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Arranged to meet a couple at the last minute and we arranged to meet in glasgow city centre hotel which I was told was already booked and he had been let down . Meet them both then all of a sudden I was asked for money for the hotel ? . I replied with av not brought any money to which ended in well am not paying for some other guy to fuck my misses . So we parted ways in town am I in the wrong for not paying?? |
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You should have assumed you were making some sort of contribution. They should have told you. They probably assumed you weren't a tight ass and thought you would contribute. I think you are both in the wrong  |
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over a year ago
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"You should have assumed you were making some sort of contribution. They should have told you. They probably assumed you weren't a tight ass and thought you would contribute. I think you are both in the wrong "
why was he a tight arse? They could be staying overnight...why would he have to pay for that?
When myself n hubby played in hotels we paid..we are inviting others to join us? Its not a pay and display  |
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"You should have assumed you were making some sort of contribution. They should have told you. They probably assumed you weren't a tight ass and thought you would contribute. I think you are both in the wrong why was he a tight arse? They could be staying overnight...why would he have to pay for that?
When myself n hubby played in hotels we paid..we are inviting others to join us? Its not a pay and display "
Because it's good manners |
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"You should have assumed you were making some sort of contribution. They should have told you. They probably assumed you weren't a tight ass and thought you would contribute. I think you are both in the wrong "
The hotel was already booked.
They asked for the meet with him after being let down.
Being told you have to contribute to someone else's bad admin is not his fault.
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over a year ago
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It's a piss take that's what it is..too many cpls on here think single guys should be paying to fuck them..
If they booked the room.they pay.thats manners. |
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If I was told it was even split then no problem, but I wasn’t and it was pre booked and they said they were also bringing another girl over later on that night ? . To me personally it was them looking for a gullible guy to pay for there hotel for them and I wasn’t doing it . I’m a perfect gentleman respectful and generous if out and about but you should automatically assume it’s you that’s going to pay ? . I respect both sides of the argument but another harsh lesson learned on fab  |
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"If I was told it was even split then no problem, but I wasn’t and it was pre booked and they said they were also bringing another girl over later on that night ? . To me personally it was them looking for a gullible guy to pay for there hotel for them and I wasn’t doing it . I’m a perfect gentleman respectful and generous if out and about but you should automatically assume it’s you that’s going to pay ? . I respect both sides of the argument but another harsh lesson learned on fab "
This actually sounds like a deliberate set up, with the enticement of a second female (which probably didn't exist).
You said your bit and parted ways.
Don't worry about it.
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"This sounds exactly like the scam that I experienced. They would have taken your money and then found a way to run off.
Did they ask for £50 by any chance?"
Yeah it was £50 , was it a young couple 24/25 |
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"If someone had booked and paid for a meal. You take someone's place. I wouldn't expect a free meal. I'd contribute "
But it wasn't a meal.
He explained the situation, so he wasn't in the wrong for walking away. |
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"If I was told it was even split then no problem, but I wasn’t and it was pre booked and they said they were also bringing another girl over later on that night ? . To me personally it was them looking for a gullible guy to pay for there hotel for them and I wasn’t doing it . I’m a perfect gentleman respectful and generous if out and about but you should automatically assume it’s you that’s going to pay ? . I respect both sides of the argument but another harsh lesson learned on fab
This actually sounds like a deliberate set up, with the enticement of a second female (which probably didn't exist).
You said your bit and parted ways.
Don't worry about it.
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Am not bothered just warning others that’s all |
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"This sounds exactly like the scam that I experienced. They would have taken your money and then found a way to run off.
Did they ask for £50 by any chance?
