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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Been on and off here for roughly 12 years. Been a couple and single. Few name changes over the years.

Suppose my question is.

How to folk find it now compared to previous years. Is it better or harder to find genuine folk

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Had a couple of meets. I’ve changed my mindset on here to keeping my expectations low. That way I’m not disappointed

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By *hemainintainMan over a year ago

govan

Me too since 2009. Was amazing in the early months! I've moved about a bit area wise so seen so many changes and been on as a couple too.

Think there's basically a lot less "swingers" now and a lot of fakes, only fans etc etc....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Been off and on 6-7 years now, I would say it's much easier to meet now but do think the forum, especially the Scottish forum, is very much quieter now than years gone past. Maybe down to Fab and Swinging becoming much more main stream,where as years ago it was a tighter nit community so the social side was much stronger.

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By *heekyguy2Man over a year ago

Local

"Been on and off here for roughly 12 years. Been a couple and single. Few name changes over the years.

Suppose my question is.

How to folk find it now compared to previous years. Is it better or harder to find genuine folk

Same, it's nothing like it was back then unfortunately.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Been on here since 2015, joined with my then partner, and it was great back then. Now, not so much, there's a big difference, it's just not the same anymore x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Shite then,shite now.. but you get the odd person or two that makes it worth bearing.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Been on here since 2015, joined with my then partner, and it was great back then. Now, not so much, there's a big difference, it's just not the same anymore x"

Pretty much the same as me on fab!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Been on and off here for roughly 12 years. Been a couple and single. Few name changes over the years.

Suppose my question is.

How to folk find it now compared to previous years. Is it better or harder to find genuine folk

"
What's your thoughts op?

The site is the exact same its the people on that are different

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By *ocalfun888Man over a year ago

Angus DD8 Areas

Years ago I was out socialising at least 3 nights a week with lovely ladies and couples from here....party invited at weekends, organised social events locally and lots of kinky hot fun . The dynamic of people has now changed in that there are too many dreamers, fake profiles and fantasists, no shows, delete profiles on day of arranged meets nowadays, which has caused a lot of these fun people to give up and leave fab..

Hopefully now the world is reopening again, the fun days of Fab shall return

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Been on and off here for roughly 12 years. Been a couple and single. Few name changes over the years.

Suppose my question is.

How to folk find it now compared to previous years. Is it better or harder to find genuine folk

What's your thoughts op?

The site is the exact same its the people on that are different

Seems similiar see a few folk(including your lovely self) i recognise. Just seems a bit less cliquey

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Been on and off here for roughly 12 years. Been a couple and single. Few name changes over the years.

Suppose my question is.

How to folk find it now compared to previous years. Is it better or harder to find genuine folk

What's your thoughts op?

The site is the exact same its the people on that are different

Seems similiar see a few folk(including your lovely self) i recognise. Just seems a bit less cliquey

"
I think there are still groups of friends that get the cliquey tab put on them for simply being friends lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have been on and off for over 10 years in different guises and I believe it's just luck. You meet people who you get on with and have a good spell and then it goes quiet or you have a few disappointments. The pandemic has obviously had a huge impact.

I have been disgusted by the bile on the forum. Some people use it for their political rants, even though there is a political forum they still use the Scottish one to pour their bitterness. But other than that always keep in mind that this is for a relief from life so if it is not fun then it's time to go.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Been on and off here for roughly 12 years. Been a couple and single. Few name changes over the years.

Suppose my question is.

How to folk find it now compared to previous years. Is it better or harder to find genuine folk

What's your thoughts op?

The site is the exact same its the people on that are different

Seems similiar see a few folk(including your lovely self) i recognise. Just seems a bit less cliquey

I think there are still groups of friends that get the cliquey tab put on them for simply being friends lol"

This is so true. Got tarred with it few years back. But all for fun x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Been on and off since 2008 met some amazing people might some right assholes too

but for the most part the friends I’ve made and the social side of fab is why I stay, when I joined fab I’d split feom a long term abusive relationship and needed to find myself and be more confident sexually more than anything and fab was perfect place to explore and everyone knew exactly where they stood, on pof it’s all mixed messages and had a few guys think they were in a relationship where I’d said at the time I just wanted it casual and I was the asshole apparently ! So a friend pointed me in the fab direction and it was just what was needed at the time, I prefer to be in a monogamous relationship it’s just personal choice for me, but when I’m single I know if I want to dip my toes in the water then fab is the easiest way to do that without anyone getting mixed messages

my fab friends I’ve found to be a lot more open, understanding and supportive about so many things that my vanilla friends just want to brush away and not talk about. If it wasn’t for the social side of fab I defo wouldn’t be back on the site tbh cause let’s face it the dating apps nowadays are far easier to get laid on that here

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By *aptain BrubakerMan over a year ago

Glasgow

I only found the Scottish forum yesterday, everyone seems genuine and supportive!

