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Decoding men! Part three. Being exclusive!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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How many guys like the idea of having an exclusive NSA relationship with a woman?  I find it quite enticing! 
We all know when it comes to women, you cannot live with them, you cannot live without them! 
Imagine a relationship with good sex and fun minus the drama!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The term exclusivity scares me a little. I know NSA doesn't have to lead to feelings, but sharing intimacy with the same person and only that person over time has potential to. I'm not saying I never want a relationship again for as long as I live, but I'm happy on my own and I feel I'm a better me when I'm single and I don't have any plans on changing that. Like I said, NSA doesn't have to lead to feelings, but I'd be happier not being exclusive just in case. 2 or 3 regular bed buddies is the way to go for me I think  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I don't think then it's NSA but in a way what your saying is what me and beast have as we are exclusive we may play with other in the future we know we won't be forever but we are enjoying the ride while it happens |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"The term exclusivity scares me a little. I know NSA doesn't have to lead to feelings, but sharing intimacy with the same person and only that person over time has potential to. I'm not saying I never want a relationship again for as long as I live, but I'm happy on my own and I feel I'm a better me when I'm single and I don't have any plans on changing that. Like I said, NSA doesn't have to lead to feelings, but I'd be happier not being exclusive just in case. 2 or 3 regular bed buddies is the way to go for me I think "
I understand. Imagine an NSA with feelings minus the drama! I might even be tempted to put a ring on and seal the deal. It is a win win scenario! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There's a reason Coronation st and Eastenders is so popular. Everyone loves the drama. "
Why can't we be grown up and talk about it and sort things out? I hate mind games and emotional drama! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I don't think then it's NSA but in a way what your saying is what me and beast have as we are exclusive we may play with other in the future we know we won't be forever but we are enjoying the ride while it happens "
I can be disciplined and stick to one partner for the foreseeable future. And I think most men are the same if they have the right partner. So I wouldn't play with others and I wouldn't control by partner to be exclusive in any way, shape or form! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'd like to find someone to swing with, that only played with others either together or when we were out together, it's unlikely I'll find it but hey, stranger things have happened "
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By *mberWoman
over a year ago
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I don't think NSA and exclusive go together either.
I have friend who's husband lives on the other side of town. They go on a date once a week and spend weekends together and go on holidays together.
I want one of those! (I'd happily be exclusive) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I don't think NSA and exclusive go together either.
I have friend who's husband lives on the other side of town. They go on a date once a week and spend weekends together and go on holidays together.
I want one of those! (I'd happily be exclusive)"
Look no further! I am at your service, Madame!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How many guys like the idea of having an exclusive NSA relationship with a woman? I find it quite enticing!
We all know when it comes to women, you cannot live with them, you cannot live without them!
Imagine a relationship with good sex and fun minus the drama! "
I don’t think this exists unless you don’t ever speak to each other about anything... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"How many guys like the idea of having an exclusive NSA relationship with a woman? I find it quite enticing!
We all know when it comes to women, you cannot live with them, you cannot live without them!
Imagine a relationship with good sex and fun minus the drama!
I don’t think this exists unless you don’t ever speak to each other about anything..."
Would you like to give a try, madame? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How many guys like the idea of having an exclusive NSA relationship with a woman? I find it quite enticing!
We all know when it comes to women, you cannot live with them, you cannot live without them!
Imagine a relationship with good sex and fun minus the drama!
I don’t think this exists unless you don’t ever speak to each other about anything...
Would you like to give a try, madame? "
Me? Not talk? Virtually impossible... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"How many guys like the idea of having an exclusive NSA relationship with a woman? I find it quite enticing!
We all know when it comes to women, you cannot live with them, you cannot live without them!
Imagine a relationship with good sex and fun minus the drama!
I don’t think this exists unless you don’t ever speak to each other about anything...
Would you like to give a try, madame?
Me? Not talk? Virtually impossible..."
I can pick up some good noise cancelling headphones!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How many guys like the idea of having an exclusive NSA relationship with a woman? I find it quite enticing!
We all know when it comes to women, you cannot live with them, you cannot live without them!
Imagine a relationship with good sex and fun minus the drama!
I don’t think this exists unless you don’t ever speak to each other about anything...
Would you like to give a try, madame?
Me? Not talk? Virtually impossible...
I can pick up some good noise cancelling headphones! "
Yes I have a feeling I’d be needing them... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"How many guys like the idea of having an exclusive NSA relationship with a woman? I find it quite enticing!
We all know when it comes to women, you cannot live with them, you cannot live without them!
Imagine a relationship with good sex and fun minus the drama!
I don’t think this exists unless you don’t ever speak to each other about anything...
Would you like to give a try, madame?
Me? Not talk? Virtually impossible...
I can pick up some good noise cancelling headphones!
Yes I have a feeling I’d be needing them..."
