Treat it as a social event . Casual night down the pub . Turn up enjoy yourself . have no sexual expectations. If it's an events night ie GGGB then go watch then when ready get involved.. a lot will be naked or scantily dressed but you do not have to it's on your terms .
Most clubs have a social area where NO play is allowed.. this is the perfect place to chat and acclimatise yourself to the surroundings.. just remember you go at your pace . Nothing is expected of you .Just enjoy the experience even if you do not participate.. |
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I'm a bit of a people pleaser. And the last time I went to a club on my own, I had someone be a bit of a limpet...stuck to my side, following me around, despite me saying that we weren't sexually compatible. Thankfully someone recognised my discomfort and had no issue in telling the person to bugger off. So my advice is to also be prepared to say "No thank you" firmly, when necessary. And don't spend all your time in the kitchen. Go, explore. Enjoy! |
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