I think what's changed over the years is people can now set up profiles on a whim before they really decide they want to do it. Also, some try and get to know someone over text or judge them on a photo. Back in the day, you'd go and meet them before you decided anything, you'd commit more.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have been on and off fab since 2013 in the past I was on behind my ex wife's back this time I am on as single so not sure if fab has changed or its just me that has

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

11 years this year found everything to be good up till last year I think with fab going in to the news high profile and lockdown it brung in a lot off people harder to tell who’s genuine and who’s just playing at keyboard wanking

Also cam vers and such just got hand out left and right and fake vers

You know profile 3-4 weeks old meet 6 woman

Profile has 0 context and all cock pics

Start following the ver trail and leads to profile hiden and such

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

" judge them on a photo. Back in the day, you'd go and meet them before you decided anything, you'd commit more. "
Im one who judges on a photo & the simple reason is my time to meet is limited so I'd rather spend that time with someone I'm physically attracted to that meeting with someone who I potentially might or might not be

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I too have been on and off for over ten years.

I often get bored with being on here. Too many fakes.

The site could be better ran and I feel the site itself is behind in times.

So much could be done to make it safer and better

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I too have been on and off for over ten years.

I often get bored with being on here. Too many fakes.

The site could be better ran and I feel the site itself is behind in times.

So much could be done to make it safer and better

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's definitely not as good as it used to be. The website needs an overhaul and modernized.

Covid probably hasn't helped so hopefully now things are opened up again people can start having social events and get a bit of community going.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's definitely not as good as it used to be. The website needs an overhaul and modernized.

How would that facilitate you getting more sex?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's definitely not as good as it used to be. The website needs an overhaul and modernized.

How would that facilitate you getting more sex?"

It would attract more members

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's definitely not as good as it used to be. The website needs an overhaul and modernized.

How would that facilitate you getting more sex?

It would attract more members "

Not sure it would there are lots of other modern looking sites and non have the membership of fab

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's definitely not as good as it used to be. The website needs an overhaul and modernized.

How would that facilitate you getting more sex?

It would attract more members "

They might not want to have sex with you either

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By *ertiebassettMan over a year ago

Greenock The Tail Of Bank

I have just come on here, finding my feet, don't really know how I got here.Maybe I was clicking my ruby slippers?..Made a few friends I think? Even from my untrained eye that familiar profiles, areas of country even down to name with slight changes look sus.

Just a new guy watching from the curtains

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's definitely not as good as it used to be. The website needs an overhaul and modernized.

How would that facilitate you getting more sex?

It would attract more members

They might not want to have sex with you either "

Either way, would still bring more people into the site and therefore more chance of meeting someone you connect with

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's definitely not as good as it used to be. The website needs an overhaul and modernized.

How would that facilitate you getting more sex?

It would attract more members

They might not want to have sex with you either

Either way, would still bring more people into the site and therefore more chance of meeting someone you connect with

You'd also be competing with more men

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have been om & off for approx 12 years also. Albeit mostly as part of a cpl. Being a single I’d say I am much more cautious. I think the site on the whole is good. Being free helps, I think you get out what you put in x

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By *macunninglinguistMan over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

"It's definitely not as good as it used to be. The website needs an overhaul and modernized.

How would that facilitate you getting more sex?

It would attract more members

They might not want to have sex with you either

Either way, would still bring more people into the site and therefore more chance of meeting someone you connect with

You'd also be competing with more men

But those men would be materialistic - wowed by the razzamatazz of the modern, sparkly site, and completely unaware, as yet, about the whole cock pic rules and stuff. That's precisely when us gentlemen, in touch with our feminine side, would pounce and pump all the newbie burds.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's definitely not as good as it used to be. The website needs an overhaul and modernized.

How would that facilitate you getting more sex?

It would attract more members

They might not want to have sex with you either

Either way, would still bring more people into the site and therefore more chance of meeting someone you connect with

You'd also be competing with more men

It's not a competition for me. I'm just myself and if someone is interested then cool, if not then oh well

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By *UNKIEMan over a year ago

south east

"Been on and off here for roughly 12 years. Been a couple and single. Few name changes over the years.

Suppose my question is.

