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By *sm265 OP Woman 37 weeks ago
Perthshire |
Had a recent interaction with a friend who categorically refuses to meet (or even consider meeting) anyone who isn't at least a couple of inches taller than her. Doesn't matter how great a guy he is, or how good looking, if he doesn't meet her height requirements then that's it.
Is this a thing?
She couldn't see why i thought it strange that she would completely rule someone out because of their height. She says her preference is taller men, and ultimately we are all allowed to have preferences, but to me she is taking it beyond just a preference. She's been single for many years, and not happily so, yet she absolutely won't budge on this.
She's 5ft 9 so, to me, she's definitely limiting her options
Do others set similar specific requirements? |
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"Had a recent interaction with a friend who categorically refuses to meet (or even consider meeting) anyone who isn't at least a couple of inches taller than her. Doesn't matter how great a guy he is, or how good looking, if he doesn't meet her height requirements then that's it.
Is this a thing?
She couldn't see why i thought it strange that she would completely rule someone out because of their height. She says her preference is taller men, and ultimately we are all allowed to have preferences, but to me she is taking it beyond just a preference. She's been single for many years, and not happily so, yet she absolutely won't budge on this.
She's 5ft 9 so, to me, she's definitely limiting her options
Do others set similar specific requirements? "
Sounds like your friend is extremely shallow and no wonder she continues to be single.
Ofcourse we are all different but she should look herself in the mirror and realise how shallow she is.
I hope and pray I never meet her. |
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By *ussycat777Woman 37 weeks ago
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"Had a recent interaction with a friend who categorically refuses to meet (or even consider meeting) anyone who isn't at least a couple of inches taller than her. Doesn't matter how great a guy he is, or how good looking, if he doesn't meet her height requirements then that's it.
Is this a thing?
She couldn't see why i thought it strange that she would completely rule someone out because of their height. She says her preference is taller men, and ultimately we are all allowed to have preferences, but to me she is taking it beyond just a preference. She's been single for many years, and not happily so, yet she absolutely won't budge on this.
She's 5ft 9 so, to me, she's definitely limiting her options
Do others set similar specific requirements?
Sounds like your friend is extremely shallow and no wonder she continues to be single.
Ofcourse we are all different but she should look herself in the mirror and realise how shallow she is.
I hope and pray I never meet her."
What an utterly ridiculous comment.
A woman is attracted to a specific type and this makes her shallow? Should she occasionally pump wee guys then to be more inclusive and PC?
What about women who specify they're here for big dicks? Should they take one for the team and fuck a guy with a micro penis?
We all have likes, dislikes and preferences. As long as these are expressed in a respectful and adult way then I fail to see the issue. |
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"Well that went down hill pretty quickly. The block button is a blessing indeed. Fancy people been ripped a new arsehole for having a preference 🙈"
Yip, your blocked too.
So many shallow women on here who think they are God's gift
Us men sure don't need shallow women. |
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"Well that went down hill pretty quickly. The block button is a blessing indeed. Fancy people been ripped a new arsehole for having a preference 🙈
Yip, your blocked too.
So many shallow women on here who think they are God's gift
Us men sure don't need shallow women."
I blocked you soon as I read your comments 😝 so why you lying 🙈 |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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Oh no, don't trigger the short kings! 
It's just personal preference, which I have no problem with whatsoever. The only issue I see sometimes is the hypocrisy of judging a man by his height but being offended when someone else has a different preference - body type, race, gender etc. Its not fat phobic, its not racist, its not transphobic, its just personal preference!
Or is your friend a Heightist?! 😱🤣 |
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"Had a recent interaction with a friend who categorically refuses to meet (or even consider meeting) anyone who isn't at least a couple of inches taller than her. Doesn't matter how great a guy he is, or how good looking, if he doesn't meet her height requirements then that's it.
Is this a thing?
She couldn't see why i thought it strange that she would completely rule someone out because of their height. She says her preference is taller men, and ultimately we are all allowed to have preferences, but to me she is taking it beyond just a preference. She's been single for many years, and not happily so, yet she absolutely won't budge on this.
