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By *rsTrellis OP   Woman 31 weeks ago

Cambridge

Hey folks

I'd love to add a bunch of right on, politically correct, leftie, woke folk to my pool of Fab friends.

Make yourselves known and let's flirt.

MrsT

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By (user no longer on site) 31 weeks ago

This is worrying, only the two of us so it seems

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By *its_and_TiramisuCouple 31 weeks ago

North Somerset

I just 'woke' up and I do feel that Nigel is a bit of a thundercunt. 🤷‍♂️

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By *ambertMan 31 weeks ago

Cheltenham

Aloha

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By *ecadentDeviantsCouple 31 weeks ago

North West

Checking in!

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By *r SensualMan 31 weeks ago

London

Stay woke everyday!! ✊🏾✊🏼✊🏽✊🏿

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By *morousCouple8Couple 31 weeks ago

Cumbria

🫶🏻

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By *rsTrellis OP   Woman 31 weeks ago

Cambridge


"This is worrying, only the two of us so it seems "

It's a start!

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By *herryandrumCouple 31 weeks ago

kilmarnock

only takes a seed to start a revolution

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By (user no longer on site) 31 weeks ago

This is great for the block list!

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By *rsTrellis OP   Woman 31 weeks ago

Cambridge


"This is great for the block list! "

You said it, mate. Bye.

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By (user no longer on site) 31 weeks ago

Genuinely happy to see this thread here, lately I’ve been seriously worried about the current direction of travel for attitudes in this country, so it’s nice to know there are more of us compassionate folk around.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman 31 weeks ago

Reading

Here. Green party as they want a wealth tax,

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By *vaRoseWoman 31 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

Morning all

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By *estructionDollyWoman 31 weeks ago

Manchester

🙋🏻‍♀️

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By *rsTrellis OP   Woman 31 weeks ago

Cambridge


"only takes a seed to start a revolution"

I'm in!

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By *vaRoseWoman 31 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork


"This is great for the block list! "

Speak for yourself

This is how I’m finding people to add to my hotlist

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By (user no longer on site) 31 weeks ago

Hope you don’t mind me adding you all to my hotlist!

Empathy for your fellow humans is very sexy

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By *aughty Builder121Man 31 weeks ago

blissful

Guess am not going to find any Nigel or Tommy lovers here?

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By (user no longer on site) 31 weeks ago


"This is great for the block list!

You said it, mate. Bye. "

The tolerant left ladies and gentleman 😂

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By *agic.MMan 31 weeks ago

Kent/London

Wouldn't this be better suited in the politics section? As someone who is centre left politically, and consider myself more a liberal, I'm probably not "leftie" enough for your group, but I always have been and always will be skeptical of people who swing too far on either side of the political spectrum (no matter how well your intentions are)

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By *rsTrellis OP   Woman 31 weeks ago

Cambridge


"This is great for the block list!

Speak for yourself

This is how I’m finding people to add to my hotlist "

Absolutely this!

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By (user no longer on site) 31 weeks ago


"Hope you don’t mind me adding you all to my hotlist!

Empathy for your fellow humans is very sexy"

But the left are the least tolerant and empathetic lot going 😂

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By *estructionDollyWoman 31 weeks ago

Manchester


"Hope you don’t mind me adding you all to my hotlist!

Empathy for your fellow humans is very sexy

But the left are the least tolerant and empathetic lot going 😂"

🎣🥱

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple 31 weeks ago

The bottom of the River Ankh


"This is great for the block list!

You said it, mate. Bye. "

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By *rsTrellis OP   Woman 31 weeks ago

Cambridge


"This is great for the block list!

You said it, mate. Bye.

The tolerant left ladies and gentleman 😂"

I'm not the one looking for threads I'm not interested in and making my little points like a big, brave forum edgelord.

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By (user no longer on site) 31 weeks ago


"This is great for the block list!

You said it, mate. Bye.

The tolerant left ladies and gentleman 😂"

You’re the one who said you’d be blocking people….

And look up the paradox of tolerance… if you tolerate the intolerant, it leads to the destruction of tolerance

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By *ohn 66Man 31 weeks ago

South Birmingham

Hello nice people

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By *enk15Man 31 weeks ago

Evesham

❤️🧡💛💚💙💜

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By *rsTrellis OP   Woman 31 weeks ago

Cambridge


"Wouldn't this be better suited in the politics section? As someone who is centre left politically, and consider myself more a liberal, I'm probably not "leftie" enough for your group, but I always have been and always will be skeptical of people who swing too far on either side of the political spectrum (no matter how well your intentions are)"

I'm looking for left wing people to fuck. I guess that could go in a a few sections here.

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By *host63Man 31 weeks ago

Bedfont Feltham

Thats me

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By (user no longer on site) 31 weeks ago


"This is great for the block list!

You said it, mate. Bye.

The tolerant left ladies and gentleman 😂

You’re the one who said you’d be blocking people….

And look up the paradox of tolerance… if you tolerate the intolerant, it leads to the destruction of tolerance "

So we shouldn't tolerate the woke lot? Got it 😁

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By *idethestormMan 31 weeks ago

northants

Well i certainly do not watch GB news, and i always try to see the bigger picture, but I also think all our politicians are only in it for themselves and those close to them.

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By *ecadentDeviantsCouple 31 weeks ago

North West


"This is great for the block list! "

Arguably you shouldn’t even be here, surely as a Conservative type you shouldn’t be engaging with a swinging site full of liberal types?!

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By (user no longer on site) 31 weeks ago


"Well i certainly do not watch GB news, and i always try to see the bigger picture, but I also think all our politicians are only in it for themselves and those close to them."

This is a very dangerous attitude, and is exactly what the likes of Reform have used to gain traction.

Proclaim all politicians are the same, then portray themselves as different and a legitimate alternative.

Similar to Trumps “clear the swamp”

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By *hristopherd999Man 31 weeks ago

Brentwood

Looking for a new cause to protest about without knowing the facts

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By *r.ZeusMan 31 weeks ago

Basgiath War College

🙋‍♂️

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By *hirleyMan 31 weeks ago

Wine bar

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By *hirleyMan 31 weeks ago

Wine bar


"This is great for the block list!

You said it, mate. Bye.

The tolerant left ladies and gentleman 😂"

Are you not being a hypocrite though as it was you who first announced: "I'm gonna block people for having an opinion that isn’t mine"?

Why don’t you try just finding some common ground with people instead of being tribal?

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By *idethestormMan 31 weeks ago

northants


"Well i certainly do not watch GB news, and i always try to see the bigger picture, but I also think all our politicians are only in it for themselves and those close to them.

This is a very dangerous attitude, and is exactly what the likes of Reform have used to gain traction.

Proclaim all politicians are the same, then portray themselves as different and a legitimate alternative.

Similar to Trumps “clear the swamp”"

Dangerous is the people trying to burn down hotels with immigrants in them

The last thing my attitude is, is dangerous. Not to your liking yeah, but not dangerous.

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By *agic.MMan 31 weeks ago

Kent/London


"This is great for the block list!

Arguably you shouldn’t even be here, surely as a Conservative type you shouldn’t be engaging with a swinging site full of liberal types?!"

I'm sorry to intervene here, but this type of attitude creates division and exclusivity (which does not match a Liberal ideology)...it's like saying fab is only for people like you, and those who are not like you shouldn't engage with the website at all - not very inclusive

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By *ora the explorerWoman 31 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts


"This is great for the block list!

Arguably you shouldn’t even be here, surely as a Conservative type you shouldn’t be engaging with a swinging site full of liberal types?!

I'm sorry to intervene here, but this type of attitude creates division and exclusivity (which does not match a Liberal ideology)...it's like saying fab is only for people like you, and those who are not like you shouldn't engage with the website at all - not very inclusive "

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By *CExeCouple 31 weeks ago

Hong-Kong/Exeter


"Well i certainly do not watch GB news, and i always try to see the bigger picture, but I also think all our politicians are only in it for themselves and those close to them.

This is a very dangerous attitude, and is exactly what the likes of Reform have used to gain traction.

Proclaim all politicians are the same, then portray themselves as different and a legitimate alternative.

Similar to Trumps “clear the swamp”"

Exactly what Corbyn did though isn't it, despite being a prep school educated, white, male, multi millionaire, career politician who grew up in a manor house. Not to mention that despite being 'the face of kinder politics', he was endorsed by the vile Nick Griffin of the BNP in 2017.

Polanski of the Greens (not his real name), used to charge women hundreds of pounds telling them his hipnotherapy (sic) could make their breasts larger until he got caught out in a newspaper sting.....

Caveat Emptor applies to all politicians, regardless of their political flavour.

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By *hirleyMan 31 weeks ago

Wine bar

I don’t really class myself as left or right. I’ve got views that people could probably stick in both. But “left vs right” is too oversimplified. Politics is more like a spectrum, and authority vs liberalism is just as important in defining where your opinion lands.

It's the persistence pf neoliberalism that has created, maintained and is widening the division. People used to be so tolerant regardless of their backgrounds. Now, everything is so polarised as a result of that 'selfish' mindset as I call it, and people feel the need to pick sides rather than fix or even identify the actual problem.

