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Why has fab allowed this profile to be created on here. She's not a swinger, media and wrong. Uneasy being viewed by her  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Good question~! |
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Ooooo can I be in the documentary please?
I can do a Ricky Gervais like speech about that shit channel  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why has fab allowed this profile to be created on here. She's not a swinger, media and wrong. Uneasy being viewed by her "
Viewed by who ?
?who is she |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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She looked at our profile and we blocked it straight away x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"She looked at our profile and we blocked it straight away x"
Wow definitely the right profile name guys fuck so hot  |
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Who are you all talking about??? |
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I blocked them when I saw their first post |
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A forum search of the word "Documentary" will bring up details should anyone wish to block the profile in question.Am assuming the profile is allowed as no rules are being broken.
We felt uneasy being viewed and opted to block. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I blocked them when I saw their first post "
Who Chickie? |
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https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/clubs/960608
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/clubs/960608
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Many thanks |
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"I blocked them when I saw their first post
Who Chickie?"
The one I know of listed in Lisa’s post |
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Admin are aware and the profile is fine.
If you don't wish them to view your profile then just block them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Thanks for the heads up. Just broke the cherry on my block list.
No offence to the profile concerned. |
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"Admin are aware and the profile is fine.
If you don't wish them to view your profile then just block them."
That is what I have done |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Admin are aware and the profile is fine.
If you don't wish them to view your profile then just block them."
In your opinion, not in a lot of other people's opinion. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I still cant find the profile |
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By *atonMan
over a year ago
barnet |
She called me and we had a half hour conversation..shes very cute and I was very explicit while she was prim and proper. I was very turned on |
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By *undown40Couple
over a year ago
Warwickshire |
Looked at our profile
We blocked it and reported it to site admin |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I still cant find the profile "
Me neither, i'm intrigued. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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She looks nice. Wouldn't mind a bang on that - but she's not looking for men tho. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Thats a point, can they show our photos on the documentary without permission? As long as they dont show faces? I have quite a unique chest tattoo  |
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"Thats a point, can they show our photos on the documentary without permission? As long as they dont show faces? I have quite a unique chest tattoo "
I would presume they could, as you see profiles from Facebook etc on the news. Would be nice to get clarification from admin though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Admin are aware and the profile is fine.
If you don't wish them to view your profile then just block them.
In your opinion, not in a lot of other people's opinion. "
Agreed, I don't like the feeling im being studied or that my photos might be used on a TV documentary |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thats a point, can they show our photos on the documentary without permission? As long as they dont show faces? I have quite a unique chest tattoo
I would presume they could, as you see profiles from Facebook etc on the news. Would be nice to get clarification from admin though "
I believe they can too, just not identifying features such as your face. Your tattoo would also fall into that category I’d have thought. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No one can use your photos without permission - you can sue if they do so.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thats a point, can they show our photos on the documentary without permission? As long as they dont show faces? I have quite a unique chest tattoo
I would presume they could, as you see profiles from Facebook etc on the news. Would be nice to get clarification from admin though
I believe they can too, just not identifying features such as your face. Your tattoo would also fall into that category I’d have thought."
I'm hiding my pictures till the documentary has aired just in case  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No one can use your photos without permission - you can sue if they do so.
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I'm not so sure, you see pictures on tv all the time with the face pixelated but the rest of the photo is there |
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"I still cant find the profile
Me neither, i'm intrigued."
It’s mentioned in the thread above links to a forum post |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just had a nosy at the profile. She is honest and doesn't seem to be anything sinister going on, however I do understand concerns of folk having pics shown on the documentary. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Can someone PM more details so I can block please  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can someone PM more details so I can block please "
And me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As she's looking for volunteers i don't see a problem. |
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Another thought is can she use the forum content for the documentary? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can someone PM more details so I can block please
And me "
Thanks guys  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can someone PM more details so I can block please
And me
Thanks guys "
Me too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just had a nosy at the profile. She is honest and doesn't seem to be anything sinister going on, however I do understand concerns of folk having pics shown on the documentary."