It is mine!  I think this relationship is not going to work with you! Unless we can come to an agreement. Whatever is yours is mine, and whatever is mine is mine! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd like to find someone to swing with, that only played with others either together or when we were out together, it's unlikely I'll find it but hey, stranger things have happened "
Yes I’m the same , heres hoping hey. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't think NSA and exclusive go together either.
I have friend who's husband lives on the other side of town. They go on a date once a week and spend weekends together and go on holidays together.
I want one of those! (I'd happily be exclusive)"
I would love that, you have your own space, I think I’m more scared of living with someone again and the feeling of being suffocated and society making you feel like you have to conform to the next level and move in together I just don’t want all that. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I don't think NSA and exclusive go together either.
I have friend who's husband lives on the other side of town. They go on a date once a week and spend weekends together and go on holidays together.
I want one of those! (I'd happily be exclusive)
I would love that, you have your own space, I think I’m more scared of living with someone again and the feeling of being suffocated and society making you feel like you have to conform to the next level and move in together I just don’t want all that. "
Okay ladies! I can only have one woman. Do I need to make a decision now? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Dont think being exclusive and being on here works, always the thought in the back of your mind that the other person is on here, even more so if you met on here. Tried it and caused problems, plus the drama never goes away as feelings take over. In an ideal world it would be great but not in a fab fab world. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Dont think being exclusive and being on here works, always the thought in the back of your mind that the other person is on here, even more so if you met on here. Tried it and caused problems, plus the drama never goes away as feelings take over. In an ideal world it would be great but not in a fab fab world."
What if we train our ladies to show feelings without the drama? |
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"How many guys like the idea of having an exclusive NSA relationship with a woman? I find it quite enticing!
We all know when it comes to women, you cannot live with them, you cannot live without them!
Imagine a relationship with good sex and fun minus the drama! "
Tis but a pipe dream I feel. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Dont think being exclusive and being on here works, always the thought in the back of your mind that the other person is on here, even more so if you met on here. Tried it and caused problems, plus the drama never goes away as feelings take over. In an ideal world it would be great but not in a fab fab world.
What if we train our ladies to show feelings without the drama? "
What drama? What is it that you actually want? A woman who only has sex with you but that you never, ever have to make any effort for? Isn't that what sex dolls are for? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Dont think being exclusive and being on here works, always the thought in the back of your mind that the other person is on here, even more so if you met on here. Tried it and caused problems, plus the drama never goes away as feelings take over. In an ideal world it would be great but not in a fab fab world.
What if we train our ladies to show feelings without the drama?
What drama? What is it that you actually want? A woman who only has sex with you but that you never, ever have to make any effort for? Isn't that what sex dolls are for? "
I am getting told off by Lola! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Dont think being exclusive and being on here works, always the thought in the back of your mind that the other person is on here, even more so if you met on here. Tried it and caused problems, plus the drama never goes away as feelings take over. In an ideal world it would be great but not in a fab fab world.
What if we train our ladies to show feelings without the drama?
What drama? What is it that you actually want? A woman who only has sex with you but that you never, ever have to make any effort for? Isn't that what sex dolls are for?
I am getting told off by Lola! "
No i was asking a question  but if you want a cross lady to tell you what a naughty boy you are I can recommend a couple but they'll be quite expensive. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Dont think being exclusive and being on here works, always the thought in the back of your mind that the other person is on here, even more so if you met on here. Tried it and caused problems, plus the drama never goes away as feelings take over. In an ideal world it would be great but not in a fab fab world.
What if we train our ladies to show feelings without the drama?
What drama? What is it that you actually want? A woman who only has sex with you but that you never, ever have to make any effort for? Isn't that what sex dolls are for?
I am getting told off by Lola!
No i was asking a question but if you want a cross lady to tell you what a naughty boy you are I can recommend a couple but they'll be quite expensive. "
It's my fantasy to get arrested and handcuffed by a lady cop for being naughty! I can settle with an ex cop too!  Where do I meet you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Dont think being exclusive and being on here works, always the thought in the back of your mind that the other person is on here, even more so if you met on here. Tried it and caused problems, plus the drama never goes away as feelings take over. In an ideal world it would be great but not in a fab fab world.
What if we train our ladies to show feelings without the drama?
What drama? What is it that you actually want? A woman who only has sex with you but that you never, ever have to make any effort for? Isn't that what sex dolls are for?
I am getting told off by Lola!
No i was asking a question but if you want a cross lady to tell you what a naughty boy you are I can recommend a couple but they'll be quite expensive.
It's my fantasy to get arrested and handcuffed by a lady cop for being naughty! I can settle with an ex cop too! Where do I meet you? "
Never mind.... |
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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago
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"How many guys like the idea of having an exclusive NSA relationship with a woman? I find it quite enticing!
We all know when it comes to women, you cannot live with them, you cannot live without them!