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By *ostindreamsMan 31 weeks ago

London

Replying to this thread just to follow the entertainment

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By *resesse_MelioremCouple 31 weeks ago

Border of London

A desire to improve the world, or an orgy of echo?

Wouldn't the best course of action for the politically charged swinger be to evangelise their ideology to the widest possible audience? It seems a waste to keep the message exclusively amongst like-minded people. Swinging offers such an opportunity for people to see beyond divisions, to find common understanding amidst the prevailing polarisation. To not just preach tolerance, but to live it.

Of course, nobody should feel forced to engage sexually (or verbally) with people to whom they're not attracted, and political leaning can be a point of attraction or repulsion, but it is a pity to see political/ideological elitism at play.

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By *ecadentDeviantsCouple 31 weeks ago

North West


"This is great for the block list!

Arguably you shouldn’t even be here, surely as a Conservative type you shouldn’t be engaging with a swinging site full of liberal types?!

I'm sorry to intervene here, but this type of attitude creates division and exclusivity (which does not match a Liberal ideology)...it's like saying fab is only for people like you, and those who are not like you shouldn't engage with the website at all - not very inclusive "

Yes, I was more pointing out the hypocrisy of traditional right wing views. ‘Family is the cornerstone of society’ & so on.

By being on a site like this, by definition, you aren’t being right wing are you?

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By *easidersCouple 31 weeks ago

Wirral

This was a nice thread until the troll(s) arrived. Good try, OP.

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By *hirleyMan 31 weeks ago

Wine bar


"This is great for the block list!

Arguably you shouldn’t even be here, surely as a Conservative type you shouldn’t be engaging with a swinging site full of liberal types?!

I'm sorry to intervene here, but this type of attitude creates division and exclusivity (which does not match a Liberal ideology)...it's like saying fab is only for people like you, and those who are not like you shouldn't engage with the website at all - not very inclusive "

Well to be honest you both seem a bit misled. I just need to add; a lot of people use “liberal” today as shorthand for socially progressive, left, woke etc. Yet historically liberalism meant something very different.

The term originated from early political language; the Whigs, who developed into the 'Liberal Party' in the 19th century. Their philosophy was rooted in classical liberalism: free markets, individual rights, and limited government... sound familiar to anyone? Nigel farage, Donald Trump?

Very different from how people use “liberal” in everyday talk now (imo this is by design to divide people but I digress)

The main rivals of the whigs were the Tories (later Conservatives), who were traditionally aligned with landowners, the established church, and preserving hierarchy.

So when we argue about “liberals vs conservatives” today, we’re not really talking about the same thing that the words originally meant. Politics has shifted, and the language along with it, but the midset hasn't and this is where the confusion sets in.

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By *hirleyMan 31 weeks ago

Wine bar


"A desire to improve the world, or an orgy of echo?

Wouldn't the best course of action for the politically charged swinger be to evangelise their ideology to the widest possible audience? It seems a waste to keep the message exclusively amongst like-minded people. Swinging offers such an opportunity for people to see beyond divisions, to find common understanding amidst the prevailing polarisation. To not just preach tolerance, but to live it.

Of course, nobody should feel forced to engage sexually (or verbally) with people to whom they're not attracted, and political leaning can be a point of attraction or repulsion, but it is a pity to see political/ideological elitism at play."

But how do you unify people who feel they're backed into a corner over their beliefs?

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By (user no longer on site) 31 weeks ago


"This was a nice thread until the troll(s) arrived. Good try, OP. "

Agreed, shame it got moved to the politics forum too, although I can see why it did

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By *otlovefun42Couple 31 weeks ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

I'm about as woke as Rip van Winkle.

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By *nkn0wn_Err0rMan 31 weeks ago

Balham

Didn’t know there was a politics section and a thread like this in my time here.

Good to see there are some likeminded and decent people out there x

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By (user no longer on site) 31 weeks ago


"This is great for the block list!

Arguably you shouldn’t even be here, surely as a Conservative type you shouldn’t be engaging with a swinging site full of liberal types?!

I'm sorry to intervene here, but this type of attitude creates division and exclusivity (which does not match a Liberal ideology)...it's like saying fab is only for people like you, and those who are not like you shouldn't engage with the website at all - not very inclusive "

And this is exactly why I avoid these kind of people. Many "woke" people just seem to be looking for reasons to exclude.. which goes against what they supposedly stand for. I can't stand hypocrites.

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By *resesse_MelioremCouple 31 weeks ago

Border of London


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And this is exactly why I avoid these kind of people. Many "woke" people just seem to be looking for reasons to exclude.. which goes against what they supposedly stand for. I can't stand hypocrites.

"

"I won't sleep with someone because they believe in X political view"

Very close to: "I won't sleep with someone because they hold X religious view"

Leads to: "I won't sleep with someone because they are from X culture, unless they reject the views of that culture"

Adjacent to/conflates with: "I won't sleep with someone from this background or race"

...all justified by "I am just not attracted to X (politics/culture/religion/race) sexually"

It's all fair enough, really, but it's two sides of the same coin of intolerance.

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By *resesse_MelioremCouple 31 weeks ago

Border of London

To be clear, it's very different to say "I won't sleep with X people on principle", to saying "I really find X people attractive and it gets me going sexually". Even though these look very similar in practice, one is a celebration and the other is exclusion.

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By *ecadentDeviantsCouple 31 weeks ago

North West


"

And this is exactly why I avoid these kind of people. Many "woke" people just seem to be looking for reasons to exclude.. which goes against what they supposedly stand for. I can't stand hypocrites.

"I won't sleep with someone because they believe in X political view"

Very close to: "I won't sleep with someone because they hold X religious view"

Leads to: "I won't sleep with someone because they are from X culture, unless they reject the views of that culture"

Adjacent to/conflates with: "I won't sleep with someone from this background or race"

...all justified by "I am just not attracted to X (politics/culture/religion/race) sexually"

It's all fair enough, really, but it's two sides of the same coin of intolerance."

And of course doesn’t have to be a case of absolutes.

I’d f**k Priti Patel if she’d let me though I don’t like the woman’s politics. Probably wouldn’t choose her as a life partner though.

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By *resesse_MelioremCouple 31 weeks ago

Border of London

Someone who says "I only share my body with people who share my values,", where those values are "woke" is effectively saying "I will never sleep with a Muslim who doesn't renounce (at least some core aspects of) their religion". Which is, of course, an anti-woke position to take.

It's hard to square that circle.

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By *ostindreamsMan 31 weeks ago

London


"Someone who says "I only share my body with people who share my values,", where those values are "woke" is effectively saying "I will never sleep with a Muslim who doesn't renounce (at least some core aspects of) their religion". Which is, of course, an anti-woke position to take.

It's hard to square that circle."

When it comes to political arguments, some people treat religions as equivalent to race in specific circumstances depending on their convenience. Yet, Scientology rarely gets that privilege 🤷‍♂️

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By (user no longer on site) 31 weeks ago

I once read the Guardian (but just the once).

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By *ambertMan 31 weeks ago

Cheltenham


"This is great for the block list! "

Wow, being triggered by a forum thread. How very snowflake of you.

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By *its_and_TiramisuCouple 31 weeks ago

North Somerset


"

And this is exactly why I avoid these kind of people. Many "woke" people just seem to be looking for reasons to exclude.. which goes against what they supposedly stand for. I can't stand hypocrites.

"I won't sleep with someone because they believe in X political view"

Very close to: "I won't sleep with someone because they hold X religious view"

Leads to: "I won't sleep with someone because they are from X culture, unless they reject the views of that culture"

Adjacent to/conflates with: "I won't sleep with someone from this background or race"

...all justified by "I am just not attracted to X (politics/culture/religion/race) sexually"

It's all fair enough, really, but it's two sides of the same coin of intolerance."

Not really.

I know I won't get along with some people because of their political views and beliefs, regardless of aesthetics, physical characteristics or any other visually identifiable trait. That's irrelevant to their ethnicity and religion. If I don't get on with someone then I don't want to fuck them. Simple as that.

As for religion? If that religion has beliefs relating to views I don't like and they're a strict follower, then (aside from the fact they'll be hypocrites for even being a swinger) then again, I'm unlikely to get on with them. Again, that religious belief will be irrelevant to aesthetics, political beliefs and ethnicity.

Then we get to your last point about race/background. Neither is important to me unless they fall into the category of people I won't get on with based on the above.

You're trying to isolate individual aspects - political stance, religion or race/ethnicity.

Life doesn't work like that for most people you'd class as 'liberal', 'left leaning' or 'woke'. We (and yes, I mean 'me' but also plenty of other similarly minded people I know) don't give a monkeys about someone's politics, religion or race, as long as you're a pleasant, respectful, empathetic, open minded person that's not bigoted or hateful, doesn't see themselves as superior to others, doesn't stereotype a group based on the actions of a minority and most importantly, can base their beliefs and views on facts, evidence and reality, rather than BS they read on Facey, what lying politicians and activists tell them and who don't live their lives by 'morals'and 'codes' that are exclusionary rather than inclusive.

