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Ardeer beach, Stevenston
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Went to the beach on Saturday and it was mobbed! Have really been put off going again tho, the conduct of the men there is utterly disgusting! I was followed and harassed and felt so uncomfy surrounded by all these gross men like a bunch of sharks when all i wanted was to mind my own business and have a paddle in the sea! As a female i felt really quite intimidated and pissed off, wtf guys? If i ever do go again, i'll be bringing my grape alarm! Grown ass men surrounding a woman like a bunch of predators, really? Normal beach for me from now on i think! The mentality of some people really shocks me! |
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Having seen it at a different beach it is disgusting and I'll never be afraid of approaching men and telling them off for harassing women. I, like many decent men love to have a look and i will walk past smile, wave and move on . If women want fun at the beach, they'll soon let you know. So please, leave them alone. |
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That's absolutely awful, and it really puts a bad light on us few decent gents that genuinely want to go and relax. Again sorry to hear this. Weather permitting I'll be heading along sometime this week and my aim is to relax and enjoy the views on offer from a respected distance. And I would be both lucky and delighted if any sort of conversation starts and only as an opportunity to make friends, that's all. |
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I totally get it. I was there with a couple of friends, m&f. Guys came to stare just because we shared a blanket.
Another couple came up next to us, their first time on a nude beach. guys followed them. They went down the beach, guys followed them. The couple came back, guys followed. Luckily we chatted and they realised some ok people go there too.
Shout out to the dude in the orange (iron bru?) bucket hat. Creepy as. Don't do that |
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Yep, I’ve been going to the beach for years and it’s the same story. Used to have lots of couples go and ladies on their own but a small minority of guys have spoiled it. I avoid weekends as it gets far too busy, during the week is good with people being friendly and respect full. This is a special place for all to enjoy, I hope your bad experience doesn’t put you off. |
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"Went to the beach on Saturday and it was mobbed! Have really been put off going again tho, the conduct of the men there is utterly disgusting! I was followed and harassed and felt so uncomfy surrounded by all these gross men like a bunch of sharks when all i wanted was to mind my own business and have a paddle in the sea! As a female i felt really quite intimidated and pissed off, wtf guys? If i ever do go again, i'll be bringing my grape alarm! Grown ass men surrounding a woman like a bunch of predators, really? Normal beach for me from now on i think! The mentality of some people really shocks me! "
We stopped going some time ago because of the lack of good conduct on the part if some of the men. Both the straight ones who were following us everywhere we go, and the gay one who took a shine to Matt.
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I know right? I am a human being, not a piece of meat ffs! Like some old dude like me fucking grandad just hanging about and asks if i am a swinger and he has viagra, like what does he expect me to do??? YUK!! Go take your mouldy old cock home! lol! |
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I know right? I am a human being, not a piece of meat ffs! Like some old dude like my fucking grandad just hanging about and asks if i am a swinger and he has viagra, like what does he expect me to do??? YUK!! Go take your mouldy old cock home! lol! |
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I'd never go on my own with out my man, omg can you imagine!? They just surrounded me and were so gross! Meh if i do go again i will tel them to F off or record them on my phone and report them for harassment! Go full Karen mode hahahaha!! |
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"Thanks Jambo & hope you manage to have a nice time and chill without getting harassed! Always happy to make friends. "
Awww cheers x I'm hoping the weather improves later in the week as it's been raining all day here x |
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We took a walk down on Sunday but one guy fully clothed with balaclava on stood out for us, some need a reality check as naturism and swinging are totally different, we love a play but ffs get a grip guys it's a naturists beach, we will go back down but I can assure no one will be hassling us will be invites only |
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"We took a walk down on Sunday but one guy fully clothed with balaclava on stood out for us, some need a reality check as naturism and swinging are totally different, we love a play but ffs get a grip guys it's a naturists beach, we will go back down but I can assure no one will be hassling us will be invites only "
Now that just sounds bloody creepy, serial killer vibes 
And no fun in the heat
DEFINITELY not what you want |
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The nudist beach its a great place when the weather is nice and warm. There is something nice about being outdoors and naked and being able to wander down for a paddle but unfortunately a few spoil it. Ladies and couples should be able to undress and not get hassled by guys like dogs on heat.
A polite hello as you walk past and if they engage in conversation then talk but absolutely no need to think its a free for all.
Not everyone is there for a fuck. |
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"The nudist beach its a great place when the weather is nice and warm. There is something nice about being outdoors and naked and being able to wander down for a paddle but unfortunately a few spoil it. Ladies and couples should be able to undress and not get hassled by guys like dogs on heat.
A polite hello as you walk past and if they engage in conversation then talk but absolutely no need to think its a free for all.
Not everyone is there for a fuck. "
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We were there last Saturday and had an old guy still in his socks and shoes happily wanking just beside us. We just wanted to enjoy the sun and freedom but the overpowering presence from many of the guys made us pack up and leave. Will still be back again but hopefully it won’t be as bad next time, not sure if it gets any better the further down the beach you go x |
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"I totally get it. I was there with a couple of friends, m&f. Guys came to stare just because we shared a blanket.
Another couple came up next to us, their first time on a nude beach. guys followed them. They went down the beach, guys followed them. The couple came back, guys followed. Luckily we chatted and they realised some ok people go there too.
Shout out to the dude in the orange (iron bru?) bucket hat. Creepy as. Don't do that"
you were the one creeping around the top and leering down at people , don’t criticise others for their action , you are one sick puppy |
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