She's 5ft 9 so, to me, she's definitely limiting her options
Do others set similar specific requirements? "
Is their a point when being too tall is an issue? |
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Suppose it’s your friends choice, I used to have a certain type of woman I would be interested in but to be honest I have had some amazing times with the complete opposite of what I liked that I’m very open minded nowadays. Still looking for that unicorn midget.  |
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"Had a recent interaction with a friend who categorically refuses to meet (or even consider meeting) anyone who isn't at least a couple of inches taller than her. Doesn't matter how great a guy he is, or how good looking, if he doesn't meet her height requirements then that's it.
Is this a thing?
She couldn't see why i thought it strange that she would completely rule someone out because of their height. She says her preference is taller men, and ultimately we are all allowed to have preferences, but to me she is taking it beyond just a preference. She's been single for many years, and not happily so, yet she absolutely won't budge on this.
She's 5ft 9 so, to me, she's definitely limiting her options
Do others set similar specific requirements?
Sounds like your friend is extremely shallow and no wonder she continues to be single.
Ofcourse we are all different but she should look herself in the mirror and realise how shallow she is.
I hope and pray I never meet her."
Wow, so rude! It's ok to give an opinion, but not ok to make a personal attack on someone. |
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"Had a recent interaction with a friend who categorically refuses to meet (or even consider meeting) anyone who isn't at least a couple of inches taller than her. Doesn't matter how great a guy he is, or how good looking, if he doesn't meet her height requirements then that's it.
Is this a thing?
She couldn't see why i thought it strange that she would completely rule someone out because of their height. She says her preference is taller men, and ultimately we are all allowed to have preferences, but to me she is taking it beyond just a preference. She's been single for many years, and not happily so, yet she absolutely won't budge on this.
She's 5ft 9 so, to me, she's definitely limiting her options
Do others set similar specific requirements?
Sounds like your friend is extremely shallow and no wonder she continues to be single.
Ofcourse we are all different but she should look herself in the mirror and realise how shallow she is.
I hope and pray I never meet her.
Wow, so rude! It's ok to give an opinion, but not ok to make a personal attack on someone. "
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We all have opinions
Seems you are getting opinions and personal attacks mixed up.
No personal attack given or intended |
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Yes it is a thing.
We all have preferences and mine so happens to be for taller guys but at 5ft2in I guess that's not hard to find lol
Just people's preferences like everything else we look for on here . |
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By *sm265 OP Woman 37 weeks ago
Perthshire |
Oops!! Didn't expect this post to get such strong reactions from people, did I touch a nerve?!
I just find it a bit sad that she's potentially ruling out some genuinely nice blokes because they happen to not be deemed tall enough.
I think, to some degree, being so specific about physical attributes on fab makes sense. If you're purely looking to hook up for sex and only want to meet a particular physical type. My friend isn't on here though (as far as I know!) and is looking for a long term romantic relationship.
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By *sm265 OP Woman 37 weeks ago
Perthshire |
"Had a recent interaction with a friend who categorically refuses to meet (or even consider meeting) anyone who isn't at least a couple of inches taller than her. Doesn't matter how great a guy he is, or how good looking, if he doesn't meet her height requirements then that's it.
Is this a thing?
She couldn't see why i thought it strange that she would completely rule someone out because of their height. She says her preference is taller men, and ultimately we are all allowed to have preferences, but to me she is taking it beyond just a preference. She's been single for many years, and not happily so, yet she absolutely won't budge on this.
She's 5ft 9 so, to me, she's definitely limiting her options
Do others set similar specific requirements?
Sounds like your friend is extremely shallow and no wonder she continues to be single.
Ofcourse we are all different but she should look herself in the mirror and realise how shallow she is.
I hope and pray I never meet her."
That's a very strong reaction. She's actually an extremely kind and genuine person. You don't meet her minimum height requirements though so you're safe. |
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By *WC 101Man 37 weeks ago
Aberdeen |
Just trying to keep up …….
To further confuse so what happens if you’re a short male of 5 ft 2” with stunning looks and chat blessed with a 9” cock and a lizards tongue ?
I’ve only 1 out of the 5.
I’m also just mentioning it for humour purposes. |
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"Had a recent interaction with a friend who categorically refuses to meet (or even consider meeting) anyone who isn't at least a couple of inches taller than her. Doesn't matter how great a guy he is, or how good looking, if he doesn't meet her height requirements then that's it.
