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By (user no longer on site) OP 14 weeks ago
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So let's have and opinion poll, if you recognised someone you'd be talking to on here as a work colleague, and I mean as in you've been talking a while and getting on Nd it's looking good for a meet, you decide to share face pic sand it's an oh shit it's you moment.
Would you still pursue it or just go ghost on them here?
Curious to hear people opinions on this |
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If you’ve both sent pics and both recognised one another then I guess it’s a grown up discussion on what the way forward is. If she’s sent one to you but you’ve not then that’s slightly different. Depends how daring you wanna be |
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By *WC 101Man 14 weeks ago
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Like the others have said we’re all adults and here for (mostly) the same reason.
If it was me once the face pic arrives and if you weren’t comfortable about knowing the person, you could just perhaps say a polite “thanks but unfortunately you’re not my type, happy fabbing anyway” ….. or if you were ok with the identities being revealed then just carry on chatting and arranging some fun.
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By (user no longer on site) OP 14 weeks ago
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Very sensible outlooks and opinions, so my personal experience was a new start at work, we'd been chatting on here prior to her starting work and was all set to meet, when she turned up for her first shift with me on her face went bright red and the whole rabbit in headlights look bless her.
We just smiled and nodded at each other, people spotted it and we're like 'oh didn't know you knew each other' lol
But yeah after that she didn't open message I'd sent, cos obviously I was making light of it and was going to ask if she still wanted to pursue it,but yeah she juts totally ghosted,best laugh is we actually really get on at work and have a good laugh |
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By (user no longer on site) 14 weeks ago
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"Very sensible outlooks and opinions, so my personal experience was a new start at work, we'd been chatting on here prior to her starting work and was all set to meet, when she turned up for her first shift with me on her face went bright red and the whole rabbit in headlights look bless her.
We just smiled and nodded at each other, people spotted it and we're like 'oh didn't know you knew each other' lol
But yeah after that she didn't open message I'd sent, cos obviously I was making light of it and was going to ask if she still wanted to pursue it,but yeah she juts totally ghosted,best laugh is we actually really get on at work and have a good laugh "
in that situation I would continue to get on with her in work but never mention fab or anything connected to fab in work and wait to see if she eventually messages you back if she’s not blocked you then she’s probably needing more time to really think about it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 14 weeks ago
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"Very sensible outlooks and opinions, so my personal experience was a new start at work, we'd been chatting on here prior to her starting work and was all set to meet, when she turned up for her first shift with me on her face went bright red and the whole rabbit in headlights look bless her.
We just smiled and nodded at each other, people spotted it and we're like 'oh didn't know you knew each other' lol
But yeah after that she didn't open message I'd sent, cos obviously I was making light of it and was going to ask if she still wanted to pursue it,but yeah she juts totally ghosted,best laugh is we actually really get on at work and have a good laugh in that situation I would continue to get on with her in work but never mention fab or anything connected to fab in work and wait to see if she eventually messages you back if she’s not blocked you then she’s probably needing more time to really think about it "
Thank you that's actually really helped, yeah we have such a good laugh at work get on great and bit of flirty banter too it's just on here she went quiet, so.yeah maybe your right thank you again |
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By *uietbloke67Man 14 weeks ago
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"So let's have and opinion poll, if you recognised someone you'd be talking to on here as a work colleague, and I mean as in you've been talking a while and getting on Nd it's looking good for a meet, you decide to share face pic sand it's an oh shit it's you moment.
Would you still pursue it or just go ghost on them here?
Curious to hear people opinions on this "
Definatkey hump her at least 30 times. Strap her to a bedpost and dae hunners of shaggin wie her, en take her out for a meal.
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"So let's have and opinion poll, if you recognised someone you'd be talking to on here as a work colleague, and I mean as in you've been talking a while and getting on Nd it's looking good for a meet, you decide to share face pic sand it's an oh shit it's you moment.
Would you still pursue it or just go ghost on them here?
Curious to hear people opinions on this "
Never mix work and pleasure as these never end well with someone usually getting hurt.