It's not intolerant to not tolerate the intolerant. It's no different to not wanting to debate or argue with someone closed minded. It's pointless and a waste of time and effort. 🤷‍♂️

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By *its_and_TiramisuCouple 31 weeks ago

North Somerset


"Someone who says "I only share my body with people who share my values,", where those values are "woke" is effectively saying "I will never sleep with a Muslim who doesn't renounce (at least some core aspects of) their religion". Which is, of course, an anti-woke position to take.

It's hard to square that circle."

Nope.

Anyone who claims to be a true Muslim or Christian who lives their lives according to their religious text would never be on here.

You can be from a Muslim or Christian background of course, and practice no religion. That's different.

But it's like saying 'I don't eat meat because I'm a vegetarian' whilst having a sneaky bacon sandwich every weekend. If your claiming to practice a religion where extra/non marital sex is 'against the rules' and you're here doing just that, then you're just cherry picking which parts of that belief system you want to follow. 🤷‍♂️

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By *agic.MMan 31 weeks ago

Kent/London


"This is great for the block list!

Arguably you shouldn’t even be here, surely as a Conservative type you shouldn’t be engaging with a swinging site full of liberal types?!

I'm sorry to intervene here, but this type of attitude creates division and exclusivity (which does not match a Liberal ideology)...it's like saying fab is only for people like you, and those who are not like you shouldn't engage with the website at all - not very inclusive

Yes, I was more pointing out the hypocrisy of traditional right wing views. ‘Family is the cornerstone of society’ & so on.

By being on a site like this, by definition, you aren’t being right wing are you?"

What does that have to do with the initial comment? Why would you assume someone is right wing or far right, just because they made a sarcastic comment? The majority of people are not far right or far left, they are centrists when it comes to politics or are fluid when it comes to political issues...most people don't see themselves as woke or lefties even though they might hold liberal views. Maybe the person who made the initial comment just thinks it's a bit cringe to call yourself a leftie or woke, or that someone who calls themselves "woke" and wants to be inclusive to other people creates a thread where they are excluding other people...I mean, we don't want to put people in boxes, but here we are putting people in boxes

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By *naswingdressWoman 31 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"This was a nice thread until the troll(s) arrived. Good try, OP. "

Always the way

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By *inky PerkyCouple 31 weeks ago

Narnia


"Hope you don’t mind me adding you all to my hotlist!

Empathy for your fellow humans is very sexy

But the left are the least tolerant and empathetic lot going 😂"

Whine Whine Whine ....blocked

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By *ostindreamsMan 31 weeks ago

London


"Someone who says "I only share my body with people who share my values,", where those values are "woke" is effectively saying "I will never sleep with a Muslim who doesn't renounce (at least some core aspects of) their religion". Which is, of course, an anti-woke position to take.

It's hard to square that circle.

Nope.

Anyone who claims to be a true Muslim or Christian who lives their lives according to their religious text would never be on here.

You can be from a Muslim or Christian background of course, and practice no religion. That's different.

But it's like saying 'I don't eat meat because I'm a vegetarian' whilst having a sneaky bacon sandwich every weekend. If your claiming to practice a religion where extra/non marital sex is 'against the rules' and you're here doing just that, then you're just cherry picking which parts of that belief system you want to follow. 🤷‍♂️"

Are you saying that Muslims who are in fab swingers aren't real Muslims?

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By (user no longer on site) 31 weeks ago


"Someone who says "I only share my body with people who share my values,", where those values are "woke" is effectively saying "I will never sleep with a Muslim who doesn't renounce (at least some core aspects of) their religion". Which is, of course, an anti-woke position to take.

It's hard to square that circle.

Nope.

Anyone who claims to be a true Muslim or Christian who lives their lives according to their religious text would never be on here.

You can be from a Muslim or Christian background of course, and practice no religion. That's different.

But it's like saying 'I don't eat meat because I'm a vegetarian' whilst having a sneaky bacon sandwich every weekend. If your claiming to practice a religion where extra/non marital sex is 'against the rules' and you're here doing just that, then you're just cherry picking which parts of that belief system you want to follow. 🤷‍♂️

Are you saying that Muslims who are in fab swingers aren't real Muslims?"

I'm no scholar of the Quran but I suspect swinging might be Haram.

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By *ostindreamsMan 31 weeks ago

London


"Someone who says "I only share my body with people who share my values,", where those values are "woke" is effectively saying "I will never sleep with a Muslim who doesn't renounce (at least some core aspects of) their religion". Which is, of course, an anti-woke position to take.

It's hard to square that circle.

Nope.

Anyone who claims to be a true Muslim or Christian who lives their lives according to their religious text would never be on here.

You can be from a Muslim or Christian background of course, and practice no religion. That's different.

But it's like saying 'I don't eat meat because I'm a vegetarian' whilst having a sneaky bacon sandwich every weekend. If your claiming to practice a religion where extra/non marital sex is 'against the rules' and you're here doing just that, then you're just cherry picking which parts of that belief system you want to follow. 🤷‍♂️

Are you saying that Muslims who are in fab swingers aren't real Muslims?

I'm no scholar of the Quran but I suspect swinging might be Haram."

That's a fair take. I am not criticising the view itself. But making such blanket statements about Islam is usually frowned upon by the progressive types who are proud of being woke.

If they do agree that it's a fair take, then it must be ok for people to put up "I won't meet/date Muslims" in their dating app profiles. But that's Islamophobia according to the same progressives.

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By *rsTrellis OP   Woman 31 weeks ago

Cambridge

Hey leftie woke folk

It's really nice to have met you all. I'll be browsing your profiles with delight!

MrsT x

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple 31 weeks ago

The bottom of the River Ankh


"I'm about as woke as Rip van Winkle. "

Ice ice baby

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By *ennineTopMan 31 weeks ago

York

It depends on what you are looking for.

Some are looking for a brief almost totally physical encounter. The partner is effectively a sex toy who just happens to come equipped with a brain.

Others are looking for a deeper connection.

Some might be looking for a mix of the two.

Those looking for a deeper connection want a sexual partner who they might be friends with in a non-sexual scenario. So there needs to be a lot more than just pyhsical attraction involved.

For me personally, someone's brain is their most attractive organ. I'm looking for someone with a sexy mind who just happens to have physical sex toy like appendages.

A mind full of right-wing/conservative ideas just isn't sexy to me.

Also mutal trust is essential in my kind of interaction so if there is a large difference in worldview then it's going to be very difficult for trust to develop.. How can you trust someone if they have polar opposite views to you about important subjects?

If someone doesn't have political opinions then things might work out but I'd find them perhaps a little too lacking in intellectual curiosity if they had never thought much about politics.

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By *ecadentDeviantsCouple 31 weeks ago

North West


"This is great for the block list!

Arguably you shouldn’t even be here, surely as a Conservative type you shouldn’t be engaging with a swinging site full of liberal types?!

I'm sorry to intervene here, but this type of attitude creates division and exclusivity (which does not match a Liberal ideology)...it's like saying fab is only for people like you, and those who are not like you shouldn't engage with the website at all - not very inclusive

Yes, I was more pointing out the hypocrisy of traditional right wing views. ‘Family is the cornerstone of society’ & so on.

By being on a site like this, by definition, you aren’t being right wing are you?

What does that have to do with the initial comment? Why would you assume someone is right wing or far right, just because they made a sarcastic comment? The majority of people are not far right or far left, they are centrists when it comes to politics or are fluid when it comes to political issues...most people don't see themselves as woke or lefties even though they might hold liberal views. Maybe the person who made the initial comment just thinks it's a bit cringe to call yourself a leftie or woke, or that someone who calls themselves "woke" and wants to be inclusive to other people creates a thread where they are excluding other people...I mean, we don't want to put people in boxes, but here we are putting people in boxes "

How do you know it was a sarcastic comment?

People can choose whether to f**k someone or not based on having or not having compatible political views, that is a preference they are absolutely entitled to as an individual, whether they be left or right wing. Just the same as any other ‘preference’ you could think of, sexual or non sexual. All that matters is what the two parties (or more, if you are being really kinky) deem to be acceptable to them before they get it on.

Fwiw, I don’t care too much personally on a superficial basis, already pointed out I wouldn’t have a problem foregoing my own political preferences to having a bit of no strings jiggy jiggy with a Tory. I probably wouldn’t hang around for long afterwards though. Ymmv.

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By *resesse_MelioremCouple 31 weeks ago

Border of London


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Life doesn't work like that for most people you'd class as 'liberal', 'left leaning' or 'woke'. We (and yes, I mean 'me' but also plenty of other similarly minded people I know) don't give a monkeys about someone's politics, religion or race, as long as you're a pleasant, respectful, empathetic, open minded person that's not bigoted or hateful, doesn't see themselves as superior to others, doesn't stereotype a group based on the actions of a minority and most importantly, can base their beliefs and views on facts, evidence and reality..."