Is this a thing?
She couldn't see why i thought it strange that she would completely rule someone out because of their height. She says her preference is taller men, and ultimately we are all allowed to have preferences, but to me she is taking it beyond just a preference. She's been single for many years, and not happily so, yet she absolutely won't budge on this.
She's 5ft 9 so, to me, she's definitely limiting her options
Do others set similar specific requirements? "
It’s most definitely a thing!
As a sub 6 footer I just don’t take it personally. People want what they want. |
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"Had a recent interaction with a friend who categorically refuses to meet (or even consider meeting) anyone who isn't at least a couple of inches taller than her. Doesn't matter how great a guy he is, or how good looking, if he doesn't meet her height requirements then that's it.
Is this a thing?
She couldn't see why i thought it strange that she would completely rule someone out because of their height. She says her preference is taller men, and ultimately we are all allowed to have preferences, but to me she is taking it beyond just a preference. She's been single for many years, and not happily so, yet she absolutely won't budge on this.
She's 5ft 9 so, to me, she's definitely limiting her options
Do others set similar specific requirements?
Sounds like your friend is extremely shallow and no wonder she continues to be single.
Ofcourse we are all different but she should look herself in the mirror and realise how shallow she is.
I hope and pray I never meet her."
You're only 5ft 10 so it's very unlikely you will. |
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By *yrdsisWoman 37 weeks ago
Gleam Street |
Men have turned me down for
A: my dress size
B: my tattoos
C: my hair colour
D: no their type
Do I question their preference? Nope.
I dated a short king for 4 years... it didn't work in the end... because he hated me wearing heels...thats non negotiable
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"Had a recent interaction with a friend who categorically refuses to meet (or even consider meeting) anyone who isn't at least a couple of inches taller than her. Doesn't matter how great a guy he is, or how good looking, if he doesn't meet her height requirements then that's it.
Is this a thing?
She couldn't see why i thought it strange that she would completely rule someone out because of their height. She says her preference is taller men, and ultimately we are all allowed to have preferences, but to me she is taking it beyond just a preference. She's been single for many years, and not happily so, yet she absolutely won't budge on this.
She's 5ft 9 so, to me, she's definitely limiting her options
Do others set similar specific requirements?
Sounds like your friend is extremely shallow and no wonder she continues to be single.
Ofcourse we are all different but she should look herself in the mirror and realise how shallow she is.
I hope and pray I never meet her."
You're no tall enough for her to meet you. 🤣 |
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By *rKeenMan 37 weeks ago
paisley |
"Had a recent interaction with a friend who categorically refuses to meet (or even consider meeting) anyone who isn't at least a couple of inches taller than her. Doesn't matter how great a guy he is, or how good looking, if he doesn't meet her height requirements then that's it.
Is this a thing?
She couldn't see why i thought it strange that she would completely rule someone out because of their height. She says her preference is taller men, and ultimately we are all allowed to have preferences, but to me she is taking it beyond just a preference. She's been single for many years, and not happily so, yet she absolutely won't budge on this.
She's 5ft 9 so, to me, she's definitely limiting her options
Do others set similar specific requirements?
Sounds like your friend is extremely shallow and no wonder she continues to be single.
Ofcourse we are all different but she should look herself in the mirror and realise how shallow she is.
I hope and pray I never meet her."
It’s statements like that that make people feel like they can’t be honest without fear of being called shallow, when you break it down calling someone shallow is just judging them for not having the same taste as you.
Having a height preference is no different from having a hair colour preference or build preference, tattoos or no tattoos etc
Everyone has something they would say no to, that’s absolutely fine and not shallow at all |
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"Had a recent interaction with a friend who categorically refuses to meet (or even consider meeting) anyone who isn't at least a couple of inches taller than her. Doesn't matter how great a guy he is, or how good looking, if he doesn't meet her height requirements then that's it.
Is this a thing?
She couldn't see why i thought it strange that she would completely rule someone out because of their height. She says her preference is taller men, and ultimately we are all allowed to have preferences, but to me she is taking it beyond just a preference. She's been single for many years, and not happily so, yet she absolutely won't budge on this.