You just know it's going to be portrayed sleazy with dog masks etc  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can someone PM more details so I can block please
And me
Thanks guys
Me too"
Same please |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Blocked her  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We had a wink from that profile earlier! I'm assuming there must be a team of them to be as far reaching as it seems to be? But, yeah I think it's a block from me..  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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And me |
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By *VxrMan
over a year ago
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"We had a wink from that profile earlier! I'm assuming there must be a team of them to be as far reaching as it seems to be? But, yeah I think it's a block from me.. "
And from me too for the meantime I think |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Inbox us who it is please, many thanks.
Jo.Xx |
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She has one veri from Club, the club has done this kind of documentary before so why can't the promote themselves without involving fab. We're not allowed to name profiles on here as we get blocked by fab, crazy eh. |
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By *undown40Couple
over a year ago
Warwickshire |
Drop us a PM with what club please so we can avoid that particular club |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can someone PM more details so I can block please "
And me please x |
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"Drop us a PM with what club please so we can avoid that particular club"
Can't view your profile |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We saw the profile and blocked it already but we're also planning to hide our profile for a few weeks after the documentary airs, just in case it raises a bit too much interest about the lifestyle and means a lot of people decide to just have a nose about.
We're not that bothered by being on here and seen by people we know in general as mostly if they're here then they're looking for the same stuff, but the thought of possibly having a lot of family/friends/neighbours all come on to take a look at the same time and gossip is a bit much.
Obviously depending on the content of the documentary we may un-hide sooner but we'd rather be safe than sorry. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's easy to find the profile. Type documentary in search of the forums. Theres a thread with no posts, and the OP outlines their intentions on their profile text. Nothing particularly sinister. |
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Feel free to inbox us for more info as can't post on here. We've blocked her obv which surely says no from us |
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By *o_eye_deerMan
over a year ago
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"No one can use your photos without permission - you can sue if they do so.
I'm not so sure, you see pictures on tv all the time with the face pixelated but the rest of the photo is there"
For news purposes it's different, for a commercially made show they'd need to obtain permission from the copyright holder. |
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By *ribsaMan
over a year ago
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Well that should make things interesting for you ladies you say your getting loads off crap messages from desperate guys now and that men out number the women by God knows how many.
Think of all the new guys signing up to site thinking it's instashag after it named on a tv program.  |
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"Admin are aware and the profile is fine.
If you don't wish them to view your profile then just block them.
In your opinion, not in a lot of other people's opinion. "
Why do you insist on questioning my posts?
OK I will put it this way:
As a Forum Mod I am informing those on this thread that Admin are aware and are OK with them being on this site.
Not my opinion. |
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"Admin are aware and the profile is fine.
If you don't wish them to view your profile then just block them.
In your opinion, not in a lot of other people's opinion.
Why do you insist on questioning my posts?
OK I will put it this way:
As a Forum Mod I am informing those on this thread that Admin are aware and are OK with them being on this site.
Not my opinion."
Thanks for the clarification . May I ask what the rules are for documentary users using the site are? |
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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago
Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria |
Oh just had a look, we got a wink a month ago, decided to block now |
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By *undown40Couple
over a year ago
Warwickshire |
"Admin are aware and the profile is fine.
If you don't wish them to view your profile then just block them.
In your opinion, not in a lot of other people's opinion.
Why do you insist on questioning my posts?
OK I will put it this way:
As a Forum Mod I am informing those on this thread that Admin are aware and are OK with them being on this site.
Not my opinion.
Thanks for the clarification . May I ask what the rules are for documentary users using the site are? "
Clearly different from the members on here |
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By *VxrMan
over a year ago
Newton le Willows |
Anyone else imagining this thread itself making the show though, ‘the fab community reacts to the news of our documentary’, or is that just me......... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Admin are aware and the profile is fine.
If you don't wish them to view your profile then just block them.
In your opinion, not in a lot of other people's opinion.
Why do you insist on questioning my posts?
OK I will put it this way:
As a Forum Mod I am informing those on this thread that Admin are aware and are OK with them being on this site.
Not my opinion."
We'd question anything we didn't agree with, just happens it's been a few of your posts recently, don't think it's just us though by reading the comments on here that disagree that they should be allowed to tour and tout paying members with unsolicited messages, nothing personal at all to you  |
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I can't find em, I want to though.
