yes, it really is "fine"

2) Fine-Are you stupid, of course it's not.

3) Fine-If you want shit loads of trouble.

4) Fine-Just you feking dare!.

5) Fine-We will see about that.

6) Fine-Don't bring that up again...ever.

Just some examples to help you guys out. (At no time will us females give any clues to which one we really mean)

I am not sure if this helped. Too much to rem_mber for my lil brain!

Yes I did fear as much, not for your "lil brain" personally you understand but you lot in general. Too far! I will issue an apology with this message as my intention is not to offend anyone....not yet anyways. "

No offence taken.

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By *mberWoman  over a year ago

Preston


" ... though they keep getting told by women..."put it away..we don't want to see them"... it helps them get laid..

This is all about courtship..

Of course not everyone is the same I am only making a general observation.

Totally disagree ... of all the ladies I've talked to on here its actually the exception that likes having them shown to us or likes seeing them in abundance! Men like showing them because they all love their dicks quite rightly so. I like them in person but don't want to look at pics of them at all ... it's boring and not attractive

That's the point I'm trying to make... people DON'T admit to it...that's why it's a pantomime...but men know that secretly women do want to see the goods....or the 1000s of men on here with their dick out pic's wouldn't get anywhere... it's your subconscious.... for the men it's peacocking and women are playing coy.... it is the courting ritual...

Erm no. Men have many many attractive bits that I'd like to see. The penis is not one of them. If someone shows me theirs unsolicited. I think they lack respect and manners and wouldn't pursue the conversation any more. Most women I know are the same.

I mean....continue believing that you are correct if you want to, but that's the way I feel.

I like this woman. She is full of class!

Do you think I can take you out on a dinner date? I guarantee that I will behave! "

Come and find me...I'll go

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


" ... though they keep getting told by women..."put it away..we don't want to see them"... it helps them get laid..

This is all about courtship..

Of course not everyone is the same I am only making a general observation.

Totally disagree ... of all the ladies I've talked to on here its actually the exception that likes having them shown to us or likes seeing them in abundance! Men like showing them because they all love their dicks quite rightly so. I like them in person but don't want to look at pics of them at all ... it's boring and not attractive

That's the point I'm trying to make... people DON'T admit to it...that's why it's a pantomime...but men know that secretly women do want to see the goods....or the 1000s of men on here with their dick out pic's wouldn't get anywhere... it's your subconscious.... for the men it's peacocking and women are playing coy.... it is the courting ritual...

Erm no. Men have many many attractive bits that I'd like to see. The penis is not one of them. If someone shows me theirs unsolicited. I think they lack respect and manners and wouldn't pursue the conversation any more. Most women I know are the same.

I mean....continue believing that you are correct if you want to, but that's the way I feel.

I like this woman. She is full of class!

Do you think I can take you out on a dinner date? I guarantee that I will behave!

Come and find me...I'll go "

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I often dont need to speak a word it's all in my body language "

I wish I could learn the language of your body!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Fine

Whatever. It's not worth arguing. I don't care or we can revisit this.

The key is to work on communication so you don't have to resort to 'fine'. "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Fine..meaning she's fine nothing to worry about..

What do you mean now you see why I'm single

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Fine..meaning she's fine nothing to worry about..

What do you mean now you see why I'm single"

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By *pider-WomanWoman  over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"I often dont need to speak a word it's all in my body language

I wish I could learn the language of your body! "

I come with instructions. Theres a quick start up on page 1, do before you use guide.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I often dont need to speak a word it's all in my body language

I wish I could learn the language of your body!

I come with instructions. Theres a quick start up on page 1, do before you use guide. "

I dont do instructions well. Can i figure it out as I go.

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By *iamondCougarWoman  over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"I thought I will share my experience with the word 'FINE'.

The four letter word she uses during an argument, just to get you to shut the fuck up. This doesn't mean you won the aforementioned argument; It's just buying her time to plan her retaliation. When she says 'FINE' it's time for you to start worrying. Go to the gift shop, maybe buy her something nice. When she finally decides that she wants to continue this argument, it will be shit storm, she will win, and you will have nowhere to hide.

"

I’m wondering why you are seeking ‘Decoding’ advice - seems to me you are already pretty aware of what ‘fine’ means !

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I thought I will share my experience with the word 'FINE'.

The four letter word she uses during an argument, just to get you to shut the fuck up. This doesn't mean you won the aforementioned argument; It's just buying her time to plan her retaliation. When she says 'FINE' it's time for you to start worrying. Go to the gift shop, maybe buy her something nice. When she finally decides that she wants to continue this argument, it will be shit storm, she will win, and you will have nowhere to hide.

I’m wondering why you are seeking ‘Decoding’ advice - seems to me you are already pretty aware of what ‘fine’ means !"

I am helping my fellow men!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I'll pass op I give up years ago wondering what a woman wanted it's easier to arrange a mass orgy on a Dubai beach for all to watch than figure them out but good luck in your search "

Orgy in Dubai?

