Arranged a meet with sir, made it a day he was free, even asked several times last week if he was still free. Took holidays from work, he told me what to pack. The day before he told me he'd be free around 5ish. Booked into the hotel and started getting ready. Messaged him several times but no reply - messages unread. Still not read them this morning. This is the third time he has done this when we've had hotel meets, yet we met a couple of weeks ago in a car park where I sucked dick. Totally frustrated right now. |
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"Arranged a meet with sir, made it a day he was free, even asked several times last week if he was still free. Took holidays from work, he told me what to pack. The day before he told me he'd be free around 5ish. Booked into the hotel and started getting ready. Messaged him several times but no reply - messages unread. Still not read them this morning. This is the third time he has done this when we've had hotel meets, yet we met a couple of weeks ago in a car park where I sucked dick. Totally frustrated right now."
You met once for car fun and this is the third time it's happened to you and you are still calling him sir !?
Usually a sub dom relationship is worked on from meeting regularly so I'd say perhaps you have been to trusting in giving this chance that title so easily .
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"Arranged a meet with sir, made it a day he was free, even asked several times last week if he was still free. Took holidays from work, he told me what to pack. The day before he told me he'd be free around 5ish. Booked into the hotel and started getting ready. Messaged him several times but no reply - messages unread. Still not read them this morning. This is the third time he has done this when we've had hotel meets, yet we met a couple of weeks ago in a car park where I sucked dick. Totally frustrated right now."
I was reading this and trying to keep an open mind but when I got to the "third time", i was like, WTF is she doing.
I don't care what the relationship you have with this guy, the guy is treating you like shit and after the first time, he should have been binned, no exception and calling the guy 'Sir' is the furthest thing that he should be called  |
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"Thanks everyone, felt I just needed to vent off. Absolutely hate being ignored, there is just no need from a grown man. "
It certainly sounds like a massive lack of respect, even in a sub/dom relationship. Move on. We're always happy to chat about such matters xx |
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By *ee69Man 2 weeks ago
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That’s terrible a would move on , unfortunately it happens a lot especially online , not just fab
Sorry again Mrs it gives us guys a bad rep
It will probably come across as sad lol but I have my fair share off no shows and ghosting here and on other things , a hope you move on and onward and upward , best a luck |
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Thanks everyone, we had met a few times but on reflection I realise he didn't appear more than we met. He definitely does not deserve my trust, time or the title of sir. Sub's have feelings too and we deserve some respect. |
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Totally bizarre! Some absolute weirdos out there unfortunately.
Had similar this week “meet for social…have you got Snapchat?”
Send chapchat details, then just straight away get blocked. 
Another one “you look great, I can travel to you..”
Ok when would suit…?
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"Thanks everyone, we had met a few times but on reflection I realise he didn't appear more than we met. He definitely does not deserve my trust, time or the title of sir. Sub's have feelings too and we deserve some respect."
When you have the sub/dom relationship or similar etc…. Many don’t understand the intimate connection you both have and yes treated certain ways is only understood by both and it’s good to skim the edge and push each other.
Need to be honest, as I said previously, this ain’t part of that as when you do these things together you both know it’s what will get you both going and push you both excitedly further but this is no way part of that. He is treating you, thinking like you are something at the bottom of his feet and that just is not game.
There shouldn’t be no more chat about him, 100% bin, bin, bin and get in with your life and find someone else that you can have that connection and fun you desire  |
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You deserve better. Cut off all ties with this man. He doesn’t deserve to be called ‘Sir’ if this is how he treats you.
Subs should still respect themselves enough to walk away from these situations. |
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