Can anyone help me out? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This was already raised in the forums a few weeks ago. Pretty much the same feeling and responses - lot's of very unhappy people
Personally media/journalism and swinging have never mixed well in the past and can't see it coming off well  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Blocked  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Blocked  |
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By *atonMan
over a year ago
barnet |
Easy with the paranoia guys |
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By *epsonWoman
over a year ago
Biddulph |
"Easy with the paranoia guys"
What paranoia ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm amused. You guys are acting like you've never even thought that this is a public forum! Anyone can view anything you put on here. Anything you display is out there. Never to be recalled.
It's not just fabs little bubble!  |
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Can't block;
The user you tried to view doesn't seem to be on the site any more
Click here to go to the homepage |
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I can't say why as that would compromise my job but the channel 4 thing certainly wouldn't be about education, but purely for titillation instead, but one thing I do know is that they wouldn't "out" anyone on here unless they have signed consent forms x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm amused. You guys are acting like you've never even thought that this is a public forum! Anyone can view anything you put on here. Anything you display is out there. Never to be recalled.
It's not just fabs little bubble! "
Except your profile photo is not displayed publicly. |
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By *undown40Couple
over a year ago
Warwickshire |
Has site admin actually got involved??
All very odd.
Or will the profile reappear under a different guise?
Good job the block button exists |
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By *undown40Couple
over a year ago
Warwickshire |
It seems the profile pic on their original post is still shown along with their name!!!! Normally it is a shadow with user not on site so this is unusual. No post from site either. What are your rules site admin. Would say it was all a bit strange. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It seems the profile pic on their original post is still shown along with their name!!!! Normally it is a shadow with user not on site so this is unusual. No post from site either. What are your rules site admin. Would say it was all a bit strange."
Seems like they’ve put a forum block on user but still on site maybe ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It seems the profile pic on their original post is still shown along with their name!!!! Normally it is a shadow with user not on site so this is unusual. No post from site either. What are your rules site admin. Would say it was all a bit strange.
Seems like they’ve put a forum block on user but still on site maybe ? "
Its the Media they will have a dozen plus profiles up if they are after a story they will get it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its the Media they will have a dozen plus profiles up if they are after a story they will get it. "
Hot story! Some people have sex!! With each other!!
I’d be quite surprised if they didn’t, unless that story about us all being delivered by the stork is true. |
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"Thats a point, can they show our photos on the documentary without permission? As long as they dont show faces? I have quite a unique chest tattoo "
Yes they can have looked into this in the past with someone local took my pics start showing it around as someone he had slept with but happened to show it to a friend who informed us. Contacted police and was told as the pics are in the public domain and we put them there then nothing that can be done. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thats a point, can they show our photos on the documentary without permission? As long as they dont show faces? I have quite a unique chest tattoo
Yes they can have looked into this in the past with someone local took my pics start showing it around as someone he had slept with but happened to show it to a friend who informed us. Contacted police and was told as the pics are in the public domain and we put them there then nothing that can be done."
That'll upset the Sydney University warning displayers  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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They've been quite open about it so that doubt they're gonna fuck anyone over. I guess C4 ethics don't allow them to lie lololol. Still blocked though.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/clubs/960608
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Thank you  |
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"Thats a point, can they show our photos on the documentary without permission? As long as they dont show faces? I have quite a unique chest tattoo "
This is a very good point. Makes me feel slightly uneasy.
We are very open but having face over TV is a little different |
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Lots of unnecessary flapping going on in this thread. It’s funny. Extra points for just posting blocked as well.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lots of unnecessary flapping going on in this thread. It’s funny. Extra points for just posting blocked as well. "
It's as if some feel each member of Fab is heavily vetted or something and have forgotten that this is a public website.
We've gone the opposite way and have signed up to participate, should be fun. |
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By *o_eye_deerMan
over a year ago
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"Thats a point, can they show our photos on the documentary without permission? As long as they dont show faces? I have quite a unique chest tattoo
Yes they can have looked into this in the past with someone local took my pics start showing it around as someone he had slept with but happened to show it to a friend who informed us. Contacted police and was told as the pics are in the public domain and we put them there then nothing that can be done."
That might be the case regarding criminal law - however copyright law is a civil matter and not in the polices remit. A commercial entity i.e. the production company is not permitted to display photos without express permission of the copyright holder.