How to folk find it now compared to previous years. Is it better or harder to find genuine folk

Been here almost from the start of fab and yes as with everything in life it has changed somewhat however the biggest change is probably me and how I use the site now compared to all those years ago .. but what I would say over the years I have found it no harder or easier to get meets in saying that I have hit the big 50 so I may be more limited to who I can message and meet lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Been on and off here for roughly 12 years. Been a couple and single. Few name changes over the years.

Suppose my question is.

How to folk find it now compared to previous years. Is it better or harder to find genuine folk

Been on here for about 15 years. Nothing like what it was & more difficult to get a genuine meet.

Perhaps it’s because I’m 15 years older lol

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By *cottishMrsWoman over a year ago

Wishaw

I've only been on Fab for about three years, but even in that time, I feel like it's become a lot more mainstream. I talk to people, who aren't swingers, have never been on the scene; but they were bored of 'traditional' dating sites. Which is fair enough, but it doesn't suit my needs. I can often tell when they're not a swinger as they'll usually proposition me, while simultaneously offending my husband, ie "So, you need a real man to fuck you then?" Swingers know not to do that, it's disrespectful xx

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By *iewMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Angus & Findhorn

The site and the people are the same, I am different. I look at it through an altered lens and that came with experiences that I have had on here... Many, many great fun and some, not so much. I own it all. I made errors of judgement but learned from them.

I think of Fab as walking into a pub, some I would have a drink with, some I certainly would not and some would make me walk to a different pub

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By *andsCouple over a year ago

Edin

"The site and the people are the same, I am different. I look at it through an altered lens and that came with experiences that I have had on here... Many, many great fun and some, not so much. I own it all. I made errors of judgement but learned from them.

I think of Fab as walking into a pub, some I would have a drink with, some I certainly would not and some would make me walk to a different pub

View my lovely friend the funniest thing you have ever said to me and I actually laugh about it to this day is when you said you would like to “chap a certain persons fingers in a letterbox”

…. the good old days eh hahaha xx

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

I think of Fab as walking into a pub, some I would have a drink with, some I certainly would not and some would make me walk to a different pub

View my lovely friend the funniest thing you have ever said to me and I actually laugh about it to this day is when you said you would like to “chap a certain persons fingers in a letterbox”

…. the good old days eh hahaha xx"

Did I

today after much counselling, anger management courses, heavy medication I am a changed man...

hope you are both fabby dabby dooo

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By *andsCouple over a year ago

Edin

I think of Fab as walking into a pub, some I would have a drink with, some I certainly would not and some would make me walk to a different pub

View my lovely friend the funniest thing you have ever said to me and I actually laugh about it to this day is when you said you would like to “chap a certain persons fingers in a letterbox”

…. the good old days eh hahaha xx

Did I

today after much counselling, anger management courses, heavy medication I am a changed man...

hope you are both fabby dabby dooo

Never change ! We are both living the dream xx

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By *ornyfuckers66Couple over a year ago

fife

It’s not getting better that’s for sure. Too many fake profiles Too little attention to profiles Can’t travel and can’t accommodate ! Just do webcam and won’t meet smokers Last minute let downs Also our understanding of swinging was to swap partners so why are singles permitted

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It’s not getting better that’s for sure. Too many fake profiles Too little attention to profiles Can’t travel and can’t accommodate ! Just do webcam and won’t meet smokers Last minute let downs Also our understanding of swinging was to swap partners so why are singles permitted "

Because we're allowed to have sex too

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By *ornyfuckers66Couple over a year ago

fife

Because we're allowed to have sex too "

Plenty fish

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Because we're allowed to have sex too "

spot on

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Because we're allowed to have sex too

Plenty fish "

Well if you feel that way about singles being on Fab then is it not a contradiction that you look to meet single females ??

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By *ornyfuckers66Couple over a year ago

fife

Because we're allowed to have sex too

Plenty fish

Well if you feel that way about singles being on Fab then is it not a contradiction that you look to meet single females ??"

Really ?

