Maybe a long shot but probably like many we’ve found ourselves in the position where we have 2 separate life’s. One of which is our normal vanilla daily life with our vanilla friends who’d probably be horrified to find out what we get up to behind closed doors. Then the other which is fab where we can let go and enjoy some filthy more wild and unhinged. Hubby doesn’t play and I’m straight so it mostly rules out meeting other couples as they tend to want to swap or have fem on fem play. Is there any other couples out there that would be up for a night out sorta thing. Out in Edinburgh or something, grab some food and hit some pubs then grab the last train home kinda thing. Would kinda be good to find some like minded people to chat to and have a laugh and share experiences and stories but without any expectations of play. We only have each other on the fab side so would be great to have fab friends if that makes sense. Must be other couples out there in the same kinda boat |
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"You should maybe try some organised social events. Great way to make friends"
I think that’s a cracking idea actually, I mind away back in 2010-12 a group of women did Ann Summers nights which was really popular.
You could do a couples only social event? |
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By *ozcdTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Maybe a long shot but probably like many we’ve found ourselves in the position where we have 2 separate life’s. One of which is our normal vanilla daily life with our vanilla friends who’d probably be horrified to find out what we get up to behind closed doors. Then the other which is fab where we can let go and enjoy some filthy more wild and unhinged. Hubby doesn’t play and I’m straight so it mostly rules out meeting other couples as they tend to want to swap or have fem on fem play. Is there any other couples out there that would be up for a night out sorta thing. Out in Edinburgh or something, grab some food and hit some pubs then grab the last train home kinda thing. Would kinda be good to find some like minded people to chat to and have a laugh and share experiences and stories but without any expectations of play. We only have each other on the fab side so would be great to have fab friends if that makes sense. Must be other couples out there in the same kinda boat"
Sounds like a great idea  |
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By *uietbloke67Man
over a year ago
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Why don't you just go along to a social, they are always a good mix of people.
It will at least let you see that there is a mix and everyone is relatively normal at least in a safe and secure environment |
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We're in the same boat, Mr does play occasionally but we've never met another couple or female from here as there's always an expectation for girl on girl action.
"Maybe a long shot but probably like many we’ve found ourselves in the position where we have 2 separate life’s. One of which is our normal vanilla daily life with our vanilla friends who’d probably be horrified to find out what we get up to behind closed doors. Then the other which is fab where we can let go and enjoy some filthy more wild and unhinged. Hubby doesn’t play and I’m straight so it mostly rules out meeting other couples as they tend to want to swap or have fem on fem play. Is there any other couples out there that would be up for a night out sorta thing. Out in Edinburgh or something, grab some food and hit some pubs then grab the last train home kinda thing. Would kinda be good to find some like minded people to chat to and have a laugh and share experiences and stories but without any expectations of play. We only have each other on the fab side so would be great to have fab friends if that makes sense. Must be other couples out there in the same kinda boat"
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"We're in the same boat, Mr does play occasionally but we've never met another couple or female from here as there's always an expectation for girl on girl "
Same with us. We’ve tried a few times speaking to couples and it mostly always resorts back to expectations of either girl on girl or the other hubby with me while the other partners watch. That isn’t our thing at all but it would just be nice to relax and enjoy a night out and few drinks and laughs. Literally haven’t spoke to anyone about our lifestyle it’s just our big secret that nobody in our real life knows about and sometimes it gets tough / lonely having nobody to have chats / banter with Would be good just having a total blow out without having to hide and can just enjoy being filthy buggers but without the expectations of any play. Not sure that even makes sense but hope it does  |
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Got a few couples interested. I’ve never organised anything like this before so no idea where to start. The kinda idea we had thought of was meet up in Edinburgh centre. We’ve recently been to a place with our vanilla friends called Roxy lanes on rose street. Bar / food, bowling, beer pong and other fun games all in the one place. We were kinda thinking this setup would be ideal as it’s got all in one. Overall tally scores men vs women and just have a good laugh. If anyone seriously interested for it give me a shout, ideally 2-4 couples just to keep it small at first. Night be a non starter but could be something fun |
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We agreed
We have our day to day life
And this side
But find it difficult to chat to others
It would be a great idea
Less pressure
But perhaps a mix of couples
8/10 so there is a variety
Be nice meeting others who we can share with no judgement |
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"There is an organised social in glasgow on 23 feb - silent disco with some spaces left if that interests you. There will be plenty couples attending that and they are always a great night "
It's the 24th. Don't you be going a night early  |
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"There is an organised social in glasgow on 23 feb - silent disco with some spaces left if that interests you. There will be plenty couples attending that and they are always a great night "
That just sounds a little bit different
Being able to speak to others
That are similar
Many people have their day to day life
Then a different side
Be fun and who knows might click |
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"There is an organised social in glasgow on 23 feb - silent disco with some spaces left if that interests you. There will be plenty couples attending that and they are always a great night
It's the 24th. Don't you be going a night early "
Hahaha I know it’s the Saturday |
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"There is an organised social in glasgow on 23 feb - silent disco with some spaces left if that interests you. There will be plenty couples attending that and they are always a great night
That just sounds a little bit different
Being able to speak to others
That are similar
Many people have their day to day life
Then a different side
Be fun and who knows might click "
It will be a great night though as mentioned above it’s the 24th the organisers put in a lot of effort, someone will probably arrange pre drinks so can meet up in a pub beforehand if you have time.
There is a telegram chat also which will open up the week before I think, so you can chat to others going on the lead up to it.
Definitely worth considering |
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