I did post this earlier  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lots of unnecessary flapping going on in this thread. It’s funny. Extra points for just posting blocked as well.
It's as if some feel each member of Fab is heavily vetted or something and have forgotten that this is a public website.
We've gone the opposite way and have signed up to participate, should be fun."
good point! I think some feel they own part of this site when in reality they have given themselves to this public and free space and have no control over what they post. Once it's out there it's public innit!
Very brave of you! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am going to remove all face pics and full body pics until channel 4 doc finished
in saying that if anyone wants to view me just ask by message
I have blocked the girl doing the show. |
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Quick, let's all put a paragraph of utter nonsense in our profile about it! |
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By *ogNMuseCouple
over a year ago
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"I am going to remove all face pics and full body pics until channel 4 doc finished
in saying that if anyone wants to view me just ask by message
I have blocked the girl doing the show."
O/T
Lovely pair of mals we’ve got one as well great dogs! |
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"Thats a point, can they show our photos on the documentary without permission? "
Why on earth would Channel 4 show a blurry low res pic of your bum hole? They're a professional broadcaster, not some crap youtube channel. |
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Blocked even though I’d only be filmed as the single bloke getting turned away at the door and then shamefacedly having to explain to the camera the reason why......or, I could be the person lurking around in the car park and when the camera crew comes looks shocked and runs away.....or, I could be an offended passer-by who’d been approached for shenanigans by several people in the past hour. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have done a name search but can't find her.
Please could someone PM us so we can block her.
And why on earth haven't admin kicked her off the site? "
Or you could read the thread..? |
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"We have done a name search but can't find her.
Please could someone PM us so we can block her.
And why on earth haven't admin kicked her off the site?
Or you could read the thread..?. "
Yes we just have thank you, hence our comment is now deleted. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fame beckons... just like to say I'm available for any interviews, product endorsements and sex scenes (simulated or otherwise) as long as it doesn't interfere with my strong beliefs as a man of the clergy... Doh  |
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By *undown40Couple
over a year ago
Warwickshire |
Still no comment from site admin
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I’ve blocked too and I’m incredibly surprised that Liberty Elite have got involved in an ‘invite only’ party
It won’t do their reputation any favours that they have opened their doors for public viewing in a channel 4 documentary......
It’s one of only a few clubs across the country that is highly regarded (at present)
I also think admin should have made it clear in a header post that a profile had been set up for purposes of research!! |
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By *undown40Couple
over a year ago
Warwickshire |
That's kind of our point.
Post a status admin don't like and they delet it and don't like some photos etc
But this, speaks volumes as they have not commented at all!!!
That's strange. |
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They have only commented because this post was created. A gross oversight on their part that it wouldn’t go against the grain of the users here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thats a point, can they show our photos on the documentary without permission?
Why on earth would Channel 4 show a blurry low res pic of your bum hole? They're a professional broadcaster, not some crap youtube channel. "
I dont have a bum pic on my profile so not sure what this comment is all about |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thats a point, can they show our photos on the documentary without permission?
Why on earth would Channel 4 show a blurry low res pic of your bum hole? They're a professional broadcaster, not some crap youtube channel.
I dont have a bum pic on my profile so not sure what this comment is all about "
Why don’t you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thats a point, can they show our photos on the documentary without permission?
Why on earth would Channel 4 show a blurry low res pic of your bum hole? They're a professional broadcaster, not some crap youtube channel.
I dont have a bum pic on my profile so not sure what this comment is all about
Why don’t you? "
I dont think it's a very attractive bum hole |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
Forum Mod O o O oo |
"It seems the profile pic on their original post is still shown along with their name!!!! Normally it is a shadow with user not on site so this is unusual. No post from site either. What are your rules site admin. Would say it was all a bit strange."
A forum mod has already answered. Admin have said they are allowed on the site. They won't be able to contact people in mail. If anyone is interested they need to contact the profile. It isn't compulsory to contact them.
I suppose it is better them being upfront rather than a reporter pretending to be a member to dish some dirt. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
Forum Mod O o O oo |
PS the forum is open to non registered people. Anyone can start a profile to check out peoples pics.
If you are worried then maybe set your pics to private |
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By *undown40Couple
over a year ago
Warwickshire |
Stable door and horse spring to mind
Dual standards...