Yeah it was £50 , was it a young couple 24/25 "
Won’t let me message you directly otherwise I could send you the picture they sent me. I could almost guarantee it’s the same people! |
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Had the same happen to me before. I was asked to contribute half the cost. Found out days later when I looked at there verifications that they had done the same with at least another five guys. They were basically using the hotel like a knocking shop. I paid half the cost of the hotel room but they couldn’t get rid of me quick enough to get next victim in |
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"Had the same happen to me before. I was asked to contribute half the cost. Found out days later when I looked at there verifications that they had done the same with at least another five guys. They were basically using the hotel like a knocking shop. I paid half the cost of the hotel room but they couldn’t get rid of me quick enough to get next victim in "
Did you get some fun though? These lot seem to do a runner before you even get into the hotel. |
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"Had the same happen to me before. I was asked to contribute half the cost. Found out days later when I looked at there verifications that they had done the same with at least another five guys. They were basically using the hotel like a knocking shop. I paid half the cost of the hotel room but they couldn’t get rid of me quick enough to get next victim in
Did you get some fun though? These lot seem to do a runner before you even get into the hotel. "
Nothing at all after waiting 20 mins on them it was basically a 5 mins conversation and parted ways . I block single guys because am fed up getting messages from them am totally straight but they don’t seem to grasp or read that in my profile |
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"This sounds exactly like the scam that I experienced. They would have taken your money and then found a way to run off.
Did they ask for £50 by any chance?
Yeah it was £50 , was it a young couple 24/25
Won’t let me message you directly otherwise I could send you the picture they sent me. I could almost guarantee it’s the same people!"
There have been multiple examples of this over the last year or so, always the same pattern.
Last time I saw it, 2 guys had been caught out by the same profile.
Even if reported and removed, they will be back with a new profile. |
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Yes had some fun but felt a bit rushed. Felt like they wanted the money more than the fun and found out later why. They had loads more guys that night all who paid half the cost each. They must have made a few hundred quid profit |
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"Yes had some fun but felt a bit rushed. Felt like they wanted the money more than the fun and found out later why. They had loads more guys that night all who paid half the cost each. They must have made a few hundred quid profit "
I wonder if it’s the same couple and they’ve realised that they can get the money without even needing to get as far as the hotel room now. |
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"Arranged to meet a couple at the last minute and we arranged to meet in glasgow city centre hotel which I was told was already booked and he had been let down . Meet them both then all of a sudden I was asked for money for the hotel ? . I replied with av not brought any money to which ended in well am not paying for some other guy to fuck my misses . So we parted ways in town am I in the wrong for not paying?? "
Sounds like he was prostituting his missus, in a roundabout way. |
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"You should have assumed you were making some sort of contribution. They should have told you. They probably assumed you weren't a tight ass and thought you would contribute. I think you are both in the wrong why was he a tight arse? They could be staying overnight...why would he have to pay for that?
When myself n hubby played in hotels we paid..we are inviting others to join us? Its not a pay and display
Because it's good manners "
whats bad manners is to expect someone to pay for yours and your partners evening out.
Op if they wanted a contribution it should have been discussed when you were invited. the tight ass comment is only helping to promote others shitty behaviour while attempting to make you appear in the wrong. Forget about it and realise you did nothing wrong...imo |
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over a year ago
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Jesus H Christ!
What is going on in this website?! Why has no-one even considered to ask the most important question here?!
Don’t worry, I am here to carry the fab torch! So, OP, I say to thee..
Was She Hot? |
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I'd say in no way are you in the wrong for not having the money to pay anything towards it because it wasn't even mentioned beforehand and I'd i the same as you would of assumed the hotel was already paid for. However, as a gesture, knowing where the night was probably going I'd of explained in a rush to get there I'd left all whatever sum was asked for at home but I'd send an agreed fair amount the following day . Allowing the night to carry on and equally share some funds |
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"Out of interest.. who contacted whom first
What difference would that make? "
Not much i suppose ..but the lad has been duped by the spontaneous offer of some free pussy
Perhaps in the cold light of day he will reflect on the circumstances that left him in town with his pants down  |
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"You should have assumed you were making some sort of contribution. They should have told you. They probably assumed you weren't a tight ass and thought you would contribute. I think you are both in the wrong why was he a tight arse? They could be staying overnight...why would he have to pay for that?
When myself n hubby played in hotels we paid..we are inviting others to join us? Its not a pay and display
Because it's good manners whats bad manners is to expect someone to pay for yours and your partners evening out.