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By *ornyfuckers66Couple over a year ago

fife

Definition of swinging is to swap sexual partners. Too many on here have nothing to swap ! Tirade from singles anticipated

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By *ertiebassettMan over a year ago

Greenock The Tail Of Bank

"Definition of swinging is to swap sexual partners. Too many on here have nothing to swap ! Tirade from singles anticipated "

New here as you have guessed, then FAB will have to be restricted to a couples only platform, no tirade we where all single once,surely by coming to these sites then u develop in to becoming couples...didn't see any adds when people where going to clubs in the early days of the internet " Wanted Female to have sex with but with extras sex with other couples " Mum can u sign me up for that?....get the bandages someone

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By *ornyfuckers66Couple over a year ago

fife

"Definition of swinging is to swap sexual partners. Too many on here have nothing to swap ! Tirade from singles anticipated

Some people don’t know the difference between were and where and Start Every Word With A Capital ! what’s that about ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Definition of swinging is to swap sexual partners. Too many on here have nothing to swap ! Tirade from singles anticipated

Some people don’t know the difference between were and where and Start Every Word With A Capital ! what’s that about ? "

But single folks are still able to look for sex on here

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By *andsCouple over a year ago

Edin

[Removed by poster at 19/08/21 21:07:57]

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By *andsCouple over a year ago

Edin

"Definition of swinging is to swap sexual partners. Too many on here have nothing to swap ! Tirade from singles anticipated

Some people don’t know the difference between were and where and Start Every Word With A Capital ! what’s that about ? "

Before people criticise others I always advise their own houses are in order!

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By *iss DampnessWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

Been on and off the site for about ten years have had my ups and downs, have met some great people. Like real life sadly there’s a few numpties but amongst them some diamonds. Here’s to the next ten years xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have been om & off for approx 12 years also. Albeit mostly as part of a cpl. Being a single I’d say I am much more cautious. I think the site on the whole is good. Being free helps, I think you get out what you put in x "

I could say many things but in short… this

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Because unlike couples we would rather have the choice of the men or women we want to have sex with be it one or 10 . So whats your problem with singles ????

Dont they want to join you ? Or just the fact most single fems aint bi but straight . Not every lass wants to fuck anothers man . Or anothers wife . We would rather have the options the same as you .

After all its a swinging site not a couples only site

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By *ertiebassettMan over a year ago

Greenock The Tail Of Bank

"Definition of swinging is to swap sexual partners. Too many on here have nothing to swap ! Tirade from singles anticipated

Some people don’t know the difference between were and where and Start Every Word With A Capital ! what’s that about ? "
goes

Didn't realise this was a forum that is for elitists in the English literature society, but if so "I'm so sorrrrrry" will try and get my grammar sorted & observe one's use of the correct word "Sir"or"Miss".I appreciate if you wish to correct persons on forums maybe DM them instead of "Keyboard Gangstering" openly,it shows your flawed personality more than the respondents.I am not offended but maybe stick to the topic instead of nipping at the edges of people's polite _iews.

As I stated in my opening sentence that I am new here and maybe maybe cut people slack...end...lesson learned, waiting to be blocked or sin binned...ps noticed that predictive text is working overtime and if in the future raise my head from under the stone I came forth from will get my minnon of a copy editor to proof my simple _iews!... " Jesus,Mary & the wee donkey"...checking...yip..yip..capitals...yip

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By *ola cubesMan over a year ago

coatbridge

Keep it simple..... Pile of steaming shit

There will/was always folk you get/got on well with and those you didn't/won't get on with.

The difference between then and now imo is there is a far larger percentage of self centred pc socialite fuckwits about now than there was in the past and to many who accept it as the norm and allow the madness to set in.

The cliques are alive and well in fabland they are just more sleek it in how they practice it now.

I await the anticipated "well why you here" comment to throw it a blank

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By *ertiebassettMan over a year ago

Greenock The Tail Of Bank

Seriously! have a jab then block...Dooh...forgot it's not the place that adheres to the "Marquess of Queensberry rules" anyway will soon be playtime,have a play in the sand pit.. "Maybe I should blow my nose before looking down on that dreadful Bertiebassett boy"...am out of here, enjoy yourself you bunch of kiddies....play nice!..

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By *andsCouple over a year ago

Edin

"Keep it simple..... Pile of steaming shit

There will/was always folk you get/got on well with and those you didn't/won't get on with.

The cliques are alive and well in fabland they are just more sleek it in how they practice it now.

I await the anticipated "well why you here" comment to throw it a blank

Kola … well why are you here?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Keep it simple..... Pile of steaming shit

There will/was always folk you get/got on well with and those you didn't/won't get on with.

The cliques are alive and well in fabland they are just more sleek it in how they practice it now.

I await the anticipated "well why you here" comment to throw it a blank

Kola … well why are you here?

He loves it really

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By *4Fun11Woman over a year ago

Glasgow

I think it’s more of a cockfest tbh

Instashag hasn’t got a look in.

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By *ookie69Man over a year ago

Whistle Dixie

Feck!!

