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Good luck invite 3-4times as many you want as you be surprised how many cats kids dogs get run over or sick and need go to hospital not to mention other family members too oh and then there’s the dreamers time wasting fools x |
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"Good luck invite 3-4times as many you want as you be surprised how many cats kids dogs get run over or sick and need go to hospital not to mention other family members too oh and then there’s the dreamers time wasting fools x"
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"Good luck invite 3-4times as many you want as you be surprised how many cats kids dogs get run over or sick and need go to hospital not to mention other family members too oh and then there’s the dreamers time wasting fools x
Thanks for the advice x"
We tried getting 2 guys to turn up in past more than once 1 might arrive lol if lucky most guys are all talk while wanking we suspect |
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Wish I was closer as I do travel and accommodate. Happy to help arrange adhd get a few horny cocks you pick to join mmmm
Hotels usually daytimes. I'd take a day off xx mmmmm
Good luck with your hunt xxxx  |
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Good luck. As one couple already mentioned, it can be difficult to find guys they actually turn up. Most just go quiet before the meet or don't show up on the day.
We agree with inviting way more than what you're actually hoping for. The risk is ending up with more guys than intended (but it's unlikely...) |
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In regards to inviting more. The best thing is it decide on the max number you feel you could handle
I organised a gangbang for a an old FB, we used this rule and invited 10 guys and all 10 showed up. Rare I know but it happens sometimes. |
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I’m lucky coz as a couple I always have Chris to arrange them for me. The advice is right - if you or your partner arranges choose a nice venue -say a hotel suite so there’s space (ensure the guys coming help with cost)
Then invite probably twice the number u want but a number you would have sex with if all turned up (unlikely coz lots of dreamers)
The other options are - greedy girls club night or a guy/group, who arranges gangbangs, with veris to that affect, to arrange for u and you just turn up as arranged and fuck them |
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"Hey guys I am wanting around 6 men for a gangbang… preferably in my age range
I literally have no idea where to start so if you can accommodate please message me. "
Organise it at a club,at least then your guaranteed that there will be genuine people who would be willing to help you out |
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"Hey guys I am wanting around 6 men for a gangbang… preferably in my age range
I literally have no idea where to start so if you can accommodate please message me. "
Good luck sorting this out.
We use a 75% rule.
75% will be timewasters, dreamers, delusional and old fashioned nutters.
We did eventually get a good group of guys but its very, very hard work, unless you can tap into an established group.
We invited all the guys interested to a pub social. If they won't come along to a social there us no chance they will attend a gang bang.
Wish you luck. |
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"Good luck invite 3-4times as many you want as you be surprised how many cats kids dogs get run over or sick and need go to hospital not to mention other family members too oh and then there’s the dreamers time wasting fools x"
It’s so true, and it really takes the energy out of everything when someone flakes.
One guy suggested an idea we’re actually thinking about—taking a deposit so they’re genuinely invested, or booking a venue and having them pay their share. |
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"Good luck invite 3-4times as many you want as you be surprised how many cats kids dogs get run over or sick and need go to hospital not to mention other family members too oh and then there’s the dreamers time wasting fools x
It’s so true, and it really takes the energy out of everything when someone flakes.
One guy suggested an idea we’re actually thinking about—taking a deposit so they’re genuinely invested, or booking a venue and having them pay their share."
A female friend of mine had a small gathering (4 men) at hers, she invited her regular, trusted, reliable friends, and we all turned up and had a great time. This approaches takes time to build up a group of reliable friends and it still needs calendars to align but it does mean that there little to no chance of disappointment.
As for paying a deposit, it could work and I'd consider it but it seems like a lot of extra admin.
I always bring wine and chocolates to a party so if you you where to invite me, not only would I turn up, I'd also bring treats 🍾💝😃 |
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"Good luck invite 3-4times as many you want as you be surprised how many cats kids dogs get run over or sick and need go to hospital not to mention other family members too oh and then there’s the dreamers time wasting fools x
It’s so true, and it really takes the energy out of everything when someone flakes.
One guy suggested an idea we’re actually thinking about—taking a deposit so they’re genuinely invested, or booking a venue and having them pay their share.
A female friend of mine had a small gathering (4 men) at hers, she invited her regular, trusted, reliable friends, and we all turned up and had a great time. This approaches takes time to build up a group of reliable friends and it still needs calendars to align but it does mean that there little to no chance of disappointment.
As for paying a deposit, it could work and I'd consider it but it seems like a lot of extra admin.
I always bring wine and chocolates to a party so if you you where to invite me, not only would I turn up, I'd also bring treats 🍾💝😃"
We completely agree with the admin—this is generally how it goes. Making sure you aren’t inviting the wrong people, finding the men or women who genuinely interest us, confirming dates, and organising group chats all take effort. Even reliable friends sometimes bail.
Asking for a small deposit or a contribution toward venue hire isn’t a big extra step, but it definitely helps keep people committed—especially in group situations, where many can feel nervous, unsure, or intimidated. |
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We booked a hotel in Chester that had quite an influx of public coming in to use the bar, gym etc, so single guys don't stand out from the crowd.
We asked each guy to contribute £30 to cover the cost of large room, snacks, condoms, soft drinks etc.
One guy messaged to ask if we would accept £20. Brilliant....
Don't ever initially name hotel.
We picked a nearby car park and gave our mobile for them to contact when in car park as the big bill board had a mobile phone advert on it. We asked the guys what the large billboard advert was, 2 just hung up as they were probably not there, just dreamers phoning from home.