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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Really, who cares? They could have opened a fake profile and done it anyway, at least this way you know the profile to block. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"Stable door and horse spring to mind
Dual standards...
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If that is to me please explain? |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"Really, who cares? They could have opened a fake profile and done it anyway, at least this way you know the profile to block. "
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They messaged us. Its not a hidden profile, it clearly says what it is.
They're just hosting a party at a club for people who want to be featured.
We dont think they should be allowed a profile on here since nothing stops them using peoples photos, not even your little pasted legal section. So yeah, don't add them as a friend.
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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https://www.fabswingers.com/articles/FAQ#rightclick |
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"We dont think they should be allowed a profile on here since nothing stops them using peoples photos, not even your little pasted legal section. So yeah, don't add them as a friend.
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Nothing stops them no, outside of there being no good reason for them to post a random of someone not in the show in the first place. Why would they?! |
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By *undown40Couple
over a year ago
Warwickshire |
Oh touched a nerve
Everyone is missing the point
Site Admin have not commented
It's dual standards |
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Pretty sure site admin have commented a few times on this thread.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Pretty sure site admin have commented a few times on this thread. "
Yep, they're here and reading and commenting alright  |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
Hillside desolate |
"Oh touched a nerve
Everyone is missing the point
Site Admin have not commented
It's dual standards "
A mod has commented and advised what admin stance is. I'm not seeing any double standards,can you explain what you mean? |
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By *undown40Couple
over a year ago
Warwickshire |
Take off your rose coloured specticles and smell the coffee |
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"Why has fab allowed this profile to be created on here. She's not a swinger, media and wrong. Uneasy being viewed by her "
Can't find the profile, have admin closed it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Pretty sure site admin have commented a few times on this thread. "
It's almost like people are only reading the posts they want to read! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I suppose it is better them being upfront rather than a reporter pretending to be a member to dish some dirt. "
Exactly this. They are inevitably far from the only journalist on the site but the only one being upfront |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
Hillside desolate |
"Take off your rose coloured specticles and smell the coffee "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No one can use your photos without permission - you can sue if they do so.
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That is the case in the US but not in the UK as such
Only the person who TOOK the photo can sue them, rather than the subject. Your covered if it's a selfie.
I feel like because my privacy settings say I'm not visible to non members I have shown clear intent to restrict viewing.
I'm not sure how this was impacted by gdpr though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Like its the only person from the media checking out profiles and people on here. Some very naive people on here alas. |
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By *OXO2018Couple
over a year ago
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Hey at least her intentions are clear.
Safe to say she seems to have a type. |
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She's not interested in me.
Totally ignored my emails, just like most.
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We were just honoured with a wink. We have no problems with it but not brave enough to participate  |
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We got a wink today.
Not for us, so blocked... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We got a wink today.
Not for us, so blocked..."
Why on earth would a professional journalist just wink at people?
And not send a grown up message?
How odd |
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"We got a wink today.
Not for us, so blocked...
Why on earth would a professional journalist just wink at people?
And not send a grown up message?
How odd"
I think one of the mods mentioned earlier that the profile is on here at the owners permission but that they were not allowed to send unsolicited messages. Probably why they wink first |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why has fab allowed this profile to be created on here. She's not a swinger, media and wrong. Uneasy being viewed by her "
Who is she? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What is the name of the documentary? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What is the name of the documentary? "
'Sappy does Sunderland'
Its a bit like Debbie does Dallas, only with more pies
And rain |
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"https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/clubs/960608
Many thanks "
Thank now blocked |
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Good advertising for the lifestyle but better to keep just between us as we just going to get influx of complete assholes...
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We are fully aware of this documentary and it’s attempting to ensure the lifestyle is portrayed in a positive light. Unfortunately it’s still frowned upon in many peoples eyes when in reality it’s something that we would love to be able to not be shamed for being involved in.
People with years of experience in the scene who go to clubs and meet other know really how refreshing being in an open swing relationship can be. |
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"Good advertising for the lifestyle but better to keep just between us as we just going to get influx of complete assholes...
