can any fems please give me an indication if guys my age are now wasting time on this site seeking a female playmate? I have been here for almost 19 years, and I feel the dynamics are changing, even for lunchtime socials we all used to enjoy thanks |
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Posting for input from fems only would hint that you wouldn’t want feedback from guys especially those in your age group which would seem silly.
But smoosh your rules:
The scene, and society, has changed drastically in the last 5 years nevermind 19. Online sites across the board are saturated with men with there being a sky high ratio compared to that of females. The online dating ratio theory of 90/10 makes for fairly accurate reading tbh.
For your age bracket I think you’d maybe find more success on other age targeted forums or within the physical club scene. Have a cracking week buddy |
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"can any fems please give me an indication if guys my age are now wasting time on this site seeking a female playmate? I have been here for almost 19 years, and I feel the dynamics are changing, even for lunchtime socials we all used to enjoy thanks"
I think, even just looking at your profile, you're not selling yourself very well. Age doesn't necessarily matter, if women like what they see. If they can't see anything, they won't engage. I'm not saying you need to have face photos but some photos of you from the neck down, maybe some information on your profile. To be honest, you could be my age (36) and I still wouldn't give you the time of day, for that profile alone. If you're not willing to put in the time to set up a decent profile so I know a bit about you, it tells me you're only looking for one thing. And while there's absolutely nothing wrong with wanting just one thing, this is a swingers site after all, it doesn't show much effort on your part and therefore you wouldn't receive much effort in return, why would I when you haven't? |
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Unfortunately it isn't enough. Like has been suggested. Pics of who you are as a person matter. I keep having to reiterate this to guys time and time and time again. And I'm not talking dick pics ( God forbid! ) or naked pics. Just general clothed pics work. People can identify with a person then 🤷🏼
"thank you for your response and feedback I have added an update to my profile I hope that is enough right now many thanks"
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"thank you for your response and feedback I have added an update to my profile I hope that is enough right now many thanks"
Delete your full profile and start again. Don't tell us when you updated it, don't tell us you USED to be sporty but you don't know what else to write. If you struggle that much to put something on a bio, we instantly wonder how much conversation we're likely to get out of you.
So start again...
Hey, I'm... and I'm... years old. I've been on the scene for... years and I'm just looking for...
My interests include...
I enjoy... in my spare time.
I would love to find a woman/man/TV/multiple to explore...
And post some pics! It doesn't have to be nudes, or dick pics as Pinky says. But just something! Maybe you in a nice jacket and trousers going to a formal occasion, maybe one of you in some casual gear, maybe one of you in any kink gear or fetish gear if that's your thing. Even just you in your boxers if you want to show off a bit of a bulge without showing everything.
But, ultimately, what you have on your profile isn't enough to interest me. Not because of your age, not because of your interests, not because of your location, but because I know nothing about you and it looks like I never will, because you're not giving me anything.
And please, for the love of all that is holy, don't just copy and paste my example. Actually take the time to do your own profile.
Of course, you could just be nippy about it, not take our advice and then continue to be mystified as to why nobody is interacting with you.
All the best x |
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"can any fems please give me an indication if guys my age are now wasting time on this site seeking a female playmate? I have been here for almost 19 years, and I feel the dynamics are changing, even for lunchtime socials we all used to enjoy thanks"
Having no pics on your profile would put me off instantly without checking your age. |
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More effort in this response than the majority of guys profiles on here 😂 I just can't get my head around them not listening to what we say! They think a quick shave of the baws and a wee wank to get hard and we are going to rub our clit in great excitement! Just naw 🤦🏼 Effort is everything. I take a lot of time and effort on everything in my life. Why would I want to waste my time on some cunt who doesn't? I think I'm on a rant again 😂 🤦🏼 Just make the effort guys!!
"thank you for your response and feedback I have added an update to my profile I hope that is enough right now many thanks
Delete your full profile and start again. Don't tell us when you updated it, don't tell us you USED to be sporty but you don't know what else to write. If you struggle that much to put something on a bio, we instantly wonder how much conversation we're likely to get out of you.
So start again...
Hey, I'm... and I'm... years old. I've been on the scene for... years and I'm just looking for...
My interests include...
I enjoy... in my spare time.
I would love to find a woman/man/TV/multiple to explore...
And post some pics! It doesn't have to be nudes, or dick pics as Pinky says. But just something! Maybe you in a nice jacket and trousers going to a formal occasion, maybe one of you in some casual gear, maybe one of you in any kink gear or fetish gear if that's your thing. Even just you in your boxers if you want to show off a bit of a bulge without showing everything.
But, ultimately, what you have on your profile isn't enough to interest me. Not because of your age, not because of your interests, not because of your location, but because I know nothing about you and it looks like I never will, because you're not giving me anything.
And please, for the love of all that is holy, don't just copy and paste my example. Actually take the time to do your own profile.
Of course, you could just be nippy about it, not take our advice and then continue to be mystified as to why nobody is interacting with you.
All the best x"
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"More effort in this response than the majority of guys profiles on here 😂 I just can't get my head around them not listening to what we say! They think a quick shave of the baws and a wee wank to get hard and we are going to rub our clit in great excitement! Just naw 🤦🏼 Effort is everything. I take a lot of time and effort on everything in my life. Why would I want to waste my time on some cunt who doesn't? I think I'm on a rant again 😂 🤦🏼 Just make the effort guys!!
thank you for your response and feedback I have added an update to my profile I hope that is enough right now many thanks
Delete your full profile and start again. Don't tell us when you updated it, don't tell us you USED to be sporty but you don't know what else to write. If you struggle that much to put something on a bio, we instantly wonder how much conversation we're likely to get out of you.
So start again...
Hey, I'm... and I'm... years old. I've been on the scene for... years and I'm just looking for...
My interests include...
I enjoy... in my spare time.
I would love to find a woman/man/TV/multiple to explore...
And post some pics! It doesn't have to be nudes, or dick pics as Pinky says. But just something! Maybe you in a nice jacket and trousers going to a formal occasion, maybe one of you in some casual gear, maybe one of you in any kink gear or fetish gear if that's your thing. Even just you in your boxers if you want to show off a bit of a bulge without showing everything.
But, ultimately, what you have on your profile isn't enough to interest me. Not because of your age, not because of your interests, not because of your location, but because I know nothing about you and it looks like I never will, because you're not giving me anything.
And please, for the love of all that is holy, don't just copy and paste my example. Actually take the time to do your own profile.
Of course, you could just be nippy about it, not take our advice and then continue to be mystified as to why nobody is interacting with you.
All the best x"
You know what, you're so right! We put more effort into trying to help some guys than they do on their own profile. I just think that your profile might not be to everyone's taste, but it won't be to ANYONE'S taste if there's absolutely nothing on it!xx |
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First 15 messages in my inbox earlier. No pics. Bare profiles. Variance of messages being. Hi. Hey beautiful. Are you free now. X. Or a diatribe of where they hope to put their cock.
Straight delete!
At this point I gave up on my inbox and the rest remain unread. Can guarantee the next few days or weeks they will be moaning on statues that women are stuck up cows who don't reply and are up their own arses. Wouldn't get a 2nd look in real life etc etc.
I say let them keep the shit profiles it's like the trash taking itself out then tipping it's garbage in public for all to see! |
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