Leaving a tense situation at work when things don't turn out great .
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"So let's have and opinion poll, if you recognised someone you'd be talking to on here as a work colleague, and I mean as in you've been talking a while and getting on Nd it's looking good for a meet, you decide to share face pic sand it's an oh shit it's you moment.
Would you still pursue it or just go ghost on them here?
Curious to hear people opinions on this
Definatkey hump her at least 30 times. Strap her to a bedpost and dae hunners of shaggin wie her, en take her out for a meal.
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Remember you can always say you met on Tinder  |
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By (user no longer on site) 14 weeks ago
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"So let's have and opinion poll, if you recognised someone you'd be talking to on here as a work colleague, and I mean as in you've been talking a while and getting on Nd it's looking good for a meet, you decide to share face pic sand it's an oh shit it's you moment.
Would you still pursue it or just go ghost on them here?
Curious to hear people opinions on this "
I would tell them I recognised them and how do they feel
Then make sure both on same page
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By (user no longer on site) 14 weeks ago
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we have encountered this several times, not exactly work colleagues but staff from companies we deal with 4 times actually, 3 times it was us that recognise them and each time we were upfront about it after all we are all adults here for the same thing. our opinion was its fair for both sides to know the facts, the one time we sent pics first the other couple recognised us they were upfront too which was good
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The saying "Don't shite where you eat " comes to mind ! it's a big enough site to get arranging another meet with someone else .Something's are best left as a fantasy because the reality might just be something different entirely . |
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By *ozcdTV/TS 14 weeks ago
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I had a work colleague approach me at a local cruising spot while I was dressed with full makeup and wig. We had some fun while it lasted put on my most femme voice then he left. Next morning at work I spotted him on the break room sitting alone. I sat with him and asked what he had been up to the night before. He said watching TV all night and asked what I had been doing. I told him I had been for a walk and mentioned the cruising spot, I think that's when the penny dropped and he started explaining that he had just been for a look. He asked if I had seen him from my car, then I told him he had fucked me.... then look on his face was priceless. We did end up meeting a few times more until he moved away for a new job.  |
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I’ve never meet anyone via fab that recognised me. I did bump into a colleague and her partner at infusion in Blackpool. No awkwardness at all, we chatted for ages in the hot tub and agreed it was our secret, but not consider any play. What happens away stays away  |
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We would probably ghost them but I think it depends on your dynamic and what there's is!
If they were on as a verified couple there's more chance of us revealing ourselves because there situation is the same as ours.
If it's a single guy we wouldn't because we couldn't be sure he would keep our secret lol
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By *enelope2UWoman 14 weeks ago
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Depends if we're compatible..the whole point for me is continuation. So if it's my work or my neighbour it's a bonus.
If I was the type looking for a notch to tick then yeah I can see why those want random discreet one offs, and wouldn't like it..
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I was introduced to the site by a workmate who I was fwb with.
Since then I have found another work colleague, we don't meet but we chat a good bit.
I know of a third too.
And maybe be introducing a 4th lol
I might not be the best to ask haha |
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"I was introduced to the site by a workmate who I was fwb with.
Since then I have found another work colleague, we don't meet but we chat a good bit.
I know of a third too.
And maybe be introducing a 4th lol
I might not be the best to ask haha "
I need to work there please ! |
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I’d carry on as I’d find it all rather convenient and more of a turn on that things could happen at work , during work and tease whenever I wanted ! I’d be busy checking out quiet spots that we could secretly meet and fuck too ! I enjoy the danger element of being caught you’ll be fired  |
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"I’d carry on as I’d find it all rather convenient and more of a turn on that things could happen at work , during work and tease whenever I wanted ! I’d be busy checking out quiet spots that we could secretly meet and fuck too ! I enjoy the danger element of being caught you’ll be fired "
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"I’d carry on as I’d find it all rather convenient and more of a turn on that things could happen at work , during work and tease whenever I wanted ! I’d be busy checking out quiet spots that we could secretly meet and fuck too ! I enjoy the danger element of being caught you’ll be fired "
Don't you like working? |
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By *un4everMan 3 weeks ago
Near Edinburgh |
I probably wouldn't arrange to meet, as the expression "never piss in your own pond" comes to mind..
