I lean towards Dom, but will switch for the right person.
I guess it’s because I know exactly what I want from this space, and know that the sub is fully focused on my own pleasure whilst seeing her getting off is a massive turn-on. I like to start slow and sensual before taking her to pound town (and back again lol).
However, if I find someone sooooo attractive that I am willing to let them do whatever the heck they want, I’ll switch. But that visual and mental attraction has to be there for me.
That said, lack of meets lately hasn’t helped, so I’m currently in the space where I’m definitely Dom leaning until I find that one person who I’ll happily switch for. |
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Probably none 🤔
I like the role of dom but probably don’t identify as one, I’m more of a role player for the right situation.
I like fantasy fulfilment and generally will think about most requests, a girl on here asked if I could be a sex robot for her, when she explained it to me it was really hot. |
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By (user no longer on site) 6 weeks ago
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Nope I don't think tags on anyone actually work. I know dom women that can be very sub, it's all depends on the turn on factors and the situation. Reality has away of changing things even half way through an encounter. So really its not even a relevant question is it. Truth be told. |
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By (user no longer on site) 6 weeks ago
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"A sub
A Domme/Dom
A Brat
A Switch
And why do you identify as it? "
A nnoying. Because I'm a sarcastic twat that gets off on annoying folk. Out of them I'd say switch. Always thought i was dominant, until I met a dominatrix who had me quivering with fuck knows what emotions. Over a phone. |
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"Nope I don't think tags on anyone actually work. I know dom women that can be very sub, it's all depends on the turn on factors and the situation. Reality has away of changing things even half way through an encounter. So really its not even a relevant question is it. Truth be told. "
That is your experience and opinion and you are entitled to it ☺️ Many others will disagree because their experience and opinion will be totally different from yours. Just because you disagree does not invalidate something that is another's experience. Therefore my question is very much relevant 😁 |
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I have an extremely dominant streak, but wouldn't really class myself as a Dom specifically. My partner is a bit of a heady mix. She's bratty, but is also able to control things, but make it look and feel like you are. Almost like topping from the bottom so to speak. |
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I would say I'm a switch. I really listen to what my partner wants and I get off on giving her what she wants and seeing her enjoy herself. If I was domme then surely I wouldn't care and it would all be about me. I'd also probably be single. I do like a woman who knows what she wants and demands it 😅. Definitely think I can be more Dom but she doesn't like that |
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I think more than anything else I'd describe myself as a service top. I get off on doing whatever it is that helps my partners get off, whether that's spitting in their face and calling them names, showering them in adoration or just playing the big dumb brute.  |
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By *enelope2UWoman 5 weeks ago
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I'm a sub brat... But I don't tolerate foolery of any type and I respect and melt when I find a secure confident and capable man....
My personal life I'm responsible for everything solo so sexually I don't want to also need to teach a man how to be a man... If he can't do that automatically he's not man enough for me. |
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By *enelope2UWoman 5 weeks ago
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"I would say I'm a switch. I really listen to what my partner wants and I get off on giving her what she wants and seeing her enjoy herself. If I was domme then surely I wouldn't care and it would all be about me. I'd also probably be single. I do like a woman who knows what she wants and demands it 😅. Definitely think I can be more Dom but she doesn't like that "
UK definition of Dom and that's far from a real Dom |
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By *hyme2020Woman 5 weeks ago
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"A sub
A Domme/Dom
A Brat
A Switch
And why do you identify as it?
A nnoying. Because I'm a sarcastic twat that gets off on annoying folk. Out of them I'd say switch. Always thought i was dominant, until I met a dominatrix who had me quivering with fuck knows what emotions. Over a phone. "
Sarcastic twat!! 🤣🤣🤣 Sarcastic-yes, Twat….🤔🤔🤣 |
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A sub with my man, love our dynamic, really turns me on when he takes full control! Just a certain look from him can have me breathing heavy & squirming! I'm a brat though, I like to push the limits! With a woman though I'm a bit more of a switch. |
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By *-M-CMan 5 weeks ago
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A Dom , with many styles too
I discovered my dom side 30 years ago and have fully embraced it but I love vanilla passion too ...
I have many kinks and darker desires .. message me if you want to know more ( or read my profile for more info)
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