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disappointment, why is this happening?
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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago
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"why are men 30+ not interesting to women? Everyone has a filter for ages 40+, why is that? what's wrong with men at 30? Or is there something wrong with me?"
Don’t take it personal, do a search and always tick “I am age looking for” to find people looking for age you are. A lot of couples or women don’t want to meet people close to their children’s age (why I won’t meet men 18-25) I also see you are a smoker, and a lot of people won’t meet smokers, again use the search and look for fellow smokers or people who meet smokers. You also can’t accommodate, so again only look for people in search that can and best of luck OP. |
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By *oha OP Man 10 weeks ago
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"Like guys in 20s/30s asking you to a gaff.
Or stupid messages asking you to teach them a thing or two.
Or those age groups asking you to play mummy. I could go on all night.  "
yes, there are a lot of fools, but there are also smart guys who already know how to do everything and only want to enjoy women  |
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"Just wait till you're over 40, straight on the fab scrapheap
thanks , I'm in no hurry to grow old "
Ah there in lies your problem, we don’t like to think of 40’s and 50’s as growing old yet you just inferred they are  |
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"why are men 30+ not interesting to women? Everyone has a filter for ages 40+, why is that? what's wrong with men at 30? Or is there something wrong with me?"
Ffs try being 54, 6ft 1, hung, sexy as feck, powerful, amazing sexual voice, great patter and sexy eyes. It's no funny, I wish I was your age again   |
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"why are men 30+ not interesting to women? Everyone has a filter for ages 40+, why is that? what's wrong with men at 30? Or is there something wrong with me?
Ffs try being 54, 6ft 1, hung, sexy as feck, powerful, amazing sexual voice, great patter and sexy eyes. It's no funny, I wish I was your age again "
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By *oha OP Man 10 weeks ago
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"why are men 30+ not interesting to women? Everyone has a filter for ages 40+, why is that? what's wrong with men at 30? Or is there something wrong with me?
Ffs try being 54, 6ft 1, hung, sexy as feck, powerful, amazing sexual voice, great patter and sexy eyes. It's no funny, I wish I was your age again "
even 20-year-old girls are looking for men 50+, couples 40+ are looking for older men) you’re at a great age) I just don’t understand why everyone thinks that guys under 30 are stupid and incapable of anything?) |
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"why are men 30+ not interesting to women? Everyone has a filter for ages 40+, why is that? what's wrong with men at 30? Or is there something wrong with me?
Ffs try being 54, 6ft 1, hung, sexy as feck, powerful, amazing sexual voice, great patter and sexy eyes. It's no funny, I wish I was your age again
even 20-year-old girls are looking for men 50+, couples 40+ are looking for older men) you’re at a great age) I just don’t understand why everyone thinks that guys under 30 are stupid and incapable of anything?)"
I wish I was in my 30s again, I’m sure there is lots of woman that are into guys your age. If your that hung up on it change your age I’m sure you can change your age one time. |
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"I wish I was in my 30s again, I’m sure there is lots of woman that are into guys your age. If your that hung up on it change your age I’m sure you can change your age one time. "
Don’t lie about your age, that’s terrible advice 
The best advice that’s given on here all the time is that going to clubs is a great way to meet people and get your face known.
You start lying about something as basic as your age, it’s never going to go well. |
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By *oha OP Man 10 weeks ago
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"I wish I was in my 30s again, I’m sure there is lots of woman that are into guys your age. If your that hung up on it change your age I’m sure you can change your age one time.
Don’t lie about your age, that’s terrible advice
The best advice that’s given on here all the time is that going to clubs is a great way to meet people and get your face known.
You start lying about something as basic as your age, it’s never going to go well."
yes, I support you here, I don’t want to start communication with a lie |
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"As a guy in his last few days of his 30’s I’m just wanting on my inbox exploding when I move up an age category lol "
Just you wait your inbox will be on fire and welcome to the over 40s club buddy. |
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"I wish I was in my 30s again, I’m sure there is lots of woman that are into guys your age. If your that hung up on it change your age I’m sure you can change your age one time.
Don’t lie about your age, that’s terrible advice
The best advice that’s given on here all the time is that going to clubs is a great way to meet people and get your face known.
You start lying about something as basic as your age, it’s never going to go well."
You’re right my advice wasn’t that good but what else can you say if the boy is complaining about his age ? That’s why I said change your age can’t be any clearer than that. |
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Nearly 50, and not on the fab scrap heap!
I manage to get meets.
I think a positive attitude helps as well as the right attitude and looking for fabsters who share your interests and for whom you are what they are looking for.
If they have under 40s on their profile, fine... Saves wasting time when you are not their thing...
Happy fabbing! |
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"why are men 30+ not interesting to women? Everyone has a filter for ages 40+, why is that? what's wrong with men at 30? Or is there something wrong with me?"
If you think 30+ is bad, try doubling it (60+). We go to clubs only & still very busy |
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I can't speak for younger women but I find that men closer to my age are easier to get along with. 30ish men nowadays seems much more immature than when I was in my 30s. Or maybe that's just cause I'm older. Who knows. |
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By *allBBWWoman 10 weeks ago
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I'm 39 and have my age filters at 40-60...because that's what I like (and it helps keep my inbox managable). People have their preferences, just like you will have yours. You just need to keep going to find your people.
I'd agree about going do socials, as it gives people the chance to know you, as a person, rather than just fab by numbers, if you know what I mean?
Sincere good luck xx |
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"why are men 30+ not interesting to women? Everyone has a filter for ages 40+, why is that? what's wrong with men at 30? Or is there something wrong with me?
Don’t take it personal, do a search and always tick “I am age looking for” to find people looking for age you are. A lot of couples or women don’t want to meet people close to their children’s age (why I won’t meet men 18-25) I also see you are a smoker, and a lot of people won’t meet smokers, again use the search and look for fellow smokers or people who meet smokers. You also can’t accommodate, so again only look for people in search that can and best of luck OP."
This plays a big part in why we look for couples our age or older. |
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