Perhaps. But the sentiment of the OP is one of exclusion: "I only share my body with people who share my values."

It's not an issue of "pleasant, respectful, empathetic", unless those terms are being defined as "values that I hold", in this case articulated as "leftie/woke".

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By *its_and_TiramisuCouple 31 weeks ago

North Somerset


"Someone who says "I only share my body with people who share my values,", where those values are "woke" is effectively saying "I will never sleep with a Muslim who doesn't renounce (at least some core aspects of) their religion". Which is, of course, an anti-woke position to take.

It's hard to square that circle.

Nope.

Anyone who claims to be a true Muslim or Christian who lives their lives according to their religious text would never be on here.

You can be from a Muslim or Christian background of course, and practice no religion. That's different.

But it's like saying 'I don't eat meat because I'm a vegetarian' whilst having a sneaky bacon sandwich every weekend. If your claiming to practice a religion where extra/non marital sex is 'against the rules' and you're here doing just that, then you're just cherry picking which parts of that belief system you want to follow. 🤷‍♂️

Are you saying that Muslims who are in fab swingers aren't real Muslims?

I'm no scholar of the Quran but I suspect swinging might be Haram.

That's a fair take. I am not criticising the view itself. But making such blanket statements about Islam is usually frowned upon by the progressive types who are proud of being woke.

If they do agree that it's a fair take, then it must be ok for people to put up "I won't meet/date Muslims" in their dating app profiles. But that's Islamophobia according to the same progressives. "

As above. If you're practicing a religion that essentially says swinging, extra/pre marital sex is a big 'no no' then yes, it's hypocritical surely to claim to be a follower of that religion and not adhere to it's 'rules'. That's not me being judgmental. I have the utmost respect for people that have beliefs that they follow. I simply find it odd when people pick and choose which bits apply to them. And let's not specifically link it to Islam. Christianity, Judaism and most regions per se would not approve of swingers.

I disagree with your 'won't date/meet Muslims' comment on dating sites though. Dating/meeting doesn't automatically lead to breaking any of the religious rules you choose to follow. So no. That's not OK.

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By *ostindreamsMan 31 weeks ago

London


"Someone who says "I only share my body with people who share my values,", where those values are "woke" is effectively saying "I will never sleep with a Muslim who doesn't renounce (at least some core aspects of) their religion". Which is, of course, an anti-woke position to take.

It's hard to square that circle.

Nope.

Anyone who claims to be a true Muslim or Christian who lives their lives according to their religious text would never be on here.

You can be from a Muslim or Christian background of course, and practice no religion. That's different.

But it's like saying 'I don't eat meat because I'm a vegetarian' whilst having a sneaky bacon sandwich every weekend. If your claiming to practice a religion where extra/non marital sex is 'against the rules' and you're here doing just that, then you're just cherry picking which parts of that belief system you want to follow. 🤷‍♂️

Are you saying that Muslims who are in fab swingers aren't real Muslims?

I'm no scholar of the Quran but I suspect swinging might be Haram.

That's a fair take. I am not criticising the view itself. But making such blanket statements about Islam is usually frowned upon by the progressive types who are proud of being woke.

If they do agree that it's a fair take, then it must be ok for people to put up "I won't meet/date Muslims" in their dating app profiles. But that's Islamophobia according to the same progressives.

As above. If you're practicing a religion that essentially says swinging, extra/pre marital sex is a big 'no no' then yes, it's hypocritical surely to claim to be a follower of that religion and not adhere to it's 'rules'. That's not me being judgmental. I have the utmost respect for people that have beliefs that they follow. I simply find it odd when people pick and choose which bits apply to them. And let's not specifically link it to Islam. Christianity, Judaism and most regions per se would not approve of swingers.

I disagree with your 'won't date/meet Muslims' comment on dating sites though. Dating/meeting doesn't automatically lead to breaking any of the religious rules you choose to follow. So no. That's not OK. "

Why is it not ok? If someone who likes swinging or likes drinking alcohol puts up in their dating profile that they won't meet Muslims, what's wrong with that? Or maybe, they just don't like anything that Quran says. Why is it wrong for them to say they won't meet Muslims?

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By *rikTheVikingMan 31 weeks ago

Llanelli

vote Reform

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By *inky PerkyCouple 31 weeks ago

Narnia


"vote Reform "
. Ooh, this is like shaking bugs out of a blanket. So satisfying 🤣🤣🤣

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By *aithRestorerMan 31 weeks ago

Bolton

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By *resesse_MelioremCouple 31 weeks ago

Border of London


"How can you trust someone if they have polar opposite views to you about important subjects?

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You seem to be a mature, intelligent and compassionate person. You said that you used to be a Zionist, but are no longer. For many people who identify as woke, that would have been a deal breaker. But you were probably still a mature, intelligent and compassionate person back then, as well.

Perhaps if we step out of our echo chambers and give people on "the other side" a chance, we will not just promote tolerance, but find common ground and have a positive influence on each other.

Once upon a time, this kind of thinking would have been considered "woke".

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By *oobsandbeard69Couple 31 weeks ago

Birmingham

No blue hair but:

Tax wealth, not work

Love is love

Black Lives Matter

Trans rights are human rights

Free Palestine, Congo and Sudan

All this woke talk is getting me going 🥵

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By *ennineTopMan 31 weeks ago

York


"Why is it not ok? If someone who likes swinging or likes drinking alcohol puts up in their dating profile that they won't meet Muslims, what's wrong with that? Or maybe, they just don't like anything that Quran says. Why is it wrong for them to say they won't meet Muslims?"

I guess it's down to concepts like politeness and not wanting to promote stereotyping.

Although at one level you could argue that it's no different to saying that one won't meet men, smokers, anyone over the age of 50 or someone with lots of tattoos, in reality it's a bit more like saying one won't meet Jews.

It might not be entirely rational argument but saying you won't meet Muslims gives the impression of targeting a particular group of people in a way that's simultaneously narrow (in not applying the same standard to other conservative religions) and wide (in implying that all Muslims are the same).

If you said you didn't want to meet anyone would didn't drink or who was overly religious then that would be a polite way to put it without implying that all Muslims don't drink or are overly religious when in fact some do drink and see Islam as more of a cultural identity than something that defines their entire being. In the same way that say Christians may identify as Christian but have varying attitudes to the teachings of their faith.

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By *aithRestorerMan 31 weeks ago

Bolton


"How can you trust someone if they have polar opposite views to you about important subjects?

You seem to be a mature, intelligent and compassionate person. You said that you used to be a Zionist, but are no longer. For many people who identify as woke, that would have been a deal breaker. But you were probably still a mature, intelligent and compassionate person back then, as well.

Perhaps if we step out of our echo chambers and give people on "the other side" a chance, we will not just promote tolerance, but find common ground and have a positive influence on each other.

Once upon a time, this kind of thinking would have been considered "woke"."

Careful now, thats an even handed approach, wouldn't want to be accused of being a centrist now 🤣

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By *ostindreamsMan 31 weeks ago

London

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By *ostindreamsMan 31 weeks ago

London


"

How can you trust someone if they have polar opposite views to you about important subjects?

"

On important subjects, sure. But for most people, politics is not an important subject. In my extended family, I know of some couples who have radically opposite political views but are happy together. One of my aunts intentionally voted for the party opposite to the one that my uncle votes for, just to piss him off. Life for them, is far bigger than politics.

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By *ostindreamsMan 31 weeks ago

London


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It might not be entirely rational argument but saying you won't meet Muslims gives the impression of targeting a particular group of people in a way that's simultaneously narrow (in not applying the same standard to other conservative religions) and wide (in implying that all Muslims are the same).

"

The same argument applies for political views too. There are numerous differences in views among right wingers. Depending on why you do not want to meet right wingers, you can be accused of targeting a group in a way that's simultaneously narrow and wide.

Alternatively, it's also easy to find characteristics which are specific to Islam. If someone doesn't like that, why can't they say they won't meet Muslims. Maybe someone is ok dating a non-drinker who doesn't drink due to their wellbeing goals but aren't willing to date a non-drinker who doesn't drink because of religious reasons. Can that person say in the dating app that they won't date Muslims?


"

If you said you didn't want to meet anyone would didn't drink or who was overly religious then that would be a polite way to put it without implying that all Muslims don't drink or are overly religious when in fact some do drink and see Islam as more of a cultural identity than something that defines their entire being.

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See the above posts. According to the above poster, you can't be a Muslim if you are swinging. Pretty sure the same argument applies for drinking too.

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By *ennineTopMan 31 weeks ago

York


"You seem to be a mature, intelligent and compassionate person. You said that you used to be a Zionist, but are no longer. For many people who identify as woke, that would have been a deal breaker. But you were probably still a mature, intelligent and compassionate person back then, as well.

Perhaps if we step out of our echo chambers and give people on "the other side" a chance, we will not just promote tolerance, but find common ground and have a positive influence on each other.

Once upon a time, this kind of thinking would have been considered "woke"."

Thanks for the kind words. I'm not sure I deserve them.