She's 5ft 9 so, to me, she's definitely limiting her options
Do others set similar specific requirements? "
Is she into TVs? |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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I'm 6ft tall, and if you asked me my general preference I'd say taller than me - but just because they're taller, doesn't mean we'd be compatible. My other half is 5ft 6/7, and I'm more than happy! 🥰
I don't think you should let preferences limit your opportunities. 😊 |
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"Had a recent interaction with a friend who categorically refuses to meet (or even consider meeting) anyone who isn't at least a couple of inches taller than her. Doesn't matter how great a guy he is, or how good looking, if he doesn't meet her height requirements then that's it.
Is this a thing?
She couldn't see why i thought it strange that she would completely rule someone out because of their height. She says her preference is taller men, and ultimately we are all allowed to have preferences, but to me she is taking it beyond just a preference. She's been single for many years, and not happily so, yet she absolutely won't budge on this.
She's 5ft 9 so, to me, she's definitely limiting her options
Do others set similar specific requirements?
Sounds like your friend is extremely shallow and no wonder she continues to be single.
Ofcourse we are all different but she should look herself in the mirror and realise how shallow she is.
I hope and pray I never meet her.
You're no tall enough for her to meet you. 🤣"
A blessing from God...  |
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"Had a recent interaction with a friend who categorically refuses to meet (or even consider meeting) anyone who isn't at least a couple of inches taller than her. Doesn't matter how great a guy he is, or how good looking, if he doesn't meet her height requirements then that's it.
Is this a thing?
She couldn't see why i thought it strange that she would completely rule someone out because of their height. She says her preference is taller men, and ultimately we are all allowed to have preferences, but to me she is taking it beyond just a preference. She's been single for many years, and not happily so, yet she absolutely won't budge on this.
She's 5ft 9 so, to me, she's definitely limiting her options
Do others set similar specific requirements?
Sounds like your friend is extremely shallow and no wonder she continues to be single.
Ofcourse we are all different but she should look herself in the mirror and realise how shallow she is.
I hope and pray I never meet her."
You'll never meet her anyway because you are only an inch taller than her she wants a couple of inches taller minimum  |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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Some men get very intimidated by taller women, maybe she's had negative experiences. Maybe it makes *her* feel self-conscious. Dismissing a preference as shallowness without any context suggests that mirror might be better deployed elsewhere... |
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Dated women both taller and smaller than me, not really offended if someone tells me I'm not their type if it's a height thing. Just be respectful and move on, angry ego from getting rejected just makes you look worse. |
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"Had a recent interaction with a friend who categorically refuses to meet (or even consider meeting) anyone who isn't at least a couple of inches taller than her. Doesn't matter how great a guy he is, or how good looking, if he doesn't meet her height requirements then that's it.
Is this a thing?
She couldn't see why i thought it strange that she would completely rule someone out because of their height. She says her preference is taller men, and ultimately we are all allowed to have preferences, but to me she is taking it beyond just a preference. She's been single for many years, and not happily so, yet she absolutely won't budge on this.
She's 5ft 9 so, to me, she's definitely limiting her options
Do others set similar specific requirements?
Sounds like your friend is extremely shallow and no wonder she continues to be single.
Ofcourse we are all different but she should look herself in the mirror and realise how shallow she is.
I hope and pray I never meet her.
What an utterly ridiculous comment.
A woman is attracted to a specific type and this makes her shallow? Should she occasionally pump wee guys then to be more inclusive and PC?
What about women who specify they're here for big dicks? Should they take one for the team and fuck a guy with a micro penis?
We all have likes, dislikes and preferences. As long as these are expressed in a respectful and adult way then I fail to see the issue. "
I agree my wife has stated on her profile that she won't meet anyone under 6ft at 5.10 she's on the taller side. The amount of idiots that think they can change her preferences is unbelievable, can folk just accept folks likes and dislikes there someone for everyone out there. I mean I have a beard and I accept that not every wo.an is goj g to like it. Just accept we are all different and move on so what if someone's preferences are for a tall man. Sorry rant over |
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"Had a recent interaction with a friend who categorically refuses to meet (or even consider meeting) anyone who isn't at least a couple of inches taller than her. Doesn't matter how great a guy he is, or how good looking, if he doesn't meet her height requirements then that's it.