I joined many moons ago when there were merely 400 people on the site,so it's certainly changed. I've seen many people come and go. Some good, some not so.

I've gained experience in that time by the people I've met and chatted too whether that's been good or bad.

My main objective in joining Fab in the early days was too throw around some light- hearted banter. I just got lucky sometimes.

I think Fab has changed but I've changed too.

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By *aptain BrubakerMan over a year ago

Glasgow

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By *uietbloke67Man over a year ago

outside your bedroom window ;-)

I think of Fab as walking into a pub, some I would have a drink with, some I certainly would not and some would make me walk to a different pub

Always been the way I look at it, this is a very large cross section of life. In any pub, club or cafe. Some you fancy, some make you laugh, some you wouldnt piss on if on fire and some that just are good friends.

The site hasn't changed one Iowta in years either in the individual using it or what individuals expect from it.

I like it, but the person above does have a point, it could do with a bit of investment in technology.

My 1p worth

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By *ola cubesMan over a year ago

coatbridge

Whistles innocently with cotton buds in ears

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Whistles innocently with cotton buds in ears

INNOCENTLY... aye RIGHT

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think fab is what it is and indeed what it has always been as are the people who frequent it.

Some have extraordinarily unreasonable expectations of it. Have a laugh for gawd's sake and if anything else good occurs of a kind that you're interested in, well that's a result. Isn't it?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think fab is what it is and indeed what it has always been as are the people who frequent it.

Some have extraordinarily unreasonable expectations of it. Have a laugh for gawd's sake and if anything else good occurs of a kind that you're interested in, well that's a result. Isn't it?

Well said, good stuff only

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"I think fab is what it is and indeed what it has always been as are the people who frequent it.

Some have extraordinarily unreasonable expectations of it. Have a laugh for gawd's sake and if anything else good occurs of a kind that you're interested in, well that's a result. Isn't it?

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By *usicmaidWoman over a year ago

fabbington

Been on and off fab just over 10 years, been part of a couple and like now a single female. I’ve made some amazing friends who i’ll remain friends with if I was to leave fab, met some lovely and entertaining people and some down right nasty ones too. Such is life tho! The one big difference is the amount of socials and house parties, there was always a few different ones every week or maybe being older, more cautious I just don’t get invited to them lol

But maybe now that we are out of lockdown people will look to socialise or have house parties where a bubble is formed until everyone does feel that little bit safer about going out and meeting.

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By *arroness NikkiWoman over a year ago

Glasgow

The site is what it is, and yeah in my opinion its maybe not as good as I remember it, people/couples seem less open to even chatting….it’s became a budget hook up site sadly.

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By *haifuarMan over a year ago

Dumbarton

"It would attract more members "

It's a sausage fest as it is...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Because we're allowed to have sex too

Plenty fish

Well if you feel that way about singles being on Fab then is it not a contradiction that you look to meet single females ??

Really ? "

Because we are more in demand from couples . Some want a bi fem , some want mff straight . Some wanna watch their wife with a fem . So on and so on.

You see thats swinging . Doing what you want with whom you want . Be it couples singles or adding a few to the mix.

Swinging is about opening your body up to what your mind is thinking about . Doing it and enjoying it.

Singles could say the same about couples . Im not interested in meeting couples now . I did but man the jealousy was beyond a joke .

So now i look for single males be it a bi or straight fmm mmf .

Swinging is to explore your fantasy . So thats why singles are here . If you dont like it there are plenty of couple sites to be on.

Ive been here from day 1 . So thats a good few years . Chat had 1 cam . Was a great laugh . Weekends partying . House parties .

Social nights were 4 maybe 5 a year . The excitement the week before brought everyone closer in chat . Wondering what new delights were on the horizon . New friends . Lots of laughs sex and a great new outlook on your sexual self .

Now its socials every week so nothing to get excited about .

Chat gets too much bitching forums well much the same .

But its how you choose to work the site that counts.

Find what you want . Go for it and respect that others have different needs and respect that choice .

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By *idden Gem69Woman over a year ago

north lanarkshire

Ive been on and off roughly 13 years and feel its me whos changed, heard enough of the one liners and shit messages that i dont even look to meet anymore

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Same as the above ...I very rarely meet now..too much bullshit and fetishism on here at the moment.

Still looking for normal

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By *lexanderSupertrampMan over a year ago

Gourock

I haven't been on here that long but I think fab offers a bit more than the other run of the mill sites I've used in the past. Time will tell I suppose if my opinion changes after a while