But I wouldn't ghost them or be bothered about them knowing I was on here too.. if you know, you know! |
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By *3PO555Man 3 weeks ago
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"So let's have and opinion poll, if you recognised someone you'd be talking to on here as a work colleague, and I mean as in you've been talking a while and getting on Nd it's looking good for a meet, you decide to share face pic sand it's an oh shit it's you moment.
I'd love that tbh, I've been recognised by people I've met o here, but it's been that long, they give you the 'i know you from somehwere but im not sure where' look?
Would you still pursue it or just go ghost on them here?
Curious to hear people opinions on this "
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"A colleague of mine joined but I'm outbof her age range. And there's only one of me. She wants men. Can't contact in here because shes set her preferences. I might drop a hint at work?"
Why! You are clearly aware you are not what she's looking for. What to you expect to gain from dropping hints at work🙄🤷♀️ |
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"A colleague of mine joined but I'm outbof her age range. And there's only one of me. She wants men. Can't contact in here because shes set her preferences. I might drop a hint at work?
Why! You are clearly aware you are not what she's looking for. What to you expect to gain from dropping hints at work🙄🤷♀️"
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Because I look younger and have friends. I think it may even be a fake profile as she hasn't been back on. I was going to let her know her pics are here. I could say that to her, as we get on really well. She's not shy. We have passed like ships in the night, as she was on holiday and now I am. |
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A few years ago I was out dressed and with 2 other tvs walked past a work colleague. She called my name. I ignored her and carried on. It ruined my night. Nothing was ever said so I will never know if she was certain it was me or not |
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By *avie65Man 2 weeks ago
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No but I know of a guy I met on our first day of school way back in the 70s. He is on here with his wife but there is no way I’d make contact.
Over the years I have seen a few people who were connected to my workplace but again I wouldn’t dream of contacting them, in fact I blocked them just in case. |
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"Because I look younger and have friends. I think it may even be a fake profile as she hasn't been back on. I was going to let her know her pics are here. I could say that to her, as we get on really well. She's not shy. We have passed like ships in the night, as she was on holiday and now I am."
Again. What do you expect to achieve. |
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"Because I look younger and have friends. I think it may even be a fake profile as she hasn't been back on. I was going to let her know her pics are here. I could say that to her, as we get on really well. She's not shy. We have passed like ships in the night, as she was on holiday and now I am.
Again. What do you expect to achieve. "
Fair enough that's me told. We'll only be colleagues for another 5 weeks |
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"Because I look younger and have friends. I think it may even be a fake profile as she hasn't been back on. I was going to let her know her pics are here. I could say that to her, as we get on really well. She's not shy. We have passed like ships in the night, as she was on holiday and now I am.
Again. What do you expect to achieve.
Fair enough that's me told. We'll only be colleagues for another 5 weeks"
Told what. I asked what you expect to achieve by approaching her outwith fab |
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"Because I look younger and have friends. I think it may even be a fake profile as she hasn't been back on. I was going to let her know her pics are here. I could say that to her, as we get on really well. She's not shy. We have passed like ships in the night, as she was on holiday and now I am.
Again. What do you expect to achieve.
Fair enough that's me told. We'll only be colleagues for another 5 weeks
Told what. I asked what you expect to achieve by approaching her outwith fab"
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"Because I look younger and have friends. I think it may even be a fake profile as she hasn't been back on. I was going to let her know her pics are here. I could say that to her, as we get on really well. She's not shy. We have passed like ships in the night, as she was on holiday and now I am.
Again. What do you expect to achieve.
Fair enough that's me told. We'll only be colleagues for another 5 weeks
Told what. I asked what you expect to achieve by approaching her outwith fab"
Nothing I thought better of it. |
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