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but not up to us unfortunately. |
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"Good advertising for the lifestyle but better to keep just between us as we just going to get influx of complete assholes...
but not up to us unfortunately. "
There are plenty of total assholes on the scene already. I reckon it'd probably have a net benefit if anything. Good on them. |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"We got a wink today.
Not for us, so blocked...
Why on earth would a professional journalist just wink at people?
And not send a grown up message?
How odd
I think one of the mods mentioned earlier that the profile is on here at the owners permission but that they were not allowed to send unsolicited messages. Probably why they wink first "
She does she messaged us to see if we wanted to be in it !! |
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"People with years of experience in the scene who go to clubs and meet other know really how refreshing being in an open swing relationship can be. "
I agree with this, and it is... I’ve never seen a positive documentary though. All have an underlying tone of making us look like silly.
I’m just dreading the influx of ‘instashag’ newbies throwing the word ‘timewaster’ around like its confetti xx |
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"Why has fab allowed this profile to be created on here. She's not a swinger, media and wrong. Uneasy being viewed by her
Who is she? "
I read that like that scene off ‘mean girls’.... “She doesn’t even come here”  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Who is it |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"No one can use your photos without permission - you can sue if they do so.
That is the case in the US but not in the UK as such
Only the person who TOOK the photo can sue them, rather than the subject. Your covered if it's a selfie.
I feel like because my privacy settings say I'm not visible to non members I have shown clear intent to restrict viewing.
I'm not sure how this was impacted by gdpr though "
The taker can sue for loss of revenue as a professional photographer/artist it’s nothing to do with whether it’s a selfie it’s intellectual property protections.
You would have to make a case showing intellectual property exists and calculate losses
Gdpr covers data controllers and processors not your sexy photos
If you chose to put your private pictures on someone else’s computers that are connected to the internet, expect that people will see and use them
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To bloody late when they have shown your profile to 10 million people,some people have to be very discreet due to there employment.
Totally wrong admin should be all over this.
GET IT SORTED. ! |
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Hence why not to add random friends if you've face pics and distinguishing background pics  |
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By *undown40Couple
over a year ago
Warwickshire |
"To bloody late when they have shown your profile to 10 million people,some people have to be very discreet due to there employment.
Totally wrong admin should be all over this.
GET IT SORTED. !" Absolutely, post a status They don't like or a photo and they are over you. |
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"To bloody late when they have shown your profile to 10 million people,some people have to be very discreet due to there employment.
Totally wrong admin should be all over this.
GET IT SORTED. !"
But they OBVIOUSLY OBVIOUSLY wouldn't do this of course. Why would they?? |
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You’re all getting your panties in a knot about someone who is clear in her intentions and honest about what she’s here for?
I’d be far more worried about all the journos here in disguise.
She’s put an invite out for people to be filmed at Liberty Elite for a ‘documentary’. That’s it. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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Absolutely, post a status They don't like or a photo and they are over you. "
To be fair, if you are breaking rules that will happen
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By *undown40Couple
over a year ago
Warwickshire |
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Absolutely, post a status They don't like or a photo and they are over you.
To be fair, if you are breaking rules that will happen
" and The Documentary isn't against the Rules!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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She is pretty fit |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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Absolutely, post a status They don't like or a photo and they are over you.
To be fair, if you are breaking rules that will happen
and The Documentary isn't against the Rules!!!"
No |
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They messaged me the other day and I asked if they were enjoying laughing at the muppets full of misplaced outrage. I couldn't possibly repeat their response. |
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By * and BCouple
over a year ago
Durham |
Channel 4 Monday 24th @ 10pm |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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everyone preparing to go temporarily hidden.  |
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"Channel 4 Monday 24th @ 10pm"
Swinging during lockdown. It must be riveting viewing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Channel 4 Monday 24th @ 10pm
Swinging during lockdown. It must be riveting viewing. "  |
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"Channel 4 Monday 24th @ 10pm
Swinging during lockdown. It must be riveting viewing. "
It was filmed before corona though wasn’t it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Channel 4 Monday 24th @ 10pm
Swinging during lockdown. It must be riveting viewing.
It was filmed before corona though wasn’t it "
Yes In February, invite only to a club |
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"Channel 4 Monday 24th @ 10pm
Swinging during lockdown. It must be riveting viewing.