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By *uriouscat71Woman  over a year ago

Bristol

Fine = “Whatever, Dickhead”

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Fine = “Whatever, Dickhead” "

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By *edMan  over a year ago

cambridgeshire


"I thought I will share my experience with the word 'FINE'.

The four letter word she uses during an argument, just to get you to shut the fuck up. This doesn't mean you won the aforementioned argument; It's just buying her time to plan her retaliation. When she says 'FINE' it's time for you to start worrying. Go to the gift shop, maybe buy her something nice. When she finally decides that she wants to continue this argument, it will be shit storm, she will win, and you will have nowhere to hide.

Example.

I’m going to the pub

Ok that’s fine

That means it’s not fine

No. Honestly it’s fine. You go, go on

Note - it really isn’t fine. "

Men.. do NOT wait for the second 'thats fine'..

Go on the first one, quickly, and don't look back!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Sorry but this thread has to stop, 140 messages and there is not yet a definition of 'fine' the internet is not big enough for this topic to be resolved.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Sorry but this thread has to stop, 140 messages and there is not yet a definition of 'fine' the internet is not big enough for this topic to be resolved. "

Lol. I still have hope. 35 to go!

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By *uzukiNo1Woman  over a year ago

Rhyl

Will never happen....ever

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

There’s no deciding the female gene

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Will never happen....ever "

Coming from a female

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

When a woman days fine the only thing that is safe to assume is she doesn't actually mean fine

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Will never happen....ever

Coming from a female "

Means you have no hope

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Who would want to decode the female mind that would take all the fun away

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By *uzukiNo1Woman  over a year ago

Rhyl


"Will never happen....ever

Coming from a female "

Don't roll your eyes at me....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If a woman takes too much effort to understand I’m done with wasting my time. My experience is those you click with are much easier to understand than trying to understand one you don’t.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Will never happen....ever

Coming from a female

Don't roll your eyes at me.... "

stopped!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If a woman takes too much effort to understand I’m done with wasting my time. My experience is those you click with are much easier to understand than trying to understand one you don’t."

Definitely this ^^^

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I bite....If I like you I bite, if I don't I bite.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I bite....If I like you I bite, if I don't I bite.

"

Are you related to Marten Janssen?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

say nothing agree with everything easy

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I bite....If I like you I bite, if I don't I bite.

"

I like a bit of a biter.. only now and again. Too much and I’m on the floor like a sack of shit

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

No point in trying the code changes by the hour

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I bite....If I like you I bite, if I don't I bite.

I like a bit of a biter.. only now and again. Too much and I’m on the floor like a sack of shit "

Have you conside_ed getting a puppy? You can train it to be a biter!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I bite....If I like you I bite, if I don't I bite.

I like a bit of a biter.. only now and again. Too much and I’m on the floor like a sack of shit

Have you conside_ed getting a puppy? You can train it to be a biter! "

That’s not what I meant when I said I like a bitch that bites..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I bite....If I like you I bite, if I don't I bite.

Are you related to Marten Janssen? "

No, he is Swedish. I am Welsh

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I bite....If I like you I bite, if I don't I bite.

I like a bit of a biter.. only now and again. Too much and I’m on the floor like a sack of shit "

I don't bite that hard... Never enough to draw blood at any rate

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I bite....If I like you I bite, if I don't I bite.

I like a bit of a biter.. only now and again. Too much and I’m on the floor like a sack of shit

I don't bite that hard... Never enough to draw blood at any rate"

Now that’s what I meant when I said I like a bitch that bites

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I thought I will share my experience with the word 'FINE'.

The four letter word she uses during an argument, just to get you to shut the fuck up. This doesn't mean you won the aforementioned argument; It's just buying her time to plan her retaliation. When she says 'FINE' it's time for you to start worrying. Go to the gift shop, maybe buy her something nice. When she finally decides that she wants to continue this argument, it will be shit storm, she will win, and you will have nowhere to hide.

Example.

I’m going to the pub

Ok that’s fine

That means it’s not fine

No. Honestly it’s fine. You go, go on

Note - it really isn’t fine.

It is the 'Fine' when arguing. Or should I say debating! "

RUN DON'T LOOK BACK DON'T OFFER ANY SORRYS JUST FUCKING RUN ..... FAST LOL

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I thought I will share my experience with the word 'FINE'.

The four letter word she uses during an argument, just to get you to shut the fuck up. This doesn't mean you won the aforementioned argument; It's just buying her time to plan her retaliation. When she says 'FINE' it's time for you to start worrying. Go to the gift shop, maybe buy her something nice. When she finally decides that she wants to continue this argument, it will be shit storm, she will win, and you will have nowhere to hide.

Example.

I’m going to the pub

Ok that’s fine

That means it’s not fine

No. Honestly it’s fine. You go, go on

Note - it really isn’t fine.

It is the 'Fine' when arguing. Or should I say debating!

RUN DON'T LOOK BACK DON'T OFFER ANY SORRYS JUST FUCKING RUN ..... FAST LOL"

I am a meat and vege guy. We have veges in common!