Imagine a relationship with good sex and fun minus the drama! "
Not for me, I need to have a mental connection to be able to have a physical relationship,
If I just wanted sex with nothing else I might as well visit an escort  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"How many guys like the idea of having an exclusive NSA relationship with a woman? I find it quite enticing!
We all know when it comes to women, you cannot live with them, you cannot live without them!
Imagine a relationship with good sex and fun minus the drama!
Not for me, I need to have a mental connection to be able to have a physical relationship,
If I just wanted sex with nothing else I might as well visit an escort "
Connection = feelings. |
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Imagine a relationship with good sex and fun minus the drama! "
Isn't that just a healthy relationship? If my relationship was full of drama I'd leave. I'm an adult, I don't do dramatics. Let's just be considerate of each other communicate properly like grown ups.
Though from my experience a lot of people who want "no drama" actually mean "I don't want to have to consider another person. I want to do whatever I want with no consequences". |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Imagine a relationship with good sex and fun minus the drama!
Isn't that just a healthy relationship? If my relationship was full of drama I'd leave. I'm an adult, I don't do dramatics. Let's just be considerate of each other communicate properly like grown ups.
Though from my experience a lot of people who want "no drama" actually mean "I don't want to have to consider another person. I want to do whatever I want with no consequences"."
Are you accusing me of being inconsiderate? Says in a dramatic tone!  |
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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago
mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds |
"How many guys like the idea of having an exclusive NSA relationship with a woman? I find it quite enticing!
We all know when it comes to women, you cannot live with them, you cannot live without them!
Imagine a relationship with good sex and fun minus the drama!
Not for me, I need to have a mental connection to be able to have a physical relationship,
If I just wanted sex with nothing else I might as well visit an escort
Connection = feelings. "
Feelings, emotions and other things as well, its why I said your definition wasn't for me.
Each to their own. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"How many guys like the idea of having an exclusive NSA relationship with a woman? I find it quite enticing!
We all know when it comes to women, you cannot live with them, you cannot live without them!
Imagine a relationship with good sex and fun minus the drama!
Not for me, I need to have a mental connection to be able to have a physical relationship,
If I just wanted sex with nothing else I might as well visit an escort
Connection = feelings.
Feelings, emotions and other things as well, its why I said your definition wasn't for me.
Each to their own. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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Imagine a relationship with good sex and fun minus the drama!
Isn't that just a healthy relationship? If my relationship was full of drama I'd leave. I'm an adult, I don't do dramatics. Let's just be considerate of each other communicate properly like grown ups.
Though from my experience a lot of people who want "no drama" actually mean "I don't want to have to consider another person. I want to do whatever I want with no consequences"."
Yes, exactly this. No one wants drama. If you don't want to have to consider someone or make any effort for then that's fine, there's no obligation but if that's the case why would they want to be exclusive to you and not enjoy other men who will? It's not realistic. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Imagine a relationship with good sex and fun minus the drama!
Isn't that just a healthy relationship? If my relationship was full of drama I'd leave. I'm an adult, I don't do dramatics. Let's just be considerate of each other communicate properly like grown ups.
Though from my experience a lot of people who want "no drama" actually mean "I don't want to have to consider another person. I want to do whatever I want with no consequences".
Are you accusing me of being inconsiderate? Says in a dramatic tone! "
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By (user no longer on site)
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I find a few people want their play partners to be exclusive to them.
Unfortunately however that caveat does not stand for them as they go on to play with others.
As ever honest open communication is the key. Allows for informed choices to be made x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Imagine a relationship with good sex and fun minus the drama!
Isn't that just a healthy relationship? If my relationship was full of drama I'd leave. I'm an adult, I don't do dramatics. Let's just be considerate of each other communicate properly like grown ups.
Though from my experience a lot of people who want "no drama" actually mean "I don't want to have to consider another person. I want to do whatever I want with no consequences"."
This.
If we dont care enough about another for either NSA or a relationship what's the point of a meaningless empty fuck. Try to be human perhaps, with all its complications.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"One man and me... so if this is how you roll you know where I am
Taxi to Plymouth! On my way..
God help Plymouth "
SW and I lived happily after! And I get to be the spiderman. Even though I always wanted to be a superman. I could wear my underwear over my pants then.. |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
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"One man and me... so if this is how you roll you know where I am
Taxi to Plymouth! On my way.. "
Can’t you “fly” through the air and shoot another web. Thus the Spider-Man swing will be a swing followed by a projectile-like motion.
Ill see you in 5 then!!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"One man and me... so if this is how you roll you know where I am
Taxi to Plymouth! On my way..
Can’t you “fly” through the air and shoot another web. Thus the Spider-Man swing will be a swing followed by a projectile-like motion.
Ill see you in 5 then!!!"
I need some one on one training from you to 'fly'. And yeah, you know that I don't do 'right now's. . I need a few mins to warm up my bits and Bobs! |
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