Is this a thing?
She couldn't see why i thought it strange that she would completely rule someone out because of their height. She says her preference is taller men, and ultimately we are all allowed to have preferences, but to me she is taking it beyond just a preference. She's been single for many years, and not happily so, yet she absolutely won't budge on this.
She's 5ft 9 so, to me, she's definitely limiting her options
Do others set similar specific requirements? "
I’m exactly the same. Most men under 6’ add an inch or so on, so I wouldn’t meet someone who was under 6’. It just doesn’t feel right. I’ve heard were all the same size laid down so many times, but I don’t want to be laid down all the time! |
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"Had a recent interaction with a friend who categorically refuses to meet (or even consider meeting) anyone who isn't at least a couple of inches taller than her. Doesn't matter how great a guy he is, or how good looking, if he doesn't meet her height requirements then that's it.
Is this a thing?
She couldn't see why i thought it strange that she would completely rule someone out because of their height. She says her preference is taller men, and ultimately we are all allowed to have preferences, but to me she is taking it beyond just a preference. She's been single for many years, and not happily so, yet she absolutely won't budge on this.
She's 5ft 9 so, to me, she's definitely limiting her options
Do others set similar specific requirements?
Sounds like your friend is extremely shallow and no wonder she continues to be single.
Ofcourse we are all different but she should look herself in the mirror and realise how shallow she is.
I hope and pray I never meet her.
You're no tall enough for her to meet you. 🤣
A blessing from God... "
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We look for a partner who makes us feel good, if dating a guy smaller than her doesn’t make her feel good then what’s the point?
It’s just personal preference and she shouldn’t ’make Do’ just to have a partner
We all have preferences of some shape or form |
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"Had a recent interaction with a friend who categorically refuses to meet (or even consider meeting) anyone who isn't at least a couple of inches taller than her. Doesn't matter how great a guy he is, or how good looking, if he doesn't meet her height requirements then that's it.
Is this a thing?
She couldn't see why i thought it strange that she would completely rule someone out because of their height. She says her preference is taller men, and ultimately we are all allowed to have preferences, but to me she is taking it beyond just a preference. She's been single for many years, and not happily so, yet she absolutely won't budge on this.
She's 5ft 9 so, to me, she's definitely limiting her options
Do others set similar specific requirements?
Sounds like your friend is extremely shallow and no wonder she continues to be single.
Ofcourse we are all different but she should look herself in the mirror and realise how shallow she is.
I hope and pray I never meet her.
You're no tall enough for her to meet you. 🤣
A blessing from God... "
Imagine calling someone shallow because they have a preference 🙈
Little man’s syndrome has kicked in here 😂 |
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"I wouldnt meet anyone the same height as me but im only 5ft so I think my reason is valid 😅.
🤣🤣🤣🤣 not even Bilbo Baggins?
I had 2 Google who that is 🤣😂🤣😂. U calling me a hobbit 🤔🤣? "
Wouldn’t dream of it Miss Baggins 🤣🤣. I’m supporting women who love men sub 5’9” ! 🙌🏽 |
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"Had a recent interaction with a friend who categorically refuses to meet (or even consider meeting) anyone who isn't at least a couple of inches taller than her. Doesn't matter how great a guy he is, or how good looking, if he doesn't meet her height requirements then that's it.
Is this a thing?
She couldn't see why i thought it strange
that she would completely rule someone out because of their height. She says her preference is taller men, and ultimately we are all allowed to have preferences, but to me she is taking it beyond just a preference. She's been single for many years, and not happily so, yet she absolutely won't budge on this.
She's 5ft 9 so, to me, she's definitely limiting her options
Do others set similar specific requirements? "
Just for clarification I'm taken and We're Both extremely happy but I'm very aware this a real thing lol
I had my 1st meet on here within a week of joining, this is prior to meeting My other half - the reason for the meet?
Athletic build
But
Primarily My height
She was 4ft11
I'm 6ft8 lol
My good girl also loves My height (amongst other things) as well lol
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It's just a preference, like everything else you look for in an 'ideal' playmate. If you feel you can compromise then thats great, if not then dont.