When I was a young Zionist I didn't have much insight into the opposing position. I was extremely sympathetic to the plight of Jews like many people of my generation but I hadn't given any real consideration for the consequences of the Zionist movement on many people living in Palestine. I was ignorant and it wasn't until I became sickened by the racism of many fellow Zionists against Arabs that I began to be more curious.

You make an excellent argument for open debate. And such dialogue is something I enjoy and seek out as I value having my assumptions challenged.

However, intimate relations (especially in BDSM) aren't the same as having open debate and respect for people with opposing views. Intimate relations are far more personal and the mutual trust element is at the core of it. If a potential partner/playmate sees important concepts in a totally different way to me it would be extremely difficult to form a deep connection.

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By (user no longer on site) 31 weeks ago

Wouldn’t count myself as a leftie or a rightie, but have a thing for basic human decency and supporting others less fortunate.

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By *resesse_MelioremCouple 31 weeks ago

Border of London


"Wouldn’t count myself as a leftie or a rightie, but have a thing for basic human decency and supporting others less fortunate. "

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By *ennineTopMan 31 weeks ago

York


"On important subjects, sure. But for most people, politics is not an important subject. In my extended family, I know of some couples who have radically opposite political views but are happy together. One of my aunts intentionally voted for the party opposite to the one that my uncle votes for, just to piss him off. Life for them, is far bigger than politics."

I know that most people have little interest in politics, but for me it's one of several subjects that I am deeply interested in.

So I have no problem with people not interested in politics but there would be a lack of connection between us.


"The same argument applies for political views too. There are numerous differences in views among right wingers. Depending on why you do not want to meet right wingers, you can be accused of targeting a group in a way that's simultaneously narrow and wide."

I've never come across a "cultural right-winger". Someone who identifies as right-wing does so because they have right-wing beliefs not because they come from a right-wing community.


"Alternatively, it's also easy to find characteristics which are specific to Islam. If someone doesn't like that, why can't they say they won't meet Muslims. Maybe someone is ok dating a non-drinker who doesn't drink due to their wellbeing goals but aren't willing to date a non-drinker who doesn't drink because of religious reasons. Can that person say in the dating app that they won't date Muslims?"

Personally, I don't think there should be any rule against someone saying they won't meet Muslims.


"See the above posts. According to the above poster, you can't be a Muslim if you are swinging. Pretty sure the same argument applies for drinking too."

My guess is that you (and possibly the other poster) have never had a night out on the town with a Muslim friend in Amsterdam!

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By *ostindreamsMan 31 weeks ago

London


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I've never come across a "cultural right-winger". Someone who identifies as right-wing does so because they have right-wing beliefs not because they come from a right-wing community.

"

That's not my point though. "Right wing beliefs" isn't a single set of beliefs. There is a lot of variance in beliefs amongst the right wingers. And there is overlap in their beliefs with centrists or even left wingers.

This is the crux of the issue: Political ideologies and religious ideologies are both belief systems at the end of the day with lots of overlaps and differences. Progressives say that it's ok to say "I won't meet someone following X political ideology" but it's not ok to say the same with religious ideology. This moral framework is self contradictory.

And this is not the only self contradiction problem in their moral framework either. Hence they would rather cancel people like Richard Dawkins, instead of debating with him and having these contradictions exposed. The far right aren't any different in this either.


"

Personally, I don't think there should be any rule against someone saying they won't meet Muslims.

"

Sure there shouldn't be and there are no rules about it. But the progressive types typically consider this behaviour Islamophobia which is what I mentioned in my post you replied to.


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My guess is that you (and possibly the other poster) have never had a night out on the town with a Muslim friend in Amsterdam!"

The other poster made that statement. I was just showing them the implications of that statement. You have to take this with them.

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By *ATINE_SATINEWoman 31 weeks ago

Kilbarrack

I'm here. Anarchist

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By *ennineTopMan 31 weeks ago

York


"That's not my point though. "Right wing beliefs" isn't a single set of beliefs. There is a lot of variance in beliefs amongst the right wingers. And there is overlap in their beliefs with centrists or even left wingers.

This is the crux of the issue: Political ideologies and religious ideologies are both belief systems at the end of the day with lots of overlaps and differences. Progressives say that it's ok to say "I won't meet someone following X political ideology" but it's not ok to say the same with religious ideology. This moral framework is self contradictory.

And this is not the only self contradiction problem in their moral framework either. Hence they would rather cancel people like Richard Dawkins, instead of debating with him and having these contradictions exposed. The far right aren't any different in this either."

I agree that "right-wing" is a simplistic term and that in reality people have complex positions. The left-right dimension being only one of many proposed parametric dimensions.

However when someone identifies as left, centre or right it generally comes with a bunch of associated ideas. I always think of the old French arrangement of the National Assembly as broadly indicative of positions.

So I'm almost certain that I will disagree with multiple positions of someone who describes themselves as on the right.

We've discussed Dawkins before. I personally don't think he has anything interesting to say outside of evolutionary biology but obviously he should be allowed to do his thing.

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By *resesse_MelioremCouple 31 weeks ago

Border of London

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By *resesse_MelioremCouple 31 weeks ago

Border of London


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We've discussed Dawkins before. I personally don't think he has anything interesting to say outside of evolutionary biology but obviously he should be allowed to do his thing."

He's interesting if for no other reason then the invention of the word (and concept) "meme"...

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By *ostindreamsMan 31 weeks ago

London


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However when someone identifies as left, centre or right it generally comes with a bunch of associated ideas.

"

Same applies for religions too. When someone says they follow Christianity, Judaism, Islam, Hinduism, Buddhism, Jainism, Scientology, it comes with a bunch of associated ideas. Why is it ok to say that you won't date someone following a political ideology but not ok to say you won't date someone following a religious ideology?


"

We've discussed Dawkins before. I personally don't think he has anything interesting to say outside of evolutionary biology but obviously he should be allowed to do his thing."

That's your personal opinion, sure. But progressives who cancel him instead of debating him or just ignoring him have no rights calling themselves intellectuals.

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By *ennineTopMan 31 weeks ago

York


"He's interesting if for no other reason then the invention of the word (and concept) "meme"..."

He certainly invented the word, I'm not 100% sure he invented the concept.

Incidentally, I would recommend that everyone should read "The Blind Watchmaker".

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By *ostindreamsMan 31 weeks ago

London


"

We've discussed Dawkins before. I personally don't think he has anything interesting to say outside of evolutionary biology but obviously he should be allowed to do his thing.

He's interesting if for no other reason then the invention of the word (and concept) "meme"..."

The tweet that got him cancelled:

"In 2015, Rachel Dolezal, a white chapter president of NAACP, was vilified for identifying as Black. Some men choose to identify as women, and some women choose to identify as men. You will be vilified if you deny that they literally are what they identify as. Discuss."

He even replied to the tweet clarifying:

"I do not intend to disparage trans people. I see that my academic “Discuss” question has been misconstrued as such and I deplore this. It was also not my intent to ally in any way with Republican bigots in US now exploiting this issue ."

Apparently not good enough for the progressives who already started their witch hunt

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By *resesse_MelioremCouple 31 weeks ago

Border of London


"

Apparently not good enough for the progressives who already started their witch hunt "

So now the religious right AND the progressive left don't like him? Hilarious. He must be doing something right.

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By *ennineTopMan 31 weeks ago

York


"Same applies for religions too. When someone says they follow Christianity, Judaism, Islam, Hinduism, Buddhism, Jainism, Scientology, it comes with a bunch of associated ideas. Why is it ok to say that you won't date someone following a political ideology but not ok to say you won't date someone following a religious ideology?"

I think there's a slight difference between someone saying they are a Muslim and someone saying they follow Islam. In the same way that there's a slight difference between someone saying they are a Christian and someone saying they follow Christianity.

But otherwise you are pushing hard against an open door.

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By *ostindreamsMan 31 weeks ago

London


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Apparently not good enough for the progressives who already started their witch hunt

So now the religious right AND the progressive left don't like him? Hilarious. He must be doing something right."

Yeah that tweet thread was quite fun to read

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By *ostindreamsMan 31 weeks ago

London


"

I think there's a slight difference between someone saying they are a Muslim and someone saying they follow Islam. In the same way that there's a slight difference between someone saying they are a Christian and someone saying they follow Christianity.

But otherwise you are pushing hard against an open door."

Depends really. I have seen people say "I am an atheist. I come from a Hindu family". Many people don't say "I am a Hindu" if they don't follow it.

But even if we work with your assumption, the progressives would still be considered Islamophobia if someone says, "I won't date anyone who follows Islam".

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By *ennineTopMan 31 weeks ago

York


"So now the religious right AND the progressive left don't like him? Hilarious. He must be doing something right."

I suspect you already know that that's called the middle ground or argumentum ad temperantiam fallacy.

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By *its_and_TiramisuCouple 31 weeks ago

North Somerset


"Someone who says "I only share my body with people who share my values,", where those values are "woke" is effectively saying "I will never sleep with a Muslim who doesn't renounce (at least some core aspects of) their religion". Which is, of course, an anti-woke position to take.