Dont you think we should take this outside?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

We are going to run out of the thread and still no answer!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I bite....If I like you I bite, if I don't I bite.

I like a bit of a biter.. only now and again. Too much and I’m on the floor like a sack of shit

I don't bite that hard... Never enough to draw blood at any rate

Now that’s what I meant when I said I like a bitch that bites "

You're welcome

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"We are going to run out of the thread and still no answer! "

There will be no definitive answer as fine will mean different things to different people at different times!

Personally dislike the word so try to always avoid it!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"We are going to run out of the thread and still no answer! "

I am black and white, If I am in a pud I will tell you, and tell you why.

Bacon solves all my problems though, If I am grumpy the answer is bacon, if I am happy the answer is bacon. If I have a pud on then bacon, bacon. Bacon!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"We are going to run out of the thread and still no answer!

There will be no definitive answer as fine will mean different things to different people at different times!

Personally dislike the word so try to always avoid it! "

Fine

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I thought I will share my experience with the word 'FINE'.

The four letter word she uses during an argument, just to get you to shut the fuck up. This doesn't mean you won the aforementioned argument; It's just buying her time to plan her retaliation. When she says 'FINE' it's time for you to start worrying. Go to the gift shop, maybe buy her something nice. When she finally decides that she wants to continue this argument, it will be shit storm, she will win, and you will have nowhere to hide.

I’m wondering why you are seeking ‘Decoding’ advice - seems to me you are already pretty aware of what ‘fine’ means !

I am helping my fellow men! "

hey i love potassium

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I thought I will share my experience with the word 'FINE'.

The four letter word she uses during an argument, just to get you to shut the fuck up. This doesn't mean you won the aforementioned argument; It's just buying her time to plan her retaliation. When she says 'FINE' it's time for you to start worrying. Go to the gift shop, maybe buy her something nice. When she finally decides that she wants to continue this argument, it will be shit storm, she will win, and you will have nowhere to hide.

I’m wondering why you are seeking ‘Decoding’ advice - seems to me you are already pretty aware of what ‘fine’ means !

I am helping my fellow men! hey i love potassium "

Have you tried bananas?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I thought I will share my experience with the word 'FINE'.

The four letter word she uses during an argument, just to get you to shut the fuck up. This doesn't mean you won the aforementioned argument; It's just buying her time to plan her retaliation. When she says 'FINE' it's time for you to start worrying. Go to the gift shop, maybe buy her something nice. When she finally decides that she wants to continue this argument, it will be shit storm, she will win, and you will have nowhere to hide.

I’m wondering why you are seeking ‘Decoding’ advice - seems to me you are already pretty aware of what ‘fine’ means !

I am helping my fellow men! hey i love potassium

Have you tried bananas? "

Does potassium have anything to do with who do you think I am

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I thought I will share my experience with the word 'FINE'.

The four letter word she uses during an argument, just to get you to shut the fuck up. This doesn't mean you won the aforementioned argument; It's just buying her time to plan her retaliation. When she says 'FINE' it's time for you to start worrying. Go to the gift shop, maybe buy her something nice. When she finally decides that she wants to continue this argument, it will be shit storm, she will win, and you will have nowhere to hide.

I’m wondering why you are seeking ‘Decoding’ advice - seems to me you are already pretty aware of what ‘fine’ means !

I am helping my fellow men! hey i love potassium

Have you tried bananas?

Does potassium have anything to do with who do you think I am "

no why?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I thought I will share my experience with the word 'FINE'.

The four letter word she uses during an argument, just to get you to shut the fuck up. This doesn't mean you won the aforementioned argument; It's just buying her time to plan her retaliation. When she says 'FINE' it's time for you to start worrying. Go to the gift shop, maybe buy her something nice. When she finally decides that she wants to continue this argument, it will be shit storm, she will win, and you will have nowhere to hide.

I’m wondering why you are seeking ‘Decoding’ advice - seems to me you are already pretty aware of what ‘fine’ means !

I am helping my fellow men! hey i love potassium

Have you tried bananas?

Does potassium have anything to do with who do you think I am no why? "

If you really wanted to know who I am, let's make a deal. Yiu fo the surgery I was talking about and I may be tempted to put a ring on that finger!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I thought I will share my experience with the word 'FINE'.

The four letter word she uses during an argument, just to get you to shut the fuck up. This doesn't mean you won the aforementioned argument; It's just buying her time to plan her retaliation. When she says 'FINE' it's time for you to start worrying. Go to the gift shop, maybe buy her something nice. When she finally decides that she wants to continue this argument, it will be shit storm, she will win, and you will have nowhere to hide.

I’m wondering why you are seeking ‘Decoding’ advice - seems to me you are already pretty aware of what ‘fine’ means !

I am helping my fellow men! hey i love potassium

Have you tried bananas?

Does potassium have anything to do with who do you think I am no why?

If you really wanted to know who I am, let's make a deal. Yiu fo the surgery I was talking about and I may be tempted to put a ring on that finger!

"

yes i know who you are and welcome back

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