You really need to cover all bases as lots of complete idiots on this site so need to sort the wheat from the chaff.
But very soon you will have a great group of guys.
Tend to stay clear of guys who have been on over a year with no meet verifications.
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"We booked a hotel in Chester that had quite an influx of public coming in to use the bar, gym etc, so single guys don't stand out from the crowd.
We asked each guy to contribute £30 to cover the cost of large room, snacks, condoms, soft drinks etc.
One guy messaged to ask if we would accept £20. Brilliant....
Don't ever initially name hotel.
We picked a nearby car park and gave our mobile for them to contact when in car park as the big bill board had a mobile phone advert on it. We asked the guys what the large billboard advert was, 2 just hung up as they were probably not there, just dreamers phoning from home.
You really need to cover all bases as lots of complete idiots on this site so need to sort the wheat from the chaff.
But very soon you will have a great group of guys.
Tend to stay clear of guys who have been on over a year with no meet verifications.
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We do the same regarding contribution to cover room and use hotels with public areas - we also book a suite so there’s room for them to relax while I’m having sex with others - which bumps the costs up too as Travelodge a don’t offer this lol. So the cost of arranging it is more expensive. We get the same msgs sometimes asking for discounts or giving sob stories about having no money (£30 won’t buy a tound of drinks in our local lol!) or that they are not paying for sex or that I’m a whore by asking for money lol ! Some even conveniently forget and want to use bank transfer ! Despite being told it’s cash o/a ! Yes they walk amongst us !
The sign is a good idea -will tell Chris about it
They get address etc abt 48 hrs before but have to call when they in car park for room number
You are right once u have that first gangbang and have met some guys you will know if u want sex with them again and if they click as a group. Once you do it’s just a case of putting them on a group contact in your phone and texting when u are wanting the next - and hopefully regular - gangbang
Emma x
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"We booked a hotel in Chester that had quite an influx of public coming in to use the bar, gym etc, so single guys don't stand out from the crowd.
We asked each guy to contribute £30 to cover the cost of large room, snacks, condoms, soft drinks etc.
One guy messaged to ask if we would accept £20. Brilliant....
Don't ever initially name hotel.
We picked a nearby car park and gave our mobile for them to contact when in car park as the big bill board had a mobile phone advert on it. We asked the guys what the large billboard advert was, 2 just hung up as they were probably not there, just dreamers phoning from home.
You really need to cover all bases as lots of complete idiots on this site so need to sort the wheat from the chaff.
But very soon you will have a great group of guys.
Tend to stay clear of guys who have been on over a year with no meet verifications.
We do the same regarding contribution to cover room and use hotels with public areas - we also book a suite so there’s room for them to relax while I’m having sex with others - which bumps the costs up too as Travelodge a don’t offer this lol. So the cost of arranging it is more expensive. We get the same msgs sometimes asking for discounts or giving sob stories about having no money (£30 won’t buy a tound of drinks in our local lol!) or that they are not paying for sex or that I’m a whore by asking for money lol ! Some even conveniently forget and want to use bank transfer ! Despite being told it’s cash o/a ! Yes they walk amongst us !
The sign is a good idea -will tell Chris about it
They get address etc abt 48 hrs before but have to call when they in car park for room number
You are right once u have that first gangbang and have met some guys you will know if u want sex with them again and if they click as a group. Once you do it’s just a case of putting them on a group contact in your phone and texting when u are wanting the next - and hopefully regular - gangbang
Emma x
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We used to give the name of the hotel then ask them to text when outside hotel.
One half wit went to the reception and asked what room Liz and Paul had their meet. They told him he would need our surname.
He phoned us later to say he left his phone at home and hotel reception couldn't give him our room number.
At times stupidity becomes an art form.  |
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"Good luck invite 3-4times as many you want as you be surprised how many cats kids dogs get run over or sick and need go to hospital not to mention other family members too oh and then there’s the dreamers time wasting fools x
It’s so true, and it really takes the energy out of everything when someone flakes.
One guy suggested an idea we’re actually thinking about—taking a deposit so they’re genuinely invested, or booking a venue and having them pay their share.
A female friend of mine had a small gathering (4 men) at hers, she invited her regular, trusted, reliable friends, and we all turned up and had a great time. This approaches takes time to build up a group of reliable friends and it still needs calendars to align but it does mean that there little to no chance of disappointment.
As for paying a deposit, it could work and I'd consider it but it seems like a lot of extra admin.
I always bring wine and chocolates to a party so if you you where to invite me, not only would I turn up, I'd also bring treats 🍾💝😃
We completely agree with the admin—this is generally how it goes. Making sure you aren’t inviting the wrong people, finding the men or women who genuinely interest us, confirming dates, and organising group chats all take effort. Even reliable friends sometimes bail.
Asking for a small deposit or a contribution toward venue hire isn’t a big extra step, but it definitely helps keep people committed—especially in group situations, where many can feel nervous, unsure, or intimidated."
That's a good point, the extra admin one your behalf is a win-win for all, no one wants to turn up to GB where they are the one there (not including the host couple); what value deposit are you thinking of? £20 seems reasonable to me. |
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Thanks for all your helpful advice!!
I have asked a guy whom I trust and have met before if he would help with this as he has experience in this sort of thing.
I will be sure to keep you updated xx |
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Ive been involved in these before like someone said earlier. A social meet in a bar or something first is the best way to get genuine people. Best one i went to we did this then on to a club for the main event  |
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