It was filmed before corona though wasn’t it "
If it was, why would there have been a lockdown?
If it wasn't, how come this thread started well over 7 months ago? |
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"Channel 4 Monday 24th @ 10pm
Swinging during lockdown. It must be riveting viewing.
It was filmed before corona though wasn’t it
If it was, why would there have been a lockdown?
If it wasn't, how come this thread started well over 7 months ago? "
It's just called swingers.
This thread was created in response to them trying to cast it. |
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"Channel 4 Monday 24th @ 10pm
Swinging during lockdown. It must be riveting viewing.
It was filmed before corona though wasn’t it
Yes In February, invite only to a club"
What were they looking at, then? Swinging in general? Is this a follow-up to the dogging documentary we all love to rip the piss out of?
And if it was filmed in February how can it take lockdown into consideration?
So many questions, I know. And who was the masked superhero who came on here asking for willing volunteers anyway? |
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By *VineMan
over a year ago
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This will be interesting to watch.
I wonder if many new people will join the site as a result.
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"This will be interesting to watch.
I wonder if many new people will join the site as a result.
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Honestly, This is the only bit that makes me think ‘ffs man’. As they usually come on, send a few copy and pasters, insult your past meets and moan that we are all timewasters cos we don’t ‘meet now’. Haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Double standards happy to be on fab but not be viewed we don't have anything to hide it's not as though we're are doing something wrong. |
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Can someone message me the user I can’t find it on mobile site x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This will be interesting to watch.
I wonder if many new people will join the site as a result.
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I doubt it - most will watch it to see if it’s as hilarious as that dogging one and then carry on with their lives |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This will be interesting to watch.
I wonder if many new people will join the site as a result.
I doubt it - most will watch it to see if it’s as hilarious as that dogging one and then carry on with their lives "
They're the ones missing out let them carry on with their vanilla lives. |
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"This will be interesting to watch.
I wonder if many new people will join the site as a result.
I doubt it - most will watch it to see if it’s as hilarious as that dogging one and then carry on with their lives "
I tell you what though, and a little unrelated really, my Twitter is quite obvious I’m a swinger with the clubs and businesses and people I follow and interact with. The amount of men I get inboxing me questions about ‘what do you like, where can I do x,Y,Z, how can I get an FFM’ and more.
I think that if people are interested and the documentary answers some of these questions for them they will be here with Bells on xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This will be interesting to watch.
I wonder if many new people will join the site as a result.
I doubt it - most will watch it to see if it’s as hilarious as that dogging one and then carry on with their lives
They're the ones missing out let them carry on with their vanilla lives. "
Not really - if it’s not for them then they are missing nothing. Swingers aren’t some higher evolved form of life and for many they are very happy with that ‘vanilla’ life. |
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over a year ago
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"This will be interesting to watch.
I wonder if many new people will join the site as a result.
I doubt it - most will watch it to see if it’s as hilarious as that dogging one and then carry on with their lives
I tell you what though, and a little unrelated really, my Twitter is quite obvious I’m a swinger with the clubs and businesses and people I follow and interact with. The amount of men I get inboxing me questions about ‘what do you like, where can I do x,Y,Z, how can I get an FFM’ and more.
I think that if people are interested and the documentary answers some of these questions for them they will be here with Bells on xx"
That’s a good point - it might open up that there are more people out there with similar tastes to them and that there is a place to find them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This will be interesting to watch.
I wonder if many new people will join the site as a result.
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I am glad I have newbies blocked from messaging  |
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"This will be interesting to watch.
I wonder if many new people will join the site as a result.
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I think that will depend on how swinging is portrayed. I've yet to see any main stream "documentary" or drama that shows swinging as anything other than a relationship wrecker and a "bad thing". |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This will be interesting to watch.
I wonder if many new people will join the site as a result.
I doubt it - most will watch it to see if it’s as hilarious as that dogging one and then carry on with their lives
They're the ones missing out let them carry on with their vanilla lives.
Not really - if it’s not for them then they are missing nothing. Swingers aren’t some higher evolved form of life and for many they are very happy with that ‘vanilla’ life."
Fair point although until you try you something you don't really know.
We did just that and not looked back. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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I never get the you won't know until you try it idea....if something is off putting to you why would you want to try it.
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