Hi all,
We’ve taken the first formative steps into this lifestyle and not been put off but my wife gets a little embarrassed kissing at the end of a social. She feels it’s all a contrived and not natural spontaneous kissing.
Does anyone have any tips for it?
Tia! |
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Hi all,
We’ve taken the first formative steps into this lifestyle and not been put off but my wife gets a little embarrassed kissing at the end of a social. She feels it’s all a contrived and not natural spontaneous kissing.
Does anyone have any tips for it?
Tia!"
Don't do anything you feel uncomfortable with. |
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By *j2015Couple 14 weeks ago
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Completely understand only is Mr C finds it more difficult, Its odd but while we absolutely love kissing during play we “in fact its a must for us” the kiss at the door afterwards can often feel forced.
I think we just try not to compare it to kissing each other.
But if the kiss isn’t working or doing it for you that might be an indicator that the person your kissing isn’t right for you 🤷♂️
As blue said make you are kissing because you want to and no because its expected or because your partner is already kissing. |
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"Completely understand only is Mr C finds it more difficult, Its odd but while we absolutely love kissing during play we “in fact its a must for us” the kiss at the door afterwards can often feel forced.
I think we just try not to compare it to kissing each other.
But if the kiss isn’t working or doing it for you that might be an indicator that the person your kissing isn’t right for you 🤷♂️
As blue said make you are kissing because you want to and no because its expected or because your partner is already kissing. "
Thank you for that. Makes real sense |
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What kinda kiss? End of social, thanks for a nice night peck on the cheek type? Or full on snog? Nothing to be embarrassed about with the first option. And why wait till the end with the second option? If you all feel it, why not get it out there early. Only do what feels right |
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This is where I have strict boundaries. I do not kiss at socials. That is not what they are for. I have stopped people in their tracks if they think that is happening just because we have had a social lol. Why would I be doing that in public? Even if I was planning to play with them. That indicates to others around that we are something more. Just naw 😂 |
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Also to add op. This is about what works for you both. Not anyone else. You set your own boundaries and if others do not like it then they are not your people's. Simple.
I will also add that once the playing situation has stopped then again no sexual contact of any kind. It goes right back to being platonic again. I have a laugh with the whole waking up the next morning and breaking the ice with 'Want a roll in sausage?' Just like you would ask any of your mates who have crashed over 😂 I have strict boundaries between playing and vanilla life. Again figure out what works for you and stick with it. If you want to chat more privately I am more than happy to give you tips with what I have picked up over my years on here ☺️ |
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I think it’s what you want from your meet !
Yes a good kisser can make the meet much better and more fun in the moment.
If you are not wanting that after then you should be clear it’s just for you both to enjoy a kiss.
I think if you are clear with what you want that saves any awkwardness after. |
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Christ. If only that was the case 😂 I've had shite kissers then been thrown about like someone trying to get a duvet cover on! Some have no idea how to use their mouth but they sure know how to use everything else 😂 |
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I love kissing and always had compliments never complaints .. nothing like slow soft kiss on the lips with a receptive woman to get the fires burning, but the vibes have to be there. If not nothing wrong with a handshake embrace and peck on the cheek as you part whatever happens after that. |
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You are here for your own enjoyment and if you don't enjoy kissing on a social or when the social comes to an end .. if your upfront and honest with the person your meeting then all should be good .. if you are and they choose to push the boundary then what would they be like during a play meet and the boundaries set out by you both .
Boundaries are good and if there set out at the very begining then everyone knows what they are . Failure to respect simple no kissing on socials show a disrespect to you and your couple . |
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Hi all,
We’ve taken the first formative steps into this lifestyle and not been put off but my wife gets a little embarrassed kissing at the end of a social. She feels it’s all a contrived and not natural spontaneous kissing.
Does anyone have any tips for it?
Tia!"
Same as most don't do anything you feel uncomfortable with.
I quite enjoy a kiss during or at the end of a social if it's going that way.
I can usually tell if I want to see someone again or not from it. |
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