It's hard to square that circle.

Nope.

Anyone who claims to be a true Muslim or Christian who lives their lives according to their religious text would never be on here.

You can be from a Muslim or Christian background of course, and practice no religion. That's different.

But it's like saying 'I don't eat meat because I'm a vegetarian' whilst having a sneaky bacon sandwich every weekend. If your claiming to practice a religion where extra/non marital sex is 'against the rules' and you're here doing just that, then you're just cherry picking which parts of that belief system you want to follow. 🤷‍♂️

Are you saying that Muslims who are in fab swingers aren't real Muslims?

I'm no scholar of the Quran but I suspect swinging might be Haram.

That's a fair take. I am not criticising the view itself. But making such blanket statements about Islam is usually frowned upon by the progressive types who are proud of being woke.

If they do agree that it's a fair take, then it must be ok for people to put up "I won't meet/date Muslims" in their dating app profiles. But that's Islamophobia according to the same progressives.

As above. If you're practicing a religion that essentially says swinging, extra/pre marital sex is a big 'no no' then yes, it's hypocritical surely to claim to be a follower of that religion and not adhere to it's 'rules'. That's not me being judgmental. I have the utmost respect for people that have beliefs that they follow. I simply find it odd when people pick and choose which bits apply to them. And let's not specifically link it to Islam. Christianity, Judaism and most regions per se would not approve of swingers.

I disagree with your 'won't date/meet Muslims' comment on dating sites though. Dating/meeting doesn't automatically lead to breaking any of the religious rules you choose to follow. So no. That's not OK.

Why is it not ok? If someone who likes swinging or likes drinking alcohol puts up in their dating profile that they won't meet Muslims, what's wrong with that? Or maybe, they just don't like anything that Quran says. Why is it wrong for them to say they won't meet Muslims?"

Because you could simply put 'won't meet people who drink alcohol or swing'.

Plenty of non muslims don't drink. Plenty of non muslims don't swing.

Why single out muslims unless theres another reason you don't want to meet them? 🤷‍♂️

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By *ennineTopMan 31 weeks ago

York


"Depends really. I have seen people say "I am an atheist. I come from a Hindu family". Many people don't say "I am a Hindu" if they don't follow it.

But even if we work with your assumption, the progressives would still be considered Islamophobia if someone says, "I won't date anyone who follows Islam"."

It's kind of blindingly obvious if you've spent any time with people who call themselves Muslims that they don't all share the same views.

Just like loads of people call themselves Christians but know very little about Christianity and only go to church for weddings and funerals etc. While some Christians are really really keen.

You are assuming that all progressives think the same way. I think some progressives would just conclude that someone who said "I won't date anyone who follows Islam" was a bit of a knob.

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By *ostindreamsMan 31 weeks ago

London


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Because you could simply put 'won't meet people who drink alcohol or swing'.

"

You could also simply put "I won't date people who don't believe trans women should be allowed in women sports" or "I won't date anyone who has a specific views on a specific issue" instead of saying "I won't date right wingers"


"

Plenty of non muslims don't drink. Plenty of non muslims don't swing.

"

Plenty of non-right-wingers don't believe trans women shouldn't be allowed in women's sports.


"

Why single out muslims unless theres another reason you don't want to meet them? 🤷‍♂️"

Why single out right wingers unless theres another reason you don't want to meet them? 🤷‍♂️

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By *ostindreamsMan 31 weeks ago

London


"So now the religious right AND the progressive left don't like him? Hilarious. He must be doing something right.

I suspect you already know that that's called the middle ground or argumentum ad temperantiam fallacy.

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It's not. You either didn't read his tweet clearly or you don't know what this fallacy really means.

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By *uietbloke67Man 31 weeks ago

outside your bedroom window ;-)

Ill go left.

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By *ostindreamsMan 31 weeks ago

London


"

It's kind of blindingly obvious if you've spent any time with people who call themselves Muslims that they don't all share the same views.

Just like loads of people call themselves Christians but know very little about Christianity and only go to church for weddings and funerals etc. While some Christians are really really keen.

"

Just like not all right wingers have the same views, like left wingers. So again, why is it ok to say I won't date someone who follows a political ideology, but not ok to say you won't date someone who follows a religious ideology?


"

You are assuming that all progressives think the same way. I think some progressives would just conclude that someone who said "I won't date anyone who follows Islam" was a bit of a knob.

"

Why is that person a knob? And How many self proclaimed woke people in this thread do you think would admit that it's NOT Islamophobic to post something like that on their dating profile?

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By *resesse_MelioremCouple 31 weeks ago

Border of London


"So now the religious right AND the progressive left don't like him? Hilarious. He must be doing something right.

I suspect you already know that that's called the middle ground or argumentum ad temperantiam fallacy.

"

Or, the more simple explanation... Wry humour.

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By *ools and the brainCouple 31 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.

Sounds like a load of leftie woke nonsense

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By *ennineTopMan 31 weeks ago

York


"Or, the more simple explanation... Wry humour. "

Perhaps I need to shave more often with Occam's Razor.

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By *its_and_TiramisuCouple 31 weeks ago

North Somerset


"

Because you could simply put 'won't meet people who drink alcohol or swing'.

You could also simply put "I won't date people who don't believe trans women should be allowed in women sports" or "I won't date anyone who has a specific views on a specific issue" instead of saying "I won't date right wingers"

Plenty of non muslims don't drink. Plenty of non muslims don't swing.

Plenty of non-right-wingers don't believe trans women shouldn't be allowed in women's sports.

Why single out muslims unless theres another reason you don't want to meet them? 🤷‍♂️

Why single out right wingers unless theres another reason you don't want to meet them? 🤷‍♂️"

Personally I wouldn't put any of those on a dating profile. Or even on here.

No need.

Those that evidence incompatible views either via forum posts, private messages or even face to face in clubs or at socials will lose my interest immediately.

You don't need to put stuff like that on a profile. You know in your own head what you like/don't and what criteria makes someone potentially suitable.

Of course you can write it if you wish. No 'lefty' or 'progressive' will ever complain if you do, because it's useful info for them.

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By *ostindreamsMan 31 weeks ago

London


"

You don't need to put stuff like that on a profile. You know in your own head what you like/don't and what criteria makes someone potentially suitable.

"

The idea is to filter out people who are reaching out to you. If you know that you won't meet people belonging to a certain category, writing it upfront in their profile saves everyone's time.


"

Of course you can write it if you wish. No 'lefty' or 'progressive' will ever complain if you do, because it's useful info for them. "

Exactly! I don't personally judge people by what kind of people they will/won't date/fuck, whether it's religion/political views/nationality/race/height/width or whatever.

I am just pointing out the hypocrisy of people who avoid others based on their political views but criticise others for avoiding people based on religious views. If one is wrong, the other is also wrong.

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By *otwife76Couple 31 weeks ago

Spain

This!

For us the same it’s not exclusionary to have a preference for someone who doesn’t hold views completely contrary to your own which would make the social interaction and attraction awkward or non existent- that’s called a preference and surely something that can be shared openly…

Those making out that is somehow exclusionary are talking out of their butt…it’s your body, your choice and none of that is hateful or intolerant of anyone.


"

And this is exactly why I avoid these kind of people. Many "woke" people just seem to be looking for reasons to exclude.. which goes against what they supposedly stand for. I can't stand hypocrites.

"I won't sleep with someone because they believe in X political view"

Very close to: "I won't sleep with someone because they hold X religious view"

Leads to: "I won't sleep with someone because they are from X culture, unless they reject the views of that culture"

Adjacent to/conflates with: "I won't sleep with someone from this background or race"

...all justified by "I am just not attracted to X (politics/culture/religion/race) sexually"

It's all fair enough, really, but it's two sides of the same coin of intolerance.

Not really.

I know I won't get along with some people because of their political views and beliefs, regardless of aesthetics, physical characteristics or any other visually identifiable trait. That's irrelevant to their ethnicity and religion. If I don't get on with someone then I don't want to fuck them. Simple as that.

As for religion? If that religion has beliefs relating to views I don't like and they're a strict follower, then (aside from the fact they'll be hypocrites for even being a swinger) then again, I'm unlikely to get on with them. Again, that religious belief will be irrelevant to aesthetics, political beliefs and ethnicity.

Then we get to your last point about race/background. Neither is important to me unless they fall into the category of people I won't get on with based on the above.

You're trying to isolate individual aspects - political stance, religion or race/ethnicity.

Life doesn't work like that for most people you'd class as 'liberal', 'left leaning' or 'woke'. We (and yes, I mean 'me' but also plenty of other similarly minded people I know) don't give a monkeys about someone's politics, religion or race, as long as you're a pleasant, respectful, empathetic, open minded person that's not bigoted or hateful, doesn't see themselves as superior to others, doesn't stereotype a group based on the actions of a minority and most importantly, can base their beliefs and views on facts, evidence and reality, rather than BS they read on Facey, what lying politicians and activists tell them and who don't live their lives by 'morals'and 'codes' that are exclusionary rather than inclusive.