It's not right that anyone should be called out for a preference, unless its criminal. You like what you like, you dont have to like what others think you should,
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"Suppose it’s your friends choice, I used to have a certain type of woman I would be interested in but to be honest I have had some amazing times with the complete opposite of what I liked that I’m very open minded nowadays. Still looking for that unicorn midget. "
Im sure I met one in Yoker one night |
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"Some men get very intimidated by taller women, maybe she's had negative experiences. Maybe it makes *her* feel self-conscious. Dismissing a preference as shallowness without any context suggests that mirror might be better deployed elsewhere..."
You think Tom Cruise gets intimated by taller women lmao
What a stupid comment.
Anyone who judges by height alone is extremely shallow. |
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By *sm265 OP Woman 36 weeks ago
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"Some men get very intimidated by taller women, maybe she's had negative experiences. Maybe it makes *her* feel self-conscious. Dismissing a preference as shallowness without any context suggests that mirror might be better deployed elsewhere...
You think Tom Cruise gets intimated by taller women lmao
What a stupid comment.
Anyone who judges by height alone is extremely shallow."
Tom Cruise has a net worth of £600 million, I'm not sure his height really comes into it. He has been known to wear shoes with built up soles though. |
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"Some men get very intimidated by taller women, maybe she's had negative experiences. Maybe it makes *her* feel self-conscious. Dismissing a preference as shallowness without any context suggests that mirror might be better deployed elsewhere...
You think Tom Cruise gets intimated by taller women lmao
What a stupid comment.
Anyone who judges by height alone is extremely shallow.
Tom Cruise has a net worth of £600 million, I'm not sure his height really comes into it. He has been known to wear shoes with built up soles though."
He also does his own stunts which very few others can do regardless of height.
Respect to him  as its well earned |
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"Personally I think there should be a fab rule where ladies can only meet guys over 6”3…..
Can you believe that people lie on their profile to get meets though? ......🤔🤣"
That we rascal Pinocchio eh?! |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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As a midget reaching just a whopping 5’9 I’ve never had an issue with height but that’s because I understand not all women like wee smol dudes like me. It’s fair enough as, well, each to their own  |
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I started reading top to bottom, then things escalated and I was like ‘whoa, that was fast and skipped several lines to leave my 2 cents.
Having a height preference is no different to liking/preferring a hair colour, or any other feature you find attractive.
We like what we like, and being dead set someone is taller than you is just another thing really.
She will have many reasons, all justifiable to her, but at the end of the day it doesn’t matter as long as she’s happy in the long run.
(I’m 6’5”, so I’m one to talk… no one’s ever said ‘sorry you’re too tall’)
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By *enelope2UWoman 36 weeks ago
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"Well that went down hill pretty quickly. The block button is a blessing indeed. Fancy people been ripped a new arsehole for having a preference 🙈
Yip, your blocked too.
So many shallow women on here who think they are God's gift
Us men sure don't need shallow women.
I blocked you soon as I read your comments 😝 so why you lying 🙈"
Same thing high five!! |
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By *enelope2UWoman 36 weeks ago
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I'm 5ft 5 so yeah I don't find shorter men's height a turn on..
If there's other things going for them then height won't matter but initially yeah it would be an uphill battle.
But same can be said by a 6ft guy initially I'd be attracted by height but if that's all that's going for him he'd also have a battle keeping intrest. |
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"I'm 5ft 5 so yeah I don't find shorter men's height a turn on..
If there's other things going for them then height won't matter but initially yeah it would be an uphill battle.
But same can be said by a 6ft guy initially I'd be attracted by height but if that's all that's going for him he'd also have a battle keeping intrest."
You were honest with me with your preferences and I very much took it on board.
But in keeping with the topic, a preference is a preference and who is anyone to argue or fight it?   |
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OP : i think everyone has a preference tbf at 5ft 9 im sure shes had a lot of stick by short insecure guys (see mids reply) over the years so can understand why she wants to be able to put her heels on without feeling bad.
At 5ft 7 I dont let my short height hold me back in anyway but tbf my farther was 5ft so I had accepted i was goning to be short so 5ft 7 was winning haha honestly cant think of the last time I even took my height into it when talking to someone. |
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"We look for a partner who makes us feel good, if dating a guy smaller than her doesn’t make her feel good then what’s the point?