Op if they wanted a contribution it should have been discussed when you were invited. the tight ass comment is only helping to promote others shitty behaviour while attempting to make you appear in the wrong. Forget about it and realise you did nothing wrong...imo"
It's not a night out. Its a fab meet in a hotel. The guy was taking someone's place. He already knew they had been let down so common sense tells you there was an arrangement made in a hotel between 3 people. They gave the guy the opportunity to fill that space. As a gesture he should had contributed...imo |
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"You should have assumed you were making some sort of contribution. They should have told you. They probably assumed you weren't a tight ass and thought you would contribute. I think you are both in the wrong why was he a tight arse? They could be staying overnight...why would he have to pay for that?
When myself n hubby played in hotels we paid..we are inviting others to join us? Its not a pay and display
Because it's good manners whats bad manners is to expect someone to pay for yours and your partners evening out.
Op if they wanted a contribution it should have been discussed when you were invited. the tight ass comment is only helping to promote others shitty behaviour while attempting to make you appear in the wrong. Forget about it and realise you did nothing wrong...imo
It's not a night out. Its a fab meet in a hotel. The guy was taking someone's place. He already knew they had been let down so common sense tells you there was an arrangement made in a hotel between 3 people. They gave the guy the opportunity to fill that space. As a gesture he should had contributed...imo "
If they never mentioned payment then how is op meant to know?want to say more but wont as dont want banned |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
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If I book a room and I’m staying in it, then there’s no way I’d ask for a contribution. If I’ve arranged to meet with someone and play and/or stay over then we’d split it.
So, if the OP had paid to play with the guy’s wife, is her husband pimping her out? Surely a fair contribution for an hour or two in a hotel would be about £10 and there’s no way I’d ask anyone for that.
I don’t see why the husband thinks he’s paying for a guy to play with his wife just because he’s paid for a hotel room.
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I don't think you're in the wrong at all.
I'd never ask for a contribution to a room I already had booked. If you had planned the meet together before the room was booked then that's the time to discuss if payment is split.
I don't even think I'd want a contribution to a room from a guy unless he was spending the whole night there too. Doesn't seem fair to expect someone to pay half a room cost for a few hours use whilst the other person(s) get an entire nights stay in it. |
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You are totally in the right. Did the right thing to walk away. At best they were skinflints looking for you to pay for their jolly, at worst a scam to get £50 out of you. Dodged a bullet. |
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Sounds like a piss take , imagine handing your card over then leaving them in the hotel to run up a bill all night .
It should all have been pre discussed.
Too many couples on here treat single men so very badly . |
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"You should have assumed you were making some sort of contribution. They should have told you. They probably assumed you weren't a tight ass and thought you would contribute. I think you are both in the wrong why was he a tight arse? They could be staying overnight...why would he have to pay for that?
When myself n hubby played in hotels we paid..we are inviting others to join us? Its not a pay and display
Because it's good manners whats bad manners is to expect someone to pay for yours and your partners evening out.
Op if they wanted a contribution it should have been discussed when you were invited. the tight ass comment is only helping to promote others shitty behaviour while attempting to make you appear in the wrong. Forget about it and realise you did nothing wrong...imo
It's not a night out. Its a fab meet in a hotel. The guy was taking someone's place. He already knew they had been let down so common sense tells you there was an arrangement made in a hotel between 3 people. They gave the guy the opportunity to fill that space. As a gesture he should had contributed...imo "
so he has to be a clairvoyant to know about a mysterious already happened deal!.
It is an evening out for the cpl or should he also say cheers for the fuck now get out my room im going for a kip!
They wanted a meet...apparently while they were out ie not home they...apparently had a meet and were let down but fuck it will get some other fool to foot the bill is how I see it |
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So you do go out with money or a means of paying for things. Someone in the thread said they went out to meet people and said they had no money. I thought that was odd. Surely if your meeting people, you take a means of paying for things with you. Irrespective of who should or shouldn’t be paying for things? |
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"Who doesn’t go out with no money? "
I very rarely have cash in me these days when going out as contactless is just so readily accepted .
I’d only really take cash if there was a group of us meeting for lunch/dinner as it’s easier for splitting the bill |
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