It's not intolerant to not tolerate the intolerant. It's no different to not wanting to debate or argue with someone closed minded. It's pointless and a waste of time and effort. 🤷‍♂️"

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By *resesse_MelioremCouple 31 weeks ago

Border of London


"This!

For us the same it’s not exclusionary to have a preference for someone who doesn’t hold views completely contrary to your own which would make the social interaction and attraction awkward or non existent- that’s called a preference and surely something that can be shared openly…

Those making out that is somehow exclusionary are talking out of their butt…it’s your body, your choice and none of that is hateful or intolerant of anyone."

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-57853385

So the people in the above article trying to pressure women to be in relationships against their will are the opposite of woke? Someone ought to tell it to those people.

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By *nnocentsecret66Woman 31 weeks ago

Birmingham


"Genuinely happy to see this thread here, lately I’ve been seriously worried about the current direction of travel for attitudes in this country, so it’s nice to know there are more of us compassionate folk around.

"

lies

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS 31 weeks ago

Chichester


"Hey folks

I'd love to add a bunch of right on, politically correct, leftie, woke folk to my pool of Fab friends.

Make yourselves known and let's flirt.

MrsT

"

Hello

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By *enturnukMan 31 weeks ago

Hastings

Dyed in the wool Leftie here.

Hi everyone, nice to find you all.

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By *ennineTopMan 31 weeks ago

York


"https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-57853385

So the people in the above article trying to pressure women to be in relationships against their will are the opposite of woke? Someone ought to tell it to those people."

The problem is that some people haven't thought enough about the concepts of consent and respect.

In the BDSM world ethics is a HUGE thing. For decades people have been arguing about what is right and wrong and there are still disagreements between various schools of thought, but it's reached a quite sophisticated level because by its very nature BDSM is a bit of an ethical minefield.

In trans discussions online it's often youngish people with strong feelings but not very well-developed ideas trying to shout each other down.

Some people on the pro-trans side don't think enough about consent.

Some people who aren't pro-trans don't think enough about resepect.

Consent is absolutely essential. Non-consenual sex is criminal behaviour and should always be called out. But respect is very important. Many trans people feel under siege never mind under respected. So some trans people and their allies will make statements intended to defend trans people but because it comes from a place of anger and frustration they'll sometimes overstep and talk complete garbage.

In an ideal world people wouldn't be shouting at each other on the internet and there'd be enough patience, space and time for people to discuss their opinions in a civilized fashion and for everyone to find some common ground. Unfortunately social media isn't set up to make this easy.

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By *mberValleyManMan 31 weeks ago

Derby/Notts

Can I join this group?

Progressive, lefty here

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By *ophieslutTV/TS 31 weeks ago
Forum Mod

Central

You'd need to define what you mean by these terms OP

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By *mileyculturebelfastMan 31 weeks ago

belfast


"This is great for the block list!

You said it, mate. Bye.

The tolerant left ladies and gentleman 😂"

Lol. The lefties are the least tolerant cunts out there.

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By *ostInTheSupermarketMan 31 weeks ago

Central


"This is great for the block list!

You said it, mate. Bye.

The tolerant left ladies and gentleman 😂

Lol. The lefties are the least tolerant cunts out there. "

Is calling a group of people cunts ‘tolerance’ then is it?

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By *mileyculturebelfastMan 31 weeks ago

belfast


"This is great for the block list!

You said it, mate. Bye.

The tolerant left ladies and gentleman 😂

Lol. The lefties are the least tolerant cunts out there.

Is calling a group of people cunts ‘tolerance’ then is it?

"

Absolutely not. Im not the one claiming to be tolerant. The hatefilled rats on the left actually believe they are.

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By *aithRestorerMan 31 weeks ago

Bolton


"This is great for the block list!

You said it, mate. Bye.

The tolerant left ladies and gentleman 😂

Lol. The lefties are the least tolerant cunts out there.

Is calling a group of people cunts ‘tolerance’ then is it?

Absolutely not. Im not the one claiming to be tolerant. The hatefilled rats on the left actually believe they are. "

Im not on board with leftists pal, but referring to people as rats is simply counter productive and leads to more division

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By *iseekingbiCouple 31 weeks ago

N ireland and West Midlands


"This is great for the block list!

You said it, mate. Bye. "

We blocked him ages ago

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By *mileyculturebelfastMan 31 weeks ago

belfast


"This is great for the block list!

You said it, mate. Bye.

The tolerant left ladies and gentleman 😂

Lol. The lefties are the least tolerant cunts out there.

Is calling a group of people cunts ‘tolerance’ then is it?

Absolutely not. Im not the one claiming to be tolerant. The hatefilled rats on the left actually believe they are.

Im not on board with leftists pal, but referring to people as rats is simply counter productive and leads to more division"

They're the divisive ones. You disagree about anything with thrm and you're the reincarnation of adolf.

They're so stupid they claim to hate the right but stand up for Islamists who are slightly to the right of mussolini.

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By *he National ThrustMan 31 weeks ago

Out standing in my field, Sussex

Wet liberal lettuce here

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By *naswingdressWoman 31 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

Well, this was predictable

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By *uchessdoeWoman 31 weeks ago

Northampton

I'm very happy to shout that I'm a socialist and I *love* fucking other socialists ❤️

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By *ambertMan 31 weeks ago

Cheltenham


"I'm very happy to shout that I'm a socialist and I *love* fucking other socialists ❤️"

Noted

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By *mileyculturebelfastMan 31 weeks ago

belfast

Can people reply here instead if PMs.

Usual lefties haven't the balls to be open with their abuse.

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By *oonwitch_and_RainbowCouple (FF) 31 weeks ago

Bradford and Stockport


"Hey folks

I'd love to add a bunch of right on, politically correct, leftie, woke folk to my pool of Fab friends.

Make yourselves known and let's flirt.

MrsT

"

Nice to see you again Mrs T 🌈

Rainbow here, left leaning credentials firmly on record in my prior single life as Polly Chromatic 🦜🌈 And thankful to have found someone, my lovely Moonwitch, who is of like mind ❤️

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By *hirleyMan 31 weeks ago

Wine bar

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By *hirleyMan 31 weeks ago

Wine bar


"I'm very happy to shout that I'm a socialist and I *love* fucking other socialists ❤️"

You would get it, ngl.👍🏻

I mean I'd sooner see you 'get it' with the missus though... She's much more "socialist" than me too to be fair 😂

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By *oonwitch_and_RainbowCouple (FF) 31 weeks ago

Bradford and Stockport

Yep, as Rainbow said (but don't call me left leaning babe 🤣), woke as fuck socialist here.

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By *rickie-dickieMan 31 weeks ago

South Durham

Yeah, socialist here. Non flag shaggin' bi chap from the north east.

I just love it when someone starts a conversation with:

"I'm not being racist, but..."

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By (user no longer on site) 31 weeks ago

Oh, our people.

*Looks at thead*

Ok MOST are our people.

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By *lex46TV/TS 31 weeks ago

Near Wells

I’ve never asked anyone I’ve had sex with who they vote and are you left/right wing. Nobody’s asked me.

I’m quite happy to talk politics but I have sex with people I like, what their looks and personality is like. I couldn’t careless about their political opinions.

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By *iltshirefunmaleMan 30 weeks ago

Devizes

Despite once having had a mucky dream about Priti Patel, I'm very pleased to be here!

Sun, sea, sex and socialism!

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By (user no longer on site) 30 weeks ago

I actually stopped posting here a while back because if the reaction i got for my leftist ideals....

Lets see

ACAB

Eat the rich

If buying isn't owning, then piracy isn't theft.

Trans rights are human rights

End the Genocide in Gaza

Starmer currently occupies the same politicsal spot that Thatcher did in the 80s

If We taxed all wealth above £50 million globalky (enough for 50k a month for 80 years) we would have the money to end world hunger, homeless, provide food and clean water to every one, and give the all a "high school" education and free healthcare for 60 years if not permanently.

Yeah I am on the left of the political spectrum

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By *rDiscretionXXXMan 30 weeks ago

Gilfach


"... If buying isn't owning, then piracy isn't theft. ..."

That view is shared by those in the right. Besides, legally, piracy isn't theft, no matter how much the big corporations tell us that it is.

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By *estivalMan 30 weeks ago

borehamwood


"I’ve never asked anyone I’ve had sex with who they vote and are you left/right wing. Nobody’s asked me.

I’m quite happy to talk politics but I have sex with people I like, what their looks and personality is like. I couldn’t careless about their political opinions."

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By *ostindreamsMan 30 weeks ago

London


"... If buying isn't owning, then piracy isn't theft. ...

That view is shared by those in the right. Besides, legally, piracy isn't theft, no matter how much the big corporations tell us that it is. "

The right is split on this topic. The arguments for/against are very similar to those about patent rights. Some say that piracy and lack of patent protection reduces the incentive for people to invest in research or making the product in the first place. The opponents of this view say that's not the case, these people can still make enough money from people who are willing to pay. Some also point to the existence of open source software.