It’s just personal preference and she shouldn’t ’make Do’ just to have a partner
We all have preferences of some shape or form "
Well that's true, we all have our preference same as I wouldn't touch a female over size 12, big boobs and fat are a turn off for me, exact same as anyone under 6 foot is not for many.
I'm sure there are lovely minded larger ladies on here, and we all have choices |
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"We look for a partner who makes us feel good, if dating a guy smaller than her doesn’t make her feel good then what’s the point?
It’s just personal preference and she shouldn’t ’make Do’ just to have a partner
We all have preferences of some shape or form
Well that's true, we all have our preference same as I wouldn't touch a female over size 12, big boobs and fat are a turn off for me, exact same as anyone under 6 foot is not for many.
I'm sure there are lovely minded larger ladies on here, and we all have choices "
Thank fuck im fat n wobbly🎉 |
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"Had a recent interaction with a friend who categorically refuses to meet (or even consider meeting) anyone who isn't at least a couple of inches taller than her. Doesn't matter how great a guy he is, or how good looking, if he doesn't meet her height requirements then that's it.
Is this a thing?
She couldn't see why i thought it strange that she would completely rule someone out because of their height. She says her preference is taller men, and ultimately we are all allowed to have preferences, but to me she is taking it beyond just a preference. She's been single for many years, and not happily so, yet she absolutely won't budge on this.
She's 5ft 9 so, to me, she's definitely limiting her options
Do others set similar specific requirements?
Sounds like your friend is extremely shallow and no wonder she continues to be single.
Ofcourse we are all different but she should look herself in the mirror and realise how shallow she is.
I hope and pray I never meet her."
Just WTF! I won't meet guys who are under 180 cm, that is my preference or am I not entitled to preference? |
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"We look for a partner who makes us feel good, if dating a guy smaller than her doesn’t make her feel good then what’s the point?
It’s just personal preference and she shouldn’t ’make Do’ just to have a partner
We all have preferences of some shape or form
Well that's true, we all have our preference same as I wouldn't touch a female over size 12, big boobs and fat are a turn off for me, exact same as anyone under 6 foot is not for many.
I'm sure there are lovely minded larger ladies on here, and we all have choices
Thank fuck im fat n wobbly🎉"
I agree |
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By *sm265 OP Woman 36 weeks ago
Perthshire |
"We look for a partner who makes us feel good, if dating a guy smaller than her doesn’t make her feel good then what’s the point?
It’s just personal preference and she shouldn’t ’make Do’ just to have a partner
We all have preferences of some shape or form
Well that's true, we all have our preference same as I wouldn't touch a female over size 12, big boobs and fat are a turn off for me, exact same as anyone under 6 foot is not for many.
I'm sure there are lovely minded larger ladies on here, and we all have choices
Thank fuck im fat n wobbly🎉"
My big boobs apparently mean I don't make the grade either...shame |
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By *avie65Man 36 weeks ago
In the west. |
"We look for a partner who makes us feel good, if dating a guy smaller than her doesn’t make her feel good then what’s the point?
It’s just personal preference and she shouldn’t ’make Do’ just to have a partner
We all have preferences of some shape or form
Well that's true, we all have our preference same as I wouldn't touch a female over size 12, big boobs and fat are a turn off for me, exact same as anyone under 6 foot is not for many.
I'm sure there are lovely minded larger ladies on here, and we all have choices
Thank fuck im fat n wobbly🎉
My big boobs apparently mean I don't make the grade either...shame "
Big boobs and wobbly it’s eh. All the good bits. |
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"We look for a partner who makes us feel good, if dating a guy smaller than her doesn’t make her feel good then what’s the point?
It’s just personal preference and she shouldn’t ’make Do’ just to have a partner
We all have preferences of some shape or form
Well that's true, we all have our preference same as I wouldn't touch a female over size 12, big boobs and fat are a turn off for me, exact same as anyone under 6 foot is not for many.
I'm sure there are lovely minded larger ladies on here, and we all have choices
Thank fuck im fat n wobbly🎉
My big boobs apparently mean I don't make the grade either...shame "
Good luck all around😁🎉 |
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