Even the left changes their tune on this topic if you talk about artwork instead of software.

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By *ansfieldmarkMan 30 weeks ago

Mansfield

Yo leftie socialist here. Like to talk politics and thinking deeper about situations. I try to look at stuff from all sides. Everyone is equal.

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By *ysteryman.123Man 30 weeks ago

bilston

Late to the party but yep you guys are my people!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) 30 weeks ago

A Fab get together for Leftist wokesters would be a great idea.

Up to the point when they realise there is an entrance fee and they have to buy their own drinks, and might actually have to have a wash and engage in some physical exercise.

Then they’d be standing outside crying about where the state handouts are, why can’t their conservative neighbours turn up to pay for everything, can they charge it to their government job as expenses etc etc.

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By (user no longer on site) 30 weeks ago


"A Fab get together for Leftist wokesters would be a great idea.

Up to the point when they realise there is an entrance fee and they have to buy their own drinks, and might actually have to have a wash and engage in some physical exercise.

Then they’d be standing outside crying about where the state handouts are, why can’t their conservative neighbours turn up to pay for everything, can they charge it to their government job as expenses etc etc."

Bait used to be believable, now it is just whatever this is.

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By *naswingdressWoman 30 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"A Fab get together for Leftist wokesters would be a great idea.

Up to the point when they realise there is an entrance fee and they have to buy their own drinks, and might actually have to have a wash and engage in some physical exercise.

Then they’d be standing outside crying about where the state handouts are, why can’t their conservative neighbours turn up to pay for everything, can they charge it to their government job as expenses etc etc.

Bait used to be believable, now it is just whatever this is."

Quite.

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By *ambertMan 30 weeks ago

Cheltenham


"A Fab get together for Leftist wokesters would be a great idea.

Up to the point when they realise there is an entrance fee and they have to buy their own drinks, and might actually have to have a wash and engage in some physical exercise.

Then they’d be standing outside crying about where the state handouts are, why can’t their conservative neighbours turn up to pay for everything, can they charge it to their government job as expenses etc etc."

Wewlad, don't cut yourself on all that edge

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By *alandNitaCouple 30 weeks ago

Scunthorpe


"Hey folks

I'd love to add a bunch of right on, politically correct, leftie, woke folk to my pool of Fab friends.

Make yourselves known and let's flirt.

MrsT

"

I'm not generally a fan of labels, but my political views certainly sit to the left hand side of the spectrum.

I'm not really sure what woke means anymore, but I'm happy that I live in a society where people can be who they like, dress how they like, and choose their own labels if they so wish.

I think that the world is worth taking care of, and for all of the creatures that inhabit it... not just ourselves.

I believe in the values of the welfare state, because not everyone is always able to pay their own way all the time... and letting people starve is just not nice.

I think those who have the most should pay the most tax, and that being a billionaire is ridiculous... if you spent £1000 per day, it would take around 2700 YEARS to spend a billion. Although I'm not wealthy, I'm far from poor. I would be happy to pay a little more tax to see less people on the breadline.

I'm proud of my country and have no problems displaying our flag, I've also never met anyone who's offended by it. The country has achieved many great things in the past, and I'm sure that it will return to being the beacon of Justice, fairness, hope, and charity that it has been at many points in history.

I'll let those who like lables choose the ones they think apply to me.

Cal

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By *host63Man 30 weeks ago

Bedfont Feltham

Seeing as people into swinging are generally alternative and open minded arnt wr woke by definition?

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By *its_and_TiramisuCouple 30 weeks ago

North Somerset


"A Fab get together for Leftist wokesters would be a great idea.

Up to the point when they realise there is an entrance fee and they have to buy their own drinks, and might actually have to have a wash and engage in some physical exercise.

Then they’d be standing outside crying about where the state handouts are, why can’t their conservative neighbours turn up to pay for everything, can they charge it to their government job as expenses etc etc."

Tell me you've never been to a swingers club without saying you've never been to one.....🤦🤦😂😂

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By *d4ugirlsMan 30 weeks ago

Green Cove Springs


"This is great for the block list! "

Just what I was thinking!

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By *inky PerkyCouple 30 weeks ago

Narnia

Good thread. In a world where the press has managed to twist any form of compassion into weakness - where being anti fascist now makes you a Bad Person, it's nice to know that the tide of far right populism hasn't swept everyone away.

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By *octor ProdMan 29 weeks ago

Constantly Travelling With Work

A socialist waiting for the call to arms. Was part of the group who went to the Isle of Dogs to close the NF bookshop, I wear a scar from that day with pride

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By (user no longer on site) 28 weeks ago

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By *erlins5Man 28 weeks ago

South Fife

Definitely left of centre here.... Which these days just seems to be any one who just cares about stuff. That used to be normal behaviour, now it makes you a leftie 🤣

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By *G LanaTV/TS 28 weeks ago

Gosport

I don't think I get a lot of choice as a trans woman, who is an advocate and activist for my community. However, even without these reasons I am a decent person with empathy who cares for others so of course I'm part of this group.

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By *oan of DArcCouple 28 weeks ago

Glasgow

Hallelujah!

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By *oan of DArcCouple 28 weeks ago

Glasgow


"Good thread. In a world where the press has managed to twist any form of compassion into weakness - where being anti fascist now makes you a Bad Person, it's nice to know that the tide of far right populism hasn't swept everyone away."

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By *ristol_nicolaTV/TS 27 weeks ago

Milton Keynes

Add me!

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By *ookingFor.....Man 27 weeks ago

Horsham/Crawley

I used to be woke, and then the left went nuts and didn’t know what it stood for anymore.

It should be all about workers’ rights and working people and not about identity politics.

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By *ookingFor.....Man 27 weeks ago

Horsham/Crawley


"This is great for the block list!

Just what I was thinking!"

That’s part of the problem…

If I don’t agree with everything you say, there’s nothing to say at all?

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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago


"I used to be woke, and then the left went nuts and didn’t know what it stood for anymore.

It should be all about workers’ rights and working people and not about identity politics."

A persons identity isn’t politics, it’s who they are

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By *ookingFor.....Man 27 weeks ago

Horsham/Crawley

Well, possibly, but if they’re wearing a t-shirt that says Queers For Palestine or something equally as daft, then I see that as Identity Politics.

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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago


"Well, possibly, but if they’re wearing a t-shirt that says Queers For Palestine or something equally as daft, then I see that as Identity Politics."

Would you say that also applies to people wearing a St George’s Cross, or pro-israel messages, religious iconogrsphy or anti-trans slogans? Or do you just mean in general that people shouldn’t display their views?

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By *ookingFor.....Man 27 weeks ago

Horsham/Crawley

Even allowing for a typo or two, I can’t work out what ‘religious iconogrsphy‘… if you mean wearing a cross or hijab or similar, that’s fine.

England flags have their place… pubs on match day, the front garden if you must.

Being covered in badges and lanyards… that’s fine if you’re self-employed or unemployed/unemployable.

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By *naswingdressWoman 27 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Even allowing for a typo or two, I can’t work out what ‘religious iconogrsphy‘… if you mean wearing a cross or hijab or similar, that’s fine.

England flags have their place… pubs on match day, the front garden if you must.

Being covered in badges and lanyards… that’s fine if you’re self-employed or unemployed/unemployable."

Iconography. It's not desperately difficult.

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple 27 weeks ago

Stoke

Any lefty wokies reading this would you please block us. I definitely thank you in advance, it'll be like my wheelie bin taking itself out to be emptied 👍

Mr F.

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By *ookingFor.....Man 27 weeks ago

Horsham/Crawley


"Even allowing for a typo or two, I can’t work out what ‘religious iconogrsphy‘… if you mean wearing a cross or hijab or similar, that’s fine.

England flags have their place… pubs on match day, the front garden if you must.

Being covered in badges and lanyards… that’s fine if you’re self-employed or unemployed/unemployable.

Iconography. It's not desperately difficult."

That’s a tad passive aggressive, but thanks anyway.

Happy Halloween!

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By *ex MexicoMan 27 weeks ago

North West

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By *ex MexicoMan 27 weeks ago

North West

It's not so much that I de facto won't sleep with people who disagree with my political views.

It's that every single time I encounter someone with what could broadly be called right-wing views, whether those views are literally political as in who they would vote for, or more social as in culture wars etc., they always, ALWAYS turn out to be some combination of thick and mean.

I don't find cruelty or stupidity to be attractive.

So yeah, woke boy over here.

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By *ex MexicoMan 27 weeks ago

North West


"I used to be woke, and then the left went nuts and didn’t know what it stood for anymore.

It should be all about workers’ rights and working people and not about identity politics."

The idea that the left is has dropped its representation of workers in favour of championing the complaints of self-identified minorities is a right-wing tabloid trope that has been around for decades, and it's never been true.

The reason why the left has struggled to gain any positive traction is because very wealthy people and the politicians and newspapers they own have spent generations trying to distract you from their looting of the economy by telling you that the left don't care about you, they only care about trans people, or about Muslims, or about gays, or about... You know, blacks. Or women.

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